Five minutes is just about right if I'm really going at it. I've had guys cum in seconds and I had a friend last an hour one time. He usually would last just a few minutes, but he hung in there that day. I was determined to make him cum and once he finally did, my jaw was on fire.
I use my mouth only no hands at all unless he takes to long to cum.
I prefer guys that cums quick because I really enjoy the feeling of cock swelling and hearing his moans just before I feel his sweet cum squirt in my mouth. Guess I’m just a greedy cocksucker lol.
i like to suck for a long long time
I try to make him last at least 30 minutes.
Keep him right on the edge, as long as possible.
JEM
I love taking my time milking my reward, i always prefer lots of precum prior to the big release.
Its funny though! My ex-girlfriend ran an escort agency here in Atlanta back when...LOL.... But she said most guys last between 2 and 5 minutes tops on BJ! Every now and then you would get somebody that lasted along time but it was rare! But they would put in their review that after a 20 minute BJ they fucked the hell out of them for 45 minutes! My GF was like WHAT???? 2 to 5 minutes on the BJ and 2 to 7 minutes on the fucking and that was your average guy! Many guys came way faster but only a few lasted way longer and these statistics are coming from a business that knows! LOL
As long as it takes. As long as I get my creamy reward, I'd suck one for days to get there. Absolutely love it when his balls tighten, he stiffens....and then the cum comes blasting. Greatest flavor treat in the world.
Dedication..... it's a wonderful thing.
Which is EXACTLY why men give far-better blowjobs than most women, who seem to want it over-with as soon as possible...Originally Posted by jem_is_bi
There are several comments in this thread that seem to evaluate the quality of a blow job or a cocksucker based on time to release, and then people want to compare the performance of men versus women. I want address these conclusions here, though I may appear to stretch the boundary of this discussion I think it is important, especially for BiSexual people.
The first time I sucked a cock, it felt like sucking on a rubber balloon. The cock was 4-5" x 3/4" o.d. (outside diameter.. ) He didn't come from my first bj but when he got me on my hands and knees and greased my anus and took my virginity that way.. it was awesome,,at least for me. However the next morning he sucked me off in like two minutes.
After a couple of encounters with that man, i met a woman and we dated for a couple of years and she gave fine oral. However it was my second girlfriend that blew me into the next dimension with her oral skills. That was the best head I have ever had.
Since then my experience of being sucked has varied depending on my partner, I can't say men give better head than women across the board. From what I hear, most male cocksuckers or their clients say men give better head, and it is often claimed by the fact that having a cock makes you better understand how to suck one.
However, I believe, and some of the comments here seem to me to support my claim, that communication is the key to good head. I think a lot of people don't communicate about sexual interest desire and preferred techniques. Once sex starts between two, or more, it just goes to wherever it goes, and if it is repeated a pattern sets in, for better or worse.
There are too many married "bi" men who claim the wife has no interest in sex and too many middle-aged women looking for sex that I feel it is the men who are at fault. I will explain.
There is scientific evidence that point to certain deep differences between men and women. One interesting conclusion is that there is no artificial chemical way to cause women to become turned on or to enhance arousal in women. It is always fundamentally a psychological trigger that gets women attracted interested and hot for cock or whatever they want. Men can use viagra, cialis etcetera, nitrogen compounds, horny goat weed to enhance their drive. But for men if they don't want to hit it or tap it, it's not going to happen. Women are much more capable of becoming aroused by personality, speech, imagination, emotional connection than purely genital stimulation, or physique. Women's interest in famous powerful wealthy men seems to confuse many men into feeling inadequate and unmotivated to pursue hot women or higher ambitions in life. This is what distinguishes the alpha from the beta males in the species. This is also the reason some sexologists argue that only women can be truly bi, and men who are bi are more interested in cock than pussy, or women.
I will admit that there is a definite difference in my interest in women versus cock. That I put it in those terms explains it. When it comes to sex with men there's no emotional involvement or need for intimacy or anything beyond getting hard and getting off. The sex with men sometimes does have some kind of twisted oedipal drama for me but it's purely internalized.
Testosterone increases sexual drive in both sexes. I know a Transman that was a lesbian but who became seriously cock hungry after testosterone treatments. He enjoyed sucking cock as much as anyone and had a glorious pussy that he loved to get fucked.
I read in a Playboy sex column once that when a woman asks a man NOT to come in her mouth, he can't. I have experienced this with a girlfriend. She would suck me and say, "Tell me when you are getting ready to come because I don't want you to come in my mouth." She felt great but I never got to that critical point. One time however I misheard her, I honestly thought she said, " I want you to come in my mouth," and I did. She was shocked but that was the only time it happened, once the communication gaffe was cleared up.
Regarding time.
I would argue with the comment claiming statistical evidence from an escort agency that women/men give "better" head because the men at the agency came in under ten minutes. It's more a matter of what is considered pleasurable to giver and reciever and whether there is a difference of opinion about it. And th eexpectations are different in different scenarios. I feel some women think that ejaculation is the main pleasure and so the quickest way there is the best. also most men who pay for sex probably need it so bad they come quickly. Some men may feel the same way. But a lot of commenters here, including me enjoy the cocksucking and depending on context it can be enjoyable as a stroll or a sprint.
Women too seem in general to enjoy pleasuring their partner whereas men seem to enjoy being pleased, this is an asymmetry that most women are aware of and men fail to notice, especially in these hetero marriages that dry up after 20 years. I would not be surprised that most men who 'love' women fail to understand just how much power they have to draw a woman into ecstasy, they see women as source of pleasure for themselves. Their wives don't get to even know how much pleasure they could experience if their men could help them feel it.
In conclusion, a lot men on hear seem to be interested in finding the perfect bi female to complement them. I see very little response from women to this. Again I think it is a serious issue that men have that they fail, to understand what women are really interested in, attracted to, and how they get aroused and what their sexual needs really are. The irony of this problem is that the woman you are interested in will figure this out before you and she won't tell you in male-think terms what she wants. But it's worth it for both sexes if men would try to figure this out and learn to understand the power of being made male and female.
Consider this.. When most men, especially men under 30 or so, fuck women, it's over when HE comes. To most of the women this reads like, "a man wants to come quickly and He, when fucking, wants to get it over with asap." It took me years (decades?) to learn that the attraction, arousal, plateau, orgasm, orgasm, orgasm, experience that woman can have with a man depends on the man's ability to pay attention, develop self control, pace rhythm, and two way communication. She would say you have to listen to her body.
You ( i mean the general reader not Silkyhoselover, personally) have heard of the "male ego". No one ever says "she was on such an ego trip after the got some dick". If you conquer your male ego, while maintaining self control and confidence, you will be banging a whole lot more ladies..for a lot more time, if you want. You probably never heard of a woman have a premature ejaculation or finish too quick.
wow thanks, u really put some thought into this. i know my goal in sex at least with the opposite sex, is to do whatever i can to please her. my pleasure is worthless if i don't make her have at least as much as me. otherwise i might as well j/o. i haven't figured out yet if this is what i want with the same sex too.
Yes,Sysper.. pleasing the other is a super turn on.. One woman put it this you must learn to listen to the body of your partner. Feel their response.. vagina, penis, breathing facial expressions small body movements. You do it too when you are getting stimulated.. it's a conversation in touch.. pay attention to tone of voice words feelings.. Don't try to figure out how the other feels with your mind.. focus on your feelings and let them guide you in your movements and touch..
I met this guy a while back.. all he wanted was someone to suck him off regular.. I was like, sign meup.. lol.. anyway i just held his soft cock and squeezed it gently till i felt the pressure back up and jsut pump it's like playing on a awing a little extra push each time and it gets higher. then let it back and bring them down again..
Well said and I agree completely. I just want to enjoy it as much as he does and not be worried about time.I've never been in a situation in an ABS, rest area or other place where the temptation might be to 'get it over with'.
I've only sucked cock in a comfortable setting where there was sufficient time and privacy to allow things to play out as they will. I did blow one guy in the front seat of a car, and he came rather quickly. Wasn't planned that way, at least on my part. He may have wanted a quickie, or maybe I was just doing a really good job!
So it's hard to quantify it. I would just say, as long as we're both enjoying it! I love having a cock in my mouth and giving pleasure to another man or gurl!
I will suck cock as long as it takes to get his sweet cum in my mouth. I have been known to suck cock for up to an hour, alternating between his cock and balls using my mouth, lips, tongue and hands. I like being between a man's legs and I love to suck cock.
The main thing is don't be selfish. Let him enjoy what your doing as much as you enjoy doing it. We he does cum, it will be more enjoyable for both of you.
Blowjob & Billie
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it is much more about how much cum do you get as opposed to how much time.
I love your answer and quite agree. Wish you were closer so we could enjoy one another.
These days I only suck on a limp penis to get to it hard for my wife. The objective is that he can fuck her, and then cums in her, and not in me.
I've only sucked a few cocks, for maybe 5 or 6 minutes each. It was usually a quick blow and go type of situation where I was the recipient. I've reached a new stage in my bisexual life a couple years ago and decided that I want to completely embrace my bi side and really enjoy being with men. That being said, I mainly want to suck and bottom for now. I want to experience worshipping another man's cock. I want to lick and suck on his balls and take my time milking every drop out of him. I really enjoy having a hard cock in my mouth. I hope I can find a fwb to wants to play often.
How long do I really want to suck before he cums? Ideally, anywhere between 30 seconds and 15 minutes and you might be laughing at the 30 seconds thing but the guys who came in my mouth in 30 seconds didn't think it was funny. Not since I had a boyfriend have I taken any longer than 15 minutes to suck a guy off; with him - and since we lived together - I could take all the time I wanted to suck his beautiful dick. Any- and everyone else? The sooner I can get them off - or they can get me off - the better so we both can get back to other things and even if that's going to the next guy to do more sucking.
Obvious, how long it's going to take him to cum is a whole different thing and especially if he jerked off before he got to me (which I can't stand, by the way)...
I was turned into a slut one day at the adult theater. Back row, aisle. Guy stands next to me with cock out and playing with it. I did nothing for awhile. He then started rubbing it on my left cheek of my face. I couldn't stand not sucking so I turned my head and let him enter my mouth. %-maybe 6 minutes later and I had 4 guys around me and one sitting next to me jerking his meat. There was a guy standing between my knees , cock out jerking away. The "turn on" factor maxed out and I came in my pants without touching my cock at all! When I cum...I lose the mood. Bummer!!!! I had to get up and go to the mens room to clean up. I was done.
5 to 10 minutes for me. By then it's either cum in my mouth a stick that cock in my horny ass!
I am in it to get hot cum in my mouth to swallow. So the quicker it is done the better, then I can move to the next one. i also prefer smaller cocks as they are easier to work, and tend to cum faster. I guess taking longer could provide more cum, but I think the guys I have sucked off (only 5) were jerking off/playing for a while before we met. Give me the cum!!!
I find that the answer varies widely. Some guys come pretty quickly when receiving oral sex, while others take a surprisingly long time to orgasm. It depends in part on the guy, how long we've been going at it, how aroused everybody is and how aggressively I'm sucking.
For what it's worth, I enjoy giving oral sex. I can't do it with just anybody. There has to be a certain chemistry and level of trust that isn't always there. When it feels right and I'm properly motivated, it's sort of a treat, something I look forward to and which, sadly, doesn't happen all that often. I find anything less than five minutes is kind of disappointing. After, say, 15 minutes the act becomes kind of tedious and I find myself asking if he's getting close. And after 20 minutes or so, I start to wonder if I'm doing something wrong. I sucked one guy's cock for about 70 minutes, and actually started getting a sore jaw.
In my experience, around 10 minutes seems to be ideal, the perfect balance between to short and too laborious. There are, of course, times when I want the other fellow to cum quickly, and I can generally make that happen by varying my tempo and technique.
About 20 30 minutes would be great but no one last longer then 5 with me ,I am pretty good at what I do. I just use my mouth and tongue.
It depends, sometimes my boyfriend cums really quick, I know just what to do to him to make that happen. Sometimes I give him a “slow job”, which drives him wild as well, he enjoys it and I enjoy doing it. That usually happens when we’re watching something that I am not interested in, or have seen before.
I really enjoy the sucking, licking and stroking a nice cock so I want it to last awhile. Like someone else mentioned it depends on the situation and where you are playing. I'd prefer to have us both completely naked laying comfortably on the bed while I lay on the bed and worship his cock. Taking my time and edging him over and over. This seems to bring the more intense orgasms and more powerful loads. On the other hand I've met a couple guys off sniffles where I pull up next to their car in a busy parking lot at night. I get in the passenger seat and they already have their cock out stroking and I take over. My mouth is usually on it within a minute. One guy was super quick. The whole encounter was about 5 minutes from the time I parked until I got back in my car to leave..and that was one of the more fun times I've ever had .
Whether I'm going down on a cock or a pussy I tend not to be terribly "goal oriented". I enjoy the process of the pleasure giving and like to stretch it out a bit - anything under 15 minutes feels rushed. I want to savour what I'm pleasuring...
My attention span isn't long and neither is stamina at my age. Start approaching 30 minutes and I'm ready to move on to other things, plus my neck and shoulders are getting stiff. I'm on my knees to get your nut, not have a marathon session.
I am a cock sucker and love sucking taking my time. For me having a cock in my mouth I am in a euphoria feeling. Love licking from his balls to the tip of his cock. I love teasing his cock making him moan with pleasure. I have found that the longer you tease his cock you get more pre-cum and bigger loads. I love bring him to the edge of cumming then back off and start it again. Then when he finely erupts filling my mouth with his man juice, I suck harder and don?t stop till he tells me that?s enough because he is to sensitive but I still lick his cock lightly. I get off on making the guy shake and quiver with pleasure.
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