How experienced are you?

[Skater Boy]

After speaking to a few ppl on this site, It just occurred to me that I am not particularly sexually experienced for my age. So was wondering about how experienced OTHER members are. If you don't think its a bit prurient, I'd like to ask you to state: 1. how old you are, and 2. how many people you've had sex with.

So for me, it would be:

1. 26
2. 2M, 2F

Don't worry if you don't wanna be specific... you can just put <5 (less than 5), <10 (less than 10), <15 (less than 15), etc.

I just thought it might be interesting to find out how slutty y'all are, lol.

Thanks guys.

[rayosytruenos]

After speaking to a few ppl on this site, It just occurred to me that I am not particularly sexually experienced for my age. [...]
I just thought it might be interesting to find out how slutty y'all are, lol.

An interesting question, but I think it depends on many things...

I was speaking with a really good-looking guy a few months ago, he was 18 years old and he told me that he had sex with already 1,000 guys!!! He goes to a gay sauna a lot and he can have sex with 20 or more guys in the same day!!! As he saw my surprise, he told me that his friend (even hunkier than him) was 16 and he almost had had sex with 1,000 guys already, so he was not that slutty, lol. I asked him how is that he counted the guys he's been with, and he answered me that bottom guys count.

I think I was still a virgin at 18, I had just done "you show me yours, I'll show you mine" sort of thing when I was a kid. Well, I remember that at 18 I did a bit more when on holidays as I played with the tits and pussy of a German girl (but she started kissing me, so I decided to see if she wanted more and she did!!!) but couldn't go on as people were banging on the door of the bathroom of the youth hostel we ended in. I had quite a fever and I remember those things quite in a blur... She got into my bed (the lower of a bunk, in a common bedroom with 16 bunks, making a total of 32 beds in the room) and started playing with my dick. I was soooo shy and afraid of people seeing us, plus my fever got higher that I barely remember anything that could happen. I awoke and had to leave for the airport (aaagggghhh, why these things happen the last night of your stay?) but I was not that shy in the morning and I play with her wonderful tits, while some Italian guys woke up and said something in Italian about me playing with her tits (I can speak a bit of Italian) so I just kissed her. I think it took me some time to lose my virginity after that.

It's funny, I think I cannot remember when or to whom I lost my virginity. They say you don't forget the first one. I guess I did, lol. Me, being so shy... Yeah, I AM!!! took experience after experience to dare more and more. As guys are easier, I let them first just wank me, later give me a blowjob and then as some were so interested I fucked them. I have had more experiences then with guys than with girls, but I'm not sure if I had full sex (fuck) first a girl or a guy.

Anyway, answering a bit to your question, I was not very experienced in my teens, but I think I've tried to recover the time lost...

All the best,

ray

[Mudblood]

31 yrs old, 5 F and 0 M

Two of the five women were one-offs (pardon the pun), and I've fooled around with 3 different guys, but never had sex with any of them.

Wow, sounds so... clinical... when you break it down.

[Azrael]

24 and 11 months. Had sex with 4 men and 3 women.

[smokey]

I am 51 and I have lost count.

In all seriousness 3 to 400 combined of both sexes.

[FalconAngel]

Again, not speaking for my wife, but as for me;

1) 46

2) 20+ women / 20+ men

[darkeyes]

me 2 kno an lukky peeps 2 find out.....

[TaylorMade]

24
6 women

With men, it's more complicated.

If you count oral - - around 30.
If you count actual penetrative sex - -less than 5.

*Taylor*

[biwords]

With men -- one.
With women -- eight if you count only penetrative sex. That includes some long relationships, and as of this writing, I've never cheated.

[rissababynta]

not speaking for my hubby...



almost 21 in age and 5m and 0f.

[maxtor]

55 and god only knows how many women. 3 men.

i was in the military for 26 years and single a lot of that time and was in other countries so what do you think. i wasnt a whore but close i guess.

[DiamondDog]

24/male.

A lot more men than women.

[genera101.2]

35 here and I'm such a nerd I wrote up a list with names that I could remember.

Women 33
Men 22

Sometimes I think the men should be higher since it is usually easier to get a guy in the sack than a woman.

[kenny]

Women, about 30
Men, about 20 (oral only, though not opposed to other activities)
I'm 47

[taldor2]

34 M

5m 2f

[Veronicus]

M/50

F/plenty enough
M/three

[ForbiddenWindow]

I'm 23 and have had some enjoyable experiences but still. The way I've broken up with all of my dates, kinda sad since my life is full of drama. I've
settled down alot so here's the count

7 girls
0 men.

Would love to try bi tho....

[FerSureMaybe]

18. 0 Men. 0 Women.

[boner_lishus]

55 male

40+ gals 19 guys

[Raynin]

37,
1m,5f

[unclefrot]

49 year old male

6 women
4 men

[Herbwoman39]

40 yo

10+m (including 2 marriages)/0 women (am hoping to fix that one day).

[Skater Boy]

An interesting question, but I think it depends on many things...

I was speaking with a really good-looking guy a few months ago, he was 18 years old and he told me that he had sex with already 1,000 guys!!! He goes to a gay sauna a lot and he can have sex with 20 or more guys in the same day!!! As he saw my surprise, he told me that his friend (even hunkier than him) was 16 and he almost had had sex with 1,000 guys already, so he was not that slutty, lol. I asked him how is that he counted the guys he's been with, and he answered me that bottom guys count.

ray

lol, 1000+ guys at only 18 or 16 years old?! (And only counting "tops"). Are you sure he wasn't exaggerating, Ray? thats like...SUPERSLUTTY, imo. I don't think I'd want that level of experience at such a young age. In fact, I doubt I'll EVER sleep with more than 1000 ppl in my WHOLE LIFETIME. Unless I get a job as a pornstar, that is. I'm wondering what effect being so experienced at such a young age has on a person's mentality.

But its been interesting to hear just how experienced other members here are. so far, I would say that most of you are NOT particularly slutty.

[diamond_tether]

He's 23, She's 24. We've both been with well over 20+ females individually and quite a few males each (Him more than Her). And, we're both proud of these facts.

We've both had a good number of partners and we get bothered when people assume that the number of sexual partners a person has defines whether or not they're a 'slut/whore'. Calling someone that is typically a stab that's meant to imply a weakness of self, lacking self worth, an inability to control/understand oneself and motivations or some other such tripe to make the person feel inferior about their behavior.

Yeah, a lot of people do take sex to a bad place and end up with a lot of notches in their bed posts as a result, but that doesn't mean that everyone who's had a lot of partners is in the same boat. Some folks are well adjusted, have self worth, self respect, a sense of self safety/preservation and just prefer to keep company with folks who can handle sex being open.

[Skater Boy]

He's 23, She's 24. We've both been with well over 20+ females individually and quite a few males each (Him more than Her). And, we're both proud of these facts.

We've both had a good number of partners and we get bothered when people assume that the number of sexual partners a person has defines whether or not they're a 'slut/whore'. Calling someone that is typically a stab that's meant to imply a weakness of self, lacking self worth, an inability to control/understand oneself and motivations or some other such tripe to make the person feel inferior about their behavior.

Yeah, a lot of people do take sex to a bad place and end up with a lot of notches in their bed posts as a result, but that doesn't mean that everyone who's had a lot of partners is in the same boat. Some folks are well adjusted, have self worth, self respect, a sense of self safety/preservation and just prefer to keep company with folks who can handle sex being open.

LOL, yeah, but there's a difference between "20+" partners and "1000+" don't you think?

[diamond_tether]

LOL, yeah, but there's a difference between "20+" partners and "1000+" don't you think?

Not necessarily. It depends entirely on the mindset of the person with that many partners. Now, we definitely agree that having over a thousand partners is probably an exaggeration, but porn stars have tons and a lot of them are very happy, well-adjusted people.

Sorry if it seemed like we were after any one person in particular, lol. It was more commenting on the general idea that if someone has a lot of partners, most people immediately assume it's due to some kind of defect in that person's psyche. And, that they need to conform to the majority idea that fewer sexual partners inherently means someone is well-adjusted toward sex and what it entails.

[fishfry29]

64, and was overseas in the military. 100 women,...50 men

[BonesPA]

46 M

2 Women
4 guys

[sixthickcut]

i am very experienced...i am 49 and i shot my silver bullet at 18...i have had sex with woman: (>30) and with men: (>20),i have had mf: (most),mm: (many),mfm: (several),mmf: (1),mmm: (1),fmf: (0)...still horny and still lookin 4 that perfect sex team where everyone cums together...be seeing u...

[Ophelia]

2 girls, lost count of the guys, but I think it's upwards of 25 or thirty.

I was a late bloomer.