View Full Version : BIG or small penis for anal SEX? which do you think is better?
diget
Oct 3, 2009, 6:02 AM
so what do you think is better for anal sex? a big dick or a small one judging bi pleasure.:bigrin:
twntexas
Oct 3, 2009, 9:52 AM
Big ol' good ones or good ol' big ones are what i prefer for anal sex. Thick is good :-) For someone new to anal penetration, a small one makes sense though.
rick1958
Oct 3, 2009, 11:04 AM
rcdoak@gmail.com ill take all cock big or small ill suck an fuck them all
roy m cox
Oct 3, 2009, 2:20 PM
mmmmm a nice big one for me :bigrin: small ones are good for sucking tho :bigrin:
:bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::bounce::b ounce::bounce:
:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride::bipr ide:
ready5858
Oct 3, 2009, 8:56 PM
Never had any one bigger than 7-8 inches so I can't say. My first one was about 4-5 inches and it was fun and comfortable, the 8 incher was really great and would LOVE to have it again, been in search of bigger ones to try out, any takers?????
CanIb88
Oct 3, 2009, 9:05 PM
I have only had avarage sized dick. I woud love to have sex with a 8inch of more cock.:bipride:
Realist
Oct 3, 2009, 10:26 PM
Best male lover I ever had was a short, smooth, chubby, blond fellow, who was endowed with about 3 1/2". My fist is exactly 4" across and I could cover it all in my hand. He was magnificent; clean, smart, funny and exceptionally sensual.
I haven't been with many guys, but I'd choose him over all the rest. My attraction to guys never was all about the cock, anyway, but his was perfect, in every way for me.
Justin Chad Taylor
Oct 3, 2009, 10:40 PM
;)It dosn't matter if it is big or small:bipride:It is how you use it:bibounce:
chick_a_dee
Oct 3, 2009, 11:56 PM
A very good friend of mine has a very nice cock about 6 inches. What's nice about it is that the base of the cock is much wider then the head, somewhat tapered. It's very easy to take him in and when he buries his cock, it's fantastic?
Studley2000
Oct 4, 2009, 12:26 AM
Personally I prefer small ones. Big ones are ok...but often getting past the pain is a bit much:three:
diget
Oct 4, 2009, 3:03 AM
i Just noticed this but does the dude holding the whale cock in the ppicture i posted have a giant whale condom in his right hand?:eek2:........wow dude i think it is a giant whale condom.:)
roy m cox
Oct 4, 2009, 4:58 AM
i Just noticed this but does the dude holding the whale cock in the ppicture i posted have a giant whale condom in his right hand?:eek2:........wow dude i think it is a giant whale condom.:)
no its for collecting semen :bigrin: saw a thing on pbs one night about it :tong:
:bipride::bipride::bipride::bipride:
sabastien
Oct 4, 2009, 5:59 AM
I prefer an average cock around 6 inch with plenty of lube, too small and you don’t receive the benefit, too large and the pain can be too much.
jimisbi
Oct 10, 2009, 5:42 PM
rcdoak@gmail.com ill take all cock big or small ill suck an fuck them all
Me too. I love any size of cock.
guycurious
Oct 11, 2009, 10:22 AM
For me, the thicker the better. I can only handle about 6-7" of length.
READYUC238
Oct 12, 2009, 6:29 AM
I MYSELF LIKE A COCK IN THE SIX TO SEVEN INCH RANGE WITH PLENTY OF GIRTH.
I TELL YOU THE ATTITUDE OF THE INDIVIDUAL IS IMPORTANT WHEN HE IS GOING TO TOP YOU. I LIKE A GUY THAT TAKES HIS TIME. ENDULGES IN RIMMING ME AND USES A ADEQUATE AMOUNT OF LUBRICATION.
I LOVE TO BE FUCKED SLOWLY, ENJOYING THE INITIAL INSERTION OF THAT COCKHEAD SENDS CHILLS ALL OVER MY BODY, AND WHEN HE BEGINS THE SLOW STROKING TO THE HILT, IT MAKES ME DIZZY WITH DESIRE FOR HIM TO FILL ME UP. ESPECIALLLY IF I CAN GET IN RYTHUM SQUEEZING HIS COCK AS IT PULLS OUT AND RELAXING AS HE ENTERS ME. WHAT A WONDERFUL FEELING.
I WILL NOT TURN DOWN ANY SIZE COCK IF HE HAS THE RIGHT ATTITUDE TOWARD FUCKING ME. I LIKE THE EXPERIENCE TO BE FUN AN SATISFYING
innaminka
Oct 12, 2009, 7:16 AM
Interesting that all but one of the replies is from guys.......
....maybe a (mature) woman's perspective.
Vaginal penetration is about exactly that - pentration. The feeling of two being one joined at the pubis. 90% of our (female) pleasure nerves are either at the entrance or just inside our vaginas - guys, we are actually quite devoid of a lot of feeling deep inside
Therefore, it really doesn't matter, though occasionally a really deep penetration by a long penis gives greater meaning to being joined.
Anal however, is different: there are trillions of the the little nerve ending EVERYWHERE. Its completely about sensation. Okay, I don't have a prostate, so I miss out on that little thrill, but the real pleasure from anal penetration is the deep ache it causes; it does amazing things even though it probably borders on "pain" rather than pleasure.
For this reason, something that is a snug fit is most suitable - too long or too thick can push the "pain is pleasure" barrier a little too far into the "Red Zone."
But don't ever worry about too big. Its amazing what our bodies can take inside them - its just can you tolerate it?
Realist
Oct 12, 2009, 9:35 AM
Glad to see a lady's perspective.
My first wife was the first lady to initiate anal sex with me. Especially, when she was on her period, she craved it. I found it amazing that she could experience an orgasm that way. In my memory, there's only 3 who desired anal.
So, in my experience, it's rare for women to feel the desire for anal.
During a relationship with a married couple, I participated in a double entry for her, which she wanted from time to time. That was very erotic!
I will say that for me the feminine derriere is the most appealing and when they desire anal, the aesthetics are much more thrilling!
Of my male lovers, about half were desirous of anal.
Personally, I do NOT want to be rimmed, nor will I do it.
I do not crave receiving anal, but have allowed two male lovers that entry, because I cared deeply for them and wanted to please them.
welickit
Oct 12, 2009, 9:46 AM
About any cock that is over three inches long but I tend to prefer thin over thick. Both of our strapon's are rather thick and work fine, but for the real thing thin feels better.
sailorashore
Feb 3, 2013, 4:45 AM
Anal penetration is my favorite part of male sex, and I'm a little crazy for it because I avoided it for so long. My first was over just as I was beginning to enjoy it, and the second was just too thick, and I couldn't relax enough to accommodate him. It was a long time before I met up with a man with a long, but slender, penis. I was in heaven. You can keep your thick cocks--a sweet lad to stroke me with his magic wand, now that's pleasure!
twoforone16
Feb 3, 2013, 3:33 PM
I like any and all cock never been with any one with less than 5 inches. Thick or thin both is OK with me it is all about how it is used.
SabrinasSlave
Feb 4, 2013, 6:29 PM
I prefer small if it is going in my ass. I have not had a real one there yet, but the strapons are almost all too big. 7 inches or more and you're in my colon already. :)
willscox
Feb 4, 2013, 7:34 PM
I have only had anal sex a couple of times, one with a long slender cock and one with a 7" thick strap-on. The first one was painful because the guy just wanted to shove it in, but I have to admit when he finally got it in and got it going it felt fine!!! A couple of months ago, my friend surprised me with the strap-on and he was gentle getting started but once he had it in he really gave it a good pounding. There was a little pain at times when he drove it all into me but overall it was very pleasurable and now I really want it again. Hopefully it will happen again soon.
void()
Feb 5, 2013, 1:02 AM
Undecided, not had all the penis out there to form an adequate opinion. :)
easilyused
Feb 5, 2013, 1:33 AM
I've always liked the bigger ones, but at times wonder just how big of something can I take....wouldn't have to be a dick.
Tulsatomcat
Feb 5, 2013, 6:59 AM
I like a small dick in my ass,
under seven is really a blast!
It hits me so nicely,
on my prostate it's icy,
and I cum like a girl with my ass!
good93
Feb 6, 2013, 12:40 AM
Hmm that's a tough question. I would go for a small size penis to start off with. Then slowly increase the size.
bi4asplay
Apr 6, 2015, 10:51 AM
I much prefer long and thick. How ever if I can not have both give me thick, as long as it is long enough to hit my P Spot.
BiDresser
Apr 6, 2015, 4:55 PM
I'm with you READYUC238. It's the attitude that makes the moment erotic. I've used dildo's on myself and have taken upwards of an hour before I let myself go, relishing the feel of it as it slides in and out. Still looking for the right man to give myself to.
pole_smoker
Apr 6, 2015, 5:03 PM
Anal penetration is my favorite part of male sex, and I'm a little crazy for it because I avoided it for so long. My first was over just as I was beginning to enjoy it, and the second was just too thick, and I couldn't relax enough to accommodate him. It was a long time before I met up with a man with a long, but slender, penis. I was in heaven. You can keep your thick cocks--a sweet lad to stroke me with his magic wand, now that's pleasure!
Is that how you transmit herpes and other STDs to women and men?
robert4friends
Apr 7, 2015, 7:08 AM
For me a larger cock is better for anal. I let any size do it if the guy really enjoys it. There is pleasure in watching a man cum inside you. I have not found a size limit yet for a real cock. As long as he is gentle coming in I am going to have a good time. I understand what many women talk about though. He usually comes at about the time I am getting warmed up. For strap-ons 8" is the limit because they are not bendy enough and the lady cannot feel what is going on inside me. I like strap-ons because they do not allow you to close at all and I like the feeling of being held wide open.
itzhcrissytho
Apr 7, 2015, 12:00 PM
big is better more hot and sexy