Are there any REAL people?

[CuriousCoupleNC83]

This is not a personal ad, I'm just venting at the fact that there seems like there are no real bi couples close to us apparently...I mean ugghh, it's a pain trying to find someone to sleep with around here! lol Sorry, I'm just irritated! Anyone else feel my pain? :(

[DiamondDog]

why do you have to be with a M/F couple?
I've been with single gay/bi men and gay couples.
Why not try getting with people seperately?

[sexybicplinwv]

This is not a personal ad, I'm just venting at the fact that there seems like there are no real bi couples close to us apparently...I mean ugghh, it's a pain trying to find someone to sleep with around here! lol Sorry, I'm just irritated! Anyone else feel my pain? :(
Hello!! Yes we feel your pain, And wish there were some couples here, Just to do any thing with. :)

[billy_campbell]

It is aways tough hooking up with anyone, much less hooking up with only bicouples or bi-females who are your age as your ad says you are only interested in. Based upon the ages of the people in here who are bi I am seeing that mostly older individuals and couples are coming out as bisexual. Yes, there are some young couples like yourself but in this site it seems to be older and not younger as the norm. Of course I could be completely off on this.

That said, I hope you do find someone or some couple to hook up with, I only wish I had started looking when I was you age. ;) :2cents:

[deletetacount123]

This is not a personal ad, I'm just venting at the fact that there seems like there are no real bi couples close to us apparently...I mean ugghh, it's a pain trying to find someone to sleep with around here! lol Sorry, I'm just irritated! Anyone else feel my pain? :(

IM REAL and I too get fusterated.... it seems no one wants to date me cause I don't live in the more common areas... sometimes I tend to just blame my being deaf to make me feel better as the reason.

I think it just takes time. Try to be more open a bit.

Im still waiting. Im in BC and the closest person I know of on this site is Flex and Sol.... everyone else I like on this site seems to be in Ontario, Califorina or Florida lol

Tasha

[CuriousCoupleNC83]

Ok, I changed it..we'll take males too. :) Just as long as they aren't old enough to be my dad! :)

[Seigun]

This is a common feeling ^_^.
When I lived in any of the other 4 states I've lived in, it seemed like everyone else was half a world away.

When I didn't live in those places, it seemed like everyone else was from there... or at least a good number of them. :eek:

It never makes much sense. Hopefully, you'll find someone soon. ^_^

[Dagni]

What about F/F couple? Since i'm in lesbian marriedge, and my wife never tried males, she's just curious but scared to death to try some "meat".

[FalconAngel]

We feel your pain on this, too.
As a mixed orientation couple with a Bi male and a straight female, finding a single Bi guy that we both like (both physically and intellectually) is very difficult. Add to that the fact that it always seems that all of the guys that seem to be what we are looking for are hell and gone from us (with extremely rare exceptions) and you can have a very frustrating time of it.

We would love to find a younger guy in our area, but they don't seem to be on the site as of yet. But we are still out there looking.

We found One guy in our area that we both really like a lot, but he has since taken a job out of the state. We still keep in touch and look forward to any visits that he makes back here, but it isn't frequent enough for us.

So believe us, boy do we feel your pain.

[Dagni]

I wish i could find someone "complete and perfect" male or couple to satisfy me and my beloved wife. No matter about distance, that's not problem at all, we do travel a lot, it's just problem to find someone who can relax her.

It's pretty weird when she came with comments "this one's too slim", "this one is not that tall", and the best comment i heard from her is "this guy looks like Alice Cooper, and you know that i don't like him."

[Solomon]

we're working on the transporter ya'll! but we need the bloody dylythium crystals to stop cracking up laughing!! geez!! heheheheee!!

yep we do hear the distance frustration... it's actually how flex an i met... LD at first

Dagni, sounds like your wife has had some very rough experiences with men unless i'm reading your posting wrong....?

Tasha you're too nice to get frustrated! <ducking an running> hehehee!! is ok... 'coupla chomps from flex'll cure the niceness! :tong:

[LoveLion]

lol, I guess its one of those weird things. When your looking for it you cant find it, and when you dont want it, it wont leave you alone. I personally have no intrest in hooking up for anything sexual, yet I am always getting facebook requests, myspace requests, personal messages etc for all kinds of things I dont really want.

[Dagni]

Dagni, sounds like your wife has had some very rough experiences with men unless i'm reading your posting wrong....?


No, she never had any expirience with males at all. You know, 101 % lesbian, at least till couple of years ago, but she want to try with males but simply doesn't work.

[deletetacount123]

No, she never had any expirience with males at all. You know, 101 % lesbian, at least till couple of years ago, but she want to try with males but simply doesn't work.

Do you guys have a close male friend who'll let her experience with??
Some very open friends sometimes do that and in a way its safer cause you know they won't hurt you or do anything to make you uncomfortable.

[skyscanning]

I feel the same pain as the rest of the thread. If I DID have a nice, cool, relaxed playmate, I most certainly would engage in bi play much more often :)

*sigh*

[welickit]

Going to make a suggestion for what it is worth. You post as a couple and your profile shows only a male. That alone sends up all kinds of red flags. Your temperment in posting sends even more. You need to back off a bit, grow up a bunch, discuss it with your wife and try posting together. We know you will have an excuse but don't plan on it working. Where you are now we once were, where we are now you soon will be. Just our :2cents:

[CuriousCoupleNC83]

This is the female, my other half never gets on, I'm always the one on here and I'm the one who posts everything. As for the picture, it won't let me put my pic up because it's not a jpg, it's at bmp. I do have a picture but I'll have to email it to whoever wants it. So, I'm sorry if I came off wrong, I was just wondering if you guys had the same problems that I've been having. :) I've attached a picture of me, I am real, I promise! :) Oh and we'll be more than happy to have a f/f couple if they suit us.

[leizy]

No offense meant, welickit, but I know I have never liked being told to grow up. Frankly, I've never really wanted to grow up. If I die still acting as immature as I do now, I'll die an immature, but happy and satisfied man.

BTW - here is your picture Lacey (you're cute - nice smile!) , resaved as a jpg. you may be able to take this and put it on your profile.

cheers.
david

[wanderingrichard]

Ok, I changed it..we'll take males too. :) Just as long as they aren't old enough to be my dad! :)

hey!! aint nothin wrong with us more mature folks... usually you'll find we're more well rounded [ heheh] than those young'uns you might eventually end up with.. :rolleyes:

seriously, it just takes time, and if ya live out in the boonies or the bible belt, well, it might take a lot more time and some serious searching away from where you are now.

got a local swingers group? think about joining them. many of them have weekly contact socials that are also known as meet and greets, where you have dinner, shoot pool, darts, drinks, dancing etc.to get to know each other and that can lead you to where you want to go with this. [the real "action" is usually on the weekends, but i think the social thingy might be more what you want.. that way there's no pressure on you and the wife and you can talk things over before you jump into a decision.. one caution; if you have trust issues between you, dont go any farther until they are resolved. otherwise you may end up a divorce statistic instead of a happy married couple.]......you'll find those groups in yahoo and myspace and several other places under "adult" usually..

can i also suggest you get copies of "the ethical slut" and at least one of the books listed here on polyamory?? those might also help you crack the code on the local snuggler you seek. oh, and don't be afraid to look here in our own library of things...i know of at least 6 groups listed that are in my area, maybe you'll find one there too.
Rich :flag4:

[Solomon]

No, she never had any expirience with males at all. You know, 101 % lesbian, at least till couple of years ago, but she want to try with males but simply doesn't work.

ah ok, that's good... that she hasn't had the bad stuff that is

is there some type specifically that she's looking for?

[deletetacount123]

Im still waiting for REAL people to reply to my dating ads.

But I think Im just wasting time. This and 1 other site are the only 2 out of the 8 or 9 I posted on that I get some responses lol

It is very fusterating.... yes I think its the location but how the heck can I move ?? lol it costs plus I don''t know anyone online well enough to move in with them in Canada. (if I was offorded to)

Ahhhhhhhhh WHY ARE THE REAL PEOPLE HIDING!!!

[12voltman59]

Ok, I changed it..we'll take males too. :) Just as long as they aren't old enough to be my dad! :)

That rules me out!!!!!! LOL

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :yikes2: :yikes2: :upside: :rotate: :rotate:

[DiamondDog]

No, she never had any expirience with males at all. You know, 101 % lesbian, at least till couple of years ago, but she want to try with males but simply doesn't work.

Perhaps the underlined text is why your wife does not want sex with men or why it doesn't work?

I have gay friends who when they were trying to be something that they're not (bisexual or heterosexual) they talked about wanting to find that "perfect woman" but that woman doesn't exist and even the friends that tried sex once with a woman realized what they always knew, that sex with a woman is wrong for them.

[jeancarleo]

I'm too loyal with my bf and it has been since May 2003 that I haven't had sex with a girl. I do miss having sex with a girl because it's different but my bf satisfies me since we're both versatiles lol.