It's you and me and a lot of guys. Growing up, anyone could get my ass and condoms, well, they didn't fit us so going bare was the only way. I can count on one hand the number of times a guy fucked me with a condom and it was personally not all that enjoyable. I got to a moment in my 20s where I decided that only "special" guys can get my ass, bare or otherwise; it's both an 'emotional' connection to him as well as me knowing damned near all there is to know about him. I'm not gonna say that we make love but if such a guy wants my ass, he can get it and I prefer to feel nothing between us and let's say that I won't be the only one being fucked bareback.