Do you like to watch? (if so read this)

[pelokwin]

Hi all.
I have been talking with a member here about getting together, he is new to being with a man and I am no expert myself. I am married and my wife is also bi. You could define us as swingers because we will allow each other to be with others.
Anyway, the gentleman in question has a fantasy about being in front of a group. At first I did not give it much thought, I am much more of a voyeur then an exhibitionists, but after thinking about it the thought has been gaining more and more appeal with me.
My wife has already said she would love to watch us, but not only is she just one person and I think a group would be much more erotic, but also the idea of people I don't really know watching us is what is getting me all excited.
My idea goes like this, after we meet, if we click and if we feel comfortable with each other to be in front of others, I want to set up a night and place for him and me to mess around in front of some folks. I would prefer couples, MM, FF, MF, or even MMF/FFM, as long as if you feel the need (and I hope you will, cause if you don't that means we are the most "un"sexy people in the world) to enjoy yourself you will have someone to be with. I would like some woman. The idea of woman watching us turns me on more then men and the idea of a bunch guys just sitting around masterbating while we go at it or whatever just does not do it for me, no offence.
Are you a man or woman?
Do you like to watch or be watched?
Couple or single?
What is your take on my idea?
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area)

[pelokwin]

The other guy said I could name him so if you want to see his profile go here
Pelo

[Bisexual Explorer]

In my few couple experiences, I love to watch the man and woman go at it and really, really get turned on when the woman watches me with her man especially when she takes charge! Taking part in a party - orgy? - with lots of bi men and women is a favorite fanatasy. But so far, only a fantasy.
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[biblissful]

I love to watch, sometimes when we three(friend) get together, I love watching my husband with my friend. It is a real turn on for me.

[mikey3000]

I think you guys are very brave. My wife and I have watched a live gay sex show and found it very erotic. Might be something I would like to try one day. LOL! Best of luck and be sure to report back the results!!!

[BareHunter45]

Like you, I enjoy it when a woman watches. My wife knows and approves although she is fine with it, it does not turn her on. I would be willing to come and watch as a member of the audience and will bring the wife if she is interested. I know she'd love to join in.

Bill

Hi all.
I have been talking with a member here about getting together, he is new to being with a man and I am no expert myself. I am married and my wife is also bi. You could define us as swingers because we will allow each other to be with others.
Anyway, the gentleman in question has a fantasy about being in front of a group. At first I did not give it much thought, I am much more of a voyeur then an exhibitionists, but after thinking about it the thought has been gaining more and more appeal with me.
My wife has already said she would love to watch us, but not only is she just one person and I think a group would be much more erotic, but also the idea of people I don't really know watching us is what is getting me all excited.
My idea goes like this, after we meet, if we click and if we feel comfortable with each other to be in front of others, I want to set up a night and place for him and me to mess around in front of some folks. I would prefer couples, MM, FF, MF, or even MMF/FFM, as long as if you feel the need (and I hope you will, cause if you don't that means we are the most "un"sexy people in the world) to enjoy yourself you will have someone to be with. I would like some woman. The idea of woman watching us turns me on more then men and the idea of a bunch guys just sitting around masterbating while we go at it or whatever just does not do it for me, no offence.
Are you a man or woman?
Do you like to watch or be watched?
Couple or single?
What is your take on my idea?
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area)

[pelokwin]

So it seems that this thread got a lot of votes and views but not much in the way of replies. I thought there would be more.
As it goes I have one cpl. 100%, 1 cpl maybe, me, him and my wife. I am gonna give this thread a bit more time then I am taking out an ad.........

[ken-bi]

I have had a few group sexual experiences with more than four.

I find that group participation (watching and, being watched) brought out a liberation, as well as a unique connective feeling with the whole group.
It is a undescribable embracing of our human sexuality (bisexuality.)

Its been quite a while and my soul is searching for that "group" love again.

[pelokwin]

I had one really good group thing a couple of years ago, it was three men and two women. only the girls did any same sex play but it was a bond that for four of us has still lasted. I know what you mean and yea I wish to have that"closeness" again.
I do think this event, that at this point has got me to a point where I have to make it happen, will be one of our best experiences.
Pelo

[csreef]

As you've read in past posts, I've gone to numerous Swingers Parties, and one rule always was No Watching....

One time I was trying to hook up with this lovely lady (on the fold out sofa of the Hotel room) with about 10 pairs of eyes on us...Needless to say I had some preformance anxiety, until we moved to a more private location..

[pelokwin]

One time I was in a five-some, and there where a few folks just sitting around and having conversation. It was a we started having an orgy in a very large tent and folks just popped in to say high and went whoa, naked people,type of thing, every once in a while I would notice but we(the naked people) were not at all bothered, but I also was not turned on. I can see where you are coming from, I would not want to be trying to have an intimate moment and be "the show" at the same time.
Our idea is to have me and pabicur being intimate for a few couples and some singles to watch. Some folks may decide to partake in some fondling on their own, and that's way cool but I would not put this event in the "swinger party" cat.

[Giggles100]

Well the last threesome I had there were (difficulties down there ) so I dunno what I'd do in a group orgy . I suspect I'd be fine although I think I'd probably end up eyeing one person up and doing stuff with them alone .

[FredinSJ]

Do you like to watch? (if so COME TO PELO'S PARTY)
Hey Pelo,
You said--

Are you a man or woman? BOTH
Do you like to watch or be watched? WATCH MOVIES SO FAR
Couple or single? COUPLE
What is your take on my idea? GREAT AMONG A SMALL GROUP
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area) YES

-FredinSJ and P. ---message me!

[pelokwin]

Do you like to watch? (if so COME TO PELO'S PARTY)
Hey Pelo,
You said--

Are you a man or woman? BOTH
Do you like to watch or be watched? WATCH MOVIES SO FAR
Couple or single? COUPLE
What is your take on my idea? GREAT AMONG A SMALL GROUP
Would you join us if all goes as planed?(South Jersey area) YES

-FredinSJ and P. ---message me!

SWEET!!

[pabicur27]

As I am going to be one of the participants in this venture, I will say that one of my biggest fantasies is exhibitionism, being nude in front of others/posing/masturbating for them, and having sex with a man in front of others. Yes, I am a MM virgin, so anything that happens will be my first time.

[Ushanki]

I cannot do it for real, (history). But my good Lord, if you both agree (!) goddamit, enjoy your bodies.

[dkw181]

Hi Pelokwin & Pabicur,
I would love to be part of your fantasy. I have been in this type of setting before and you are very wright-- (IT IS A WONDERFUL TURN ON).

[19biman61]

I would love to be part of this. I'm from South Jersey too.

[lolguy]

I fuckin' love to watch but the only thing better being watched and knowing it so you go a little (ok, a lot) over the top. Now that's good stuff

[pabicur27]

Just to throw this out there, it is OK with Pelokwin if others at the party want to fool around with/have sex with me. Come make my deflowering a night to remember.

[curiousnlooking83]

Sign me up too.

[hedothug]

For my birthday last year I went to Hedo II and have a week-end with a Male and Female couple both bi...It was awesome...we spent the entire week-end making love with each other. We have been in constant touch since then. Their secret is that they only play with a third party in each others presence...NO CHEATING is their thing.

[ken-bi]

There thing sounds like their healthy thing. Its good for them, and you!!

[Jade Pecker]

Sounds like fun! I'd love to cum to your party, but I live in nashville. I see a woman on a regular basis...we're both bi. I like all sorts of sex; she is more traditional. ie she gets to play, but the man better be a good boy.....I'm tryingto figure out if I can get more action playing it her way, or forging ahead with teh swinging lifestyle. I see a bi swcpl every couple of months, though. Yes, folks, for me QUANTITY MATTERS! I need action, and plenty of it. Unfortunately, I do not have the body to be a porn actor.
-R

[djones]

It sounds like a very interesting evening. I have been in a group situation, though it was strictly straight.

As for watching - it would be my first time just watching - though if other participation naturally occurs - you may find me in the mix !

I would love to attend, but geography may prevent that. I would also love to bring a date, but that may not happen either - hope i would still be welcome !

[the sacred night]

I would love to go to an event like that if it were happening closer to me, but NJ is really far.

[ghytifrdnr]

As I write this, the votes are 10 to 1 cast by men. I'd find it interesting to see the results differentiated by men and women.

[pelokwin]

As I write this, the votes are 10 to 1 cast by men. I'd find it interesting to see the results differentiated by men and women.

You know I thought of that about 1 day after I put that poll up, my bad. Maybe I will set up another poll and thread, but get a better view of what woman and men like.
pelo

[mikey3000]

I participate in group activities with regular friends, all men, but with no audience. And I absolutely love it. With an audience? Hmmm...

[cliffml]

I would participate in a group if they were all men and only men were watching, that would be a complete turn-on for me.