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betterbimorning
Dec 22, 2008, 11:58 AM
Does anyone else have kids know you are bi? How did they react? How did they find out?

Bi Boi Indiana
Dec 22, 2008, 1:24 PM
I Straight UP Told Our Kids ..... They were 16 & 17 at the time, And they both took the news quite Well ..... Especially my Daughter because she herself Also Likes Girls .. Along with the boys!

I Was afraid of what my son would think, but to date he's really Not giving me any trouble about it, Come Christmas Day that may change tho, as Both my kids and their Significant other's will be at our house Along with My Wife and I's Male Lover .... So I'll get to see first hand how the kids React to Him and Then Us Being Around & With Him ......

Kids are pretty understanding Individuals ... I Hope your Kids are as Supporting with your Life as Mine has Been ...... It's a great feeling to know your kids Love you UNCONDITIONALLY Even if you do Love someone of the same sex ...... It's such a great feeling! =)

Merry christmas Everyone & Happy new Year

~BILL~ :santa:

Isaac Steel
Dec 22, 2008, 2:47 PM
My kids are too young, 7 and 10, but I plan to tell hem in a few years if they don't find out earlier.

_Joe_
Dec 22, 2008, 3:08 PM
It's not something I ever considered....

And don't see why they need to know really.

BiBear4U
Dec 22, 2008, 3:24 PM
My wife is Str8 and I'm Bi, we have a special friend, more than a casual hook-up buddy, but less than a partner. We have been together since February and it became impossible to hide it from our children.

We are out to our entire family, Parents, Brother-In-Law, Sister-In-Law, and all but one of our children, (24 yo Daughter, 22 yo Daughter and 21 yo Son) Our 13 yo still is not aware of the depth of our friendship with our boyfried but knows he is a friend.

All of our Children, unconditionally accepted us for who we are, and accepted me as Bi, they don't really want to know details,but they know he is our boyfirend and they know I am Bi. We have gone places in public with our boyfirend and they have met us for dinner. I don't think they really like it but they accept us. If we ever find a true partner to add to our family I think they will accept us.

Our other family members give lip service to accepting our life style, but I don't think they really do, they just will not excommunicate us from the family but I think they all wish our lifestyle was different.

trubipoly
Dec 22, 2008, 4:19 PM
My children know that we are both bi and couldnt tell you how they reacted since we have always taught them to have open minds and have been open about who we are. Isaac steel i dont think 7 and 10 is too young to let your children know it is ok to Love whether it be with a man or a woman. it is the Love you are telling them about not the sexual acts you enjoy.