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SkullBow
Sep 28, 2005, 1:18 AM
hey, every one i just had an interesting question, that i thought of the other day, i am a bi-curious female, seeing how i have never had more than a make out session with a girl, but would like to do more..., but i was wondering if its the bisexual, side of me that finds two men making out touching and even having sex, highly erotic and arrousing for me??
Bu then i thought most males like to see two girls make out, but most of them would say they do not have bisexual or gay tendencies!?
so, i wonder if you guys have anything to say about this....or is this just a special little kink, i have?!!

thanx to all those that respond..... :bibounce:

bibibaby
Sep 28, 2005, 1:47 AM
In my personal opinion, it is not just a "bisexual" side that makes us find watching 2 guys or 2 girls together sexy. I think it's just the "forbidden" nature of it that makes people find it so taboo.

Whether we were told as children directly or indirectly, most of us grew up thinking 2 men together was not the norm, and some of us were told even worse. I don't think as a general rule, society has told us anything either negative or positive about 2 women together -- until it gets into the pornographic realm -- then it's sexy.

I know that I have been interested in 2 guys together for some time now. I'm not the only one of my female friends who feels this way. Sexuality aside, let's face it, it's hot to see 2 guys expressing an attraction for each other in a way they can't to a female.

arana
Sep 28, 2005, 8:24 AM
I think its more an issue of your personal taste rather than just being of a certain sexual nature. There are straight women who enjoy seeing 2 men together just as much as bi women. Bisexual's differ in their tastes for things just as much as the rest of the world.

Arana :tong:

m.in.heels&hose
Sep 28, 2005, 8:49 AM
it has been my experiance to find that alot of woman find to guy together (sexually) highly erotic and this goes for straight woman as well as bi or lesbian woman too
but i do think arana is right is saying it really is a matter of each womans personal taste

just my :2cents:
m.in.heels&hose

JohnnyV
Sep 28, 2005, 9:30 AM
I think sexuality is not always primal and biological. Sometimes it can be mental or spiritual. In that sense, you may feel aroused at the sight of two men having sex because you can identify with them. You see two men breaking the rules about sex and giving each other pleasure, and perhaps you see a reflection of yourself and your own life questions.

In my case, I'm a bi male. I enjoy seeing two women make love but it's not as electrifying as seeing two women with a man in a threesome.

J :flag3:

strawberry8302
Sep 28, 2005, 2:28 PM
Hi, skull! I know exactly how you feel. I love watching men have sex with each other. I don't know why, but it gets me hotter than when I see a man and a woman have sex. I can't explain it, but I just wanted you to know that you have an equal.

codybear3
Sep 29, 2005, 1:43 AM
I think its more an issue of your personal taste rather than just being of a certain sexual nature. There are straight women who enjoy seeing 2 men together just as much as bi women. Bisexual's differ in their tastes for things just as much as the rest of the world.

Arana :tong:


...Ditto...I guess its different for everyone. Hope you find your first experience to be great. :tong:

P.S. - You know that being bisexual doubles your chances for getting a date for the weekend? :bigrin: