daniigirl

My wife had or has similar thoughts for us. I've been willin to be involved in threesomes where she gets her girl, but I only get my wife. It works for us, and there is usually some incidental touching or times when the wife has encouraged me to do things with the other woman. The only thing off the table is penetration. Try that with your situation discuss with your BF what you're comfortable with, you will probably get surprised in that he is willing to watch & respect limits.

[QUOTE=louther;bt129]My wife had or has similar thoughts for us. I've been willin to be involved in threesomes where she gets her girl, but I only get my wife. It works for us, and there is usually some incidental touching or times when the wife has encouraged me to do things with the other woman. The only thing off the table is penetration. Try that with your situation discuss with your BF what you're comfortable with, you will probably get surprised in that he is willing to watch & respect limits.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the advice i'll give it a go :).

If it's okay for you to have sex with someone besides your boyfriend, even if it is part of a threesome in which your boyfriend is involved, then why isn't it okay for him to have sex with that person as well? That's what you should be asking yourself. It sounds to me like you have a double standard. I would recommend having a threesome where both of you have sex with the other girl. There's nothing wrong with that if you're secure in your relationship and it's really the only fair solution. If jealousy is the problem, then you need to either discard the idea of having a threesome at all or work on your problem.