I knew when I was 9 that I found myself attracted to both sexes.It wasn't till my early to Mid Twenties that I accepted it and found a inner peace that it is who I am
I knew when I was 9 that I found myself attracted to both sexes.It wasn't till my early to Mid Twenties that I accepted it and found a inner peace that it is who I am
realized, 11
Accept 35
Realized at 15.
Accepted at 31.
If it is to be, let it be with me
My first experience with another boy I was 14 as he was. We started out just watching each other masturbate then started sucking each other. At first we both was embarrassed at what we did but our young male hormones took over. Then at 17 had my first pussy and then realized I was bi.
I was 22 years old when I had my first sexual experience with a man. It took place in 1976 in a straight porno theater in Hollywood. I let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job and make me cum. I did not reciprocate. I did not go looking for this experience and was totally shocked when he sat down next to me. I almost got up and moved to another seat but something inside me made me want to stay where I was and see what would happen. After about ten minutes this very strong feeling suddenly came over me and I knew I wanted to give my cock to him and have him give me a hand job and make me cum. I rubbed the outside of my crotch and felt how hard I was. He then pressed his knee against mine and I pressed back. I wanted to make it easy for him so I undid my 501s all the way down and as soon as I had them wide open his hand came over, found the pee hole in my boxers and took my cock out. About 15 minutes later he had me cumming. This experience certainly awakened the bi-curious part of me which up until then I really didn't know existed.
Four years later I decided I wanted to see what it was like to give another man a blowjob. I already knew that I liked having a man touch my cock and felt like I was ready to take the next step and see if I could touch another man's cock, take him into my mouth, suck his cock, have him cum in my mouth and swallow his cum. I lived in LA at the time and took some days off from work and went to SF and located a bathhouse where I hooked up with a man in the sauna. I gave him a BJ, had him cum in my mouth and then swallowed his cum. I absolutely loved the entire experience. Nine months later I decided to take the next step which was to have a man give me a BJ. I went to a bathhouse in West Hollywood, hooked up with very good looking man close to my age (26) who approached me and told me I had a nice cock and asked if he could touch it. I was already hard from playing with myself and he proceeded to suck my cock and have me cum in his mouth. When he finished swallowing me I told him I wanted to suck his cock and that I wanted him to cum in my mouth which about 20 minutes later he did.
After these two BJ experiences there was no doubt in my mind that I loved giving and receiving BJs with a man and that I was totally bisexual. Accepting that I was bisexual was very easy after the BJ encounters.
Last edited by RICKCASV; Oct 5, 2025 at 8:32 PM.
I knew at a young age that it didn't really bother me to mess around with other neighborhood boys. Of course I had no concept of being bi sexual at that age. Then life happened, got married, had a daughter. When the wifes sex drive dwindled I revisited the subject and accepted my bisexuality at 55.
My first sexual encounter was around the age of 13 or 14, it was with a male friend 2 years older than myself. I accepted that I was happy with the experience. The following year I set my sights on girls, always having an underlying sense of awkwardness. I persisted, but had given in to the call to suck cock from time to time. In my mid 30's I was dating a mental health professional, she told me we are all born bisexual. I accepted that. My mid 50's I was sucking a cock and understood to the core my being that is my role in sex. I consider myself a homosexual at this point of my life...
I do appreciate the nude female body, but prefer sucking cock...
I realized I was bi and accepted it easily at age 16 after the first couple of sexual encounters with my best friend. I knew I had enjoyed him as much as the girls I had been with naked and I could see no wrong in it. Been happily bi ever sense!
Knew at 24 (although I had feelings from childhood onward), accepted it at 35
In my early 40s I found tranny porn on line and found myself very turned on by it. I hooked up with my first guy not long after and was hooked the first time I put a cock in my mouth and mine in another guys ass. I love to fuck ass and suck cock
It all started in my mid-30s when I was briefly single and decided I'd like to see what sex might be like from the female perspective - suck a cock, maybe have one in my ass. I've never been attracted to men in a romantic or even physical sort of way so it was really more of a grand experiment. I've never been shy or nervous about sex so from that standpoint it wasn't a worry - whatever would be, would be. I just got lucky that the guy whose ad in the paper I responded to had compatible ideas about the topic. That first day I sucked and got sucked, fucked and got fucked, it was great fun and we've been at it for at least 35 years now. In terms of having sex I must obviously be bisexual, but in the larger social etc. context I don't feel any real inclination in that direction. I suspect that if that initial exploration hadn't gone as it did it might all of been just an interesting one-off experience and not repeated. I guess my answer would have to be "when I discovered I enjoy sex with a man" and I just kinda accepted that at the time. Since my wife completely lost interest in sex it certainly has been a good thing!
My first experience with a guy was when I was 19, when I met a guy at the bar and ended up getting a bj at his house. Over the next 15 years, I met up with guys to get a bj. Afterwards, I felt ashamed for not only letting a man suck my dick, but also going behind my wife's back. During that same time, I had numerous one-night stands with women and a couple affairs. It wasn't until maybe 5 years ago that I decided that I wanted to fully embrace bisexuality. It wasn't for an attraction to men, though a fit body and hard cock are very nice to look at, but more of embracing how sexual men are. The sneaking around to cheat with a woman is a rush, but to cheat with a man is a whole other level. There's something amazing about having a hard dick in your mouth. Sometimes while sucking, I like to think of my wife. I think about how I want her to suck me, but I also think about "what if she walked in on me sucking dick." Sometimes, while my wife is sucking me, I think to myself, "if you only knew that men have sucked my dick" or "men suck better than you", or if you only knew that I've sucked dick", or "I know that I suck dick better than you". I've only bottomed once, but I enjoy knowing that I've been fucked with a bigger cock than she has. He was 8.5 inches and thick. I'm about 7 inches and thick. I WILL experience 10 inches and I will thoroughly enjoy thinking of that big cock as my wife sucks me and while I fuck her.
First guy on guy action in my late 20's butt did not becum full comfortable with being bi until I was in my 50's mainly because I really did not dabble with guy fun between 30 and late 40's
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