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ayoungmom20
Nov 18, 2008, 4:03 PM
when i look at porn i get horny, weather it just be two guys or men and a girl, either way i get horny. and i love gay guy porn, i think its hot, but i dont get turned on when i see other girls walking down the street ya know? but i do like tits and stuff. help..

DiamondDog
Nov 18, 2008, 7:07 PM
Only you know if you are or aren't, or if you're even comfortable with putting yourself into a box/category like that.

Don't sweat it/lose sleep over it, and just remember that sexual orientation labels are pointless nowadays and going more and more by the wayside.

Here's a fun little quiz/tool you can try out. It shouldn't tell you anything you don't already know. While some of the questions/wording are weird (like for example the questions about the sexuality of other people who you know/hang out with) as well as the numbered scale which can easily be changed and change the answers/numbers you get, it can be fun just to try out.

http://www.technostud.com/public/newsite/klein.html

Realist
Nov 18, 2008, 7:32 PM
I have an female friend who is bisexual and she is crazy about women's bodies, too. If we're out and she sees a lady with great cleavage, nipples showing through her blouse, or a particularly nice butt, she never fails to point her out to me. She enjoys tasteful (her words) porn, too, especially if it has a believable story line. She actually does not like the label "Bisexual"; she says she is attracted to bodies, minds and personalities....in that order

Apleasureseeker
Nov 18, 2008, 8:52 PM
when i look at porn i get horny, weather it just be two guys or men and a girl, either way i get horny. and i love gay guy porn, i think its hot, but i dont get turned on when i see other girls walking down the street ya know? but i do like tits and stuff. help..

First: Do you want to be bisexual?

99% of all straight guys love lesbians, but they're not bi.
A lot of guys idolize guys like Ron Jeremy & other horse-hung porn actors, but they're not bi either.

I've been working on my bi-identity, but I don't get attracted to other guys, I'm just curious to explore the sexuality. In fact, it's my confidence in my hterosexuality that gives me the confidence to consider oral sex with another guy (and I'd LOVE you to watch!). I can't connect emotionally with another guy, and I don;t want to kiss one. And i know there alre a lot of other guys who feel the same way.

Even if you're straight, you're allowed to explore and fantasize. There are also a LOT of straight women who've had sex swith another woman, and not just teenage practice-kissing and groping.

So, what do you think?

69luvr
Jun 18, 2010, 4:55 PM
when i look at porn i get horny, weather it just be two guys or men and a girl, either way i get horny. and i love gay guy porn, i think its hot, but i dont get turned on when i see other girls walking down the street ya know? but i do like tits and stuff. help..

I think you know yourself better then we do. I think most of us get horny watching porn. You did not mention if you have ever watched girl on girl porn. If so, its a complete turnon for me. You might enjoy it too. I love watching m-on-m porn too. Id suggest that you try to watch girls kissing each othyer earnestly. That is very much a turn on. Then you will know almost for sure. you will know when you decide to try it. Thats the only way. If you like tits and stuff you are almost there!

just4mefc
Jun 18, 2010, 6:23 PM
I agree with others here, only you can know if you are Bi, gay str8 or even need to be labeled at all. For what it's worth

from the APA (American Psychological Association)
Sexual orientation is an enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or affectional attraction toward others. It is easily distinguished from other components of sexuality including biological sex, gender identity (the psychological sense of being male or female), and the social gender role (adherence to cultural norms for feminine and masculine behavior).

Sexual orientation exists along a continuum that ranges from exclusive heterosexuality to exclusive homosexuality and includes various forms of bisexuality. Bisexual persons can experience sexual, emotional, and affectional attraction to both their own sex and the opposite sex. Persons with a homosexual orientation are sometimes referred to as gay (both men and women) or as lesbian (women only).

Sexual orientation is different from sexual behavior because it refers to feelings and self-concept. Individuals may or may not express their sexual orientation in their behaviors.


Or perhaps you just have an active fantasy life :-) Enjoy the exploration ;-)