How does one go about finding safe, clean partners for mm sex. I don't want to go the Craig's list route - it looks rather seamy. Are there any bi groups in Minnesota?
Just as it is with women, it's always a "trial and error" time for men. When playing I ask to see test results - if a person has something to hide they will get very defensive about this.
That is a very good question. I would like to know the answer to that myself. Being new to this lifestyle I am very wary of just "picking someone up". I wouldn't want to hook up with someone that's overly promiscuous. I've made it this long without ever having any STDs and don't want to start now.
