Even though I am bi male, i can't think of anything worse than a MMF 3way.
Discuss... :bipride:
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Even though I am bi male, i can't think of anything worse than a MMF 3way.
Discuss... :bipride:
Well, I've never actually HAD one in real life, but I DO like the idea of it, and have fantasized about it plenty of times. Not saying I prefer it to FFM or even FFFM (or even FFFFFM, lol), but I certainly wouldn't mind trying it one day.Quote:
Originally Posted by dafydd
Ps: I think "MFM" would be better than MMF though.
I find the idea repellent, skin crawling, toe curling etc etc. blah blah
Hmm, so you can "go with girls" and "go with guys", but NOT BOTH at the same time? I have to admit, the MFM scenario is most interesting from a "voyeuristic" perspective to me. But I would still have no qualms about giving it a go in person...Quote:
Originally Posted by dafydd
I think it's more to do with the fact that i don't like sharing....
And also i guess in a 3some someone ALWAYS loses out.
But I would MUCH prefer a FFM 3some than a MMF.
You have a great deal to learn. Someday you will grow up and it will all make sense. Good luck.
I love the idea of every way and any how!! ;)
That's cool we're all different.Quote:
Originally Posted by dafydd
Personally for me the idea of a FFM 3 way or sex with two women at the same time is something that I don't have any desire at all to do.
Too much pussy, an overload of feminine energy, and I don't deal/interact with women that well, and their bodies are alien to me because I don't have a vagina/clitoris. I'm not female so I don't know a woman's body or how to please another woman sexually as well as another woman does.
Watching two women have sex does nothing for me and it's not something I want, seek out to see, or seek out to have a Male/female/female 3 way.
Plus even if I'm just watching porn I NEED some cock!
I was deleting old porn files I'd downloaded of hetero porn on my hard drive last night and some of the movies were FFM 3 ways and I remember downloading them just to see the man's cock or his hot body.
I'd rather have balance by being with two men in a MMM 3 way, or in a MMF 3 way with both genders.
I do fantasise/enjoy MMM 3 ways and I've never had a male/male/female 3 way but it is at the top of my list and I REALLY want to have one or a lot!
While I have never had one the idea of it really turns me on. I would guess that there has to be good communication and everyone has to make an effort to make sure all three have fun and dont feel hurt. I also like the idea of MMF with the Female being in charge kind of like a director, much less chance of hurt fellings then I think.
My dear young man, you do not know what you are missing. I am the lucky lady who has been the F in the MFM. For me....it was and is amazing. I have the attention of two men and I get to share them. It is never all about me. I love just watching them too.
As was stated earlier...as you age perhaps your taste will change. Never say never.
Belle
Belle i am with you 100%
a 3 some is without a doubt to me the best sex you can have
just as long as the 2 people of the same sex are comfortable
they don't have to be bi ....just aware with 3 bodies in bed, touching going to happen & don't freak out
just relax & go with the flow
it's awesome :bigrin:
ROFL! :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by welickit
I guess that means more couples for us welickit. Apparently experience triumphs over youth again. :tong:
daf. . .
no one can make you like it. If it isn't your thing, let it go as "not your thing". I find trying to probe WHY something isn't your thing can be a futile quest that ends up pissing off all the people that DO like it, or an eye opening experience that makes you change your mind.
*Taylor*
Quite true, who knows why anyone likes one thing over another. Personal preferences is what makes the world go around. It would be pretty boring if everyone liked everything the same and did nothing different.Quote:
Originally Posted by TaylorMade
Very true Taylor.Quote:
Originally Posted by TaylorMade
I don't see why some people are telling dafydd that he SHOULD like something he has no desire to do sexually. Or why they're flaming/chiding him telling him that he's going to like it with age/as he gets older, or that he's immature for not wanting to do a 3 way with a man and a woman.
We all have our own personal likes and dislikes and we shouldn't assume that other people's are or should be the same as our own.
I have vanilla friends that don't get my interest in bondage and SM and I don't understand their mindset of not being exploratory when it comes to sex, or even at least trying bondage or SM just once before saying OK well it's not for me.
I know bisexuals and people of all sexual orientations that have no desire to have a 3 way of any type at all, as they'd rather just concentrate on one partner, and one partner only. Some people have tried 3 ways and don't like them at all, or find them to be very overrated.
Also, if you've ever actually had a 3 way with a couple of any sort, they don't always go as balanced and as smoothly as everyone plans on, or assumes that a 3 way should be.
This is only for a night of sex too. 3 way open relationships where one enters into a relationship with another established couple who wants an open relationship can cause people a lot more frustrations, jealousy, hurt people, break up a relationship, are a lot more work than a relationship between two people, and are a whole other can of worms.
I've had friends that were in them but swear that they'll never enter into one again with an established couple, and that the years they spent with a couple should have been spent dating others and focusing on a relationship with one other person only.
Often times someone either feels weird, gets hurt, things get rather awkward between people, or feels left out (but doesn't say anything), or they become a voyuer on the sidelines and just watch their partner with another person and don't have sex at all.
I have friends that enjoy 3 ways but simply refuse to have them with a couple at all because to them it's too weird, they wind up feeling left out, wind up feeling awkward, and there's an uneven structure of power since they are with people who are in an established relationship.
In a 3some someone MIGHT SOMETIMES lose out, but if it's always for you, you might want to re-examine your practices. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by dafydd
Actually, if you do it right, then no one loses out in any 3way. We've done a few MMF's and we always make sure that everyone is taken care of and happy by the end of it all.Quote:
Originally Posted by dafydd
Someone only loses out if someone is selfish and uncaring of the needs of the other people in the MMF.
I have not had such an experience as yet--maybe one of these days--and as Belle said--never say never---hell--I never thought I would ever be doing anything like being on a web site like this and have now done some actual things I never thought I would do and find that I enjoy them immensely!!!!--so like the lady says---"Never Say Never!!!!" :tong: :tongue: ;) :bigrin: :eek: :rolleyes: :cool: :cool: :rotate: :rotate: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :yikes2: :yikes2:Quote:
Originally Posted by onewhocares
That's true that you should "never say never" but some people know themselves well enough to know that they don't want to do certain things sexually.
Like for example I know that while I enjoy giving women oral sex I would not do it if it's that "time of the month". While I don't have vaginal sex with women all that often (last time was 5-6 years ago) the same goes for using toys on a woman or doing anything sexual when a woman is having her period.
The same goes for rimming a dirty hole, felching/creampies/barebacking, SM that involves bloodplay/cutting/needles, SM that invovles leaving permanent marks, branding, scat, roman showers, anything sexual involving kids/animals, sex/bondage/SM that involves verbal discipline (someone calling me their bitch, slut, whore, cocksucker, their faggot, or other degrading things during sex), and while I don't find it completely disgusting the idea of reciving oral sex from a woman makes me go limp and is something that I don't want to do.
Gaurenteed some of these are heavy/extreme but these are examples of things that I don't want to do when it comes to sex.
IMO people shouldn't be chastized, blackmailed/made to feel bad for not wanting to do something, or forced into doing things that they don't want to do if it's for sex or anything at all.
Anyway, 3 ways aren't for everyone, as lots of things aren't.
I personally have no desire to go to a gangbang, or have a 3 way with two women but everyone's different.
I would NOT reccomend a couple having one where one partner is OK with it and the other partner gets jealous easily or wants a closed/exclusive relationship and is only having the 3 way and having an open relationship not because they want to but because they are doing it in hopes of keeping their relationship with their partner strong and alive, when if they think that an open relationship will bring them closer it will probably drive them apart.
I can understand your feelings on this. For me when i'm with a woman I just want to be with her. In the same token when i'm with a man that's all I want. I find the sex to be more intense when it's just with one person.
We enjoy MMFs. No one loses out when we play because we keep an actively integrated situation going at all times. Everyone is either touching someone or being touched - often both at the same time. Occasionally someone is just sitting back and watching, but that's because they chose to - either as a break or to indulge in some voyeurism.
It really isn't for everyone and some people much prefer the one-on-one encounter. But, we have that with each other whenever we want it. We enjoy being able to branch out of that from time to time.
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Originally Posted by diamond_tether
Oooo! Ooooh! Ooooh! And communication/negotiation of terms beforehand makes for a smoother "game". :)
*Taylor*
Although I have not had a MMF threesome, I have had some MFM threesomes where it was all about two men for a woman (no MM sexual contact involved). And I have also had some FFM threesomes, where it seemed like it was still all about the women (scratches head) :confused: . Oh well, the main thing is that all involved had fun, especially the women :rolleyes: .
Daf - just go with the flow of what turns you on and what you are most comfortable with doing.
But at the same time, don't be critical of those who do enjoy the contact and pleasures of both sexes.
:doggie:
:cool: to each his own I guess. Im a bi curious guy and am having trouble finding a cpl. to try it with. so , ..dont do it if u wont like it. your loss...... :)
So show me the loser in either of these pictures. Me thinks everyone is having a great time.
Beautifully put without any denigration of the writer.Quote:
Originally Posted by arana
Vive la difference.
BTW, 3-somes of either :male: :female: :male: or :female: :male: :female: combination are not in my repetoire. Not for me. But for those who participate - Go for it!
(actualy, :female: :female: :female: 3'somes are actually fantastic!)
LOL I don't think you can really tell by porn with paid actors what a 3 way is REALLY like in reality, in general, or for all of the participants. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by billy_campbell
My boyfriend has trouble admitting he is bi, although he has had sex with men. He completely negatively flipped out when I said I would love to experience it with him.
Finally, in a moment of honesty (few and far between on this subject) he said that he didn't want me to "see" him "do that". Also, for him, mm sex and fm sex are two very different things, and when he wants a man (which is not very often) ALL he wants is a man.
Bummer for me, since the idea now turns me on (in the beginning it sure as heck didn't!).
Ah, well, such is life!
I'm very bi curious and have'nt done it with another guy yet. But I just luv the idea of a MMF. I think a woman would luv the attention of two guys. Even though I can'nt interest my wfe into trying it go figure. Anyway two guys and a gal makes me real horny.
My first thought exactly on seeing that1Quote:
Originally Posted by DiamondDog