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altbinary
Jun 17, 2009, 4:01 PM
I know a woman who has two houseboys who come in a couple times a week to clean her house and do her laundry. They do this for the pleasure of being allowed to sniff her underwear. No sex or money involved.

Now I wonder if I can get a houseboy to clean house for me in exchange for me using them for sex.

I'm told there are a lot of young--and not so young--men who have a fetish for this sort of thing. Anybody have any experience along these lines?

DiamondDog
Jun 17, 2009, 4:20 PM
Anything's possible.

I know of an older Master who had his male consensual slaves do His yardwork totally naked.

That being said, BDSM and having a consensual submissive/slave/etc. is not all about "using someone for sex" or just about having them do housework you do not want to do.

It's not as simple as having a person clean your house and then they get to smell your underwear or see you naked, or you get to use them for sex.

What if they intentionally make a mess and refuse to work so you'll discipline them? What will you do then?

Also despite what you think even people who want to be consensual slaves don't always want to be under a Master's control 24/7 like you read about in erotica or see in movies like Pulp Fiction. Sometimes they just want to be a consensual slave during sex and nothing more.

I suggest that you learn more about these types of relationships and how people greatly negociate them and even write up contracts of what they will do, and will not do, and how the person who is the submissive/slave can leave at any time he/she/they want to, for any reason.

altbinary
Jun 18, 2009, 11:14 AM
That's kind of unethical.
Examine your motives.
You say you want an exchange.
It is very clear what you want is to control another human being for your amusement.
Why not become a politician instead?
This control and manipulation instinct is not inherently evil.
But do something more useful with it than this high school-ish nonsense.
Harmless power is an oxymoron :P

Well, you have heart, you mean well. After you gain some experience in life, you should discover a bit more about what is, and what is not, ethical. Do a little research on this topic and you will find that there are very many males and females who are extremely submissive in nature. They take their greatest pleasure in this role. The houseboy role is different than the role of a sex slave, though some individuals assume both roles. The details of what is expected of them, as well as what they can expect in return, are painstakingly hammered out between the two parties and are the subject the subject of serious negotiations.

The dominant/submissive psychology can be a bewildering study that on close examination is de facto the opposite of what it appears on the surface. If you are interested in getting a little more--but by no means all--understanding of the dom/sub relationship, go here (http://boymasterx.com/houseboy.php).

cand86
Jun 18, 2009, 1:27 PM
Diamond Dog has said everything important and serious . . . so I'm just going to inject a bit of humor here:

Roommating: Sex Slave (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Inp-VPhm8s)