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matt777
Jun 24, 2009, 1:43 PM
I am a gay-to-bi male (happened later for me about 2 yrs ago, I am 45). I currently have a male partner, but have a girlfriend too who is introducing me to str8 sex. My male partner knows and we are all friends, but my girlfriend is helping me to explore. I actually am liking str8 sex better that m/m sex. Go figure....? Don't know where this is going, but I feel like I may have been latently "more str8" than gay and maybe didn't know it. Wherever it goes, I have been honest with everyone involved. I'm getting the cold shoulder, though, from some of my gay guy friends. If I was str8, and starting to go for men, I think they would be all for it. Questions or comments welcome.-Matt

DiamondDog
Jun 24, 2009, 2:39 PM
Welcome to the site.

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jun 24, 2009, 2:48 PM
Then they werent good friends in the first place, Darlin. If you choose to explore all faucets of your life and sexuality it should be no ones buisness but your own and your lovers. :}
Have fun, be safe and dont worry bout thecthoughts of other people. Just be true to your own feelings. :}
Welcome to the Family. :}
Cat
Everybodys Feline.

jeancarleo
Jun 24, 2009, 4:35 PM
u'r not the only one who's gay before feeling attracted to the opposite sex.

as for gay friends: if they are truly ur friends they would accept no matter what.

been there, done that ;)

littlerayofsunshine
Jun 24, 2009, 5:53 PM
Welcome hun :) The more the merrier. Hope you enjoy the site:bigrin: