Hi everyone,
I am new to the group and I don't know any other bisexuals to really talk about my orientation or how I figured out that i was bisexual.
When I was 14, I found that I was attracted to both guys and girls, and that I was also aroused by both. I really felt alone because I could never talk to anyone about it for the school I was at was very unaccepting. What helped less was that my family is very religous and very anti-gay. I did what all christan girls and boys did; I denied it and considered it a temptation of the devil. I went though high school denying the other side of me. However, the more I denied it the more I felt tempted to dable in the "forbidden love."
When I finally reached the point where I couldn't even be aroused by girls. So then I just thought I was gay, but I thought about it more. I asked myself, "Do I like girls or do I like guys". "Well I like both". I finally relized that I like both and I was bi, and denying it made only made me more confused.
Unfortunetly, I still don't feel comfortable enough to come out to anyone one, but I am in a enviroment that will accept me when I am ready. My university is a Jesuit school and they accept everyone regardless.
Well, that's my story.
David
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