Squirting

[Promising Galahad]

Is this something all girls do? It really is a turn on and I am curious if its something that can either be taught or if there is something a guy can do to help.I've been dating this girl for 5 months and we finally had sex last week. I think waiting and building a relationship and an emotional bond makes the sex that much better.Anyway, we've been having sex atleast once a day for the past week and this morning she came more than usual.I was just curious if it is possible for her to squirt or spray. Thanks!

[Bluebiyou]

Yes.
From experience.
Yes. Quite posssible, I've experienced it. It's true.

[Promising Galahad]

Thanks! Is there anything a guy can do to help? I thought about maybe massaging her g spot to help stimulate it with my fingers.

[ladymozart]

Hi Galahad
its very possible I squirt and spray all the time.
It is done by stimulating the clitoris until she gets hyper sensitive.
You can also stimulate her g spot. I can squirt during intercourse if i am on top and i contract my pubic muscles as the guy is thrusting in to me.
he is more than likely hitting my g spot when he is thrusting and i am contracting.
Anyways it is possible and i do it all the time. Actually it is very hard for me to cum without squirting.
hope this helps
ladymozart:bibounce:

[bigirl_inwv]

Yep. Very true. I do it sometimes, mostly only when my g-spot is being stimulated. For women who've never done it before...it can be taught. Mostly by starting out in the tub or with towels underneath you. When you feel the build up of an orgasm, push out like you would if you were peeing. (If your bladder is full...its likely that it may be urine....but once you get the hang of letting go you can urinate prior to intercourse)

Don't let the movies fool you though. Most women don't squirt like you see in porn videos. There may be some spray...but it's not going to shoot 30 feet across a room. lol.

[DiamondDog]

If you're practising and she pees on you, no big deal. Piss and W/S is fun!

[Tingly_Tickles]

Wow yea the w/s thing not my type of fun really but on the other hand making a woman squirt oh what fun that is.

Tip massage her clitoris make sure it stays wet if her clit gets dried out it won't
be any fun for her.
Try to stay in one direction with it when it gets close then when she starts to
squirt apply a bit more pressure as you rub back and forth in the same direction.

Keeping with the direction will help it trust me I do this almost every time my
wife and I have sex and she squirts 100% of the time I do it.

I usually start off by oral then working with the fingers on the clit I use a side to
side motion so that way she does spray it everywhere.

I can say that not every woman sprays all the way across the room but damn if
I haven't gotten them all close to it.

So far I've tested this on four different women and every one of them were
able to do this so I would say give it your best and you just might give her something
that no one else has.

Practice makes perfect, note she might think that she's urinating on you at
first but just assure her that it's something totally different.

Here's the wiki on it just in case you want some reading materials
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_ejaculation or download a video and last
but not least get a small vibrator for clitoral stimulation one that moves
extremely fast is best.

[rissababynta]

yes all women can squirt, some just don't do it naturally. it can either just happen or it can be taught. from my experience of research in the area, it seems that the majority of the women experience squirting when the g-spot and clitoris are being stimulated at the same time. the woman will feel a sensation of having to urinate from the pressure of the g-spot. this is the reason why it does not work for many women because they get that feeling and they decide to stop because of the fear that they will pee all over their partner.

there are many MANY sites you can check out about squirting. you'd be surprised what comes up when you google it.

[anteak]

I've had 2 ladies squirt while I was eating their pussies, one was my wife and the other my GF. I was surprised when it happened and pulled back thinking they were peeing. I realised it wasn't urine because of the taste but it was to late to get my mouth back over their pussies and enjoy the ejaculate. I have tasted my oun urine and that of my GF, I used to lick her as she sat in a chaise lounge and peed. I once had her urinate in a cup and I drank it. I once asked my wife if I could lick her pussie as she sat on the toilet and peed. She acted like I was some kind of pervert and said NO, when I asked my GF her reply was "how do we do it"??? How I miss them :-(

[liquidcandycain]

i once thought it was a myth for porno's until i saw a xrated documentory made by a sex therapist who was also a obgyn doctor and he found tfemale test subjects most whom clame to never have had a vaginal orgasim and he showed a technech to cause a woman to cum so hard she squirted most of the girls passed out during this now mind you i have only met one person who could do this but from what he was teaching it is possable for allmost anywoman to i dont remember the name cause me and the wife would love to find it again i do know it was not a scam it was a acual medical sex therapist i just cant remember his name

[Promising Galahad]

Thanks for the replies! Yesterday morning when having sex she left a HUGE puddle in my sheets. She felt so bad, I felt bad that she felt bad. I actually liked it and we got talking about squirting. She thought it was pee,but it had no odor and was sort of thick, but she said it felt like pee. I told her I didnt think it was but if so, I wouldn't care. I think you know you've found someone special when nothing they do disgusts you. I was so turned on when I saw that puddle, I can't begin to tell you.Thanks again!

[**Peg**]

http://www.redtube.com/6105

[liquidcandycain]

nope not pee man lol its kinda the same substance that makes her wet the first time my ex had it happen she was imbarresed i told her no and the more we tried to get her off that way the stronger her orgasims came and she finally got to the point where she could controll (ie if she didnt want to wet the bed ) it i mean its awsome but with anything to much kinda takes the fun out of it right but the more we tried the stronger they got but theres absolutly nothing your girl should be embarrased about its part of you guys becomming closer sexually wich will make you guys closer right there shoudl me more couples trying to get this close and wed not have such a high divorce rate ya know cause if you can talk about this then you can talk about anything and communication is the language of love ;)

[RockGardener]

Just thought I'd put my :2cents: in. I am a squirter. When I was with my husband for twenty years, I rarely squirted and that was only in the past 5 years or so. It just takes excitement and desire to squirt. I squirt every time, multiple times, with my current guys. I can squirt in any position. I used to squirt only during manual stimulation, but now, I squirt during intercourse, too.

So there's my two cents!

And if you don't believe me, I have references. :tong:

[Angel443]

;)I did want to state that any woman can learn this, you have the Right Idea, talk to her, so she knows you are okay with it. Then together try to explore it. Like anything sexual if it is interesting to the person it is worth pursueing. By example some men like anal stimulation while with a woman, some don't. Some women like anal sex, some just like to try it one time.
My wife has squirted, but can't do it all the time, or more likely we just haven't learned how to get it to happen. So we are careful and try when it is appropriate.
We have read alot of info about it, and the bare down like peeing, and constant pressure seem to the best advice.
Take your time, enjoy the practice and Don't feel pressure to get it done everytime!

Michael and JoAnne

[Promising Galahad]

Hey thanks! We're gonna starting practicing tonight! LOL! I'm gonna show her this thread (and hope she doesn't kill me) Thanks for the advice and help everyone! Have a Happy New Year!! :flag4:

[TaylorMade]

Good luck, PG... don't get her too intoxicated, just get her to relax... maybe a backrub would be good for her too. :)

*Taylor*

[Promising Galahad]

Thanks. Neither of us drink, so no problem there. I have chocolate covered strawberrys and whipped cream in a can. I wish I had some oysters. They are by far one of my favorite foods(anyone surprised?) I rented some old movies and have her favorite cd's ready to play. I'm all set. My massages take hours and I hope she is okay with me taking my time. I love to pamper others rather than being pampered myself (is that weird?) Anyways, I'm looking forward to staying in tonight and sleeping in tomorrow.

[innaminka]

i alwas thought squirting was a myth -esp as most pornos which feature it are totally faked.
...........however.......
In latter years (I wonder if its a side-benefit of maturity??) I have definitely changed my mind.
No, i haven't sent a spray metres across a room, not even feet, but when the time is right and everything clicks, something that isn't pee dribbles freely from my urethra just immediately prior to, and during orgasm.
The feeling is far more intense and centralised in my genitals than a normal "O" which tends to sweep all over me.
I have also been with other women who have experienced much the same thing; from tiny dribbles, to significant wateriness. (still no projectile spraying, however :bigrin:)
We all agree that its different, that the feelings are intense and localised and that it happens rarely more than often - but when it doess........ just my :2cents:

[Sapphrodite]

Well I'm relatively new to the realm of being a squirter, only having done it since May 07. Since someone kindly 'taught' me how, I hope that I can capably pass on that invaluable information!!! LMAO!!!!

I find that the best way to describe the sensation of a regular female orgasm is similar to the feeling you get when you swallow a mouthful of hot tea/coffee: the sensation feels like it's being spread outwards inside you. Usually women tighten up and 'draw' inwards when they have a regular orgasm, which is a necessity regarding Nature's main purpose for sex, being procreation. But a female ejaculation is more of a bearing down (or pushing out) feeling that one has to get used to the series of different sensations and relax before the big squirt will happen.

The most important thing for the woman receiving to remember is Relax: Set yourself up to be comfortable and just go with the flow. Make your bathroom trip at the start, and dont be embarassed to stop for another one midway - we're not used to having pressure build up that isnt related to urination, but if you simply go to the bathroom the first few times you feel it, then you'll soon stop worrying about it being 'pee'. Find a comfortable position, put on some mood lighting/music, have a folded towel under your buttocks, and for heavens sake, just let go - the more you dont think about it and just let it happen, the sooner you will recognize your own body's signals and you'll be able to repeat it over and over.

The most important thing for the Giver to remember is Patience: It's not a sure-fire thing in the beginning and you'll have to go against the urge to fall back on tried & true methods of getting her off. It's a completely different experience for her, like the difference between manual and oral stimulation doing different things with similar end results, (for those men who have experienced pspot stimulation, you may better understand). Get in a comfortable position where you can easily change hands if one gets tired: a very intimate position is to sit between her legs with the backs of her thighs on resting on the tops of yours so you can communicate easily, with or without words. Pay attention to her involuntary movements such as twinges and bearing down -these are precursors to the 'Big O'... and if it doesnt work out the first time, dont worry - the more you are able to practice without expectations, the sooner you'll need a squeegee in your bedroom!!

Everyone knows about the 'spongy bit' on the upper vaginal wall, etc - but as a starting point, if you put in a finger and massage upwards in a circular motion (as if massaging her inside underneath her clit) then you're certain to find the right spot for your lady friend. I personally found that not having my clit stimulated (at first anyway) made the gspot easier to find and therefore easier to focus on the right area. I find it's the perfect way to start foreplay, since it's a longer more intimate process that can wind a gal up, not to mention little need for lube.

The textured g-spot pad will start to get firmer as the gland fills with fluid and the gal may feel like she has to 'go' so feel free to stop and so she can relieve herself - Dont Worry ladies, it wont release the liquids or pressure from this spot, so go pee and hurry back to bed. It's best to start off with your fingers until you learn how, so you know exactly how much pressure, etc for future adventures. Stay firmly inside her versus 'pumping' in and out to maintain consistant g-spot contact. If you keep stimulating this spot, she will start to feel the involuntary urge to bear down or push out in small contraction-like twinges... simply relax and just let your body follow these signals (dont worry, it's all part of the process).

Dont feel the need to add any additional stimulation, just keep the massage consistant; although I have found that light pressure with the heel of your hand onto her pelvic bone just above her clit is very pleasurable without any direct stimulation. These sensations will become more frequent and each one will be slightly longer in duration until finally she had her g-spot orgasm.

If you feel like you want to 'push' the liquid out but cant seem to, get your partner to drop their wrist down lower, so that their finger is not pressing along the top of your vaginal canal, but only the last inch is massaging your gspot. Sometimes even the slightest pressure against the area where it rushes out can interrupt its flow. Gals: if you feel like you had might have had an orgasm (an intense, long bearing-down) but nothing comes out, just ask your partner to keep going, you'll probably squirt the next time you bear down. Partner: if she has an extended bearing down that feels like she's going to push your finger(s) out, gently press back and maintain your massage because she's really close.

Well, I've pretty much exhausted my knowledge of the subject... all I can do is keep thanking the wonderful person who taught me ~sighs~ Good luck, and dont forget your towel... LOL!!!!