Why Do I Do This??? I Know Better

[Tight1-4u]

so you all know that I service sexually Frustrated married men.. I am usually very careful about the guys I service.. meaning there is a process to being with me.. usually 3 interviews prior to first meet including myself and at least one of my boyfriends..
about a week and a half ago one of my very good boyfriends calls me and asks if I would please fit him in my schedule.. then tells me that his brother in law is in bad need to release built up stress and strain aka: cum.. evidently they married twin sisters and both of them have cut them off of sex.. my guy has been using my service for a bout 3 months.. he ask if he could bring him with for a threesome?? He said that the guy is supper chill and a great friend and good father to his family.. we talked about him for about an hour.. basically my boyfriend vouching go this guy.. we set an appointment and met a week ago.. so my boyfriend was cool as usual.. dumped a couple loads in me and is good to go.. his brother in law was typical first timer.. shy and kinda reserved.. as boy friend is pounding away I get his pants off him and find a really nice rather thick half hard cock.. I can tell this guy is way above average in cock.. so I pull him to me and start sucking him.. they are spit roasting me.. the guy in my pussy is doing his normal good job of fucking me.. I am getting kinda excited about the cock growing in my mouth and now throat., this guy really is thick and has to be at least 9? long.. when the guy in my Pussy is done I rise up on my knees and pull him forward laying down on my back giving spreading my legs giving him full access.. he lays down on top of me.. I pull my legs up and wrap them around his waist., he is climbing up my body.. I feel his cock head find my hole.. it is wet and slimy from the cum in it., I moan in anticipation.. then he slowly deliberately pressed into me.. sliding in easily.. he fills my pussy full and I wiggle to accommodate his cock inside me.. he starts pumping in and out of me.. staring up my insides to make room for his length and girth., my pussy is being very happy having him inside her.. he fucked me very very well for about an hour before he exploded and filled me full of his built up dna.. about 30 min later he gives me the rest of his load.. I really enjoyed him fucking me.. but since then he has turned into a cocky belligerent ass.. demanding that I make time for my new master and daddy!!! I can?t believe that I let this happen.. I have had to block his number to stop his bullshit..
have any of the rest of you come across guys like this?? What a pain in the ass!!!

[Long Duck Dong]

Dealt with a number of guys that had the stance that the only reason I exist, is for their sexual pleasure, and I should be available whenever they want, IE they turn up on the doorstep unannounced and I am expected to get naked.....

I have had the same thing with females that have had the stance of I am a guy therefore I will want to fuck them, and got shocked when I would turn them down......

Now I am in a closed group of my partner, two females and another male, and yes occasionally there is random spontaneous sex, specially with the other guy enjoying fucking me deep and hard in the shower... but I have a system where if I am open and interested, I leave the shower door ajar.... and if I am not, its closed fully....... the others use a similar system as well.......

But like me, they have also had the bad experiences of males and females thinking that sex with them once, means that they are entitled to use them for sex whenever the need arises.......

[Neonaught]

While I don't play at the level you do I have met with a number of guys who, as time went by, became pushy and demanding. Not my thing at all. I'm accustomed to taking the lead and will happily accept input from my partners as to what they like/dislike and desire but I don't want to be treated like a performing dog. "Do this!" "Cum here!" etc...
Those jerks get the boot.

[KDaddy23]

Yeah, I've run into guys like that a few times. First-timers who came to me timid, unsure, and even afraid wind up turning into "monsters" and figuring that they get to boss me around and make demands on my time so they can get their dick sucked any old time they want it. I've had to set them straight, too. I kinda understand that with some of these guys, having sex with a guy... empowers them; it frees them from having to depend solely on women for sex and it can make some a bit "crazy" - but, as you experienced, it can drive some guys seriously crazy and now they think they own you... and, fuck that.

[Tight1-4u]

I get it I really do.. the guy gets cut off and then finds that there are alternatives out there.. he was invited into my service by his brother in law.. as a favor to his brother in law.. yes I enjoyed sex with him.. he is hung nicely and knows how to use it.. he fucked me really well.. I even considered making time for him personally.. but he doesn?t understand that he is not the only guy I am having sex with.. and even if he was I have a life of my own.. there is only one that gets unlimited use of me and never told no.. Dan is my boyfriend and lover!! He gets what ever he wants and when he wants,, that?s because he is my lover.. the rest of guys get to fuck me because of the situation they are in and because I feel sorry for them.. don?t get me wrong I love my guys!! I love giving my pussy to them!! But they all schedule time to use me.. this guy is demanding and that don?t fly in my world.. Hell Dan don?t demand.. just frustrating that I go out of my way to help a guy out and he turns out to be like this!! Showed up on my door step today while I was with someone and demanded to be let in and to be included in my time with someone..

[KDaddy23]

Yeah, looks like you not only turned him out, you got him hooked...

[DD788Snipe]

I get it I really do.. the guy gets cut off and then finds that there are alternatives out there.. he was invited into my service by his brother in law.. as a favor to his brother in law.. yes I enjoyed sex with him.. he is hung nicely and knows how to use it.. he fucked me really well.. I even considered making time for him personally.. but he doesn?t understand that he is not the only guy I am having sex with.. and even if he was I have a life of my own.. there is only one that gets unlimited use of me and never told no.. Dan is my boyfriend and lover!! He gets what ever he wants and when he wants,, that?s because he is my lover.. the rest of guys get to fuck me because of the situation they are in and because I feel sorry for them.. don?t get me wrong I love my guys!! I love giving my pussy to them!! But they all schedule time to use me.. this guy is demanding and that don?t fly in my world.. Hell Dan don?t demand.. just frustrating that I go out of my way to help a guy out and he turns out to be like this!! Showed up on my door step today while I was with someone and demanded to be let in and to be included in my time with someone..

Be careful, sometimes these things don't work out so well.

[KDaddy23]

Methinks you need to have a serious conversation with homey. Either DQ him from getting next to you ever again or tell him his attitude and behavior has to change - and tell him what changes you're talking about - or... he ain't getting anymore of you. You don't have to put up with this behavior; I know I sure as fuck wouldn't and I don't and I don't care how good the dick is.

[Tight1-4u]

KD: I agree whole heartedly.. already done!! The day he was on my doorstep I laid the law down.. he understands now that I don?t need him.. he thought that just because I enjoyed what he did,,that some how he did it better than the rest.. I told him that I have plenty of guys that do it just as,, if not better than him and they are great guys besides.. I broke a lot of my own rules.. I relearned my rules again..

[KDaddy23]

I think it's not so much a matter of breaking some rules but one of... not knowing how a guy, in this situation, is going to react. Once you see behaviors that you're not going to put up with, you either correct them... or shut him down permanently. I've given guys their first dick experience and some have gone batshit crazy, which I understand; who really knew that sucking dick and being sucked with a guy could be so damned hot and satisfying? I've never minded getting with them again but when some have gotten pushy and demanding - and like they have sole right of access to me - well, sit down, homey - we need to have a conversation. I shut down my now late son-in-law for this very reason; he'd gotten to a point where he was calling me and demanding that I come over and suck him off and copped an attitude when I'd say that I couldn't at the moment and he did it one time too many and I shut him down and cut him off. A shame, too, because we were good together.

Years later, we got to talking about this and he admitted that he had... lost his mind because I was the only person who could suck him and make him cum and he wanted more and more. I'd told him that I hadn't wanted to end what we were doing but it had to be done. I felt "a little better" knowing that he regretted his behavior and was man enough to own up to it.

[IncuBI slut]

I don't mind a little "demanding" in the dirty talk, or in the actual fucking.

But I don't stay available if the attitude turns demanding and entitled.
As someone else has said, no matter how good the dick is, it's not worth the drama and bullshit and attitude.