strapons

[mrplayfuluk]

what are the best types for women to use on guys and what experiences have you had with them?

[AndrogynousLuv]

I too am very interested in learning more about this and please, if there are any of you that can expand on this, it would be greatly appreciated. The main reason here is that the person closest to my heart and myself want to explore this area together. She wants very much to engage in this with me, but I also want her to be actually stimulated as well...something that could also fulfill her. I understand there are some available that are capable of fulfilling a woman's needs as she is putting it to the man and she knows this too as we have both seen some offered....
There's no doubt that it would turn her on just to do it even if she wasn't directly stimulated to her own genitalia...but we understand that there are some that can actually also do the job for the woman as she takes care of the man....
Any suggestions from experience any of you?
Please let me know.............

[jaglvr]

My wife doesn't like the ones that stimulate her. It's personal choice though. Make sure you buy one that has a strong harness, cheap ones break easy. Vac-U-Lock is a good idea too because you can change what size dildo you use. All in all you'll probably spend about $100.

[Herbwoman39]

I don't have a whole lot of experience with strapons. The only one I've used is strapless and it's the Feeldoe. It's wonderful because i get the benefit of stimulation without being bound up by straps. Check out the website to learn more about it. It's www.feeldoe.com

(No, I don't work for the company. I'm just a big fan)

[anda692]

We have strapons but my wife likes the feeldoe much more. It has a mini vibe, ours broke early on, but the feeldoe is still the only thing that she will use. Whatever you end up useing, have fun

[socalbicuriouscouple]

My wife has a very nice one she uses on me, however she wasn't getting anything out of it. We tried the ones with an insert for her as well, she hated it! Then we bought some vibrating panties (she wears under the strap-on) that I keep the remote for and that did it!!!! I can control her orgasm as she takes me.....unbelievable for both of us. You should all try it!!!!

[welickit]

We have two. One is a Doc Johnson with the vac-u-loc system, the other is one that has built in his and hers vibrators with individual controls. The vibrating one is our favorite. However the harnass wasn't strong enough to keep the clit vibrator in place while in use. The wife cured that bi mounting it in a pair of cut off blue jean shorts. The zipper opening is way to high so she took the stitching out of the crotch below the zipper and mounted the cock through the opening. It now works fine and both of us enjoy it.
The vibration relaxes me so she can get it in and gets her off at the same time. She doesn't care for the female inserts that come with the Doc Johnson and the optional vibrating egg doesn't last very long. Easier for her to wear her Venus Butterfly with the Doc Johnson.
The Doc Johnson with the vibrating egg, ultra harnass vac-u-loc system was just over $100. The one with built in his and hers vibrators was about $130. Both were well worth the money compared to the less expensive units.

[goodbigirl]

OMG! That's too hot. I've never even thought about doing that to a guy. OK, I've got to find a guy for this.... :bigrin:

[innaminka]

I've never used a Strapon with a guy. Its a strange phenomena, that just about every guy I've ever been with is more than happy to plant himself in my backdoor, but tend to reel in horror at any form of anal play involving subsantial penetration of himself.
Deep down, I think its a homophobic thing. I don't fight it, 'cos hubby is now the only man ever coming near that part of me again.

As far as straps, go, I use them some of the time with my f/f encounters.
My personal view is that they're a toy whose object is to make you enjoy and laugh a bit. I never have got very intense with them.

[bearisbare]

I would recommend the Crown harness. There are some versions of it that are compatable with almost every body shape. If a woman is fuller-figured, it seems to be one of the few choices on the market, but I can say, from my bottomed point of view, that it's quite fine indeed.

[BareHunter45]

Ma'm....I visit SDT LOuis a lot and would absolutely a door you doing that to me...I LOVE IT!!!!![

QUOTE=goodbigirl]OMG! That's too hot. I've never even thought about doing that to a guy. OK, I've got to find a guy for this.... :bigrin:[/QUOTE]

[ketchum]

We have found over the years that the stronger the overall material and construction is, the better the performance. I prefer those harness styles that expose her pussy. She claims, however, that these styles do not fit as tightly. We have tried the self-stimulating harness, complete with an array of vaginal and anal insertions for her, but, again, she claims that the fit is not right and after awhile the insertion becomes numbing and uncomfortable. Her favorite is a Doc Johnson T-back style harness which unfortunately covers her pussy but fits tight enough for her to maintain fluid motion as well as secure thrusting motion.
I prefer Doc Johnson dildo's because they have always lasted and performed well. Their shape and detail are very life-like and their feel is also tremendously life-like - for me, anyway. I love servicing and riding her assortment of cocks.
Her stimulation, however, comes more from her mind and vision than from her vaginal/anal areas. She doesn't need artificial stimulation when she's strapped on. The idea of having a cock - of seeing it there between her legs, to se me lick it, swallow it, stroke it and slide down upon it - and the ability to weild that cock in a manly way and cause pleasure with her cock in a manly way, is all the stimulation she needs to enjoy shattering orgasms. Meanwhile, I enjoy the same level of passion and shattering orgasm for she certainly has a true talent with her cock. The way she moves, gyrates and thrusts, or just slowly, intimately moves in and out, Mmm,Mmm, Good!

I vote for strap-on's! When all else fails, strap one on! Right?!

[billy_campbell]

OMG! That's too hot. I've never even thought about doing that to a guy. OK, I've got to find a guy for this.... :bigrin:


Did you ever find you a guy for this? :bigrin:

[xxxcjs]

any ladies waht to give it a try i am game. I think it would be hot to have a girl fuck me with a strap-on

[CountryLover]

Ken and I got a Feeldoe some time ago and enjoyed it a lot, but I didn't get a lot of real stimulation from it. It worked better using it with my hand to penetrate him.

NOW, we've finally found the "real deal". Some of y'all might not like it, but it sure does work for us. We found an 18" double-ended dildo that's about 2.5" around, with firm "veins" running around the length of it. *WOW*

It's thick enough that I can hold it internally and it hits all my best places, and it's long enough to service Ken at the same time. No straps, no slippage, no bindings, just pure fun for us :tong: This is the first toy I've ever truly enjoyed.

[sexybicplinwv]

We have two. One is a Doc Johnson with the vac-u-loc system, the other is one that has built in his and hers vibrators with individual controls. The vibrating one is our favorite. However the harnass wasn't strong enough to keep the clit vibrator in place while in use. The wife cured that bi mounting it in a pair of cut off blue jean shorts. The zipper opening is way to high so she took the stitching out of the crotch below the zipper and mounted the cock through the opening. It now works fine and both of us enjoy it.
The vibration relaxes me so she can get it in and gets her off at the same time. She doesn't care for the female inserts that come with the Doc Johnson and the optional vibrating egg doesn't last very long. Easier for her to wear her Venus Butterfly with the Doc Johnson.
The Doc Johnson with the vibrating egg, ultra harnass vac-u-loc system was just over $100. The one with built in his and hers vibrators was about $130. Both were well worth the money compared to the less expensive units.
To!! The Female part of WELICKIT.... You Are Great ;) That"s (((HOT))) :female:

[bi4us]

OMG! That's too hot. I've never even thought about doing that to a guy. OK, I've got to find a guy for this.... :bigrin:

Let me know when you're ready. ;)

[DiamondDog]

Why would a bi guy even want a woman to use a strapon on him?

I'm not that anally wired/oriented but a toy is not the same as an erect penis and most women don't know what they're doing when it comes to anal sex with giving it to a man at all.

Women don't know what it's like to have a penis/prostate, and most women don't have any clue what they're doing when it comes to pleasing a man's prostate or his anus.

Anyway, even if I were going to engage in receptive anal sex (a finger, a toy, being rimmed, or a cock or a fist even though I'm not wired for such things) I would not do it with a woman since most have no idea what they're doing or how to do things correctly when it comes to pleasing a man's anus/prostate since they don't have the anatomy or know what it's like, also some women, even if they are rather dominant, get disgusted at the idea of doing anything to a man's ass.

Likewise if I'm just masturbating alone and I try to think about a woman rimming my hole or using a toy on the outside of it I will have to think about a man in order to finish.

[wanderingrichard]

oh gawds yes it's a great feeling.. plus , to see the look of pure enjoyment sometimes on the face a lady doing me with a strap on can just push me to the wildest orgasms i've ever had.. start out with what feels comfortable for you, try different ones , both dildoes and harnesses, til you both have the combination you like, if you tend to tense up, use a good desensitizing anal lube ... it helps lots.. and dont forget to keep everything lubed DURING too..

btw, if you're ever in the area................. :bigrin:

[the mage]

Ahem....(some people gotta get out more)

Anyway... Doc Johnson strapons as well as hand held dildos are great fun.
The key to a strap on is dont cheap out, The flimsy ones with cheesy little clips and straps dont work.

A woman can give a man great sex with one while enjoying the power exchange of truly being on top.

[runewlf]

My wife and use the Doc Johnson witht he non vibrating for her. She still gets off as I ride up and down, so it works out well. Granted, not as good as a real one, but when we are by ourselves, it's great.

[bigulfcpl]

If you are looking for the woman to have pleasure while she is using the strapon, I would recommend the Feeldoe. The Feeldoe is a strapless strapon, that she places inside herself, and then fucks the male or female with the nice, thick cock end.

Here is a pic of her using it on me, but, she is using it as a dildo in this instance.

I cannot wait to see her use it on another woman, and watch the excitement they BOTH receive.

Ron

[lastlaf44]

Why would a bi guy even want a woman to use a strapon on him?

I would not do it with a woman since most have no idea what they're doing or how to do things correctly when it comes to pleasing a man's anus/prostate since they don't have the anatomy or know what it's like...

But by that logic, no one would be able to please anyone of the opposite sex sufficiently since they don't know what it's like to have the same equipment as the other.

As an aside, I've done my boyfriend with a strapon before and we both love it. ^_^ The one we have has a little vibrating bullet inside for the woman thrusting. One time, we each had an orgasm about 3 seconds apart. Him from masturbating while I was thrusting and me from rubbing against the vibrator while thrusting. It was brilliant :D

[DiamondDog]

But by that logic, no one would be able to please anyone of the opposite sex sufficiently since they don't know what it's like to have the same equipment as the other.

Yes but there is some truth to that.

The same gender instinctively knows how to please a person of the same gender a lot better than a person of the opposite gender does.

Men just "get" men, there is NO learning curve.

Men's "parts" are what we already have. There is nothing to learn that we don't already intrinsically know. Of course some men are naturally wired to be fucked, some aren't wired that way at all, and some are more wired to do oral and masturbatory sex and aren't into anal sex at all. ;)

If someone is going to use a dildo on me or think about doing any type of anal sex (rimming, fingers, toys, all the stuff I listed in my post above) they better have their own biological penis attached to their body.

All I can say is that sex with men is A LOT more intense than sex with women. While I've been dominant and done SM with women before, and it's enjoyable it doesn't scratch the itch like sex and romance/a relationship with a man/men does.

I've had sex with men where I got endorphin rushes and anal sex wasn't even involved at all!

It was like I was tripping or dreaming but I was sober and wide awake and the whole experience was cathartic or dare I say "spiritual", and it was psychedelic in ways too.

I can't say that sex with women no matter how dominant/submissive, vanilla, and even if bondage/SM were done, that it's ever been that way at all.

[deletetacount123]

I don't know :)

if my gf wants to use it, I might let her but not till after I trust her of course :) and theres lots of commuication too.

Tasha

[junior8]

I have had a few experiances with a couple of women and it was absolutely amazing.it was such a turn on to be completely dominated by a woman and the orgasms were unreal.Im looking for more

[bigulfcpl]

Why would a bi guy even want a woman to use a strapon on him?


Why not??? If you are in a committed relationship with a woman, and you like your ass played with, why not? I love when she uses toys on me, it is intense.

I don't understand your logic with this question. You sound more gay then bi, IMHO.

[DiamondDog]

Why not??? If you are in a committed relationship with a woman, and you like your ass played with, why not? I love when she uses toys on me, it is intense.

I don't understand your logic with this question. You sound more gay then bi, IMHO.

What's not to get with the question?

I have a hard time believing that any woman would know what to do with a man's ass as well as another biological man would.

Yes I probably do lean a bit more towards men for sex/romance/relationships; but homosexual or gay wouldn't describe my sexuality, since my sexuality is fluid and does things that homosexual men don't have happen with their mono sexuality.

I don't use gay as a label since that would confuse people like when I talk about how a certain woman is sexy or about how I would like to have a 3 way with a woman and a man. Gay men aren't like this at all.

While I do have periods where I'm totally turned off by women and I find their bodies and the idea of having sex with a woman to be well icky and sometimes these periods can last for as long as 6 months they don't last forever like they do for my gay friends.

Then I'll go back to being pretty equal and I'll start to find women sexy and crave male/male/female 3 ways.

I'd love to have one and explore a woman's body with a man and have sex with him while he is having sex with her.

This isn't to say that I couldn't have a relationship with a woman but I'd just want it to be non-monogamous and she would have to be big into bondage both having it done and doing it to me, and I'd want her to be a switch on the submissive side for SM since I'm a switch on the dominant side for SM.

Also if such a person exists I'd want her to be open to me having sex with men without her since most gay men don't want anything to do with a woman sexually at all.

I know I'd technically be somewhere in between bisexual and homosexual but there's not a label/orientation for this so I just use bi/gay, and queer.

[biupstateny]

as a bi guy i sure do love strapons used on me , my girl use a doc johnson vac lock .. i think if you are open to it then try it you will like it . but give your self a few trys first to get used to it , go slow at first and use lots of lube. we are going to try a double headed dildo next , one end in her and the other end in me . good luck

[welickit]

This seems to be a popular subject among men. We have posted pictures and have had men email asking for it, offering to pay for it and begging to bend over for it or simply wanting to watch. It seems there are several fetishes where the supply doesn't meet the demand.

[bigulfcpl]

as a bi guy i sure do love strapons used on me , my girl use a doc johnson vac lock .. i think if you are open to it then try it you will like it . but give your self a few trys first to get used to it , go slow at first and use lots of lube. we are going to try a double headed dildo next , one end in her and the other end in me . good luck

You will LOVE a double header, we have one of those also, and it is fun! I have used a double header with both men and women, and it is very satisfying!

[zanybrainy]

We use the feeldoe. the one drawback when you first start using it is your muscles need to build up. A three strap harness will get you started though.

We both love it.

[DiamondDog]

Ahem....(some people gotta get out more)

Anyway... Doc Johnson strapons as well as hand held dildos are great fun.
The key to a strap on is dont cheap out, The flimsy ones with cheesy little clips and straps dont work.

A woman can give a man great sex with one while enjoying the power exchange of truly being on top.

Speak for yourself!

I have lots of gay/bi male friends and even they agree with my opinion about women and strapons.

Some of them are even hardcore/power bottoms (they don't fuck, have had no desire to and some are basically rapists about getting fucked) and while they're open to the idea of bottoming for a woman only in a last resort (like if they could NEVER get fucked by a man ever again for the rest of their lives), in some cases they actually do not want to do this at all with a woman, and they know that a man would fuck them better and know what he's doing more than a woman would.

Also a lot of my gay/bi friends see anal intercourse between two men as making love and they wouldn't get this from a woman doing it to them.

Think about it, would you see a female urologist or a female doctor if you had prostate issues?

I see this as being no different at how women will not see a male gynecologist.

The doctor reference aside, some guys are so into having anal sex with men that they have no desire at all to have it with a woman, and doing so would ruin anal sex for them.

This doesn't make them close minded or bad people, as this is what works for them, and it's what they want to do.

[bigulfcpl]

Also a lot of my gay/bi friends see anal intercourse between two men as making love and they wouldn't get this from a woman doing it to them.

Um, you obviously don't understand love between a man and a woman, because when my woman is fucking my ass, she IS MAKING LOVE TO ME. They would not get it from a woman cause they are clearly into GAY sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.


Think about it, would you see a female urologist or a female doctor if you had prostate issues?



Yes, I would, without hesitation.

Ron

[DiamondDog]

Um, you obviously don't understand love between a man and a woman, because when my woman is fucking my ass, she IS MAKING LOVE TO ME. They would not get it from a woman cause they are clearly into GAY sex, and there is nothing wrong with that.



Yes, I would, without hesitation.

Ron
Yes but who doesn't like having gay sex? Unless of course they're heterosexual or lesbian.

That's what sex between men is, or most people classify it no matter the orientations of the men involved, when it's only men involved.

I actually love gay sex and I find it a lot more satisfying and powerful than hetero sex. Even if hetero sex is nice there's not another guy there and it's probably something I'd mostly want to do as casual sex or I'd enjoy exploring a woman and man's body during bi-sex with another man which would be really satisfying, and I'm not sure if I'd do well in a relationship with a woman.

When I was younger, I guess I could have had a relationship with a woman but now if I did it would have to be open and stay open, and I'd have and want sex without a woman involved at all.

I'd enjoy bi-sex with a man and a woman as when I've had sex with men and women seperately, I have filled in the missing genders in my mind. I didn't do this on purpose it just happened out of nowhere and it happens to lots of bisexuals, and for some bisexuals it happens everytime they have sex.

People do different things for sex with different genders, and have personal likes/dislikes when it comes to sex.

I know men who are heterosexual who don't give oral sex to women.
There are Gay/bi men who don't suck cock or engage in anal sex even as a top.
Lesbian/bisexual women who don't eat pussy or do any oral sex at all.
Bi men who only do anal sex with men.

Personally I would not see a female urologist or a female doctor, especially if I had prostate issues or anything wrong with my genitals.

[allbimyself]

You know, diamonddog, if you just stated your preference and moved on, all would be great. However, you don't do that. You state what is wrong with anybody else having a different preference.

From personal experience I can tell you that, on average, men are better at sucking cock... AGAIN, ON AVERAGE. But the hands down best was a female. And I can guarantee you a woman that loves pleasing a man will give better head than a guy that thinks sucking cock is nasty. Sorry, seems like you need the obvious stated to you.

I've only once had a woman use a toy on me. It wasn't very good. Why? Because she didn't enjoy it. And guess what? It was the same woman that gave the best BJs. The reason she was the best? She absolutely loved doing it and made it her business to do it good. Bearing that in mind, despite the one bad experience, I would very much like to have another woman use toys on me. She just has to be into it and willing to learn and she'll be fine.

Going back to your logic that only a guy would know what feels good (I've already touched on how idiotic that is because anyone can learn, even without the equipment), how can he if he's never experienced it? Guys that only top, whether gay or bi, couldn't know that. Yet many are quite good at it. How can that be? By your logic it can't.

[*pan*]

i have to go along with diamonddog > Why would a bi guy even want a woman to use a strapon on him?
we have toys, and i have 2 woman who will play anal witn me, but it's just not the same , toys have no feelings, they are inanimate objects, which cannot be pleased, it dosent matter how i work it with them because they can't feel anything, they just dont feel right either. there is no substitute for the real thing, another man will have feelings and emotions will either like it or dislike it, thats why we seek other bi-male tops to play with.

[BareHunter45]

OMG! That's too hot. I've never even thought about doing that to a guy. OK, I've got to find a guy for this.... :bigrin:


I have been looking for a woman to use one on me. I travel to St. Louis.....? Maybe??????

[bigulfcpl]

i have to go along with diamonddog > Why would a bi guy even want a woman to use a strapon on him?
we have toys, and i have 2 woman who will play anal witn me, but it's just not the same , toys have no feelings, they are inanimate objects, which cannot be pleased, it dosent matter how i work it with them because they can't feel anything, they just dont feel right either. there is no substitute for the real thing, another man will have feelings and emotions will either like it or dislike it, thats why we seek other bi-male tops to play with.

I respect your opinion, but, again, this is a PERSONAL preference. I agree, nothing substitutes for the real thing, but, let me ask you this: If you are in a loving relationship with a woman, and you feel like having your ass played with, what do you do? Do you scour the sites looking for any guy willing to please you, or, do you allow your woman to have her way with your ass?

The topic is about strapons, and if you don't like them, that is ok. Comparing them to the real thing, well, that is just ludicrous, nothing substitutes for a real cock in the ass.

I prefer a real cock in my ass, but, I will NOT play without my fiancee, simple as that. She IS my life, getting fucked by a guy is not.

[DiamondDog]

Going back to your logic that only a guy would know what feels good (I've already touched on how idiotic that is because anyone can learn, even without the equipment), how can he if he's never experienced it? Guys that only top, whether gay or bi, couldn't know that. Yet many are quite good at it. How can that be? By your logic it can't.

It's called learning through masturbation, exploring YOUR body and it's erotic arousal and responses, fantasy, and sexual experiences!

Most people would do this, I'd hope....

Honestly, the best tops actually HAVE bottomed before with, or have tried putting things inside them or done things externally just to explore their prostate and see what it's like, even if it's not for them or they're not wired for it.

the best tops have at least experienced what the bottom does/is/experiences.

If you ever want to perform anal sex on a man, you should have it done to yourself first or explore it alone first.

It makes you understand what to do and what not to do, and why it hurts, and why it can feel good to certain people etc.

Don't believe the tops who claim (since they try to appear more "masculine" this way, which is bullshit) that they've NEVER tried putting anything up their ass not even a finger, or they've never had a prostate orgasm (external or internal), or explored their anus/prostate alone or with someone else.

Guys that are like that are usually just out for a quick/fast fuck and most get their views on how gay anal sex is supposed to be from porn videos which is the worst place to get them from!

Anyway, some guys are just wired to fuck and some aren't.

I personally do happen to be wired this way as I'm not anal oriented or wired to take things/be fucked; but I don't go by the top or versatile label since they're too limiting, and I don't NEED to have anal or vaginal sex each and every time I have sex with a person.

I have friends that are hardcore/power bottoms and they've never had any desire to fuck anyone period, and some of them are like rapists when it comes to being fucked and getting someone to fuck them.

[biupstateny]

the questions was about strapon's , if you like it or dont who really cares just give your point and move one ... i like them and i like real ... i dont care what see wrong with it , i gave my point and so did funcouple .. :bipride:

[genera101.2]

Strap-ons are great and I would love to do it again. My ex-wife and I did it several times and she enjoyed it too, how? She would position the harness over her clit, when she thrusted it in me she felt it too. Doing a double ended dong is on my to-do list. :bibounce:

[james1]

I'd love to try that :tongue:
I've used dildo's, butt plugs and vibrators on myself and my wife has used a vibrator on me too.
A strapon sounds really hot
Must try :)