that guy gave me a look

[joshuasalam]

i was at wallgreens today when this hawt guy checking me out eye raped me! what am i suppose to do in that situation?!? give him my number right there?!? there's people behind me waiting to check out and it happened so quick im thinking maybe i was imagining it, but before i leave i look back and he's totally checking me out! im kinda shy in the first place but what the hell am i suppose to do? maybe shoulda smiled at him instead of stupidly staring at him. i dno just wanted to know what you guys woulda done.

[fredtyg]

Good question. What do you do when things happen so fast like that? Easy for me to say but, if I had the presence of mind, at the very least I think I'd have walked up to him, written down my phone number and given it to him saying something like, "Maybe we could chat sometime?".

That's for lack of knowing what else to say and it would leave it up to him to make the next move. He could either start talking to you right then and there, or call you later.

I've had a couple of similar situations. In one, I ran into one of the hottest guys I'd ever seen. This was at a Rite- Aid drug store and I think he was talking to a homo I knew outside just a few minutes earlier. At least I think it was him. I couldn't see him too well outside.

I'm at the back of the store and turn to head to the check out line and here comes this hottie approaching me. He had ear rings in each ear, a necklace and was one of the hottest guys I'd ever seen. Our eyes met and he just kept looking deep into my eyes. No doubt in my mind he was an available homo.

I was stunned and didn't know how to react. I just kept walking telling myself that was the hottest guy I'd ever seen. I haven't seen him since and am kicking myself in the head for not saying something. If I could do it over again I'd like to think I'd have stopped, walked back to him and said, "Sorry to bother you, but you're one of the most attractive guys I've ever seen. How do you do it?", and see where it might go from there. Again, easy for me to say while sitting here.

Another guy I already mentioned. He was actually older than me but I thought he was younger. I was working at his mother's house. He came up to me for no apparent reason and just started talking about things I thought were a bit odd- a bit too personal for a first time meeting. In the back of my mind I was thinking he's not a bad looking guy and I wouldn't mind a taste of him.

He went on talking and asked me if I'd lived here my whole life as he had. Without thinking, I blew it and told him that, while I hadn't my wife had. He seemed to immediately lose interest and ended the conversation somewhat abruptly.

That still bugs me cause he's one of the few men I've seen my age or older I found sexually attractive. If I had to do that one again I would of just told him I hadn't lived here all my life (leave the wife out of it) and then asked him where I might have seen him before (not sure I'd seen him before but I wonder if he'd seen me?). If he didn't have an answer, I'd ask him if he used to go to the local steam baths- an old homo hangout (maybe that's where he'd seen me before and thus approached me this time?). If he said he had, then I'd know it was a pretty sure thing he was a homo and I could cut to the chase in talking with him.

I know where he lives and works. One of these days I'll make a point to get near him and ask; "You know, since we met at your mother's old house, I've been swearing to myself I've seen you elsewhere long ago. Have any idea where? Did you used to hang at the steam baths..."?

That's my plan, anyway.

[Realist]

Ah, you're young, you'll figure it out. Hell, if you're like I was, no one could tell you anything, anyway. If you do listen to those who make sense, you're already ahead of me at that age.

I don't get looks like that guy gave you anymore, but I did at one time. My GF thinks I'm cute, but that's not helping you, any. If anyone is really scoping you out like that, I'm sure he'd be very happy if you'd said something to him. Take a chance and say hi, at least. A smile and acting like you're interested, can lead to some great times, I know!

Don't waste your youth and vitality on being too shy...you have to reach out a little. Trust me, if he's looking that strongly, he's interested!

Good luck!

[Cherokee_Mountaincat]

lol I dont know bout you men, but a flirty wink and a naughty grin works for this shy old Country Girl....lol
Silly Cat

[mikey3000]

Dude, you know where he works. Go back!!! I've been hit on like that and worse, but all three times I had my kids with me!! Talk about balls.

[roy m cox]

well be glad he only looked at you and did not grab or grope you,, :eek:



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[MickeyJohnson]

i was at wallgreens today when this hawt guy checking me out eye raped me! what am i suppose to do in that situation?!? give him my number right there?!? there's people behind me waiting to check out and it happened so quick im thinking maybe i was imagining it, but before i leave i look back and he's totally checking me out! im kinda shy in the first place but what the hell am i suppose to do? maybe shoulda smiled at him instead of stupidly staring at him. i dno just wanted to know what you guys woulda done.

as i started to grow and mature i slowly began to notice guys checking me out. It was weird and at first i thought it was all in my head but then i realized that most guys give the same look when they see someone attractive, their face changes. Its almost a surprised expression :eek:. sometimes guys walking with their Gf's look very hard too. this younger kid from my high school was one of those ones that was ALWAYS with his Gf. He'd give me a very obvious long stare down right in my face id smile and hed smile and look away. im surprised his girl didnt notice. its strange cuz i dont even think im that good looking.
Neways, i nver know what to do. Smiling and winking does seem like a good idea. Its so subtle, no onell notice unless thaey want to notice it. put on a real big, homo smile :bigrin:

[eddy10]

I find a smile to be the best hello. I would only warn you that there are also a lot of "bad" folks out there. So, don't just go from a smile to jumping in bed. Scope it out as best you can. Be friends first.