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worldofcolors
Jan 5, 2010, 11:38 AM
I have been wanting to be with another woman for a while now and same go's for my husband he has been bi- curious for five years now. I was on the internet this morning I said to myself I'll type in the search box for bisexual.com and this where it took me I didn't know there was such a site for bisexuals wow. I think I found my root to learning more about me and my hushand in being curious. And we are both nudist and live the style of a nudist. I hope to learn more from this site.

FalconAngel
Jan 5, 2010, 1:40 PM
Welcome home.

You may want to search through the articles and threads, since there have been a lot of folks join in similar situations to yours.
We have a had a lot of newbies with questions come to us and had questions about being Bi. A lot of folks have made a lot of very good responses from their own experiences and knowledge-bases.

There is also the chatroom feature here.

So welcome and we hope that you enjoy it here.

Realist
Jan 5, 2010, 5:01 PM
Welcome!

All you have to do is ask.

Members ask all kinds of things that have been on their minds and in their hearts for a life-time.

You'll get many answers, some great, some thought-provoking, some smart-assed comments, your thread may be hijacked, or you could be irritated by a troll..................but the majority of folks here are kind, considerate and eager to help.

Pick the answers you like, fit your needs, provoke your thought process, and ignore the rest...that's what I do.

Billys_gurl
Jan 6, 2010, 1:02 AM
Hello,hello, hello. I, too, came looking. I can testify to what Realist says. People here for the most part are great. Some of them are absolutely hilarious too!!! You'll see disussions on just about everything from the most serious to the completely inane but they are honest discussions none the less. Here's hoping you meet some great people!:bounce:

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jan 6, 2010, 1:28 AM
*Waves a paw* Hi WOC. Welcome. I hope you find lots of great friends here, and will feel free to ask us any question you like. All questions will be answered openly and honestly, if they are asked in the same manner. :}
Pop into chat and see us sometime. ;)
Cat
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worldofcolors
Jan 6, 2010, 7:53 AM
Welcome home.

You may want to search through the articles and threads, since there have been a lot of folks join in similar situations to yours.
We have a had a lot of newbies with questions come to us and had questions about being Bi. A lot of folks have made a lot of very good responses from their own experiences and knowledge-bases.

There is also the chatroom feature here.

So welcome and we hope that you enjoy it here.

It all started this Christmas eve. We had a Christmas party at our home there was 15 of us we were all having a good time. Most of us had a lot to drink so as the night was ending up my husbands good friend ask him once every one leaves can he stay the night were he had to much to drink so Scott and I said to him sure you can stay overnight. Soon after that I went into the spare bedroom to make up the bed for him and get clean towels for him to get cleaned up. Just as every one has left me and my husband went to bed and hopping Mike wasn't going to be sick because he had a lot to drink. But over all it was a fun evening. The thing is were we had company staying over night my husband and I couldn't walk around naked we are a little nudist couple we are always naked. So here it was Christmas morning as I rolled over to see what time it was I went holy shit it was 9:30 we never sleep in that late. So then I woke my husband up and told him I'll go cook breakfest for us all. I got up and put my night shirt on I open the bedroom door and walk down the hall way and notice the spare bedroom door was open were mike was sleeping so I just walked by the bedroom with out even looking in. So a few min's later I walk in the hall way and couldnt help myself from peaking in to see if Mike was still here as I peaked in there mike was laying on top of the bed covers naked with a morning woodie like all men do when they wake up. His penis was so big. So then I wasn't sure what to do so I went to getmy husband to tell him how mike was laying with the door open so he could go and cover him up. Somy husband got out of bed and put his boxers on then we both walk down the hall way so my husband could see for him self and so he could cover mike up. But as my husband was looking at mike I notice that he was getting hard I wasn't sure what to think so I just said to myself whatever so then I told my husband to go in to cover him up before he wakes up. Then as my husband went to cover him up I look down at his boxers and notice he had a full hardon then my mind started to run wild. So later that evening I ask him if he like the way men look naked he said yes. So then I opened up to him and told him that I have fantasized about being with another woman. So then we sat down and I said to him can we talk and he said sure. But then I said right back to him if we talk can we be honest and open he said sure thing so I ask him if he ever been with another guy before and he said no but has always fantasized about having sex with one. Well soon as he told me that I had to tell him I have had the same thoughts about having sex with another woman to. Last night me and my husband talk for about four hours about being bi-curious. I have told him I have always been curious about being with another woman for years now. I love seeing another woman naked it really turns me on. And have even found myself masturbating thinking of having another woman going down on me. Far as my husband he has been curious from the age of 19 but never really acted on it I guess he did tell me there has been times he wanted to watch some bi-porn and same go's for me so this evening we are going to the adult store uptown to rent some bi-porn just the thought of seeing my man sucking another man drive's me nut's. I'm 38 yrs old 5'4" with a voluptuous body 220lbs with 40dd. And he is 38 5'6" 160lbs slim body in very good shape with 7inchs an cut. We are both excited about being open to one another about our fantseis of the same sex. We live a nudist life style as much as our friends are as well. The more me and my husband talk about this the more we are comfortable with one another

Realist
Jan 6, 2010, 10:40 AM
You're coming to a point where many couples either become closer, or break up. I'm happy that you are growing closer!

It's apparent that you both have been harboring the same types of feelings for same-gender contact. I find it gratifying that you've both come to accept these feelings in yourself and your partner. As you've learned, honest, open, communication is the only way to learn your lover's innermost thoughts and desires. It's wonderful that you two are able to tell what you feel. I think your relationship will grow and prosper because of that!

I think this may be an exciting and fruitful era that you're entering and I hope you explore, while being sure that you both remain safe and cautious about who you explore with.

I hope you will feel comfortable keeping us informed.

worldofcolors
Jan 6, 2010, 10:59 AM
You're coming to a point where many couples either become closer, or break up. I'm happy that you are growing closer!

It's apparent that you both have been harboring the same types of feelings for same-gender contact. I find it gratifying that you've both come to accept these feelings in yourself and your partner. As you've learned, honest, open, communication is the only way to learn your lover's innermost thoughts and desires. It's wonderful that you two are able to tell what you feel. I think your relationship will grow and prosper because of that!

I think this may be an exciting and fruitful era that you're entering and I hope you explore, while being sure that you both remain safe and cautious about who you explore with.

I hope you will feel comfortable keeping us informed.

As I said this is all new to us both. We have talk more just the other day about our feelings. We plan on renting some bi porn this evening or even some gay porn. I would love to see some of that kinda porn. Just the thought of seeing the same sex enjoy on another get's us both quivering with desire.

pelokwin
Jan 6, 2010, 11:01 AM
:bigrin:WELCOME!!!:bigrin:
:grouphug:

csreef
Jan 6, 2010, 3:59 PM
Wow great story--- Welcome home !

Ever since I started to post on this message board, It has helped me greatly to accept myself as Bisexual & to know that I'm not alone...:three: