RAPE ME!!!

[Tight1-4u]

This last few years of servicing sexually Frustrated men has been a real pleasure.. But I have been noticing that there is a trend happening.. over the years I have met and had sex with a lot of men.. most married and some not.. I have done it in all kinds of places and positions.. from the bed room to car, outdoors, bathrooms and allies.. from bent over something, on all fours, missionary, to riding cock.. have done mild to pretty wild.. have had a fair amount want to restrain me pull my hair,, spank me,, choke me,, even a few that just wanted to kiss and make out with no real sex involved.. some wanted me to be as masculine as can be and others wanted me to be as sissy as can be.. I have pretty much run the gamut I think.. I have always tried my best to give and provide about anything they wanted..
When a new prospect contacts me they get put on the list of new prospects and when there becomes an opening available they start the interview process.. they go through 3 interviews.. first with a couple of the guys I am currently sleeping with then one with Dan or the mayor and one of the guys.. then with me which if I get a good vibe usually ends with me asking them about their fantasies.. I always try to fulfill as many of their fantasies as I can.. just part of the service I provide..
the thing I don?t understand is that over the years their have been maybe a handful of guys that have had rape fantasies.. wanting to rape someone.. sure guys have always wanted to be more dominant and wilder in sex and that is fine as I do enjoy a bit wilder side.. but over the course of the last few years the rape scenario has become more and more prevalent and ask for a lot lately.. like I would say that 3-4 out of 10 guys now ask if they can rape me.. and even to the point to abduct me and force me to be their sex slave for a time.. I have always shy?d away from this topic and still do to the most part but have noticed that when if allowed to get more physical and dominant that it sometimes escalated to almost rape kinda behavior.. especially if they have requested that I be restrained on my sex table.. they must feel that being restrained they are free to do as they please.. that is why any more you have to be one of my special guys and only if their are 2 other guy present.. things seem to stay way calmer with a couple more guy present.. Dan and the mayor are the only ones that get anything and everything they want..
so my question is have any of you other bottom boy?s noticed this same trend??? I don?t really understand why this past few years it has become more prevalent to want to rape someone??? I mean I do get being more dominant: as the woman in their lives being vanilla so sex with me is their chance to experience a lot of new and different things but rape?? Let us know!!!

[Long Duck Dong]

Mmmmm... yeah I know of a few people that have rape fantasies...... not in the aspect of physical violence and forced sex, but as a roleplay scenerio......

Now I do follow shamanic ways where any situation is a chance to learn and experience, gaining wisdom and understanding. And yes I suppose that rape fantasies can be more intensely emotional for some people..

I am not going to assume the reasoning for any person wanting to do rape fantasies and scenerios, because the reasoning can differ from person to person, for some it can be about dominance and control, for others, the emotional sex of it.... some people bust a nut better during rough sex, than vanilla sex, some just want to experience being in that situation.......

Something that was said to me by my partner, a intersex female, was that she knew some guys that wanted to do rape fantasties with her, and she was honest, she would not be the right person to do that with.....but she did know of some guys that were wide open to the idea of being somebodies sex slave / victim......and also some females but the females were far more likely not to say anything because of other females negative reactions and opinions

I remember years ago reading an article by a journalist who talked about roleplaying a rape fantasy with her partner and while she really got into the fighting off her partner aspect, the sex was so emotionally intense that she had some of the best orgasms that she had ever had in her life...........and the backlash was eye watering, how dare she indulge in such a vile sex roleplay, it was disrespectful of real rape victims etc.......

and all I could think was she was sharing an experience, a situation, a controlled role play for others to read and learn from........

I do bear in mind that there is a negative aspect to the word rape, and while some people want to furfill a rape fantasy, they do not actually mean they want to rape a person, in the sense of the word
My own partner gets off on the idea of the other male in our group, coming into the shower naked and making me kiss him, suck his cock then, fuck me so hard....before dragging me into the bedroom, tying me down to the bed and doing it again...... I said OK, but she does it first......she said ok, but only because she knows us and trusts us.....

so in a way yeah I can understand some people wanting to role play a rape fantasy, to experience doing that........ and as long as its controlled so its within reason, enjoy........

Most of the people I know that have what could be considered rape fantasies, actually use the word breed, less negative aspects to that word but the idea is the same, make the other person their * bitch *

[Tight1-4u]

Duck: yes I agree with what you said.. fact of the matter I enjoy aggressive sex and dominance to a degree, that is being dominated.. I enjoy as a very sub bottom being manhandled and breeding.. I can see and like I said can understand a guy that comes from a very vanilla background wanting to spread his wings so to speak.. I am all for that.. it just seems odd that the tide has turned and there seem to be way more guys asking for that kinda thing.. like I said I do enjoy walking on the wild side..

[KDaddy23]

I'd hooked up with a guy who, when I got to his house, told me to go back outside, "break in," and rape him and if he resisted, beat him into compliance. I was like, "Oh, fuck no..." because there are points I will not go beyond - and this is one of them. I'd met women with rape fantasies, but this was the first guy I'd met with one. After that, I'd heard some guys talking about what it would be like if someone was to rape them or they could rape someone - roleplaying - and I thought, well, if that's their fantasy... I hear of bottoms talking about how they need aggressive tops who will do things to them that, to me, sounds like rape more than rough sex but if that's what's floating their boats, fine - just don't include me in it.

[tenni]

Rape is not for sensualizing in a fantasy. It is a destructive behaviour. Participating in such "rapes" demonstrates disfunctual behaviour and should be shunned unless you are a credited councilllor. It has nothing to do with bisexuality. You are acting like a troll tight.

[Tight1-4u]

tenni: not sure how you got to be an expert on every thing.. but you sure think you need to try and need to ridicule every one.. I have never ask your opinion and surly don’t need it.. when someone asks a purely simple question you have to turn it into you judging someone.. I suggest you crawl back into your little cave and ask mommy to bring you a sandwich..

[cornholejoe]

i have notice the trend last few years just not for me can lead to legal issues

[elian2]

Rape to me implies against your will -- I'm sure there are some actual predators out there who want just that.

I imagine at least mild dom/sub type fantasies are common -- I've felt turned on doing that -- but only with folks I absolutely trust -- because of the abuse I had in the past I would never lay a hand on someone against their will.

Our society has some weird fantasies about control and power in general and "sex" is of course one of THE most vulnerable acts, so it's a big draw ..

Over the last few years online porn use has skyrocketed -- are they seeing it there and wanting to act it out? Most of that stuff is done on a soundstage to pay the rent .. no semblance to actual people or reality -- but if that's what they are used to seeing maybe that's what they want.

I've also sensed an undercurrent of pent up frustration and LACK of control in the last few years we've all been isolated .. certain segment of the population is not used to being subjugated .. maybe for certain people those frustrations are coming to the surface. They have no control over anything else in their lives, but they have control over you -- that's just mean.

[elian2]

Thought about this some more..

Perhaps there is a part of themselves they don't like, or they don't like the stereotypes.

When I was growing up I really hated the hypermasculine stereotype - show no emotion, always be competitive or athletic, always be brave and strong, always be in control .. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week .. that's humanly impossible.

Maybe it's gone the other way now and some men really hate having to appear feminized, restrained or "always correct" ?

The reality is you can still be a man and just not be an a!$hole but not everyone sees it that way.

They want to take out their rage or frustration .. ?

[querty]

tenni: not sure how you got to be an expert on every thing.. but you sure think you need to try and need to ridicule every one.. I have never ask your opinion and surly don’t need it.. when someone asks a purely simple question you have to turn it into you judging someone.. I suggest you crawl back into your little cave and ask mommy to bring you a sandwich..

I blocked him (her? It?) long ago. Probably a friend of the imfamous polesmoker, who was easily the biggest online asshole I ever encountered.

[wifekinky4husband]

Tight1-4u (https://www.bisexual.com/forum/member.php?171039-Tight1-4u)

I am with the others on this one - there are to many issues that come with this and it is scary especially legally. We'd have to have major trust, friendship, relationship with them.

But in clearer response to your inquiry -
No one in our group ever asks for rough rape. We do set up gang bangs, run trains, following the lead of the person getting all the attention but with the exception of a few prison style shower scenes - lol, so much fun, no crazy hard core raping.

Outside our group however, wow, you are not joking so many more requests for rough rape scenes. My husband and I get hit on if ever out and about in a nightlight setting. Most men or couples used to be subtle, now people flat out ask if you are into... If we engage in sex talk with them it has been turning more into forced sex. With couples the women want us to force their men to have gay sex (as they call it), the men don't call it anything they simply want forces oral and to get their assed force fucked. One of our younger couples said they've been offered money recently to tie up and force a husband to suck cock, his wife used the term, "I want you to rape his mouth with your cock, over and over again." The two gay couples are exclusive with our group but are around many gays and have overheard others talking about how rough things have been getting at parties and gatherings. So I suppose there is a trend here. Greeks, then Romans, perhaps were are the next in line???

[tenni]

Read rule 3.

Discussing non consensual violent sexual acts (rape) is against rule 3

Post 6 ahows the mental maturiy of the poster.

[dicktrobing]

I enjoy "forced bi" sessions this is where a dominant female, could be a male. "forces" to guys to have sex.

It's never forced of course because all parties agree to the activity. "rape me" cannot be true in the sense of the word rape as the guy agrees to be fucked.

What they are after is a roll play, its about a mind set I guess; they want to be fucked but maybe cannot bring themselves to just jump into bed with a guy and get down n dirty

[KDaddy23]

Roleplaying is... roleplaying. Some interesting psychology as to why men have rape fantasies that are not criminal in nature but their idea of a sexy good time. My beloved cousin, as I would learn, really wanted to have sex with me but he couldn't justify it... so he came up with a game that made it easy for him. Yeah, he frigging got on my nerves saying, "Please, master, don't make me suck your dick!" which, of course, meant that I should "make" him do it; or, "Please, master, don't make me stick it in you!" which mean he wanted to and, as his "master" and someone who was expected to "force" him to do whatever he didn't want to do, sure, slave - stick it in me and fuck me until you shoot your stuff in me. Drove me insane playing this game but we were good at having sex with each other which, end of the day, was all that really mattered.

No crime committed other than two boys having sex - and having fun playing this "disturbing" game that has too many real connotations involved but we're just playing. Adult males are... grown up boys; fantasy is one thing, reality something else. No one here would tolerate a true rapist and we shouldn't but... shall we play a game? Sure, why not? End of a day, it's all about how a guy justifies his actions in these things; if playing out a fantasy allows him to have sex with a guy - and the other guy goes along with the roleplaying - is there a problem? I'm thinking there isn't but I'm not Tenni...

[Tight1-4u]

now let me explain that the men I service I would say are mostly all very calm and collected.. most all come from a very vanilla sex background..then there is the very small percentage that have experienced a bit more.. having sex with me is a way that they can relieve stress strain and unload built up pressure and somehow feel as though they are not cheating.. I don’t claim to understand that but what floats their boat right?? When ask about the rape scenario I know that they are talking roll playing.. now every so often I do meet guys that I question their motives.. and I always turn them away and discontinue seeing them.. I have rules and standards that are strictly adhered to., now if one of them ask about stepping up their game and experiencing things on a little wilder note we talk about it and if it is not to crazy try to provide the experience.. communication is key and always will be.. safety is paramount for both of us.. mind you every once in a while one slips through the cracks and usually dose not take long to reveal that they are not a good fit.. they are excommunicated from the group quickly.. as I stated before this is just a trend that I have noticed lately.. being ask about this scenario.. I attribute some if not most of it to them really not knowing what they really want and not knowing how what to ask for.. so using the term rape is the term used..

[KDaddy23]

Yeah, you can almost pretty much tell when this fantasy is more than a fantasy to some guys and, as such, you tell them no and put some distance between you and them. Roleplaying is fine and one does have to consent to play the game and if they don't mind. No harm, no foul, and talking about roleplaying isn't a site violation.

[jjourneyman]

As a person who has been raped, I can say that it's not ever anything I would ever condone. It literally fucks you up physically and mentally.

Like a lot of men, my real foray into bi-sexuality started online. I had already had two very exciting and pleasurable sexual encounters with men, but I had been a teenager then. Now I wanted to experience it again as an adult. This was just before Craigslist shut down its personals site and now I know why. Early one Saturday afternoon, after couple of shots of tequila, I posted that I was a bottom and was interested in hooking up with someone who wanted oral and possibly anal. Within 30 minutes, I had at least 20 of what I would call serious responses. So, taking my time, I scrolled through and responded to three guys who sounded real and seriously interested.

After a few hours and several emails later, I kind of settled on one guy that I thought was the most genuine (and had a really nice cock based on the pics he sent me). We agreed to meet later that evening for a drink at a bar that was just a few minutes from my apartment. Sure enough, he showed up right on time and we got a table outside on the patio. He seemed cool. He ordered our drinks and a couple of appetizers. We started with small talk mostly and as the alcohol flowed, so did the conversation toward sex. He told me that he had just gone through a divorce and it had been a long time since he'd had a bj and a piece of ass, and that he was tired of trying to pick up women because of all of the head games. I told him I could sympathize and that I'd only had sex with two other guys, so I probably wasn't going to be the most experienced or skilled but that I was willing to take care of him with anything he wanted.

After about 30 minutes into our talk, I made the mistake of going to the bathroom. When I returned, I saw that he had ordered another round - one for the road as he put it. Within minutes of downing my drink, I began to feel dizzy and light headed. I just assumed it was from the liquor, but he must have put some elephant tranquilizer in my glass. I vaguely remember him helping me to his car.

Long story short, when I came to, I was lying face down on an old mattress. The room I was in was completely dark and I was naked from the waist down, and my throat was sore. When I rolled over to my side, I felt a sharp pain in my rectum. As I reached around behind me, I felt something hard protruding from my ass. It turned out to be the neck of a beer bottle. Somewhere through my brain fog, it registered that someone had shoved a bottle up my ass and that it might be broken and I could be bleeding inside. Fearing the worst, I somehow made my way onto my feet and leaned against a wall with the bottle still firmly lodged in my ass.

Once I was in a standing position, the pain in my stomach went away, so I figured the bottle must still be intact. Now it was just a matter of pulling it out, which I managed to do after much effort. By that time, the sun had started to rise and I could see that I was actually in a vacant house that had a "For Sale" sign in the front yard. In addition to the old mattress, there was a bunch of trash scattered around. Also, there on the floor, next to my beer bottle butt plug were five used condoms. Four were filled with cum and tied at the end. The fifth one was also tied at the end, but there was a rolled piece of paper inside. When I opened and read it, I was shocked. The note read, "The guys wanted me to thank you for being our bitch. We loved sharing that tight ass of yours. You took it like a champ. Couldn't hear you moan though because of all of the cock and cum you were swallowing. Sorry about the beer bottle but we wanted to leave you something to remember us by. If you want to do it again, you know where to reach me. See you around faggot."

To this day, I don't know how many guys were involved or how many times my ass and throat got fucked that night, at least four for sure judging by the used condoms and the dried cum in my hair.

Thankfully, I was able to find my pants. They were turned inside out and wadded up in one of the rooms. And, they were nice enough to leave my wallet, although they did take my ID and what little cash I had. I felt ashamed, alone and somewhat helpless. I did eventually figure out where I was and was able to get back to my apartment, although the walk home was painful.

Like the vast majority of male rape victims, I didn't report the incident to the police out of fear of being publicly outed, and in small part, out of fear of retribution if my attackers were ever caught.

Over the following several months, I began to have mini flashbacks which would come as brief glimpses as to how they used me. I was never able to make out any faces, just a lot of cocks being shoved in my face and ass. I also had nightmares, not to mention the worries that I might have contracted a STD. I eventually sought counseling and spent several trips to the health clinic to get tested, all of which thankfully turned out to be negative.

It was definitely scary, but somehow I was able to get through what was no doubt the worst night I never consciously experienced.

I have had consensual group sex with both men and women since then, but I think people who respond sexually to rape fantasies, whether as the aggressor or victim, need to re-examine the motivation(s) behind their thoughts.

[elian2]

As a person who has been raped, I can say that it's not ever anything I would ever condone. It literally fucks you up physically and mentally.

I'm really sorry man. One of the friends I've known for a long time confided in me that he was raped with a broom handle while he was unconscious as well (has scaring in his rectum) and another guy I dated -- a 6' 7" Police Dispatcher -- thought he might enjoy a submissive fantasy -- well when you are zip tied it doesn't matter how tall or strong you are. I loved cuddling with him, he was such a sweet guy -- but that's about all we did of course .. he was still trying to come to terms with it and still felt too ashamed to officially report.

In a room of 5-6 people at least one of them has experienced violence or trust issues related to sex or intimacy .. the first step towards healing is talking .. it can take a long time, but it IS possible to heal.

I remember going around thinking I was damaged goods, that no one would want me. That is a lie -- we are worthy of love, dignity and respect, (yeah even if your kink is shame.)

I am so grateful to have found a few patient, kind, respectful partners who helped me replace some bad memories growing up with better ones.