Originally Posted by
diB4u
See. now I'm the opposite. Being mixed race, black and white, i dont really find black men attractive. Whilst there are very handsome men out there that i do find attractive the men that seem to fancy me- they're only interested in the body and not the package. Sometimes its rather frightening how lude and rude they can be.
However non sexually i treat everyone with respect, untill they dont show me respect then thats a totally different kettle of fish.
It's like not every man or woman would find me attractive, that I can deal with. However saying that most larger women are with black men. Why is that? Is that what Marie stated in her post just another form of fetish?
Maybe thats the reason why I dont date black men. I have done in the past and not a happy time of it.
Mostly I'm attracted to caucasian, mixed raced people.
I will stress again, its not a racist thing far from it. Maybe im just kicking back from well your a bbw woman and go with a black man... Kinda a trophy boyfriend, or I could be the trophy girlfriend.
Ironically the majority of black men- and this is only in my eyes only- have no problems with daiting a big woman. Another reason could be that being raised in a white English family, going to a predomintaly white school, having mostly white friends growing up then thats the culture that I lached onto.
Growing up I can actuarlly count on one hand how many non white children went to my school... in 1980 i started my schooling. I would say one chinese girl who was my friend, one black boy and three (of which I was one) mixed race.