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, Jul 8, 2017 at 9:43 AM (4129 Views)
I know that these sites are usually pretty light hearted and joking, but i'm hoping that maybe some folks might be able to give me some serious advice.

as my ad indicates, i'm exploring my attraction to other men and trying to learn more about myself. I've always had an attraction to other men and I understand that that is actually normal, but kept under wraps because of our society norms.

anyway, I like working out and the idea of being with another fit guy is a real turn on. I've had one experience with a guy I met at a gathering and it was really exciting. we went into a bedroom at the place and really just kissed and felt each other up and started by fondling each other's cocks and sucking on our nipples. the feeling of his whisker stubble as we kissed was amazing. we were also more physical with each other then I had ever been with a woman. it was great because it was obvious we respected each other as men. he ended up blowing me and I jerked him off. now i'm sorry I didn't reciprocate. anyway, I felt guilty afterwards and never got his number so it'll be a missed op for another date.

i'm just trying to figure out where I can meet someone who is real and wants his masculinity respected just as I want mine to be. not into anal play or any like s&m or role playing stuff

anyone else in a similar situation? if so, how'd you work it out?

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  1. bw299's Avatar
    Your situation is no different than any other; searching for the right person with mutual needs and interests with whom you can have a mutually satisfying relationship. You're going to have to put yourself out there and be honest about what you're looking for and what your expectations are. Posting on this and similar websites should be a start. Also look among your circle of friends and network through them. Be prepared to kiss a few toads until you get the frog that turns out to be your prince. Good luck!
    Updated Jul 12, 2017 at 2:28 AM by bw299 (mispelling)
  2. sysper's Avatar
    ur not the only person lol. i'm out exploring too looking for the right opportunities with the right people. looks like ur not looking for just anyone. which is good u got the right to feel comfortable. i've never done anything with a guy but looking forward to it! glad u realize it's normal to have that kinda attraction it took me years to accept it lol. still kinda working on it but i know the right guy will be supportive make me feel comfortable giving myself to him. goodluck on ur search & i hope u wish goodluck to me too :)
  3. gymboy's Avatar
    nice post. I can relate. there is a definite thing that exists between guys. i'm trying to get out there more myself. I just want it to be a real man to man relationship. we sound pretty similar. hit me up if u want. keep us posted on how things are going too.
  4. DL_Buddy2's Avatar
    Hey there...kinda in the same boat...Would be happy to chat some more with ya about it.
  5. dick8823's Avatar
    I think feeling guilty is natural when you are first getting into a new situation. Given time and experience this should go away. It's too bad you didn't get his number.
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