Deep Throating Overrated?

I posted this question on another forum and most of the men there strongly disagreed. For them, when it came to blow jobs, the throat fucked was a big part of the turn on. I heard from both men giving and receiving and all of them thought the Deep Throat was the ultimate.

I've met more than one woman that bought into this idea and were apologetic because they couldn't take my cock down to the balls, as if the inability to deep throat was a shortcoming in their love making repertoire.

Don't get me wrong, I love how it looks and feels and I definitely love when a guy has a cock small enough that I can swallow it whole. But, personally, I value someone that knows how to use a combination of hands and mouth over someone that can deep throat my cock.


I know some guys get turned on by gagging someone with their cock, but I much prefer an appreciative hummmm and a moaning mouth full. Give me some strokes, pumps, licks, sucking kisses... play with my ass and suck and fondle my balls... Play me like a flute and I'm pretty OK with the fact you can only take half me cock down your throat.

OK, let the crucifixion begin. What's your thoughts on deep throating as a feeder and an eater?

i like to suck and play with it before i get throath fucked

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Originally Posted by DMercator

I posted this question on another forum and most of the men there strongly disagreed. For them, when it came to blow jobs, the throat fucked was a big part of the turn on. I heard from both men giving and receiving and all of them thought the Deep Throat was the ultimate.

I've met more than one woman that bought into this idea and were apologetic because they couldn't take my cock down to the balls, as if the inability to deep throat was a shortcoming in their love making repertoire.

Don't get me wrong, I love how it looks and feels and I definitely love when a guy has a cock small enough that I can swallow it whole. But, personally, I value someone that knows how to use a combination of hands and mouth over someone that can deep throat my cock.


I know some guys get turned on by gagging someone with their cock, but I much prefer an appreciative hummmm and a moaning mouth full. Give me some strokes, pumps, licks, sucking kisses... play with my ass and suck and fondle my balls... Play me like a flute and I'm pretty OK with the fact you can only take half me cock down your throat.

OK, let the crucifixion begin. What's your thoughts on deep throating as a feeder and an eater?

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Nice one, I would take it down as far as I can get it and love to get it up my bunn as far as it will go

I tend to agree with you I do enjoy the feeling when I’m being sucked but honestly it’s over rated and I haven’t had it often. It can feel like a very soft pussy but I’d prefer shallower in the mouth with tongue swirls. My gag reflex is not too bad and I’ve deep throated a few cocks of average size but it’s not something I always do.

Like anything it takes practice and patience. You can start out with a Vienna sausage and work up to a kielbasa. I'm at the Johnsonville stage right now. I've managed over the years to realize that a mouthful of cock is good enough. If you want to learn to control your gag reflex train with a small 🥔 potatoe on a string. If you accidently swallow it , it's no big deal. Canned whole new potatoes work well. Personally, it's over rated. Gagging and blowing snot with a cock in your mouth ruins the whole experience. I'd rather take my time and enjoy it.

I can take my partner into my throat. Depending on the angle even without gagging. I don't really enjoy the gag reflex or the copious amount of saliva so sucking on the upper half is my preference. Strocking, grabbing a handful of balls or slipping a finger in his ass is a lot more fun!

I'm not a big fan of gagging. If my partner gags, it seems like they aren't enjoying sucking me.
I would hope it would be pleasurable. I suppose different people like different things.
No gagging on me please

not into gagging myself

Being able to take dicks down to the balls is fine... if you can do it without distressing yourself. We see lots of face/throat-fucking porn and while you can see some men and women handle this, you can see many more who, by the look on their face as their throat is being ravaged, is wishing that they hadn't agreed to do this. Making someone gag and/or barf is potentially dangerous and I have never thought it to be sexy or erotic and I would never make someone try to take me deep if they can't and I sure as fuck wouldn't let someone throat fuck me even if I found that I could take them deep without any difficulties.

Is it overrated? For as long as I can remember, being able to take a dick down to the bone was a nice skill to learn and master and it was believed that if you wanted to make a guy happy when sucking his dick, make it disappear down your throat and check out the look on his face as you swallow his sword! Anyone who couldn't do this was kinda vilified; said that, okay, they gave good head but couldn't take it deep and, well, as a cocksucker myself, I learned to appreciate other cocksuckers when they were doing down on me.

I'd tell them in a hurry: Do not try to do more than you're physically able to. I've had to stop guys from grabbing my head so they could fuck my mouth and remind them that my mouth isn't a pussy, and I don't need their help to suck them and, yeah, some guys found that I wasn't playing with them because I don't like being gagged. I'd say that, again, given how much you can see throat fucking in porn, I'd say it's now overrated and an unrealistic expectation because everyone who sucks dick can't take one of any size and girth right down to the bone without distress.

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Originally Posted by bikurinpa

Nice one, I would take it down as far as I can get it and love to get it up my bunn as far as it will go

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Thank you Sir! Always nice to hear. Didn't actually intend to post a pic of my cock, but hit attach pic and couldn't figure out how to get out without posting something. lol

Interesting to see how different the view points are here compared to the other forum. It's one thing if it's self-imposed and out of enthusiasm, but otherwise, seeing someone struggling and gagging is definitely not a turn on for me.

DMercator, seeing your prick was nice and I'd deep throat you... just because I can, and we both might like it. But the shit going on today (and because of porn)? I can't abide being made to take someone deep and I don't have the right mindset to understand how having my throat abused like that is a good or desirable situation to be in. I don't much give a fuck what the other guy expects me to do when I take him into my mouth but if I don't want to take him deep, I'm not going to - I'm running this, not you - and trying to make me do it, well, let's just say that it would be bad idea.

From both the perspective of an oral sex giver and receiver, I think deep throating is totally overrated. I've done it a handful of times, always at my partner’s request. But truth be told, it's never ever been a favorite part of my sexual repertoire. I frankly don't understand the eroticism some guys find in having me take their penis balls deep into my throat while I struggle to suppress my gag reflex.

I enjoy giving oral, but I can provide much more intense oral pleasure without the discomfort associated with such deep penetration.

About the only advantage to deep throating is that when my partner orgasms deep in my throat, I never have to deal with tasting his semen.

Some guys actually crave a good, deep throat fuck. I know two such men and they are very happy to get my big cock down their throat and into their neck. Neither gags much so as long as it feels good to me and they are loving it, why not?

I can't do it myself but love when it's done to me without the gaging. I have a 7 inch rock hard cock, over the years and many sexual partners I can count on one hand how many could deep throat my cock without gaging but I loved it when they could.
I have a regular guy that I fuck, he always tries but gags in the process. I don't try to force my cock down his throat and I really don't like when he gags but other than that he gives a great BJ.
So is it over rated to me? No it's great when it can happen.

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Originally Posted by Neonaught

...as long as it feels good to me and they are loving it, why not?

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Totally agree. Pretty much sums up my sexual philosophy in one line.

I have only had 3 experiences and all were small.I would love to try anything this one wanted.Bold and a mouthfull for sure.Ibet you taste great!!! You name it and i will do my best to please you.Moment by moment instructions are welcomed.

Yes,make him cum at least once in my mouth,then the throat...mmm

For me it is not about making someone gag but about the feeling it my cock slipping into the tight soft warm confines of a throat , when my cockhead is enveloped in the warm soft tube , GOD it is so beautiful

Deep throating isn’t for everyone and it does require some skill. The first time I deep throated was accidental, I was on top in a 69 with one of my regular married men I suck off, he has a 7” fairly thick cock and my hands slipped on the sheets when I had him about half way in my mouth, I fell straight down and his whole cock went all the way down my throat, it kinda scared me when that happened but it didn’t hurt, I just held it in there for a few seconds and pulled off his cock and went back to sucking.
Then I decided to try and take it all the way down again and it just went down my throat easy and no gagging at all, I held him down until I needed some air, he went nuts with pleasure when I had him all the way down so when I felt his cock begin to swell and he was ready to cum I held him all the way down in my throat again as he came inside me, my voice was a little gruff for a couple days afterwards but I was amazed at how easy it was for me to take a big cock down like that and how much he liked it.

I've never had a really big cock to suck, but have easily managed to take the ones I have down to the hilt without every having an issue or really thinking about it. Never thought about it too much to be quite honest!

I love throating cock, I feel so sexy doing it. Love the feeling of cum pumping in my throat.

The greatest compliment I ever got was when I was with a guy from Holland. He had a thick 10" uncut cock and I swallowed him down to the base. He was amazed that I could get it down. He'd never been swallowed like that before. It's an acquired skill. And yes, I got my reward.

It makes you feel good to take down a monster-sized dick - makes the owner of the dick feel good and he's often surprised, too. Is it mandatory when sucking cock? No: If you can do it, fine but if you can't, why put yourself through some physical distress? I don't know, fellas: When I was learning all the tricks to sucking a dick, being able to take all of a dick down was a skill to be learned... if you could learn it. With my friends, taking each other deep was easy but with older and more developed guys? I don't know how many times I barfed or almost barfed trying to take "bigger" dicks down but I know that I kept trying until I could do it without gagging (or with minimal gagging) and do it consistently, which got me props from a lot of guys (read that as men) who were duly impressed. Hearing that praise and knowing that I got all of a dick down... just made me feel seriously good because it was quite the accomplishment and cemented my place as a good cocksucker among a lot of guys who sucked cock but couldn't go deep without things getting messy.

Have I ever had a guy get pissed because I wouldn't take him deep? Yes! Not because I couldn't (he wasn't as big as he thought he was) but because I didn't want to, and it is to note that he was only pissed after he busted a nut.