masterbation.... how do you masterbate

[rjr1227]

Ok, i know theres many many ways of masterbating. But, i often wonder how others do it as well...And, how often. More less... i try to once a day...usually in shower, but other times just while watching porn,(i try to hold off long as i can), aslo.. love to jirk off for my lover, its soo hott to do when i know someone is watching. So... my questions are... How do others do it, and what they use, how often, where and when etc?

[fredtyg]

I started a similar thread not long ago, in case you missed it:
http://main.bisexual.com/forum/showthread.php?t=8774

You mention jerking off for your lover, I did something similar that I found to be quite the turn on after I got started with it.

I was over at a girl's house. We started making out and I was a bit quick in trying to get into her pants (although it seems to me it worked before that way with her). She made it quite clear this time she wasn't interested in sex and that it wasn't going to happen.

Well, I was quite turned on and really wanted release so I asked her if she cared if I jacked off. She said that would be fine. We were in her living room so I took off my clothes and laid down in the middle of her carpet and started jacking. She sat rather impassively watching me, but she did watch me closely the whole time. For some reason that really turned me on!

I was so turned on I moaned and groaned the whole time- something I don't normally do- and finally blew my load on my belly. After I got done she asked if I'd like a towel. She brought me one. I cleaned myself off and she threw the towel in her dirty clothes hamper.

I actually thanked her for watching me. For some reason the way she stared at me expressionless while I did it made it one of the best jack offs I'd ever had. If she would of been playing with herself or otherwise acting more involved, I don't think it would of turned me on so much.

[darkeyes]

Me has nev masterbated in me life.. me knos..hard 2 believe...:rolleyes:

... now...masturbated.... :bigrin:;)

[MarieDelta]

I say something like: "Master you can't beat me as ..." oh wait you meant masturbate :rolleyes:

[llllllllll]

hmmmm how do i masturbate? usually with my hand

[twntexas]

Well... I'm anal erotic so I often have a dildo installed back there when I masturbate. I move the dildo back and forth over my prostrate while mother thumb does her thing up front. When I'm ready to cum I push the dildo in real deep to put a little pressure against the top of my colon. Then there it goes :-)

[_Joe_]

hmmmm how do i masturbate? usually with my hand


Pft, you're so old school.

[69luvr]

Well... I'm anal erotic so I often have a dildo installed back there when I masturbate. I move the dildo back and forth over my prostrate while mother thumb does her thing up front. When I'm ready to cum I push the dildo in real deep to put a little pressure against the top of my colon. Then there it goes :-)

ditto! I luv it this way too.

[dxglad]

It occurs to me that the only other time I ever posted a comment here was also to discuss my masturbation habits which is a a sad testament to how lacking my sex life is -- as far as doing it with a partner(s).

Nonetheless, I do love and appreciate the joys of masturbation more than I can adequately express.

I'm very anally erotic and so I make use of several really great high quality cyber skin dildos -- the kind that are very realistic looking. I love sucking cock and being fucked in the ass and the anatomically realistic cocks are great fuel for those fantasies.

Generally, I use a water based lube, but other times, there's something about using good old fashioned Vaseline that's really great -- they (Atroglide and Vaseline) provide subtle yet distinct sensations that are both wonderful in their own way.

I keep my cock, balls and anal area shaved clean and really enjoy the sensation of sitting on a lubricated cyber skin cock, pressing down very hard to get it in as deep as possible (it feels so good as it puts pressure on my prostate) while stroking my hard, perfectly hairless cock that's also slick with lube. This allows me to enjoy the most wonderfully filthy thoughts and fantasies. Also, I should mention that a nice tight cock ring or short length of soft nylon rope tied snuggly around my scrotum and dick really accentuates and intensifies the experience.

Of course, despite all these external methods and devices, it's the internal aspect which is the most important -- that it, the mind -- the fantasies.

The fantasies are too varied and numerous to go into but there are a few recurring favorite -- for example, I like to imagine that I'm sitting on another guys hard cock (riding it reverse cowgirl style) and that while he fucks my ass, that his female partner, wife, etc., is either just watching and urging us on, sucking my cock, or better yet, jerking another (second) guy's cock into my mouth. Back in the day when I was having sex with actual partners, I always loved to suck a guy off to completion and swallow his load-- thus, I always like to have a second clean realistic dildo nearby during masturbation so that if theres any pre-cum and the like and I'm able to get it onto that dildo, I can stick it in my mouth and taste my own cum -- I've always loved the taste of my cum -- and imagine that it's my male partner's load.

My other favorite fantasy (again, based on actual experience from the past) is to be fucked in the ass by a guy while eating and licking his wife's pussy and asshole. The taste and smell of a woman's pussy and ass is mind blowing to me -- no matter how many orgasms I've already had, that taste and smell will immediately make me rock hard again!

Anyway, you get the idea -- I'm very kinky and definitely both anally and orally obsessed -- and I enjoy every second of this kind of masturbation. Naturally, the reason I'm on this and other sites is to one day find the right MF couple to share and enjoy these sexual activities -- for real -- again.

It's been surprisingly difficult to find good people who are both nice, socially and culturally compatible, but also kinky, uninhibited and open enough for these sorts of experiences . . .

. . . but I keep hoping.

[innaminka]

Probably 95% of the time with fingers - in private.

"Charlie" in my bottom bedside drawer is quite dusty.

[Volley]

Mostly I lie on my back, stroking with one hand and pushing on my perineum with the other..
When I am feeling realy erotic, I will push a small vibrater in me while I stroke my shaft until I orgasm from deep within and shoot my load on my self.
Usually I like to massage my cum on my skin, sometimes I eat it, especially my pre-cum. :tongue:

When I am in the shower, I will use a penis shaped gel toy in my ass until I can bearly take it. Wishing I had a partner to put it, (or his), in me while in the shower.

I sometimes will fantisize about a MFM or MMM threesome, MM an MF. :three:
Some of the threads on this site get me going and will masterbate after reading them.

[Apleasureseeker]

I've done meditation things where I didn't ejaculate for several months, but I did still do sex and some jerking, just not off, I guess.
I still try not to orgasm too often, only once or twice a week, if that much. It keeps my fluid levels high andalso my hormone levels high, which turns on my latent bisexuality. I lose it when I come too much. At the same time, when I do ejaculate, I always try to force 2-3 orgasms. I nearly always do at least 2 now, they come about a minute apart. (If you haven't tried it, give it a go!).

I have a dominant streak, and I also love spending a lot of time exploring ways to pleasure and masturbate another person--and finding out how to keep them on the edge until it's almost unbearable, then pushing them hard to come several times.

Being watched was the hardest thing I ever did the first time, but such an incredible feeling. I'd rather be watched having sex, but it feels great feeling people's eyes watching semen squirting out of my and back onto me. If I'm performing for someone, I use my little finger to press on the underside of the cockshaft to compress the urethra. It makes the sperm really fly high!

I wish we could post some videos to the profiles..after writing this I want ot show off and watch.

Hey--How come more girls aren't posting?