If I still watch "Straight" porn should I only pursue women?

[80guitarguy]

Hey Everyone,

Even though I know I'm bi, I still prefer to watch naked women than naked men. Does this mean that I should focus on dating a girl because even if I had something with a guy inside I would never be fully satisfied and ultimately end up leaving him anyways?

Thanks.

[TamLin]

I don't think the sort of porn you watch is really the best indicator of who you should be dating.

Really, this isn't a difficult decision to make. If you're attracted to someone and you have good chemistry with them, then date them. Worry about who they are and how this relationship affects your lifestyle when it actually happens.

[NEPHX]

Even though I know I'm bi, I still prefer to watch naked women than naked men. Does this mean that I should focus on dating a girl because even if I had something with a guy inside I would never be fully satisfied and ultimately end up leaving him anyways?

Thanks.
Hard to say what you will do or want down the road.

I've been in LTR with both... and we overlapped in a triad for 5 years. I didn't leave either gender for another.

I like porn with MW or MMW .... looking at both the guys and the women. What originally got me wondering about my sexuality was why they didn't show more of the "guy" with the "girl" very much in the Playboy or Penthouse but then they started to all of a sudden.

The specific issue/spread that really caught my attention was called The Bluest Lagoon (might have been Penthouse). I actually threw it away eventually (and regret it but it was really old) thinking I was kinda screwed up liking to see both the guy and the girl as singular entities and together. Its still one of the hottest picture spreads I can remember.

Lately, I don't really like just guy/guy or girl/girl pron as much as MW or MMW. Real life is different.

But fantasy (Porn) is only one of the variables so I wouldn't suggest you decide what kind of LTR you want based on just porn. LTRs are based on so many other factors that are generally/typically gender-centric (although there are the intersection of the two of course).

[just4mefc]

I agree with Tamlin and Nephx porn is fantasy so relax and find someone you like.

[80guitarguy]

Awesome Advice Guys.....thanks.

[BLCHGK777]

Well went it comes to sexuality I believe it has so much fluctuation that you may feel you like one gender one day, month, or year; and the next day, month or year you'll feel different. Plus there are so many levels of bisexuality that putting it in a box is impossible.

[meteast chick]

I'm definitely gay and mostly watch lesbian porn, but still occasionally like straight porn. It means nothing, and like those before me have said, is just fantasy.

Just relax and go with it. What you pursue shouldn't be dictated by manmade enhanced women who make money for your(and my!) pleasure!!!

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