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We all have our personal tastes and standards when it comes to who we want or don't want to have sex with.

These include non-physical attributes and there are many of these that affect our personal hot buttons for who is or isn't fuckable.

But this post is only about physical appearance and the specific physical characteristics that make another person either more or less sexually appealing to me. I am bisexual like all of you who read this, so I have standards for woman and also for men, which of course are completely different but are based on the same perspective on my views of what turns me on and what turns me off.

This post is about my sexual attraction "hot buttons" for men only. I will post a similar one that apply to women soon.

Here we go:

There is one physical trait that matters to me when it comes to what makes another man sexually appealing to me - is the size of his dick. That makes me a size queen and I'm fine with that. My dick is pretty big. 8 inches, thick and gorgeous all over.

And my 8 incher is also the line that separates a dick that is big enough to get me on my knees and open my mouth for, and a dick that almost never gets me hot enough to try to suck. Sorry but that's how they made me and there are many times I wish I was different because I'd have much more cocksucking experience without my size queen obsession.

And 8 inches is the minimum and not what I prefer when I'm in a cocksucking mood. I prefer a dick that's between 9 and 10 inches and any dick bigger than 10 that comes my way is fine with me as well.

And a big dick also affects my vision. Always makes me miss things I usually catch. Here's what I mean by this.

A 10 inch dick on an otherwise average looking guy makes him look like a hottie - to me.

A 10 inch dick on a guy who doesn't meet my sexual minimum standards might or might not make him hot enough to reach or pass those minimum standards and makes him fuckable to me. It depends on what exactly is below my minimums and by how much. I've had to make this decision a few times in my life and I've decided both ways and I made the right choice each of those times.

A 10 inch dick on a guy who's a hottie everywhere else is in my "I want him and me naked right now" club. There are lots of guys out there who could join my special club, and also a handful of men who not only are members but also members I had hot sex with as well.

There are some experiences in my past that pushed me in this direction but that's for another time not now.

The rest of my fuckability hot buttons are all flexible and none of them alone can decide if a guy is or isn't fuckable to me. And all of them are also totally subjective since what I think makes a guy cute or not isn't the same for me and you and anyone else. Here are some that usually matter to me more than the others do.

Is his face cute enough for me to want to kiss? And if or when I do kiss him - french kiss of course - will it make me really hot and will I want to kiss him all the time?

Does his body ring my bell? I don't have any one or two body types that turn me on much more than all the others, and tall short gym rat swimmer runner bodies all are nice if nothing is there to turn me off too much. A long lean body with a round ass big enough to look at twice or more and firm enough to stick out is fine by me. Flabby drooping bodies or flat small butts turn me off.

Race is irrelevant to me in my non-sexual life and I'm the coolest and mellowest white male in this racially fucked up country we live in. But when it comes to sex my attraction to black guys who have dark smooth brown skin turns me on a million times more and gets me a million times hotter than virtually every other guy out there who don't. Zero racial hangups behind this and just 100% pure physical gay lust!!!!

Which means that Gay Me is goes out to hook up with guys who look like that and since I'm a pretty cute and hot guy myself I usually find one who is as hot for me as I am for him. But I've hooked up with a few white dudes to and one Asian cutie pie which makes sense too since cute beats race by a mile, big dick beats everything else by 2 miles, and big dick plus cute together is my gay sex jackpot...

Hope you all enjoyed this and sorry for my rambling on in a few spots. And think about writing down your hot buttons for fuckability. Boy or girl or both you'll enjoy thinking and writing about yours and we'll enjoy reading them all.

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