View Full Version : How do couples go about adding that extra male in their life?
Mystic
May 25, 2008, 7:03 PM
(It would be interesting to learn how you as a couple would go about adding that extra male in your life) I've always found that once the outside contact has been made and a little chemistry has been felt, it is a matter of learning the expectations and desires of each other. I've always liked to have all three get naked, lay on the bed with the female in the middle, and a male on each side of her. Then let your imagination take hold by touching and kissing each other, until an arousel or instinct takes place that is accepted by the other. The rest will all become history, with a beautiful experience.
someotherguy
May 25, 2008, 9:00 PM
One way is to cruise hotel hallways. Wear sneakers and wait for some guy to go into his room. Slip in behind him. When he is setting down his luggage, slide into bed and wait. Don't wear anything that jingles or clanks. Then when he turns around, both of you wave at him and smile. He will probably go for it.
chick_a_dee
May 25, 2008, 9:14 PM
Alot of factors are involved when we know we'd like a particular man to join us in our bedroom. First and foremost is that we both have to agree on that person. We both have to want sex with this man. His appearance, how he carries himself. Both of us can usually decided who's all talk and no show. A BS'er doesn't make points with us. Personality is a good trait to make us feel comfortable with them. Another thing is how much interest the gentleman directs towards us and if he can have a good discussion on all topics. A sense of humor is good becuase everyone can relax after a good laugh. And, finally to be able to talk openly about sex and what everyone likes and dislikes. After that it's time to play....
Annika L
May 25, 2008, 10:22 PM
One way is to cruise hotel hallways. Wear sneakers and wait for some guy to go into his room. Slip in behind him. When he is setting down his luggage, slide into bed and wait. Don't wear anything that jingles or clanks. Then when he turns around, both of you wave at him and smile. He will probably go for it.
Sneakers can still squeak (and they always get tangled in the sheets)...I suggest going barefoot. :tong:
someotherguy
May 25, 2008, 11:07 PM
I defer to the voice of experience.:bigrin:
DiamondDog
May 26, 2008, 11:14 PM
One way is to cruise hotel hallways. Wear sneakers and wait for some guy to go into his room. Slip in behind him. When he is setting down his luggage, slide into bed and wait. Don't wear anything that jingles or clanks. Then when he turns around, both of you wave at him and smile. He will probably go for it.
Add in gloves/other items of leather clothing, a hot man with facial hair, rope, a consensual kidnapping scene, and a blindfold and I'm there if you're both hot/my type, SSC (safe/sane/consensual enough), and quiet enough!
BothBi420
May 27, 2008, 6:01 AM
As a couple we have had a few mmf 3ways, most of them with bi guys but, we did meet a couple of straight guys that ended up being a lot of fun, too. It just depended on what we were in the mood for that night!
When finding a guy, you must first decide what you want out of a guy that night. Do you want a guy who is more gay than straight or are you just wanting to double team your girl. Then there is the matter of being attracted to the person. Do you and your partner agree on what you are looking for in a man? You should work all of this out in advance. Then, place an ad online. There are tons of places, we have found some fun guys on craigslist.org and is free. Make sure to be as detailed as possible! Be prepared for a lot of replys, we usually get 20-50 within the first 30-45 min., once we have found 5 or so good posible guys, we reply to them all, asking each the same questions, what they are into, what wont they do, when are they free, also asking to see their pics, etc.
After that it is usually pretty easy to pick one out!
Just make sure that you both agree on the guy and be safe when meeting him. From personal experience, be sure to talk to this person in a public place for a few minutes before you invite them back to get naked. Make sure that they are who they said they were online.
So....Good Luck & Happy Hunting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!