I am sure this topic has been discused before but society is a little bit of a two sided sword.It is accepted that men are turned on bi bisexual women but few women seem to find bisexual men to be a turn on.Why is this,or am I just wrong?
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I am sure this topic has been discused before but society is a little bit of a two sided sword.It is accepted that men are turned on bi bisexual women but few women seem to find bisexual men to be a turn on.Why is this,or am I just wrong?
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I know that my friends and I don't understand the realationship between two men. We are curiouse on that issue. But I do know that having 2 men in the same room as a woman is no fun in my book. But I do think as long as your happy who cares what other people think. :) Talk later,red_roses_are_sweet
You know my answer........two men together....bringing plesure to each other.........nothing to say except WHAT A TURN ON! MMM MMM MMMQuote:
Originally Posted by tomboyea123
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I am one of those women who is turned on by idea of two men together. In fact, I had a fairly serious relationship with a man who was bisexual. He was forthcoming about his bisexuality from the very beginning and it was never an issue. While we spoke occasionally about his experiences, it wasn't a subject that came up often. I accepted that his bisexuality was a part of him and that was it.
I found this man to be sensitive and understanding, possessing a kind of gentleness that I haven't seen in many straight men. Being attractive and sexy as hell didn't hurt either, but those things were just the icing on the cake. He was also a very considerate lover.
Perhaps if more women had positive experiences with bisexual men - and I don't necessarily mean dating them - there would be more acceptance and understanding.
Well, as many people at this site know, I am a straight woman and my bf is bi. I find my bf to be very sexy. I know he is bi and I have gotten to see him interacting on a somewhat limited basis with other men. To be honest, I am not turned on by watching him suck a cock, but I do enjoy the look of contentment on his face while he sucks a cock. I suppose some people would find it hard to understand that his look of contentment is what I like, and not so much what he's doing. I accept his bisexuality as being a fact of life, just as I accept he has green eyes, S&P hair and is 6 feet tall. His bisexuality is merely a detail. It does not, to me, sum up who he is any more than his hair or eye color do. I'll risk getting in trouble here by being honest and admitting that in some respects our relationship would be easier if he were straight, if only because I would not have faced as many jealousy issues and I wouldn't have had so many questions. At the same time, I will admit that by putting forth the effort to understand bisexuality, I have become more comfortable with my own sexuality and I believe I have become more open minded. Also, if he hadn't been bisexual, I wouldn't have started seeking answers to the questions his sexuality raised for me and I wouldn't have made the online friends that I have met through this site. :rolleyes:
Well, I'm new to the site and to this thread. I am bi and married. my wife is fine with my bisexuality as she is bi herself (that helps). I have been told by many of my female friends that the idea of seeing two guys together is a real turn on. :2cents:
keep those replys comming! they are all great and appreciated.
Hi I have thought about two males being together and I like the though of it it is not discusting to me at all :cool:
I am married and I would find it a HUGE turn on to see him with another man... :drool: We are built for pleasure and it's all good in my opinion. We watch str8, gay and bi movies together and find it all to be very erotic. In fact, I think mm interactions in movies are so much more genuine, because, well, it's a lot easier to tell just how turned on they are! :male: We share all of our fantasies and are finding that we are both equally bi. Thinking of him with another man drives me just as crazy as him wanting to see me with another woman!
I think we need more women like you around. Down to eearth honesty about what turns you on without the "socially accepted" standard. Ever noticed that it's kinda hip for a girl to have a girlfriend but the reverse is frown upon! More power to you. :tongue:
As a poly bi gender blended woman, I am starting to think that my ideal partner would be a poly bi male who is into gender f*cking . . .
The idea of seeing men together is a turn-on but it goes beyond that. I like the idea that my partner would presumably be able to "get" me in a way that straight male partners haven't so far.
Yes MM is not as cool as FF in this world.
but thats the reason for a site like this>
BI RULES
This a guys answer
my wife is straight, and has no wish to join in with any other kind of sex apart from one to one with each other, but she knows i am bi, and go out to meet other bi/gay guys and have sex with them. she then gets a real turn on out of me giving her the details of what i have been up to, whether just oral or full sex with other guys, and that's when we have our best sex. she is 49 and i am 51. she does not want me to bring other guys home for sex, either threesomes or one to one, just for me to talk about it and get her in the mood.
does anyone else have this kind of wife?
john
I am the female of this couple and I have to say that it definately turns me on to see my hubby enjoying himself with another man. I can just watch them for hours, but I get to excited to restrain myself. And the world is very accepting of two men making love......of course that is our world and that is the world we live in. :female:
You wouldn't happen to have a single like minded sister would you? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by sexy couple
i found out recently that the guy i dated for 5 years is bicurious. he didn't revealed this to me while we were together, but we did talk about his 'hetero-crush' on johnny depp. after being with him and talking about attractive males and females, i don't think i could go out with a straight male again. there is something comforting about dating someone with a similar sexual orientation.
i agree with the other women who have posted comments: seeing two males together is a big turn on :bigrin:
When I first revealed my bisexuality to my ex-wife, it seriously aroused her. She even saw me give a blow-job or two, and then we would go fuck like rabbits. Later she disliked the whole idea, and we are no longer together. :2cents:
My husband is very bi, loves m/m, and it really turns me on. We have been married for 36 years and had many wonderful MMF 3somes & even a few friendships with gay men where I played the voyeur. I enjoyed every minute of what we have done.
I wish my story had even a slight "silver lining" as yours did. I was forced into admitting my bisexuality to my wife and there was NOTHING positive to it. We never had sex again and we shall be divorced soon... :(Quote:
Originally Posted by jo69guy
Sorry to hear that, but unfortunately many people do not understand bisexuality. :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Cajunbuns
Well, it is obvious that MM is not as accepted as FF......it is just part of a taboo
Well, it is obvious that MM is not as accepted as FF......it is just part of a taboo
Obvious to whom? I have known both women and men who were appalled by my bisexuality (for the lack of a better term). Taboos are constructed by people who have been conditioned to reject anything with which they are not comfortable. But to suggest that there is a prejudice more "obvious" toward MM than FF is a broad generalization.
mm is a beautiful act the physical realisation of so much pleasure is amazing to watch as is the love two men can have for each other. Huge turn on....
My husband is bicurious and we have recently began to search for the couple that will help us explore these feelings and desires. How do I feel. I am mainly turned on by the honesty that he has given me. I am turned on also by the aspect of his arousal and gratification that he will receive. We plan to play, explore, share, and learn together. We both want this to be an experience that we both our comfortable with. I could not go forward with this if I had any doubts or worries and I know that he would not want me to. Honesty is key... Be upfront with your spouse and make sure hes being the same with you.
hi tomboyea123,
you are right about society being a two sided..
my husband is a bisexual,and i am straight....to me it is a huge turn on to see him with another male..
Good to hear such positive viewpoints about it.
Well, I'm really kinda neutral on the subject. It doesn't really turn me on, but I'm not disgusted by it either.
As for the ff being more accepted than mm, I think it may just be that female bodies are a little more pleasant to look at when nude. No offense to the boys! ;)
Well, I have to agree with ConfusedandCute on this. I"m pretty neutral on the subject. Being straight, I didn't much think about ff or mm. In my world it's always been mf. Now that I find out my husband is bisexual, I've been forced to look at the world out a different window so I can see more. I can't say that it would totally turn me on but it would not disgust me either. :2cents:
Hmm this is a good one.
I think as a whole bisexual men are the best of both worlds. I can't say it ness. gets me off to see two men together...but I like the idea and the Bi men I have met have been wonderful.
Yeah for bi Guys!
-Ratchick ;)
I find the responses to this thread interesting. It seems to reflect the way many people tend to look at bisexuality in general, some turned on by the ideal ,others accepting but not necessarily turned on, and others neutral not feeling one way or the other. Being the male half of a bi couple we enjoy sex period .It makes it more comfortable when playing with other couples if the other couple is bi as well. The combinations of what we’re able to explore as well as the pleasure doubles when everyone is bi. We are finally meeting other bi couple and have come to the conclusion that for us, it’s what we feels offers the most growth. What turns us both on is the freedom to explore without limitation to gender and the pleasure derived there of.
Wow ! I wish you guys lived closer as we feel the same way you do ! We are both bi-curious and have yet to experience this. It's such a turn on to think about my husband with another guy and he would give his right arm to see me with a woman ! Know anyone like that in the Pa area ? :)
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Originally Posted by cplfun13
As a bi woman who is married to a bi man, I have to say that I find few things sexier than two men together. I know that most people I have discussed this with disagree but I for one think it is hot. My husband has a steady "friend" and I love to see them cuddle on the couch and just be together. I have never seen my husband do more than kiss another man but I find it very erotic and I know that I would feel the same if I saw them do more.
well my hubby is bi and so am i i have not joined him and another man but i like to talk to him about him being with other men and ithink i would enjoy being apart of two men
We are both bi, and after having our first bi experiences with another wonderful bi couple, I have to say that I am even more turned on by watching my husband with another man than I thought I would be... We feel especially blessed to be with another couple that we feel totally comfortable and connected with, and we love being able to explore and enjoy one another without limitation. The thought of seeing him with another man has always been a fantasy of mine, but finally seeing it in person was amazing!! :tong:
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Originally Posted by jo69guy
Hi, Dave from N.J. here. It is too bad that we are so far apart. I would love to share cock sucking with you. Dave New Jersey.
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Originally Posted by Ratchick
THanks from a very Bi, married male from N.J. Dave
My hubby is bi, and I truly love watching him with another guy. It's such a turn-on, and I love to be involved as well. I think it's natural for guys to be completely hot together... they tend to be more passionate about sex and go for what makes them feel good. This in itself is utterly sexy... combine 2 guys drawn to each and I'm sent over the edge.
I also have other female friends who agree with me 100%. I think a lot of it depends on regional boundaries and expectations of bisexuality. Living in NYC, it's very ok to be bi.
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Originally Posted by jo69guy
Sorry for what happened to you.
For what I've read in this thread, it seems that when women are bisexual themselves, they are more understanding about men being bisexuals too.
Second, they seem to be not only more understanding but also more turned on by watching their hubbies engaged in male to male sex than straight women.
Of course, I'm generalizing from all what has being said in the posts of this thread, and also we have to keep in mind that this is a bisexual site, so people coming here have a more open mind that others, as they are bisexuals themselves or are straights trying to understand their partners' bisexuality.
But Jo's post is unique as he described how his wife was first really aroused by her husband's bisexuality, but later on, she changed her mind to the point of being disgusted by the same that turned her on before... Not sure if that was the reason of their divorce or not...
That also shows how sexuality can change with time, even from being straight to bisexual to gay or the other way around. I've always thought that sexuality is not fixed and that our likes can change from one day to the following, from one minute to the next.
All the best,
ray
hello I am a bi woman who is seekin a bi male that i can see interact with another male. It's a turn on for me most definetly. It s very taboo in our culture in usa esp. I am very openminded and has had experience with it b4.Looking for someone professional,like myself. So if anyone is in the pa or surrounding area , definitley send me a note, so we can connect. ;)
I've been reading this thread and I've found it very interesting. I wanted to post because I of course also think that there is a double standard with regards to the acceptance of bisexual females in society and bisexual men. Why is this? I attribute it to a number of things, but mainly to sexual politics and the dynamic and hierarchy within society.
So, for example, the porn industry, which was mostly founded and dominated by str8 males and arose to its glory in the 70's with DEEP THROAT and other classic porn gems, as well as Playboy, Penthouse and other porn mags put out the concept or idea of two women having sex while being watched by or joined in by a man. Men (and women) were TOLD what was sexy by the various media. And they swallowed it, just like today people are TOLD what is visually appealing in a man or a woman usually by fashion magazines and they swallow it, wholesale. Even the beautiful European classic Emmanuelle and all of its sequels was lesbiphilic and homophobic. If back in those days of early porn, we had been exposed to images of two men having fun with each other and/or the woman the world today would be a different place.
I'm going to continue this post.