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  1. Partying Friday 6/22/18

    In Deland, sub oral bottom daddy and his gurl friend will be hosting a suck n fuck fest for party tolerant hiv neg tops. We intend to engage in SAFE kinky play and be open minded for trying out new and interesting ways to give and recieve pleasure. Kissing, rimming, WS, sucking, fucking and being fisted are what comes to mind. We are looking to start on Friday 8/8/14 and end either Saturday night or 6 am on Sunday. If you think this is something you might enjoy send me a note to me for instructions and details.
    Richard

    [email]r170490th@yahoo.com[/email]

    Updated Jun 18, 2018 at 3:28 PM by oursecrets

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  2. First Round

    He arrives impeccably dressed with a bottle of a vintage red wine and a nervous smile in his handsome face. I shake his hand and tell him to keep his shoes on because we are going to be in the patio, a secluded tree paradise that looks like an ancient stone ruin in the middle of a tropical jungle. My wife is already there waiting for us in her black sexy dress and with the glasses for the wine on the table. I take him downstairs and to the patio. My wife gets up and kisses him on the cheek. He hasn't changed his smile and grabs the seat we offer him in front of us. I open the bottle of wine and pour the red nectar into the glasses. He proposes a toast for a long lasting friendship.

    We had been exchanging emails for a while, explaining everything about how we envisioned a special friendship with us. At first he was concerned with the scenario of sex without gender boundaries since he had never touched another guy before. We recommended him to read our blog in the site. He read every word carefully and after some hesitation, which translated in few days without a response, he finally decided to give it a try.

    The conversation picks us very quickly. He explains that he is involved in a vanilla almost sexless relationship and that he decided to explore the lifestyle looking for what he can't get at home. He confesses that he had been with a couple of women from the site but that he wanted something more stable and safer, like a mature couple with a solid relationship and with no drama, meaning people like us. We tell him that we also have some experiences with a couple of good friends from the site, that we see then every so often and that we are looking to expand our circle of close friends since the ones we already have aren't available as much as we wished. He understands and likes the fact that we respect everybody's privacy and are not looking for a third in our marriage but just a plain good friend with whom we can relate and have a good time whenever the three of us could get together. After some good jokes and laughs we feel comfortable enough to invite him to our hottub which is in a corner of the patio surrounded by trees. I put some music for the ambiance, open the tub and we strip naked and jump in the warm water grabbing our glasses of wine with us.

    The chatting becomes more lively and sexually charged. I approach my wife and we start kissing while he watches politely, smiling all the time. I take his hand and slowly let it rest on my dick. He grabs it nervously but without hesitation. Then I do the same with my wife's hand and put it on his cock, she smiles and looks at him. I signal him to join in our embrace and then the magic happens. We are three bodies fused together. Hands run freely through each other bodies and we have a joint kiss for the first time. I place my hand in between my wife's legs and notice that she is getting wet and not because of the water. The time stops and we are in that special dimension where only the senses exist. The exploration under the water continues, everyone touching and kissing.

    After a while we are too hot for the tub and decide to go to the bedroom. We get out, grab some towels and go upstairs. My wife goes to the washroom and the two guys jump in bed together. He hugs me and places my head on his chest while our hands are caressing each other cocks. Then my wife reappears and gets in the middle and we form a perfect triangle, she is kissing me and he is kissing her neck, my right leg is on her and his left is on mine. We embrace harder, breathing even faster. I start licking my wife's breasts and now she is kissing him passionately while her hands is playing with my cock and his hand in between her legs making her moan as if it was no tomorrow. Next I move to the other side, behind him, pressing my chest against his back, kissing his neck and grabbing his cock with my left hand brushing it against my wife's pussy. The three are still in an embrace only with him now in the middle. It's his turn to get all the attention from both of us.

    He is on his back now. My wife is on one side kissing him and caressing his nipples. On the other side I go down on him, licking his shaved balls and his hard rock cock. He moans as I engulf his dick with my mouth while my wife is stroking mine and he is fingering her pussy. I alternate between licking my wife pussy around his finger and sucking him. Then my wife mounts him like a cowgirl and slides down until his pussy is pressing on his cock and I can lick the two together at once. I take a condom and put it his cock then I grab it and position it at the entrance to the wet heaven which is waiting for it. My wife slides down even more and his cock disappears entirely inside her. I then play with his balls and my wife starts a very slow ride while he is grabbing her breasts and she is caressing his chest. I now move and position myself on the opposite direction along his side so my feet are near his face and his big toe of his right leg is in my mouth. He brushes my feet with his lips and grabs my cock with his right hand hand, his left hand still playing with my wife's breast. My wife increases the tempo and we can only hear the moans of the three of us like in a perfect concert. My left hand is on his hand guiding him in the movement jerking off my cock. My right hand is caressing his balls. I'm the first to explode shooting my load over my stomach. He understands and slow down his strokes moving his fingers later to my empty balls, few seconds later my wife is screaming with pleasure and then he also gets his share of a fantastic orgasm.

    The three of us need a little rest. We lay down together, he is still,in the middle, both my wife and me under each arm pressed against his chest, all smiling happily while we are caressing his body with our hands. Slowly the conversation starts again and we laugh together. It's recovering time for getting ready for the next round and to discover the mysteries of this amazing sex only possible among the three of us.

    Updated Aug 4, 2014 at 1:48 PM by Nakedfun3

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  3. MMF: Sharing a conversation

    We had many interesting exchanges with honest people who had expressed interest in meeting us. We decided to share this hypothetic dialogue which clarify many aspects of how we see the act of sharing our intimacy with an open minded male friend:


    Hi X
    We are looking for someone that is really into a 3some where there is no focus on anyone in specific but in pleasuring each and everyone of the participants. If you are fine with mutual oral male to male engagement, touching sensually in between everybody without restrictions, cuddling together the three of us, three way kissing and so on, let us know. The only rule for now for everyone is no actual anal penetration, only mild anal play between the boys in the context of the threesome is accepted. We do enjoy long foreplays, a good conversation while caressing each other naked bodies, some drinks and chat in our hottub. Now it's your turn to tell us about you.
    Cheers,
    R and S


    Hi guys, my experience before was mostly in being attentive to the woman, with the male being second, I've never kissed a guy, and to be honest don't know if I could. Sucking and playing I'm ok with, my last couple was all about pleasing the woman, and group oral. It was about no one being left out. The woman liked dp, so most evenings or afternoons usually lead up to that.
    I may not be as hard core as you are looking for, if that's the case I understand. You guys are great looking people, I think it would be a lot of fun playing together.
    X


    Hi X
    We spoke among us and we are a little concerned because we are not a woman focused couple and we don't want you to feel awkwardly when playing with us since we are about the three joining together without gender boundaries or rules about whom and what to touch or suck and things like that. It's not about being hard core bi, but about being with us as a couple, not just a shared wife or cuckold submissive situation.
    Thanks,
    R and S


    Good morning guys, I thought long and hard about your email. Let me see if I understand this, you guys have dropped all the implied social boundaries, and truly focus on pleasure and passion, for everyone. The idea of being with people that are connected at that level without social limits, is quite frankly, liberating. We are conditioned about the do and do not 's, but that closes so many doors.
    You have a very give and take, Ying and Yang approach to pleasure. One that I'm very interested in, to break my own boundaries and free myself from the social frameworks.
    I'm really interested in learning more, as this type of relationship is very new and exciting to me.
    X


    Good morning X
    I appreciate your response and yes you understood very well what we are at. We had a friend before who used to join us every so often and with whom we felt truly comfortable the three of us together exploring and building up a friendship in and out of the bed. We spent hours naked together trying different things just for the sake of experimenting and looking for new possibilities of providing pleasure to each other. Unfortunately he was much younger than us and he found a girlfriend with whom he wanted to follow up with a serious relationship, something that we not only understood and were glad for him, but we knew that in his case something like that would happen eventually. I'm telling you this so you know that we know exactly what we really want.
    About the bi sexuality issue, it is only focused on the sexual pleasure and the warm feeling of being caressed by both a woman and a man at the same time. The stupid gay taboo is long gone since we think there is just sex and friendship in the triad, while homosexuality is a state of mind about falling in love with someone of the same sex, something which we know we are not capable of. Once the social barriers are lifted, as you said, it's very liberating and the frontiers of what can be achieved in this type of relationship are expanded beyond imagination. It's for this reason that we are looking for a true connection, not just plain sex.
    We are not looking for a third in our marriage, of course, but for a friend with no just the benefits of sex but also someone that can become attracted to us as a couple, someone who can feel comfortable and make us feel the same way, someone with whom we would enjoy a good time together, not only in bed. Obviously this will always lead to a higher level of a very intimate relationship and, once we are there, the sky is the limit. We are not asking for anything exclusive beyond the simple fact of trust and mutual understanding which is required to build up this type of special friendship. We do respect your privacy and expect the same from you, after all, this is just another of the many sides of each individual life. However, said all that, it is expected from all parties a certain level of commitment to get together as often as possible and therefore availability is important to us. The frequency of our encounters will step up the speed with which we can reach a desired level of trust in between you and us.
    Now, at the same time, since this is something like a living project on itself growing in experience with every minute we spend together, we don't expect from you to perform in any way sexually or otherwise, no pressure but total relaxation, while we learn what everyone enjoys the most and discover together new venues and practices that may have never hit our brains before. Therefore we don't impose rules like no kissing or no whatever. Anything we may avoid in the beginning would be based absolutely on pure but maybe temporary physiological issues, like pain, which we don't like, or other extravagances too kinky at least for a start in a relationship. No closing any door leaves us the opportunity to explore and experiment. According to our own experience, human sexuality is like a constantly evolving organism and things that one may find repulsive today could become very pleasurable tomorrow. The question is about communication within a totally relaxed atmosphere. This is at least what we believe in and which we really want to take it further and continue this exhilarating exploration of sexuality together with a special friend. You are one of the few people who had written to us opening this type of open heart conversation about these interesting but also very private issues. Sharing them here with you I see it as a first step into building the special friendship we have been talking about. If you feel like this is something you would be interested to pursue, we would be happy to invite you to our life.
    Best regards,
    R and S
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  4. Bisexuality: Sex without borders.

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    In ancient Greece and Rome, people knew how to have a good time whenever they met for dinner and party. Just there were no borders or taboos about what they could enjoy together in bed. In threesomes or foursomes or more, the participants just followed the flow and played games together. Then the religious thing came in the middle and sex became a sin for the first time in the western world.


    Two thousand years later, in the XXI century, after the failed hippie sexual revolution of the late sixties due to economic and political reasons, western societies are starting to venture into some of the many forbidden paths in a scale never seen before. Sex is becoming mainstream in all its great diversity. Many couples are now exploring beyond the framework of the institutional marriage. However, the legacy of the forbidden is still bothering many of us and limiting the possibilities of what we can do together, three, four or more of us in bed. We do believe that some day all the gender orientation taboos will disappear for good like the stigma of bisexuality.


    Pleasure comes in many ways. Our senses are connected to our mind and the preset framework resides precisely there, influenced by the social taboos still present in our society. This subconscious state of mind is still blocking some of the many enjoyable possibilities available for more than two in bed, like the fulfilling feeling of providing pleasure for someone of the same sex. Yes, being bisexual it doesn't mean being attracted to the same sex, but being comfortable with sex in any way it can provide pleasure to the other partners and yourself. At least this what we believe and therefore willing to experiment something we are beginning to call sex without borders.


    We are relatively new in this lifestyle but we have noticed that while bisexuality among our female partners is something considered normal and even sometimes desirable, that's not the case for the male participants. Many men are still avoiding the contact with another male when in bed with women. This we found to be very ridiculous if not hilarious seeing the awkward positions some men take to stay away from the other same sex partners in bed. However, the reality is that most men are currently exploring this path of truly free sex without saying it or explicitly telling in their profiles. Preferences will always exist but it doesn't mean to deny other possible interactions when having group sex involving same sex partners. In summary, we would like to hear what the community has to say about knocking down the walls and trying truly liberating new experiences of sex without borders.

    Updated Aug 4, 2014 at 1:45 PM by Nakedfun3

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  5. Are there any people who like a man with feminine figure?

    I am currently living in South Korea and I am a gay man. When I realized that I am attracted to guys and became confident fully about my true sexual orientation, I started looking for men who want to date with me. But apparently so many gay men that I am attracted to, and who have normal manly appearance, weren't attracted to me at all... I was really frustrated. I couldn't stop thinking that I am going to live alone forever. Yeah, I know I don't have masculine looking,and super fit body. However, I was fully sure that I have androgynous beauty with feminine figure ( I'm kind of skinny) and feminine face shape. And of course, I've heard a lot that I look like a girl and I look pretty. So I am sort of self-confident about myself. However, those gay guys that I found interesting just love someone like a manly masculine, super fit, short haired guys. So I wasn't on their list. Then I tried to fix my appearance something more like masculine. I changed my hair into a very short cut ( Usually I have very long hair), and tried to act like a man . But seriously that wasn't me at all just at all !!!!. So I stopped doing the crap out of it. Then one day I met a bisexual guy who likes the way I am and my feminine-appearance-in-a-boy thing. He was a English teacher in my hometown, and a high-educated person. He was quite good looking, and calm, careful and super smart which I like most. But we didn't go well because he didn't want any kinds of serious relationships. But we had have sex quite often and I was happy that I can make someone aroused sexually and be a person who is attractive. But since then I have never met any other guys like him. So I just wander now that the man was the only person who was attracted to me and no one else may not like me in the future. I am just curious and want to have a hope for my love future. Are there some guys who find attractive from people like me?
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  6. Newbie Bicurious Married Couple

    Hello, we are a new married couple to this site, we are bi-curious and wildly imaginative sexually, we like to role play when we go camping and travel, we both like to wear panties and skirts
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  7. Husbands who cheat on their wives-Rant ahead

    Warning: rant. For the last month, I have been visiting this forum to try and gain some perspective and understanding of my husband's bisexuality. And it needs to be said: those of you that lie and cheat on your wives need to stop. I was terrified that my husband was either doing this, or will do this, because there are SO many of you that do this, and have no qualms about it. You may think you are protecting your wife. You may think you aren't hurting anyone because she doesn't know. You are lying to yourself. Take it from the straight spouse: we need to know. Will she be angry? Hurt? Absolutely. Will your marriage end? Quite possibly. Tell her anyways, she deserves to know. Love means respect and HONESTY, and sometimes honesty hurts. Stop being cowards. Stop disrespecting your wives. Cheating is cheating, you don't get a pass because it's with a man. If your wife doesn't understand, then she is not the right person for you, and that's life. You pick up the pieces and move on. But she deserves MORE than what you are giving her right now. She deserves a partner who loves her enough to tell her the truth, and she deserves a partner who is not afraid of her or the unknown.

    Reading about how so many of you deceive the woman you supposedly love has made it monumentally more difficult to believe that my husband and I will make it, that he loves me, and is still him. For those of you cheating on your wives and bragging about it on the Internet, you give all bisexuals a bad name. So just stop. You want LGBTQ equality? Then stop perpetuating negative stereotypes, and stop cheating on your wives.

    (This also pertains to women, but the number of stories I have read from men vastly out weight those from women)
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  8. fun

    My husband n I r lookin for a girl to join in on some fun if interested hmu
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