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jackloafer
Oct 18, 2007, 4:46 AM
Hey everyone, I know there are loads of posts on here from bi or bi-curious guys talking about coming out to their girlfriends/wives, but I was wondering what actually happened in these situations afterwards? Do they let you go off and have fun, watch bi porn, or do they help in a different way? Getting more curious here and had a lil experience many years ago, but don't know whether to tell my gf I'm curious or not....I know for certain she wants to have a little experiment (3some with me). Wouldn't mind just watching porn with a guy at first to be honest, no touching...no cheating eh!

Also as a little add on to this post, managed to lick my own cock last night, anyone else ever managed this? Lol

Jack

musqrat
Oct 18, 2007, 6:03 AM
If you're thinking about coming out to your gf I think the best bet is to talk about bisexuality, or male/male sexuality, in the general sense first. See if she freaks out about that first.

Also, it's important to distinguish between bisexuality as "I'm attracted to guys as well as women" or "I want to have sex with a guy in addition to you." If the latter, do you want a relationship with a guy or just sex?

One thing though. It's usually a good thing in a relationship to open up and share your inner secrets. Intimacy doesn't just mean sex...

liamt
Oct 18, 2007, 9:30 AM
I came out to my wife recently, and to my surprise she was completely cool about it. We now watch video together, our lines of comunication have opened more, we scope the "cute guys", and are actively searching for men and women for each of respectively. So coming out to her was the greatest thing for us both. No lying hiding or cheating.