I'm a Male-to-Female (MTF) transgender, and have been on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) for about 7 months now. I don't plan on getting Sexual Reassignment Surgery (SRS). Here's some things people should know:
1. Being on HRT with Testosterone blockers (T-blockers), no sperm is generated. That means even if I have an orgasm from my penis, nothing will come out. If I had a male partner, and he wanted me to cum with actual loads, I'd have to stop taking T-blockers for a considerable amount of time.
2. Sexual preference does not change (at least not for me).
3. Because of T-blockers, I no longer get erections unless my penis is physically aroused. I've noticed that it's a little smaller while erect, but it's a lot more sensitive. I used to enjoy hand-jobs. Not anymore, it just hurts.
4. Sex is different. Before, the goal was to have an orgasm with my cock. Now, it's just enjoying sex to have my partner orgasm. I really like my nipples licked and sucked on, and less so than my having my cock licked and sucked (not that it's not enjoyable, just not as much as before). I get really aroused with foreplay, and my preference with a woman would be going down on her, and with a man, going down on him.
5. My ass is a lot more sensitive. It's no longer just about the prostate.
6. Instead of one big final orgasm with the cock, it's about a lot of little orgasms from everywhere. I don't know if that will change further on down the road, but I'm enjoying it for now.
7. Dominance/Submission doesn't change.
8. Libido is drastically lower. I don't initiate sex, anymore, which can be tough for intimacy, but that doesn't mean I don't want to have sex or be intimate.
9. The texture of my hair, skin, and tongue, is a lot smoother. My body odor is also more feminine than masculine. Aside from the private parts between the legs, I pretty much feel, smell, and taste like a woman.
10. I prefer being treated like a person, rather than just a sex object. However, if you treat me like a person, I'll let you treat me like a sex object.
11. I like to cuddle more.
12. If #10, and I like/want you, having my ass and small boobs paid attention to, turns me on.
I hope this helps people know what to expect, from a "shemale" point of view.
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