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jazzer

Oct 16, 2005, 6:31 AM

Many women on this site say that it is not the size of a man's fiddle but the tune that he plays with it that is important, which is really great, but how do men feel when they want to play a tune on another man's fiddle. Is size or appearance important?
When your male partner finally drops his trousers what are you hoping to see? What will really get you excited. OK guys let's hear what really turns your crank.

Cheers Jazzer :tongue:

nycMan51

Oct 16, 2005, 7:52 AM

I like it medium to below average so I can get it all the way in. But I do like a nice natural bush.

Tom41bimwm

Oct 16, 2005, 8:04 AM

I don't mind a 5 to 8 incher to play with. Now if your gonna talk about MONSTER COCKS, then no, I'll only look at them!! LOL Thickness wise, I'm not really into cocks that are like soda cans. My preference is a circumsized one. And it can't be too curved. Picky ain't I?? LOL

m.in.heels&hose

Oct 16, 2005, 10:04 AM

Hello jazzer
for me, i like an average sized "fiddle" and the i like the girth to be about average also just as long it can feel comfortable and does not make breathing difficult (lol) :tong:

what is fun for me is to "feel" it grow in my mouth, to me this is the most fun, and it also tells me that i am going a good job! :tong:

and besides, isnt it all about the cream filling? :drool:

and as far as "monster cocks" go, i have only had one once! and then i could not sit down for the better part of a week!!!! :yikes2:
:bibounce: m.in.heels&hose :bibounce:

codybear3

Oct 16, 2005, 5:05 PM

I guess the average size does the trick. I guess that would make it anywhere from 6 to 8 inches and meaty thick. But as long as it does what its supposed to, I would not mind giving up "sitting down" for a week...LOL...MIHH, in the end, that was funny...er, slight pun intented. :bigrin:

I also had a gay friend say...LONG AND THIN GOES DEEP WITHIN, BUT SHORT AND THICK IS WHAT DOES THE TRICK...
:bigrin: :paw: :paw: :paw: :paw:

IceLion

Oct 16, 2005, 5:29 PM

I love a man who is between 6-7 inches. HAS to be cut, I had a REALLY bad experience with a guy who wasn't cut and his lack of hygiene. Trimmed pubes, but not shaved; bald just doesn't look good on a guy. Anymore than 7" is realy a waste for me, being a top.

-IceLion :bipride:

jo69guy

Oct 17, 2005, 7:46 AM

Mt partner is average 6"-7". I have no desire to try anthing huge! I have done up to 8", and it was difficult, and even to painful at times. :2cents:

Michael623

Oct 17, 2005, 8:22 AM

I have never been with a man. Visually for me it is the shape of the cock, i like a bigger head, big balls. I can't say that seeing a big cock isn't a turn on.

photogr

Oct 17, 2005, 8:56 AM

I love all those greek & roman statues, little equipment with great potential! I have had only one below average cock to play with (and in my mouth) and it was great, all the others were bigger than average. The owner apologised before I exposed it (he wanted me to undress him see) but it was a little beauty and balls to match. He spunked better than some of the bigger ones too! I could get the whole of it my mouth, unlike like the bigger boys. I would except it whatever the size, but it also depends on the owner.

Damon

Oct 17, 2005, 10:48 AM

It's great talking about other people's equipment big or small.. but what about when you yourself suffer from the wrath of being well-endowed..

"What!!" you all ask.. I have a standard size of 7.5" and over 8" on a good day and its also very thick. I cant begin to remember how many female partners i have lost over this, or rather, had to turn away. I mean they all tell me my sheer thickness hits every spot for them and thats good to know but what about me! Hitting every spot for them means physical pain for me.. Its not easy stuffing a sensitive piece of your body into someone else when the circumference of one is bigger than the circumference of the other so you can imagine how annoying it is to be a top man with guys! This also means its difficult for me wearing condoms as well.. because of my thickness they really f**cking hurt and that is NOT a turn-on for me so as you can see in my case im screwed both ways and not in the ways i want to be..

Now how do you get past that..?

And im talking about penetration here.. no amount of foreplay n massaging and oral is gonna compensate for a good fuck!

With regards to my preferences i prefer anything over 5.5 inches with decent girth (no pencil-dicks) :) un-cut and the surrounding property should be trimmed, not shaven or bushy..

Damon

Biboz49

Oct 17, 2005, 8:29 PM

I had not considered that being huge would be such a problem Damon.

Personally I prefer small to average size as it's easier to get it all... yum! and definitely shaved smooth and cut. That look just turns me on. Looks like i'm picky too! lol :bigrin:

jabgic

Oct 17, 2005, 8:38 PM

if we are talking about oral any thing is good as long as it is clean and hard and full of a good cream filling :tongue: . when it comes to getting fucked I have not tried any really huge dicks and I am not sure I would want to. the biggest cock I have had in my ass wa about 7" and about 1.75" in diameter; that was tough getting in. I really feel sorry for guys with really big dicks they don't have the options us regular average guys have. :bibounce: :tong:

rayosytruenos

Oct 17, 2005, 11:13 PM

[...] HAS to be cut, I had a REALLY bad experience with a guy who wasn't cut and his lack of hygiene. Trimmed pubes, but not shaved; bald just doesn't look good on a guy. Anymore than 7" is realy a waste for me, being a top.

-IceLion :bipride:

Hi!

Well, about uncutness and lack of hygiene... I do understand a preference for cut/uncut dicks, but hygiene is a personal thing, and goes with the individual, not with the existence of foreskin...

Actually I think that for that reason it's even easier to identify an uncut guy with low levels of hygiene than a cut one, just retract his foreskin to show his glans... If it has that cheesy stuff, just run away to the first loo to puke... :( Although I've read in some ads where some sleazy guys are into that too... :eek: (Eeeewwww, sorry but I prefer my guys coming out of the shower, or even better, being both in the shower... :tong: )

I'm also a top, but I like to hold something tight and feel the pleasure I'm giving, and the handle is a good way to check it... :bigrin: and yeah, I think that big dicked guys begging to have a dick up their asses is a waste... :rolleyes: but it's their decision... ;)

All the best,

ray

rayosytruenos

Oct 17, 2005, 11:59 PM

[...] "What!!" you all ask.. I have a standard size of 7.5" and over 8" on a good day and its also very thick. I cant begin to remember how many female partners i have lost over this, or rather, had to turn away. I mean they all tell me my sheer thickness hits every spot for them and thats good to know but what about me! Hitting every spot for them means physical pain for me.. Its not easy stuffing a sensitive piece of your body into someone else when the circumference of one is bigger than the circumference of the other so you can imagine how annoying it is to be a top man with guys! This also means its difficult for me wearing condoms as well.. because of my thickness they really f**cking hurt and that is NOT a turn-on for me so as you can see in my case im screwed both ways and not in the ways i want to be..

Now how do you get past that..?

And im talking about penetration here.. no amount of foreplay n massaging and oral is gonna compensate for a good fuck!

[...]
Damon

Hi, Damon!

Well, I would say that at least part of your problem can be sorted out...

Yeah, normal condoms can be very tight and painful and even make you lose your erection due to the discomfort... Not sure how thick you are, but you are not the first... With length there is usually no problems in Europe with the condoms, as it is merely a matter of unwrapping the condom on your shaft till as close to the base as possible, but with thickness, you have to go for special condoms.

I think the Trojan Magnums would do the trick for you, I haven't found them usually at Boots, but in some very small pharmacies. If you cannot find them in a pharmacy near you, you can always order them on line. Check these sites for instance:

http://www.britishcondoms.com/trojan-condoms/trojan-magnum-warming-condoms.html

http://www.bigboycondoms.co.uk/condoms/default.php?manufacturers_id=22

I think that any of the trojan magnum condoms could sort that painful problem for you... (and for fun you could try the musical condoms... :tong: ... or the flavoured ones, but as I haven't given head yet, they have been a waste... lol)

About women partners... I think a good foreplay would help them to relax and open them wide... Try with these condoms and tell me if you have still the same problems... After all, women are prepared to give birth to babies, so I don't think your dick is thicker than a baby's head...

About male partners... I don't like too tight asses as they can make me lose my erection if I find it too difficult to enter (maybe I'm too lazy :tong: ) but no matter how your dick is, you'll always find someone interested in it... I can assure you that a lot of guys fall on their knees to worship a big one, and a lot of them want it up their asses also. It's a matter of looking for the more slutty types of guys.

I saw the other day a guy been fucked by what it could be probably a 10"+ dick and quite thick also... he seemed to be enjoying it but he had been fucked by several other guys before...

Another day I found a guy and I started to prepare his ass... I always carry a good tube of water-based lube. And he said to me that there was no need for that as he had been putting a huge dildo up his guts before... and indeed he was wide open and well lubed...

So I would advise to look for this kind of guys, or the ones that like to be fist-fucked... If they like a fist up their asses, they'll enjoy and be prepared for your weapon.

Remember always to prepare well an ass with lots of lube, and after putting your lubed dick in, put even more lube. A really good and long foreplay is important and can be quite funny.

I hope that something of this can be helpful to you.

All the best,

ray :male:

BonesPA

Oct 18, 2005, 12:00 AM

Well I like them average 6-7" medium girth and cut. Anything bigger and it's just too much to handle. I like a trimmed bush and smooth balls.

Damon

Oct 18, 2005, 4:00 AM

rayosytruenos

Oct 18, 2005, 5:16 AM

Ray in reply to your post thats not really the kind of guy i am..

First of all "if" i do find a condom to fit it still doesnt take away the pain "I" feel when i penetrate someone. As i already mentioned no amount of foreplay is gonna prepare either of us. And also, im not gonna fuck around till i find a guy with a big ass-hole.. I like to do the conventional thing of liking a "person" first and "then" moving on to sex.. sheesh im not promiscuous, i dont look for sex i look for people.. And you asked of my girth.. its very thick, at least 3.5 inches circumference sometimes more depending on my blood flow that day..

Thanks for your thoughts though ray.. I appreciate your time :)

Damon

Hi, Damon!

Sorry, I didn't mean to offend you. That was not my intention. I was just thinking and giving some thoughts to a problem without knowing you that much, so my ideas were general ideas, not implying any practice you may like or dislike, as I don't know you. I was just trying to help with my 2 pennies worth thoughts... :2cents:

:rolleyes: I didn't ask for you girth, I just mentioned you didn't say how thick you were... :bigrin: but no probs... 3.5" in circumference is rather thin, so I guess you meant 3.5" in diameter, which is almost like a coke can (or a cock can :) ).

Yeah, that could be difficult to fit in normal holes :( . The condoms I spoke to you about, come I think in different widths, so still I would check them out.

About women, I think your dick is still not as big as a baby. Many women are quite wide, be for giving birth several times or for whatever other reasons.

And yeah, foreplay makes a lot of difference... You don't need to fuck around to find the right person, but requires preparation. If you meet a guy you like, develop a nice friendship and then you are that close with a friend that want to go further, you could start by having fun with dildos of different diameters till he goes easily on one a bit bigger that your dick. I can assure you that if the guy has practice inserting big dildoes up his ass, and has just fucked himself with a big one in front of you, you just can substitute the dildo for your dick while his asshole is still gaping... Of course, you are going to feel the pressure but I don't think till the extremes of pain.

Ok, that's about the other person's pain...

I was trying to think of any other way to avoid the pain on your dick... I was told by some people that they rub coke on their dickheads and it felt numb what it allows them to fuck for hours due to the numbness without cumming. I'm not sure if that's going to be your cup of tea either, but it's just a thought.

Maybe there is any legal substances with similar effects.

All the best,

ray

Damon

Oct 18, 2005, 1:47 PM

Again ray thank you very much for your time .. I really do appreciate it..

But it's just like everyone else on every other site ive posted this concern on..

Unless you've had the problem and solved the problem in a general way there is no effective advice out there. In regards to the 3.5", i didnt have a measuring tape last night so i was being fairly modest guestimating the CIRCUMFERENCE.. not the diameter mate.. The diameter alone is about 2" or just over that.. so to find the circumference i guess you multiply it by Pi (3.1416) which would make.. fuck 6.25" circumference apprx. I really was being modest ;) shit if i had a coke can i WOULD be complaing hahahahaha

its not a major deal, one of the best qualities I have is being able to deny myself little pleasures like penetration but you know the story.. just wish i could experience the good stuff "all the time" and not just when i strike it lucky. The one, or two experiences out of so many that I had where my partner could cater for my girth was simply fantastic. Lasting for hours instead of minutes, its amazing how a little space to breathe can make your member do his job right! :) When he's choking he just wants to spit and get the fuck outta there hahaha :)

Again thanks for your time..

Damon

altbinary

Oct 18, 2005, 8:07 PM

I suggest that hardness is at least equal in importance to size.

Damon

Oct 19, 2005, 1:51 AM

I suggest that hardness is at least equal in importance to size.

Ummm what..?

arana

Oct 19, 2005, 4:04 AM

Thanks for posting this Jazzer, it's been interesting to see what men think is good for another man.
I do however think "poor Damon" needs to start his own thread now since everyone wants to help him out one way or another. Perhaps a Care or survival package is in order?

Arana :tong:

wanderingrichard

Oct 24, 2005, 10:37 PM

i like them 7-10 inches, somewhat slender, usually. depends on what we are intending to do or whatever.personally, i'm short and not all that big around.. but i have lots of playmates who love oral on me cause they say it's just perfect size for them.. .. too long is just well, too long.. same for girth.. i prefer to just admire they guy with the monster, i can't say as i'd play with it.. circumcised vs. not; have had both, a dentist friend is about 9 inches and uncut and to tell the truth he does a damn good job of keepin things clean.. personally i think it should be against the law to circumcise a boy within a few hours/days/weeks/ of birth.. let them grow up and decide for themselves.. and let his anatomy grow up too.. i mean gesu cristo! the kid has just come into the world and one of the first things we're gonna do is whack off some of his newborn manhood?? what kind of people are we?? [ yes i'm being a little sarcastic, but only just a little.. still think it sux we do this to newborns] so yeah, i think for guys, we may want a little longer than the ladies, but maybe not by much

jakladd

Oct 24, 2005, 10:54 PM

Something like this OK?

69Steve

Oct 25, 2005, 9:14 AM

Meaty & thick is the order of the day with plenty of attention I’m sure I could accommodate the biggest of boys but unfortunately that opportunity is still evading me. I like the physical appearance of a good size healthy tool that looks like it could do some serious damage if it was used carelessly. Normally when I’m opened up I feel like it doesn’t touch the sides & I crave for that feeling of being full to the max. I never feel full with the average 6-8inch but would very willingly try much bigger for size & with some love & tenderness we’ll get it home & I will suffer the consequences with a smile........but jakladd could give me a pounding with that all day long ;)

rayosytruenos

Oct 25, 2005, 12:27 PM

[...] Normally when I’m opened up I feel like it doesn’t touch the sides & I crave for that feeling of being full to the max. I never feel full with the average 6-8inch but would very willingly try much bigger for size & with some love & tenderness we’ll get it home & I will suffer the consequences with a smile........but jakladd could give me a pounding with that all day long ;)

Hi Steve!

I think you should try with Damon. It seems that he can make you feel your sides being touched. :bigrin:

Jackladd... mmmm... it looks nice, tight balls, neat trimming and nice shaved balls and cut dick, I would say...

All the best,

ray

Damon

Oct 25, 2005, 12:42 PM

Damon is taken.. by one of our very own BiSex.com members! ;)

He knows who he is :) huh lazy bitch..? ;)

rayosytruenos

Oct 25, 2005, 2:03 PM

Damon is taken.. by one of our very own BiSex.com members! ;)

He knows who he is :) huh lazy bitch..? ;)

Wow! That was quick and you haven't been in here for a month yet... :eek:

All the best to you and your lucky partner!!! :bigrin:

I'm going to feel jealous of that luck... ;)

Take care,

ray

Damon

Oct 25, 2005, 2:17 PM

rayosytruenos

Oct 25, 2005, 3:07 PM

Thanks ray..

Actually he was the first guy i contacted when i first joined.. I meticulously selected a handful of candidates and Dusty was the only one left standing at the end! ;) We're both exhausted lol j/k

It was pure luck really that we have soo soo much in common.. All I can say is "mission accomplished" in joining BiSex.com :)

Damon

PS: Thanks for everything Dusty xx

Hi Damon!

Exhausted??? You naughty boys!!! :bigrin:

I think I haven't met any Dusty here yet, and as bi-curious as I am... :rolleyes: made a search that showed me 3 Dusties, all in the States, while you, I think, are in Ireland... even for you having that beer can monster :tongue: , I think it cannot reach across the pond... :rolleyes:

So i guess for being that exhausted, one of you have taken a plane or have played other naughty games... :cool:

Still my congratulations to both of you. :) and glad that apart from your coupling, this site has served to that purpose. I wonder how many others have found their partners through this site...

So then, did you join bisexual.com to find your significant other???

Take care, and all the best,

ray

rayosytruenos

Oct 25, 2005, 3:13 PM

[...]All I can say is "mission accomplished" in joining BiSex.com :)

Damon

PS: Thanks for everything Dusty xx

Hey, Damon!

I like your new avatar, much sexier that your former droppings... :bigrin:

Sorry, I just couldn't help myself making that bad joke... ;)

All the best,

ray

Damon

Oct 25, 2005, 3:24 PM

Hey, Damon!

I like your new avatar, much sexier that your former droppings... :bigrin:

Sorry, I just couldn't help myself making that bad joke... ;)

All the best,

ray

Thankyou for the avatar comment!! It's the one I use in an Irish gay forum..

My man's user-name is not Dusty.. thats his nickname IRL..

Couldnt unveil him just yet! :)

Damon

okto05

Oct 25, 2005, 8:16 PM

Slide n

Oct 25, 2005, 10:07 PM

I think in this thread I would have to agree with the women. I don't think that size is as important as the person. I think, that if the man I was with was small, than great. On the other hand if he was huge, we as a couple would just figure out how to make it work out. If I was interested in him and he wanted to put that fiddle to use, then we would try foreplay and whatever else it took to make it work. Just my thought :2cents:

bigregory

Oct 25, 2005, 10:23 PM

Penis size is overcome by bank account size! :2cents:

binbi42

Oct 26, 2005, 8:57 AM

I wouldn't say size isn't the most important thing..but the bigger the more excited I do tend to become. With the exception of my last encounter every male I've been with has been smaller..some very small in fact but enjoyable never the less. What I've found interesting is that some of the bigest guys overall body wise are some of the smallest penis wise..I always thought it'd be more proportionate. (I'm not real large body wise.)
I haven't had an extraordinary amount of opportunities with other males bi to bi, but my wife and I swing on occasion with other couples. Unfortunately some of the nicest as far as size goes have belonged to straight males with no desire to try bi :( :( About three week ago I did have my first encounter with a bi male who was my size 7" and loved it!! :male: :rolleyes:
He was excited as I was :bibounce: apparently his first as well and the four of us played until the wee hours of morn.Needless to say our wives were equally pleased as well, both for us ..and for themselves. Somewhere out there in quiet waters rests the Great White..and I look forwad to the day when I can say."That's more than I can handle" :eek:
ambi7

69Steve

Oct 26, 2005, 9:55 AM

I wouldn't say size isn't the most important thing..but the bigger the more excited I do tend to become......out there in quiet waters rests the Great White..and I look forwad to the day when I can say."That's more than I can handle"

For me it’s physical, I want to feel like I’ve been humped………u would if you were on the receiving end! ;)

binbi42

Oct 26, 2005, 10:24 AM

Hi Steve..haven't tried that yet..the receiving end that is..wife thinks it's the greatest thing since sliced bread..all I've got say is...better have a LOT of butter on that bread :yikes2:

slaphappypud

Oct 26, 2005, 2:43 PM

I have to say, all but one I've had have been smaller than mine, no bigger than 5" , (I'm around 8"). It's OK, but just dosen't satisfy. The one that was larger than mine... well, that went to the opposite extreme. He was about 13" , pretty fat and hard as a rock. I took it by going slow, but I regretted it for the following week!
I'd like to find someone with 7 to 10 inches.