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Apleasureseeker
Jan 6, 2009, 4:02 AM
Just wondering!
I'm bi curious, but not active. This year I'd really like to get comfortable enough to delve a little more deeply.

I'd like more sex and more adventures of all sorts, but I'd also really like to find one guy I click with to explore on a semi-regular basis, who has the same passions, ans inhibitions as I do.

What are yours?

wefco2315
Jan 6, 2009, 7:54 AM
Count me in with the same theme...

Long time curious, long time held back the feelinfs and desires...and finally said that's it I have to explore these desires.

Wife does not know, can't know, so it is not making things much easier...But....I am going to follow through this year

bimarried40m
Jan 6, 2009, 11:56 AM
I am bisexual, but have not been with a man for a couple of years. Being married with a wife that does not understand the bisexual thing, caution is important; but I still have the desires and don't want to keep them bottled up. My wife & I have a wonderful relationship that I don't want to mess up. I guess the thing that would be the best is to find a guy to be able to hang around and do things with, but also play at times sexually.

DiamondDog
Jan 6, 2009, 5:00 PM
I don't make new year's goals or resolutions.

guycurious
Jan 6, 2009, 7:59 PM
My resolution was too cut out internet porn. Started spending way too much time watching it.

jem_is_bi
Jan 6, 2009, 11:41 PM
No resolutions, but I have goals. However, my goals are not synchronized with the calendar year.

DubTak
Jan 7, 2009, 1:30 AM
My non-bi related goals:

-get brain in order

-become employed

-finish a semester

-pay off fiancee's ring

Bi related goals:

-go to BiFriendly and/or bi support groups in SF bay area

-go on date (with fiancee's permission) with man

-get sexed by said man

-and last but not least: come out

-DubTak:flag4:

donnydarko
Jan 17, 2009, 12:28 PM
well lets see its been forever since i made a friend so.....i hope this year to meet a bi person LOL like in my school

still_shy
Jan 17, 2009, 3:47 PM
These all seem to run along the same lines as my resolutions

1. Find a girl-friend who wants to have fun, no games or bullshit
2. Stop smoking
3. Lose a little weight

_Joe_
Jan 17, 2009, 3:49 PM
I'd like to get my crohns under control and/or change my meds so I can remain stable and yet not give up my sex drive. I haven't had one for years and sorta miss it immensly.

Lonewolf76
Jan 19, 2009, 4:14 PM
Good question! I would second Apleasureseekers response. I came out last June. I had always fought back the bi feelings. Last year I hit 50, was going through a divorce and decided to embrace my bisexuality instead of beating it back down inside me. My goals for 2009 are to further explore my sexuality and actually take it all the way to actually having sex with a man and to get more involved in the LGBT community so that I surround myself with like minded people. Thanks for asking!:)