have you ever had a guy suck you and you could get hard, or have you ever given a blow job and he didn't get hard? What was your reaction? Did you/he keep sucking or just quit?
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have you ever had a guy suck you and you could get hard, or have you ever given a blow job and he didn't get hard? What was your reaction? Did you/he keep sucking or just quit?
A few. A 90-year old guy I used to meet up with couldn't get fully hard but firm enough to fuck my mouth and cum. Another guy in his 50's could get hard at all and he was content with masturbating while we had sex. It happens.
Unfortunately, that's fairly typical in my (admittedly-limited) experience. When you're around my age --71 -- things generally don't work as well as they used-to, if at all!
I still get hard, but the size and firmness ain't what they used to be. I use a cock-ring and Viagra (sometimes) and they both help. Mainly, they give my amorous partner a reasonably-hard mouthful. (no complaints yet!)
Much of the time, my partner isn't much better -- remaining mostly-flaccid or only semi-rigid. But it's still fun to suck them and I do want to provide the pleasure!
I gather you meant you couldn't get hard. No matter.
Being old I don't get hard anymore, but it grows some when I'm turned on. I still drip, jerk off, and cum normally. I'd like to get sucked off, but more so I'd like to suck a soft cock to completion and swallow. The lack of rigidity wouldn't cause a problem while sucking. I'm sure I'd enjoy it. I could even lick his balls with his cock in my mouth. It'd be a thrill to have one or possibly both of his balls in my mouth as I sucked the cum out of him while pressing his cock to the roof of my mouth with my tongue switching back and forth under it. I can remember picking up wet ended soft cocks with my tongue to suck them into my mouth. I liked them getting hard before cumming, but a cock is a cock and an orgasm is an orgasm.
I hear that boner pills make the heart race. That could be too much for my abused, neglected ticker. I do wonder what a guy would feel if my implanted defribulator delivered a 2000 volt jolt while his cock was in my mouth or ass for that matter. Anyway, sex with Mr. Softee isn't off the table.
I'm in my late 30s, and so far there have only been a few times when I couldn't get it up or keep it up. Once was when I'd had too much to drink (too much alcohol and sex usually don't end well for either partner). Another time was when I was trying to top this petite Asian guy. He had the most incredible bubble butt and I was super turned on and hard. But he was so tight, I found it hard to maintain my erection because the blood was literally being forced out of my penis. After several attempts and lots and lots of lube, I was finally able to penetrate him fully. Once in all the way, I was able to stay hard and complete my mission of fucking and giving him my load. That was also the first time a guy ever told me he could actually feel my cum shooting into him.
In terms of partners being able to stay hard for me, I've been with a few shy players - some had trouble getting hard and some staying hard. As Christopher South said earlier... it happens. From my experience, it occurs more frequently with guys who insist on wearing a condom. I guess it's because they don't get as much stimulation or the rubber is too small.
Another thing to consider is that sex is a mental as well as physical experience. In other words, you've got to have your head in the game if you want to get your head INTO the game.
I've gone ahead and sucked guys who couldn't get hard... because it still feels good both ways. Sure, you want him good and hard so he can cum but it's still sucking dick if he can't get hard... if you can convince him that it's okay and it's nothing to be embarrassed over. I've learned to ask what's going on with the guy - nervous, anxious or did he jerk off before we got together - and, in most of the situations I've encountered, sucking him while he's soft can get him calmed down and if he was still in the refraction period after jerking off, some nice, easy sucking can "kick him out of it" so he can get hard.
Hard or not, I just LOVE sucking cock. Not being able to get or stay erect is nothing to be embarrassed about
I never had a guy suck me yet but I have sucked a guy in his fifties. He told be before hand that he only got half hard. I sucked him and he actually would cum fast in my mouth and alot.
My semi-regular partner has ED; I've been able to get him partially erect but never nearly has hard and hot as I can get. We're both of a similar age, so I know what not being able to keep it up is all about. Even so, I often suck him while flaccid and usually am able to coax an orgasm out with a fair amount of cum. It's not quite the erotic intenseness of a hard dick and hot glans rubbing over my tongue, nips or balls, but it's always a good thing to help your partner get rocks off! He enjoys my dick no matter what and no matter where I blow my load, it really excites both of us to give it another try or two. That's what good sex is all about, I think: Mutual enjoyment and fulfillment!
I’ve sucked a number of softies, as long as they can cum, I’m up for it.
I get that... I hooked up with a guy from DL. When he got to my place, he was upfront about the fact he might not be able to get it up all the way, but that he was a fast cummer. I told him it was ok, that we'd just let things progress.Quote:
Originally Posted by tongueteaser
He pulled down his pants and shorts. He was totally soft. He grew to about half and then, within a minute of sucking him he came in a big grunt. He gave me a big load too.
I think he was embarrassed, but I assured him that I was cool. (After all, he did have a great orgasm.)
Yes, it’s happened to me once. As a male cocksucker I’ve sucked a lot of cocks over the years. One time I was giving a blowjob to a married feeder of mine, and he could barely get hard. Well he was rushed for time, and just couldn’t perform being rushed for time. I gave him another blowjob just a few days later when we had plenty of time for a blowjob, and he had no problems at all getting hard as a rock, and he fucked my mouth like a good cocksucker slut.
About a year ago I sucked a guy with some sort of medical issue and couldn't get hard. He did have a nice cock and even though he didn't get hard I still made him cum.
Although I prefer to suck on a hard cock, occasionally I have met guys who for medical reasons are unable to get erect, but are still able to ejaculate, which is my favorite part!
Thanks for consideration of the guys who have E.D. Issues or like me had to have his prostate removed. Recovery has been difficult and I miss the little guy standing at attention every morning. He still functions but no cum & orgasms are as good as ever. Would it bother you not to be awarded a cream-filled mouthful.
While I have compassion for your plight, I have to say that this would be perfectly fine with me! I'm ambivalent to the taste of cum, which can be vary between a couple of extremes between tasty and nasty. But I do crave achieving the objective of fellating my partner to orgasm. That's what I'm really there for - providing pleasure!Quote:
Originally Posted by Twincitybi
If he talks a lot about how good it felt and compliments me and makes me feel wanted and desirable, I'm as happy as if I got a overflow of cumQuote:
Originally Posted by Twincitybi
My FWB lasted through many times of hard to soft. Until age caught up with him as well as medications. He was usually soft when we got together for "our" time around busy schedules. We were usually in a 69 so we could relax, chat, lick, suck and relax as sexual beings. As we laid together, I would gently play with his cock feeling the softness, stroke the smooth sides of his cock, lick my way to the head pulling it gently into my mouth to suck till I felt him start to plump. I would do this several times to his satisfaction of a semi-plump cock giving him feeling to cum. No Cream, thrust, and nerve sensations took over for his orgasm. I was glad to be of service to him. Oh, good times.Quote:
Originally Posted by Twincitybi
I was blowing an older guy a few years ago and he had told me up front he didn't get erect anymore but still ejaculated. His cock was on the small size, 4 to 5 inches and I could get his whole cock and balls in my mouth. He found that to be a great feeling and actually did start to grow a bit so I started sucking the head and he shot a big load. It was a nice time and he enjoyed it
I am 58 and I use to have a 9 " cock til I got with a fat chick for 3 years and she broke it by being on top .
Every time it slipped out and she came down on it it broke the tissue until I broke.
Now I am about 6 -6.5" due to blockage in vessels that feed my cock I am planning to have it fixed .
But for now that happened in 2011 since then most women I was with I had to use Viagra until I met the woman I am now married too .I always get a good erection with her with no issues .
But she's the girl of my dreams ,she doesn't judge or want me to change ,does the things I like ,we have a good time together and work together . Just took 78 tries and 56 yrs to find her .
I've had a few that didn't get completely hard , I gave up and wrote it off as a wasted trip .