[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]After a while, I just gave up trying to figure this one out. I came to the conclusion that people go from straight to bi because they want to but it's easier on their minds to think that they were "made" to be bisexual and trying to get to the bottom of things was pretty much a waste of time since a lot of folks who did this couldn't really explain why other than, "It seemed like the right thing to do..." or something along those lines. We were with a couple one night and the other woman was sucking me and I said something like, "Yeah, suck my dick!" and the next thing I knew, her man was sucking my dick! Later, his excuse was, "Well, you told me to!" and I had said, "But I wasn't talking to you!" Miscommunication? A misunderstanding? Heat of the moment? Or did he do what something inside of him told him to do? I didn't know. But I was still pretty sure that you can't make someone bisexual unless they want to be... even if they're not aware that they wanna be. [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]What was really going on in this? I reasoned that, okay, you could "make" someone do it - still very uncool but, yeah, it can happen. What you can't do is make someone like it and while some really didn't like it - and took the "appropriate" revenge on being made to act in this way, uh, many were "made" to do it... and they just fucking loved it. And I couldn't figure out why except to think that in that moment, they had their "inner bisexual" awakened and now they're off and running making the transition from straight to bi. I remember another couple who "suddenly" turned bi... and they were happy... and unhappy. Of course, they blamed it on us and we couldn't figure out how we did that since neither of us did anything to them in that way. Indeed, I was happily eating the other woman when I felt a mouth on my dick... and I knew it wasn't my wife because, um, she was being "manhandled" by the other woman so that my wife wound up sitting on her face. The couple left a few hours later and we talked about what happened and couldn't figure out how what they did was our fault. Even I said that I could see one of them going for it... but both of them? At almost the same time? But, yeah - they accused us of making them bisexual and - get this - even came to our place to accuse us to our faces; they even "demanded" that we have sex so they could prove that they were really straight and what happened was a fluke... Yeah, right; sure it was. In the first round, they pretty much wasted us in their attempt to prove the first time was a fluke. The other woman had my wife squirting so much we had to stop to change the bed... but what got me was they were both "angry" with us for making them bi. [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]I didn't think so then and I don't think so today. I mean, you can force someone to do it - which is totall uncool - but I've been of a mind that if a "straight" person "suddenly" dives into this, there some latent potential, maybe some early exploration that got set aside and is now being revisited or, sometimes, a person just says, "Fuck it - why the hell not try it?" and they go for it... and find it to their liking. In similar settings, I've heard the other couple say stuff like, "It was the heat of the moment!" as their excuse for doing something they said they'd never do... and it's plausible, at best. And while this is kinda valid, it didn't explain why, on one night, this guy and I were watching our women go at each other and, oh, maybe two minutes in, he turns to me and says, "I think I'm gonna suck your dick..." and before I could respond, um, he was sucking my dick. It just reminded me that when you think you really know someone, you might not know them as well as you thought you did. He's blowing me and it was so shocking that the girls stopped to watch; his lady said, "I didn't even know he was into that!" and, between sucks and coming up for air, even he was saying, "I don't believe I'm doing this!" Shit... I didn't believe it either. Was it a heat of the moment kind of thing? Or was it more of a "being in the moment" kind of thing? I didn't know but what I was learning that people usually don't do stuff like this if/when they are dead-set against doing it. It's one thing to have someone "confess" that they always wanted to try it; something else when both people involved are surprised that it happens and "out of nowhere." [/SIZE][/FONT]
[FONT=verdana][SIZE=3]Even before those events and when my wife and I were playing with other couples, wow - dicks were being sucked and pussies eaten by those who, again, swore that they'd never do it and there was nothing to be gained from having sex like this. Many of these couples were people we knew... and thought we knew well. One such couple would "routinely" spout homophobic rhetoric but they were all for getting busy with another couple so we invited them to have sex with us and they eagerly accepted... like they both started undressing right there in the living room! We got into bed and the next thing my wife and I knew, the other woman was chowing down on her pussy and her husband was doing his best to suck the black right off of my cock! I remember us looking at each other for a moment and we both had that, "What the fuck?" look on our faces. It was one hell of a night and, for us, the funny part was the two of them saying, during a much needed break, "I don't know what made me do that!" I had said, "For two people who said they've never done it and never would, um, shit - y'all were amazing!" Now, in these and other such situations, were they "made" bisexual? [/SIZE][/FONT]
[SIZE=3][FONT=verdana]And I thought, "Oh, shit..." but I made an "executive decision" and whispered to her, "You know you wanna do it... so just do it..." and with the thought that if the shit hit the fan, I'd deal with it. My wife wasted no time crawling between our girlfriend's legs and gluing her face to her pussy... and our girlfriend proceeded to have some pretty mind-blowing orgasms and even surprised me by climbing onto my dick so she could be fucked and eaten at the same time. And she just took it all in stride; no complaints and all she really said was, "Can we do it like that every time?" She went from being very straight to bi and despite what she had said. I even thought that maybe she said what she did because she wanted to experience it... but I just let it go because I was relieved to not have to do any damage control behind it. A few years later, we added my long-time girlfriend to the mix and the first night her, myself and my wife made love to consummate things, the first thing my girlfriend did was go after my wife who was taken totally by surprise... and just as I was. This woman had told me that there was a time where she was interested in this but after a very bad experience, didn't revisit it... until that night. I was totally shocked to see this woman not only eat my wife senseless but she was having more fun being eaten by my wife than she ever did with me - and this woman [B]loved[/B] the way I went down on her. She told me - after the first round of sex - that I was a very good pussy-eater... but I could benefit from a few lessons from my wife. But, again, I got to see first-hand someone who was quite straight be... very not straight. I reason that because she had once wanted to experience it, she was pre-disposed for it and finally had a chance to do what she had wanted to do. [/FONT] [/SIZE]
Even though my wife and I share our bodies with others we have a select group of friends we trust and when we are both involved it’s awesome, what is such a turn on is yesterday I came home from work alittle early and did my normal routine, poured myself a bourbon and started to go to the bedroom and through the door I see her getting drilled by my buddy. She is very vocal during sex and was saying fuck that pussy you bastard, watching his ass pumping away was so freaking hot I didn’t want to interrupt and I grabbed my massive hardon and jerked off a load while watching them. They didn’t even know I was there. When he finally cummed she saw me and said come join us, holding my cum in my hand I smeared it on her face and ate her freshly soiled pussy and licked his dick clean until I got hard again and drilled her again. I can’t explain nor would I even attempt to explain the awesome nature of our relationship. For me it’s somewhat liberating not having to hide or lie about our sexual desires or exploits. But yesterday was the 1st time I have actually walked in and seeing her getting drilled. It was so hot and my cock got instantly rock hard and thinking how often does she bed our friends when I am not home. I don’t really care but it’s still a huge turn on knowing there are men who love fucking her.
[QUOTE=Maverickman66;340166]Hi guys , after I have fucked guys and I cum with them I always feel guilty because I’m married to a beautiful wife , I then say to myself not doing this again, next day I want to fuck guys again lol! Anyone else feel this way?[/QUOTE]
I have always thought about picking [SIZE=2]someone [/SIZE]up at the hotel bar and just ask to suck their cock. I never got the courage. I was afraid they would make a fuss, get noisey and be embarrassing. You hear of guys laying on their bed naked with the blinds open(ground floor) or door open trying to entice one in. Never tried that either. I'd be afraid they would rob me or kill me if I took someone back to my room. I've walked by cars in a rest are an seen guys, cock out, beating off. I admit to sucking a few of those. That would be fun to get someone who want it as much as you back to your room, but how do you know? I never really sat next to a guy long enough for the conversation to get around to bisexuality. I have tried adult theaters and bookstores, but they aren't always trustworthy. I remember sitting in a stall without a door in a movie theater men's room waiting after I wrote on the wall above the urinal: "blow job, turn around show hard". I had a few just turn around and walk over and stick their cock in my mouth. Some would flee if anyone was heard coming into the men's room, some would let me suck in front of others. Anyone have any better luck at other techniques? I don't want to fuck, just suck a nice cock.