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Re: "bi men don't like to kiss other men"
This is a personal area for me. The idea of kissing another man acually makes me feel ill. I don't know why, I love sucking and licking and masturbating and fucking. But kissing - hell no!
I kiss women and love it. I think I cant kiss guys as I do not ever want to be in a loving realationship with another man, when it comes to guys its all sexual NO love, I have no trouble helping a guy get off, and it gets me off seeing another guy enjoying himself, but could never kiss them.
I am not speaking on any other bi guys behalf, but I though I would ad my :2cents:
Cheers
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I definitely enjoy kissing men (and women). Really, really enjoy. I can damn near get off just kissing. :)
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I am a bi married guy here. I love kissing guys more than I do females. I think its so sexy when guys kiss!!!!!
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Like it myself. Kissing and the other things leading up to sex are as, if not more, important than the actual act, to me at least. Of course I'm not going to just hop into bed with anyone, need a "connection".
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I currently do kiss the guy I hook up with , but then again, we have been seeing each other for several months now. I usually do not enjoy kissing other guys----especially ones that like to jam their tongues down my throat right from the start. With increased level of trust and intimacy, then I am more open to kissing the guy I am with.
I do, however, on a regular basis enjoy kissing my wife---all over (lips, hands, back of neck, ears, inner thigh, etc.)
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Personally I'm not attracted to guys 'romantically', and only sexually attracted to cocks and balls. I've 'kissed' gay guys in gay bars before, but just don't feel 'romantic' (kissing, cuddling, etc) towards men. Even though I love and crave sucking dick hard or hard dick, I don't even really consider myself 'bisexual', although I suppose most in American society would surely 'label' me as bisexual. I see a cock flopped out and I crave suckin on it till getting its juicy cum reward no matter where I'm at or who the cock is attached to, as long as they are disease free.
The most 'romantic' and deeply personal kiss for me is sharing a deep french 'snowball' type of kiss w/a beloved girl I'm in a relationship with just after we've both orally shared a cock by 'swapping' his cumload.. I felt so incredibly close emotionally with my last, 'now passed' beloved wife whenever we shared a deep french kiss in this way after she had a few cumloads from others [or even my own] covering her lips and in her mouth.
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Originally Posted by wanderingrichard
comes down to: some will, some won't, so what?, NEXT!
You a salesman? That was something of a mantra in a couple telemarketing rooms I worked in.
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I honestly dont' think there is a hard fast rule about whether or not you kiss a man....I think that depends on the two men together and the chemistry they create....yeah..I do think it is hot...but would I force that on someone..hell no...no more than I would expect them to conform to my ideas of what is normal....and hey..I am a straight woman from GA..so be glad LOL!!! I could have you eating grits and sopping up gravy with your biscuit before you kissed a man!!
Hugs,
Kate
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You can't snowball without kissing, guys. :tongue:
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I've done a long post about this on my blog, if anyone's interested.
xx
Bisexuality and beyond
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Originally Posted by suegeorge
Very insightful. I recommend the rest of you check it out.
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In particular, the fact that men in general look down on femininity and prize masculinity has not changed at all. This is key to the way many bi men see gay men: they equate "gayness" with a lack of masculinity, and this seems to them to be a direct attack on their sense of self.
This is pretty much my take on it.
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I consider myself bi after having been together with a few men over the last couple of years and have found it extremely exciting to kiss the other man. It seems that it was almost a given right from the first meeting and very erotic, even moreso then the oral sex that followed.
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I am in my mid 50's and came into my bisexual side fairly late after fighting it for a long time. Now days I love to kiss men if it's the right man and his breath is fresh. It hasn't always been that way. I got comfortable with it as I got comfortable with my sexuality.
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I am a bi married guy and dont mind kissing guys at all :) Jess thinks it's hot to watch 2 (or more) MOTSS kissing, and I agree.
:-)
Lance & Jess :three:
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I think, i'm a married guy too. To kiss my wife is wonderfull and exciting! And i could imagine to like other gays to touch, suck and fuck - but to kiss, i don't know - would say sooner no! :female: :) :male:
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I suppose by kissing you mean the lips. I wouldn't again 'cause the ones that tried it had bad breath and stubble. There are other places to kiss, the neck, the back, the chest, the nipples, the thighs they are good to kiss.
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I think that if you want to suck another mans cock, what is it to kiss them on the lips?
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as a bi married cyber bi the only thing sexy about a guy is the cock...
not even the balls...
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Personally, I have always felt this was strange abouit me until I found thi site. I have no desires to kiss another guy, but love kissing women. However, i would giver a blowjob, more then likely to the same guy.
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If I suck your dick, kissing you doesn't bother me.
In fact I like to kiss and cuddle with my man and my woman.
:) :three: :flag3: :flag2: :tongue: :tongue: :tongue: :cowboy: :rotate: :rotate: :love1:
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I'm a good kisser. Any uk people (london area) want to try me and see? :)
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I've never kissed another man, and to be honest I don't care for the idea of kissing another man. I like to suck cock, but kissing a guy is something that kind of turns me off. But with the right guy, I'd be willing to try it.
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:tongue: Although I feel that kissing can be and is an integral device of stimulation, in most cases, it can be and has been for me a turn-off. I think when two (or more) are together traveling down the lane of lust or love, depending on the chemistry that exsists, kissing can be quit the simuli to really juice things up.
I have kissed guys (not all of them) I have had sex with. Some were sensual kissers who knew how to reflect their passion with the tounge and lips. And there were several that were too over bearing and aggressive. But for the most part, I would have to say that I would rather kiss a woman over a man.
Male to male kissing is not for everyone - it really depends on the chemistry at hand and desires of those involved. :doggie:
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I like to kiss men too. It's just as hot as kissing women. :wacko:
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I think that this question really highlights the difficulties raised by trying to put labels on people's sexuality. Everyone on this website at least responds to the label "bisexual" in some way, yet people seem to have clearly divided views on the fairly simple act of kissing. Many of the responses claim that kissing is a foundation of intimacy, yet others, including myself, have no interest in kissing another man, but are extremely aroused by oral and anal sex.
Quite possibly, kissing is about intimacy, while the other acts are about sex.
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I've kissed guys before when I was younger, but I didn't enjoy it as much. I love kissing girls a whole lot better,being emotionally romantic with guys is not my thing.It's nothing personal,but I do love the sex with guys. :bigrin:
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I have no prolbem sucking a dick or any kind of ass play but would never kiss a guy. Its just seems to be too personal. However if i was with a shemale i might kiss.
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I'll kiss almost any man (and pretty much have)
LOL
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Originally Posted by glantern954
It really is quite different and that is one of the things that is a turn on for me. When kissing a woman she always becomes submissive and I kiss her. When kissing a guy it sometimes almost feels like a competition for control. Sometimes we are both on the same level, sometimes I submit to being kissed by him, sometimes he submits to being kissed by me.
Try kissing a strong, tall, gorgeous bi woman you are in love with. Yummy. I submit sometimes and sometimes I don't. It is absolutely fantastic. Chickpea
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I kiss other guys, if they're clean shaven.
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Kissing for me is an intimacy builder. I much prefer kissing women, but have used it with guys to find out if I want to go to the next level. Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It's like being really attracted to someone, worshipping them from afar, but when you actually get to sit down and talk with them, there's just something missing.
It was mentioned about the roughness of the male; skin and technique, and I don't like that much myself, I guess I like to be the male. I think that people have an idea about the way a kiss should be at certain times. I try to be sweet and gentle with my kisses, but my ex-gf still complained about the way I did it. I was trying to show her that I wanted her to be a little more agressive with her style and she was showing me that she wanted me to be a little softer. One of the reasons we may no longer be together.
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Maybe I'm just wierd, but I really don't enjoy kissing either guys or gals. I'll spend lots of time kissing, nibbling, and licking head to toe(guy or gal), I'm just not much into lip to lip contact. Now, with that being said, I'll kiss either gender if I know it is something that is very important to them, it's just not something that I will initiate. :flag1: Dave
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Well, I disagree with that entirely! I'm a married bi in a relationship with a younger man. It's purely sexual but we love to kiss, kiss, kiss.
Why should bi men not kiss other men? We cuddle, hold each other and kiss until we fall asleep...that means whenever we can sneak out from home.
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Originally Posted by maturebibottom50
Why should bi men not kiss other men?
The only reason for 2 men NOT to kiss is if one of them doesn't like to kiss men. If they both like kissing, then they SHOULD kiss.
I didn't see where anyone said 2 men kissing is wrong. But for some of us, it's not something that we enjoy.
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For me personally, no. Most of the time as it were. It really depends on the place, who I am with and what we are doing.
I do enjoy sometimes kissing men dressed as women. I know that is also not for everyone. John
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I used to dream about kissing guys and when i tried it was diffrent but still great. It is part of having the sex be it male or female. Nuthing is wrong if you like to kiss other males as i think it is a part of being bisexual. :bigrin:
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Kissing the man I'm with is essential to me to gain full satisfaction during sex, without it it's just too impersonal,
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I like to kiss a man, it's turn me on and makes me so horny, that's the same by a female! It's a choke for a goodtime of sex :eek: .
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I think for some men, struggling with being bi, it is compartementalizing. My mate says he has let guys give him head or f'd them, but he doesn't kiss, he doesn't touch their c***. I just think it seems "less gay" to him that way. A way to make himself feel better. And, I find it just as strange that he has received oral or performed anal on guys and still does NOT identify himself as bi.
I know it is a whole coming out to yourself thing...but if I had sex with a women, and liked it, and liked lesbian porn, and fantasized about women, I would have a hard time convincing myself I was straight.
I have always been brutally self-honest though. Sometimes, I wish I could bury my head in the sand, but it is not part of my personality or character traits or whatever.
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Originally Posted by deremarc
Sometimes, I wish I could bury my head in the sand, but it is not part of my personality or character traits or whatever.
Life would be so much easier if my parents hadn't taught me to think for myself, something they have regretted ever since.
Ahh to live life with blinders on and to see only what I am told to see.
Ohh to chew my cud happily on my way to the slaughter house.
To really believe what our leaders tell us and to believe our politicans are good and honest people...
NAH!!!
Better to look naked eyed into the sun and be blinded by its light than to know only that it exists by shadows cast.