Anyone else get extreme nervousness before meeting? I'm a bi guy. Not super active but arranging to have a meet with a married bud I've been chatting with for awhile. He seems ok. Has been in no rush. But meeting a guy I don't know well for illicit sex is making very nervous. Can anyone relate? What do ppl do?
I always have a bit of nerves when meeting. Not very activated either so maybe just not "used to it"? I do know once I became more comfortable and accepting of being bi, it helped some. It also helps to be able to meet up with the same person a few times.
Being nervous before meeting a potential sex partner is normal. After all what if you don't have anything in common...lol. Seriously once you get to talking your nerves will turn to excitement! Good luck!
First meeting are always a bit nerve wracking but I have found that taking the time to chat extensively before getting naked allows all parties to get to know each other and be more relaxed when the time come to get intimate.
I still get nervous over new meetings, and I just take nice deep breaths and remind myself that this ain't my first time and to save the nervous energy to use on his dick when I get it in my mouth. Idle chatter helps to dispel overactive nerves although I've often felt "silly" for talking about a whole lot of nothing - and I've found that admitting that, yeah, I'm nervous can further break (or melt) the ice when with a guy who is more nervous than I am.
I am the king of nerves and it has meant that I have not tried m4m play as much as I want to .. still limited experience.. I think chat prior to meet helps
good advice as usual , I hope you are doing ok!Originally Posted by KDaddy23
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