Discoveries about yourself....masochism? Your kidding....lol

[mindfinding]

Stumbling upon little things about yourself is very fun indeed. These little gems that make up who we are, they are beautiful to some extent I guess.

On that note,.....
I always though masochists were odd. I wasn't into judging them, I just thought the idea of pain to pleasure would some how have to be limited in the normal human mind.
And then I find out I'm into some of these things and they push me over the top........and how! I'm not into the leather stuff, but the pain aspect of things has been very intriguing. Certain buttons that can just...ya know?

The more I discover, the less I know. So, anyone else find these little gems about themselves?

[MissyMissy]

uhhhhhhh huhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
miss missy

[DiamondDog]

Where do you like/crave pain and what sort of sensation is it?

I happen to love leather but it's not for everyone and just because someone is into leather it doesn't mean they're into BDSM and vice versa.

[Stargazer1417]

I always though masochists were odd. I wasn't into judging them, I just thought the idea of pain to pleasure would some how have to be limited in the normal human mind.
And then I find out I'm into some of these things and they push me over the top........and how! I'm not into the leather stuff, but the pain aspect of things has been very intriguing. Certain buttons that can just...ya know?

I know the idea seems odd, and maybe its not for everyone but... well, for me its a combination of things. First and foremost, its different. Its kind of a thrilling change of pace, something new to spice things up and I always love that. Second, I really enjoy the whole submissive thing... always have. Its lovely how submission and pain go together in many situations. You can even get really creative and throw in some role playing... My point, I guess, is that while it is a little difficult to consider if you've never tried it, there is so much you can do with it, to so many varying degrees, and its just a fabulous way to kind of switch things up and have a little fun. :2cents:

[mindfinding]

Where do you like/crave pain and what sort of sensation is it?

I happen to love leather but it's not for everyone and just because someone is into leather it doesn't mean they're into BDSM and vice versa.

I'm still only finding out more about it, but nails sunk deep into the chest is one of them. And some of the other kinds...lol...ok, I can't mention it, but it feels great. HAHAHA! I'm shy. But I can say, I'm not really into hard torture or anything like that, though nails sunk into your chest could seem that way. But my chest seems to love it...amongst other parts of my body.
Whips and pain toys I'm not so sure I'm into, but there is a very beautiful balance at climax where pleasure and pain meet.

Is your leather love the fetish kind? I've seen documentaries on the people with leather fetish's, it seem very niche to every person for the kinds they like.

[mindfinding]

My point, I guess, is that while it is a little difficult to consider if you've never tried it, there is so much you can do with it, to so many varying degrees, and its just a fabulous way to kind of switch things up and have a little fun. :2cents:

Absolutely. I agree!

[DiamondDog]

I'm still only finding out more about it, but nails sunk deep into the chest is one of them. And some of the other kinds...lol...ok, I can't mention it, but it feels great. HAHAHA! I'm shy. But I can say, I'm not really into hard torture or anything like that, though nails sunk into your chest could seem that way. But my chest seems to love it...amongst other parts of my body.
Whips and pain toys I'm not so sure I'm into, but there is a very beautiful balance at climax where pleasure and pain meet.

Is your leather love the fetish kind? I've seen documentaries on the people with leather fetish's, it seem very niche to every person for the kinds they like.

You asked so I'm writing about it.

Let's see, I enjoy the following sensations, none of these are typos:
Being flogged, whipped, paddled, having my genitals tied up/restrained/stretched with rope/leather, having my nipples bit/twisted/scratched/pulled, having my body restrained with rope/metal restraints or just a man's hands, blindfolds, having my ears bit/licked by men, having a man wearing leather gloves lightly choke me/face slap me/put his gloved fingers into my mouth-or even his bare fingers/having him spank and wrestle me wearing the leather gloves/having him put his gloved hand over my mouth, having warm/hot candle wax dripped onto my feet/genitals/back/hands, swallowing a guy's spit when we get verbal and just to be romantic, having my big thick cock with a foreskin nibbled on and pulled, putting clothespins on my penis/balls/other parts of my body, having my balls stretched by hand/mouth/with leather-I also love to stretch a man's balls these ways, getting my neck kissed/bit, getting my body scratched with a man's nails/scratchy objects, getting a forced facial hair trim/forced haircut while I'm tied up or blindfolded, the feeling of the warm lit end of cigarette/cigar against my nipples, having my anus (the outside) slapped with leather, feeling rope/leather/metal restraining my genitals, wearing a parachute with weights or a gates of hell, having a crop used on my body so it feels like I'm being kissed by leather, and I'd probably enjoy being lightly stepped on by a guy wearing boots! I also have some vampire gloves that were a present from a submissive, and the gloves have small prickly metal points on them and they scratch the skin and tickle but don't make it bleed.

I also enjoy doing all of these things to other people if they want it and are into it, and I don't have to do all of these things all the time I have sex.

I've never done E-stim or electro stimulation but many have and I can see just why they're into it.

I've gut punched/tackled men before since they wanted it done by a younger dominant guy, or because they're into being punched, and while I'm not into getting this done I'm OK with doing it to a guy if he wants it done.

If a guy I cared about wanted to hold the cold blade of a buck knife against my throat or nipples without cutting me at all during sex I'd find this hot.

Having a guy cut my clothes off or rip them off would be sexy and I fantasize about doing this to certain men.

I don't identify as a submissive/masochist because I'm more on the dominant side in that I prefer and like to give sensations to people in SM and I know what it feels like to get these sensations. Also I can do both roles of the Sadist and masochist and both of the Dominant and submissive. This is all done SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual), safewords are established/available for use, and we talk and communicate afterwards.

If I were with a male partner and we were both into safely piercing I'd enjoy both giving and reciving a ritualistic piercing, such as the ears or nipples. I have no desire to get any genital piercings as I'm not cut and unmutilated already so I'm going to keep my penis fully intact with a foreskin and no genital piercings.

As far as my leather fetish goes I've always been attracted to men wearing leather, denim, and in uniforms and even as a kid in elementary school I remember being in the men's room of a mall and seeing/hearing/watching (but not looking at his cock) a man with long hair/facial hair, and in full snakeskin (jacket, hat, boots, and chaps/pants) pissing and he had a hunting knife off to his side and he was one of the sexiest people I'd EVER seen at the time!

I also enjoy having sex while I only wear leather, my partner only does, or we both do. The same goes for seeing men in denim and wearing denim during sex as this goes great with piss or W/S!

[MaybeSayMaybe]

If you really want to get yourself tortured just get a job in Hollywood. There's just something about that place...

[ris19]

I've grown to loving pain during sexual fun. And my girlfriend has gotten into it aswell.