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scooter6749
Nov 15, 2009, 10:39 PM
How do you like a big kiss with the tongue with the same sex? How do feel about a lot of foreplay?

mikey3000
Nov 15, 2009, 10:50 PM
Love it and love it!!!

djones
Nov 16, 2009, 1:39 AM
i understand why some people don't like to kiss the same sex - don't want an emotional involvement, and kissing is more emotionally intimate than a lot of other things !

however - kissing is so sexual and such an intense physical sensation - i am all for it - and long deep kissing at that. let foreplay last and last - builds the intensity of main attraction !

halobeam
Nov 16, 2009, 1:58 AM
Kissing is the best feeling ever...I am in a same sex relationship so I can say that I love it...

upones
Nov 16, 2009, 7:12 AM
i prefer lots of foreplay(kissing, nipple play, digital exploration) when enjoying mm sex. but dont demand it

PrettyFlowingGown
Nov 16, 2009, 7:33 AM
I love Kissing and alot of touching. Sometimes I find that more arousing than intercourse.

bi42guy1958
Nov 16, 2009, 8:30 AM
Ive never had the desire to kiss another man, really always been turned off from the thought. But as I grow in my bi sexuality Im wondering what it would be like to have a guy inside me while on my back and him facing me to reach up and kiss him!:tong:

Realist
Nov 16, 2009, 8:36 AM
I have been in both loving and platonic sexual relationships and prefer the loving ones. Some guys are very good kissers! My GF would not be in a platonic, non-kissing, relationship with another lady.

jamieknyc
Nov 16, 2009, 11:31 AM
I loved it! What impressed me the most about kissing another man was how natural it felt doing it.

still_shy
Nov 16, 2009, 12:33 PM
I LOVE kissing both sexes...there's something incredibly revealing about a kiss! It's one of my all time favorite sexual things to do :)

mikey3000
Nov 16, 2009, 12:40 PM
I loved it! What impressed me the most about kissing another man was how natural it felt doing it.
Yes, you are right. I was shocked at how "right" it felt. Difinitely my second most favourite thing to do to a guy :bigrin:.

from_here
Nov 16, 2009, 12:57 PM
I think it depends on the moment. I have kissed same sex in the past it was hot, others it sucked. That also goes with women, it depends on how the person kisses.

A lot of guys don't like kissing other guy, however they don't mind sucking their dicks. It's kind of ironic, don't you think?

12voltman59
Nov 16, 2009, 1:27 PM
A lot of guys don't like kissing other guy, however they don't mind sucking their dicks. It's kind of ironic, don't you think?

Agreed!!! Doesn't make much sense to me--but then for some guys it is mostly likely the case that if you suck their cock and they don't suck yours--and sure don't kiss--they aren't in any way "gay!"

Even if they do suck cock---as long as they don't do anything "emotional" then they are not "queer" with kissing being something along those lines.

Bi_Druid
Nov 16, 2009, 1:38 PM
If it's someone I'm prepared to just kiss to start with, then lets do it properly and go all the way

quiet1fornow
Nov 16, 2009, 2:32 PM
Agree with Volty and from here...
If one or actually two people, in this case or more :-) have agreed to enjoy and share...to me there is not the need or should not be the need for a "pre-nup;" as to who gets to do or keep what. It is an agreement mutually agreeable and I would presuppose the desires and wishes and goals would be similar or no need to worry anyway...but that may just be me.....

I am not casual about sensuality...regardless of partner. I am somewhat or mostly intense and willing to release the hold backs of passions that I want/wish to!! Is that ambiguous or ambivalent or ambidextorous or is it abbey...abbey abbey normal enough?

If the person I am wishing to share with does not want to share... I might assume a game of trivial pursuit or canasta will be out shortly or perhaps a bottle of Jack Daniels....I wash my cock off more than I brush my teeth some days...is that a reason they will suck me off and not kiss me??

Q:cool:

BfloBiFun
Nov 16, 2009, 2:34 PM
At first i had no interest or desire to kiss another guy when having sex, But that has changed after this one guy just started to suck my face, tongue and all. Now I get into it, with the right guy, and the sexual passion get hot.:tong:

open2both
Nov 16, 2009, 2:38 PM
Why WOULDN'T you?
Kissing rocks my WORLD!!

cpracer
Nov 16, 2009, 3:28 PM
love to do a lot of kissing with both sex it is a great start for any sex play

purplespider
Nov 16, 2009, 3:32 PM
I might add my personal two cents.. from the person who doesnt always enjoy kissing..that with the right person..it can seriously rock!

Kissing enhances certain feelings..with the correct person..be they man or woman...

Cute subject....

Nadir
Nov 16, 2009, 4:02 PM
Letīs see,my first kiss with a guy was more or less at the age of 17 years, and we were playing "spinning the bottle" at a beach party...I know itīs not the best of examples, and the guy was not a particularly good kisser,so...XD However, after that one, I had plenty of passionate kisses with guys, some of them very intense. I like when they have a five-o-clock beard, all raspy against my skin and lips...and sometimes it drives me crazy that they touch me and kiss me at the same time :P

ZepZep
Nov 16, 2009, 4:07 PM
Oh yeah so hot. My buddy and I love to kiss passionately. I practically jump his face when I first see him again. I love his beard so much. Can't get enough. Kissing and oral are such fun .. .. back and forth .. .. hmmmm. Love to lick his neck and face too!!! Yum.

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Nov 16, 2009, 4:52 PM
Is it gettin' warm in here?? lol
Hugs
Cat

littlerayofsunshine
Nov 16, 2009, 5:44 PM
MMMmmmm. Nothing warms my vagina faster than a sensual kiss that starts off light, warm and tender, then grows and gets more intense, taking my breath away. I have full lips that have needs too :) .

Mmonty
Nov 16, 2009, 7:16 PM
I don't think there is as much of an issue of women kissing women. They seem to take to it pretty well. (Just opinion, I could be very wrong).
I've not been too interested in kissing other men but have briefly on a couple of occasions....but only once really felt compelled to kiss a guy just like a woman. It was great. He was a bit effeminate , so that may be what made it work.

NJ Mac
Nov 17, 2009, 12:38 AM
I wouldn't have sex with someone who won't make out with me. It's one of the best things in life.

Volley
Nov 17, 2009, 1:08 AM
Kissing, soft, gentle, sweet, long, deep, passionate, are all types of man/man kissing I enjoy. It is great way to start a session. And to kiss long deeply after you cum in each other's mouth.....It doesn't get any better than that.:tongue:

eddy10
Nov 17, 2009, 1:44 AM
I put my X in both 'yes' boxes.

discreetbi
Nov 17, 2009, 7:13 AM
love it,kissing another guy is the best!!

foreverbi
Nov 17, 2009, 11:34 AM
I always thought kissing (no matter what sex) was just a part of love making .:male:

csreef
Nov 17, 2009, 9:22 PM
Kissing, necking , God I love it with a man, its stronger with a man...

jem_is_bi
Nov 17, 2009, 10:30 PM
I am not sure why, but I do not love kissing men or women on the mouth.

But, I very much love kissing on the neck.
And, I do enjoy kissing most everywhere else.
And, I do love to hug and caress.
And, I do love the awareness of the warmth of his cheek pressed against mine as we embrace and entwine our bodies, especially, in the afterglow of the fiery climax of satisfying of our sexual desires.

desertofwater
Nov 18, 2009, 4:55 AM
i love it with same sexx... bcozz itsss more passionate thenw ith the women...

newlifeat38
Nov 18, 2009, 5:52 PM
How do you like a big kiss with the tongue with the same sex? How do feel about a lot of foreplay?

I feel that kissing is where foreplay begins and, quite honestly, can't wait to experience thoroughly/mutually kissing another man...and...

Kinkybiguy7
Nov 18, 2009, 8:20 PM
I find 2 guys kissing a major turn off for me, but I would try 2 cocks in my ass at once while sucking another....Strange I guess. Love 2 girls kissing though

fairbankswingers
Nov 18, 2009, 10:12 PM
we both totally love it and feel it needs to be a part of our friendship with the other person of the same or heck opposite sex

Caibree
Nov 19, 2009, 4:50 PM
I love kissing, be it a man or woman. I love it when someone knows how to kiss well. I love it when they bite my lower lip.

I find it kissing very intimate and sexy.

Foreplay is definitely fun and can lead to amazing things.

elian
Nov 19, 2009, 8:57 PM
Love necking and mouthing a lot, love nuzzly little kisses - open mouth kissing I've never really been fond of with either sex - however, my BF is working hard to change that. To really ENJOY such a kiss I think you have to just completely relax - and that's hard for me to do sometimes.

Bi-Zarro
Nov 19, 2009, 11:13 PM
I wouldn't have sex with someone who won't make out with me. It's one of the best things in life.

Don't worry, Mac, I'd make out with you in a heartbeat ;)

hairyman43
Nov 20, 2009, 12:12 AM
I love kissing! Kissing is so intimate and sensual. I love the intense feelings/sensations from kissing. It is very personal and kissing on the mouth leads me to kissing other areas :). I do not care about the gender of the person I am kissing because I am in the moment and only concentrating on pleasing my partner.

ready5858
Nov 20, 2009, 12:32 PM
Did it for the first time during a threeway a couple of years ago and than again a couple of months ago. This last time was just some quick tongue play to get started. I do not plan on it if it happens just go with the flow and move on to other play.

switchit
Nov 20, 2009, 2:53 PM
Can't deal with kissing a man. But l can put his cock in my mouth, and with pleasure. Kissing only feels right with the opposite sex, for me.

MissLadybug
Nov 20, 2009, 4:13 PM
I love kissing, no matter it's a guy or girl.

Very sexy and sensual.

zorica2010
Nov 20, 2009, 5:08 PM
GOD love it....

Raysallover
Nov 22, 2009, 4:16 PM
I LOVE kissing both sexes...there's something incredibly revealing about a kiss! It's one of my all time favorite sexual things to do :)

I totally agree! kissing is the best and kissing a girl feels so soft^^

coyotedude
Nov 22, 2009, 6:11 PM
I love to kiss, either same or different gender. And what's not to love about foreplay?

Peace

runningnaked
Nov 23, 2009, 9:20 PM
i understand why some people don't like to kiss the same sex - don't want an emotional involvement, and kissing is more emotionally intimate than a lot of other things !



however - kissing is so sexual and such an intense physical sensation - i am all for it - and long deep kissing at that. let foreplay last and last - builds the intensity of main attraction !


not wanting an emotional involvement really has nothing to do with it for me..


I just can't explain it except I'll say this ,, I LOVE kissing a woman ,, OMG it's so good and Very stimulating and I can know that it helps fuel the passion between the two or three(lol) during sex ,, I LOVE the scent of a woman, the sweet feminine smell the soft feel ,,,, it just does it real good for me...

BUT when I try to give in and give it a shot with a guy I gotta tell ya the over whelming masculine scent is just to much for me,, and there got to be an attraction to the particular person I'm involved with to rather I'll do much back,, << yes I'm a little picky and very proud of it, I don't care if I offend someone because a bit pickyI'm just not one thats easy to get intimate with..



I might add my personal two cents.. from the person who doesnt always enjoy kissing..that with the right person..it can seriously rock!

Kissing enhances certain feelings..with the correct person..be they man or woman...

Cute subject....


I can't wait to finally find that special one that I can really open up with and fully enjoy the love that can be


very interesting subject,, theres a few harsh comments toward people that are want to take that step ,,, I respect anyones decision whatever it may be... but I wanted to comment anyway..

bimeornot
Nov 23, 2009, 9:59 PM
I love the feeling of kissing and touching each other. I also love to hug.

roy m cox
Nov 24, 2009, 12:50 AM
wish i could be able to kiss mouth problems wont let me :(

tho be for all the problems i my boy friend sucked me off and shared it with me and i loved that cuzz it was the first time i ever did that i just wish i can do that one more time ;_;

upones
Nov 24, 2009, 6:53 AM
kissing touching major part of foreplay for me open mouth nipple play or anyway

the sacred night
Nov 24, 2009, 5:37 PM
I like making out better than sex, and I need to get a feel for you sexually and learn to trust you with my body before sex can happen.

kenny
Nov 25, 2009, 3:10 AM
I have always contended that sex is more of physical act and kissing is more of an intimate act. For me it was true. I have sucked many cocks in 30 years and recently told a guy I was with that I had never kissed a guy. He said, "Kiss me". I did and hated it! I like the softness of a womans face and this was not it. I will stay below the waistline with a guy.

djones
Nov 25, 2009, 5:17 PM
I have a comment on this thread already, but I am so interested to learn all of the other reasons people have posted for, and against, kissing same sex partners.

Thanks for all the insight everyone is sharing - vive la dfferance !

DJ

Realist
Nov 26, 2009, 8:39 AM
Funny!

As one who has a short/trimmed beard, I am attracted mostly to guys who are smooth.

Hypocritical? No, I think just different strokes.

I don't have platonic, mindless, sex with anyone, anymore......so I don't think I could get aroused by anyone I couldn't kiss.

nuthugger
Nov 26, 2009, 10:48 PM
lots of kissing and lots foreplay. pre-cum like wine tasting:)

goldenfinger
Nov 27, 2009, 5:37 AM
I have yet to have actually tried anything with a man. For me, most of my fantasies are from the chest down and have never had a male 'face' in my bedtime stories. I am unsure if I want to kiss a man because that is a far more intimate thing than sex, and I'm still trying to figure out where I am on the whole issue.

And now for my own bit of hypocrisy. I wear a beard (mostly because without it I look wrong). But, I don't think I could kiss a man with a beard. Whiskers on a guy just doesn't do it for me.

Which reminds me of "Much Ado About Nothing", the old Shakespeare Play.
Beatrice speaks of not wanting a husband, neither with a beard or without. Speaking of one without:

"What should I do with him? Dress him in my apparel and
make him my waiting gentlewoman? He that hath a beard
is more than a youth, and he that hath no beard is less than
a man; and he that is more than a youth is not for me, and
he that is less than a man, I am not for him."

When I taught this to my students this year, I found hidden meaning in Bill's words, and grinned the whole time.

Pasadenacpl

Same goes for me and a lot of other guys.

hornyd0055
Nov 30, 2009, 12:09 PM
IT GREAT I LOVE DOING IT.

Biboz49
Nov 30, 2009, 9:30 PM
Ohhhh kissing and foreplay love it! Makes me so hot. Even watching gets me going. :three:

JohniBi
Dec 2, 2009, 12:42 AM
I can't kiss a guy if he hasn't shaved, I mean like no stubble, or I get really turned off no matter how cute he is.

rissababynta
Dec 4, 2009, 9:11 AM
Go back into your closet us out and proud GLB people do not want people like you out.

Your voice does not speak for all of us so don't try to speak as if it does.