Nervous to try

**jamesgree12364** · Jan 1, 2026, 5:43 PM

So I have sucked one cock in my life, 16 years ago, when I was 16. (he was 15 at the time)

I didn't love the experience, like a good boy, I swallowed, but it didn't move me in any way.

The urge always stayed with me, the idea and thought of sucking cock makes me ROCK hard.

Deep down, I want to do it again.

A couple of years ago, I tried meeting up with someone I knew who was gay. He found out through a drunken conversation that I had once experimented with a guy in high school, and this got him keen on my mouth.

We met up but when I walked into his house, I had a damn near panic attack! I couldnt do it. He was great and let me go, but said if I ever want to try again, to hit him up.

I want to, but I'm nervous. I also feel bad for this friend of mine as I gave him blue balls. A part of me (on top of wanting to try it) feels I owe him on some level also. To my knowledge, as well, he has kept my secret, which I greatly appreciate.

Here is kinda what I want from this: can someone here either pump me up into doing it or talk me down to earth?

**SAW1969** · Jan 2, 2026, 3:09 AM

Have him give you head a few times. Maybe you'll get more comfortable with the idea of sucking cock after being with him.

**DLcocklove** · Jan 2, 2026, 6:36 AM

Maybe you need a drink or two to loosen you up and then you will have the courage to take him in your mouth.

**Kip2june** · Jan 2, 2026, 6:49 AM

It took me over 20 years to suck my first cock. Now I kick myself for waiting so long. After sucking the first one when i was SO nervous I sucked a few more in the weeks after. Then I was not even getting hard when sucking as I was still nervous. Now the last cock I sucked last summer. I did get hard after he came in my mouth. So now the next time I hope to be really hard, and no longer nervous. It takes time to get over it, but is WELL worth it.

You should commit to sucking cock a few times to see if you really like it or not. My bet is that you will love it, and become a cock sucking cum slut like me.

**DLcocklove** · Jan 2, 2026, 6:56 AM

Originally Posted by Kip2june

It took me over 20 years to suck my first cock. Now I kick myself for waiting so long. After sucking the first one when i was SO nervous I sucked a few more in the weeks after. Then I was not even getting hard when sucking as I was still nervous. Now the last cock I sucked last summer. I did get hard after he came in my mouth. So now the next time I hope to be really hard, and no longer nervous. It takes time to get over it, but is WELL worth it.

You should commit to sucking cock a few times to see if you really like it or not. My bet is that you will love it, and become a cock sucking cum slut like me.

I was also a late starter, around 50 as well, even though I was curious for much longer. I agree after a few cocks you lose your nervousness

**tongueteaser** · Jan 2, 2026, 5:44 PM

First time I was too nervous and backed out. Second time I was also. I was shaking with nervousness. The third time I drank a few and relaxed. Met the guy and told him lets get acquainted a few minutes. It helps a lot. I was asked to play with his cock and did. I was too nervous still to proceed. He suddenly said he needed me to suck his dick now! I was right down on it and oh boy. The dick tasting and wetting his cock and sucking the head came so naturally. I then started deeper and deeper in me as I worked up and down on him. I for some reason swirled my tongue around his yummy head as I sucked it. It didnt last but another minute and he was spurting and spurting cum all in me. I felt like a total slut swallowing and tasting it and was in heaven.

**licyou69** · Jan 3, 2026, 8:16 AM

Just a little over 3 years ago I sucked off my first man who I hooked up with online. We agreed to meet at my place during our lunch breaks. I'm a bit submissive and he's a bit dominant, yet easy going. He requested that I be naked for him when he arrived. I was nervous as heck when I rushed home before our agreed time. That nervousness intensified into outright shaking as I stripped all of my clothes off and realized I was standing near my front door, completely naked for a man who was going to walk in my front door soon and put his cock in my mouth. I kept looking out my window and I was kind of actually shocked when a man pulled up and got out of his pickup truck. Lots of deep breathing is the only advice I can give. By the time he got inside my door I had composed myself, we got down to business, and by the time I went back to work I had his cum inside me. It was all very surreal.

**tongueteaser** · Jan 3, 2026, 10:37 PM

Same way I felt and experienced.

**jamesgree12364** · Jan 5, 2026, 11:47 PM

Thanks to everyone for their experience. Still yet to pull the trigger, I know my friend would probably be ecstatic to fulfill my fantasy and fill my mouth haha

Watching cock sucker/bi hypno videos is pretty much 100% of my porn atm, when i get hard its the first thing I think about.

I dont know why I am so nervous to try, deep down I want to, I know I do.

**Kip2june** · Yesterday, 6:23 AM

I was really, really drunk the first time I played with a guy?s cock. i did not suck it, but it was the first cock I played with and he came on my chest.

It took around 5 years after that to actually meet a guy, suck his cock, and swallow his cum. I was really happy to have done it. The sucked a few more and was not so excited so thought it wasn?t for me. Then after a break sucked a cock in the forest this past summer, and I was really excited, and hard after he came in my mouth.

So you have to definitely give it a try again, and maybe a few times. Your friend sounds perfect. Maybe tell him you want to try it many times over a couple of weeks to see if you like it, or not.

I have been testing myself with watching hot women masterbate, vs. hard cock cumming. And cock turns me on more by far. I am almost shocked as I love looking at sexy women, but apparently love cock more.

**dicktrobing** · Yesterday, 10:26 AM

Talk to him, if he is a good friend he will understand, discuss your fears etc

**Tag200** · Today, 11:40 AM

I too have procrastinated and dragged things out . Often having months or years between limited gay sex experience’s. Even now it’s been years since I sucked those two cocks one time each with no cum. In my mind I want to suck 1-2 cocks weekly; but being married with kids , busy with work and just plain nervous in general and disease I hesitate. My advice for what it is worth is push through the nerves and do it. Even with my limited experience I know sucking cock is great and turns me on so much.