What brings you to Bisexual.Com?

[ambi53mm]

Reading some of the more recent posts poses the questions: How did you come to this site. and what do you hope to find here? I came here purely by accident.I meant to type .Org and typed .Com instead. A simple error with good consequence. What I hoped to find was answers to questions and to give back what has been given so freely.

Ambi :)

[Long Duck Dong]

it was recommended to me by a dear friend..... lol

I had just stood down as one of 5 mods, from a site forum of over 120,000 people and was close to giving up on the possibility of meeting and talking to intelligent people online

so I joined bisexual.com.....and stayed.... and stayed...... and yeah... i am still here ......

my sister, skye, was a lesbian and this year, the aids virus finally became too much for her and she surrendered her life.....but she used my computer a few times and read the posts and articles in bisexual.com... and she said to me, that this site is living proof that us bisexuals are more than fuck buddies.... we are human people with intelligent and feelings, smiles and laughter.... and if I stopped coming here, she would come back and haunt me when she died

to me, bisexual.com is a welcome home, warm hug, and pull up a chair and lets chat, type site.....a place I have recommended to all my friends

[Enoll]

Appart from my girlfriend, I don't know any other bisexuals so I came
here to make afew friends.

[unum60]

I had given up on the internet -- I erased my yahoo profile and deleted my account, I had searched through my computers and deleted everything associated with sex. I had one computer left that I was going to throw away and before doing so, I hooked it back up to make sure that I was not getting rid of anything important. In my favorites was this site, that I had signed up for some time ago --- I thought I would peek one more time and here I am.

There so many people out there with so many motives and issues, most seem confused about who and what they are. The bisexual thing is well something that wants to be defined, a category for people who need definition. I find that this defining is happening here and I have become interested in the interaction.

Although I do get frustrated at times with the men who are so so desperate for female attention and the women who are not too sure what male bisexuality is, I am finding a comfortable place to express myself.

I am here not to understand myself, but express who I have become. I am not starving for sex or attention, I am not in desperate need to convince myself or anyone else of anything.

If freindships are possible I welcome them!

[pasco_lol_cpl]

Being a bi couple we were frustrated with the lack of outlets for us to get to know others of the same mindset. We were about ready to give up, and then we found this place. Its refreshing to meet those with a similar situation to ours. Though new to the site we enjoy this place on many levels. We like being able to discuss topics and learn from others with out having to deal with the trash some folks in other communities would heap on us for being bi. To be honest we look forward to one day meeting some of the folks on here in person so we can get to know one another better. The site is also well oganized and layed out. Its not loaded with bloated features or gimicks and doesnt skimp on any of what we feel are the required elements for a community centered board.

[Chaia]

My profile says most of what I would say here--I came here looking for like-minded people to discuss bisexual issues. I am from a smaller town in the midwest and that makes being bi somewhat isolating. It is wonderful to find so many people who are accepting of the life I find myself living. I continue to come back to this site because of the intelligent, caring, and polite conversations that abound on the forum. We don't always agree, but we are almost always polite and I have not found that to be true on every site I have looked into. Thank you to everyone who makes this a warm and honest place to come to.

[bediddle]

I came here because apart from my best friend I don't really know any other bisexual people.

I'm interested in how people live their lives as happy well adjusted bisexuals. I guess in that sense I'm looking for role models.

In any event, it's a nice site. I haven't posted too often but I've read a lot.

[Herbwoman39]

This is my other home. You all are my second family. One (and in many cases more than one) of you is always here when I need help or advice or just need to vent.

I looked all over the local area for a support group and found none. I tried for three months to form my own group. No one showed up. I was feeling very much alone in the world. Aside from my best friend's 16 year old daughter, I was the only Bi person I knew. And while it's a wonderful thing to have a supportive hubby and friends, it REALLY is not the same as being able to talk about issues with someone who's in the same boat.

One afternoon out of sheer desperation I looked on Bisexual.Org for support groups AGAIN. Of course I found nothing. AGAIN. So on a whim I typed in Bisexual.com and found this place.

Here I wasn't judged for being married to a man or choosing monogamy. No one told me I wasn't bi because of that. I was accepted for who I am and actually ENCOURAGED to be myself...whatever that meant.

I've grown so much because of the help and support I found here. I now understand myself so much better and I can accept that I'm Bi and be happy with it. It took a while to get to that point, but here I am.

This is my home. These people are my family.

[hillwalker54]

With a spouse that would be/is unaccepting of my BI side, it's a place i can talk with others that are not only Bi, but just plain great people! I've met and continue to chat with a few people i've met here and their friendships mean a lot to me.

In the short time here i've also learned more about myself and become more comfortable in talking about my "Biness".

Thank's all..

[pasco_lol_cpl]

Herbwoman bring sup a good point, with the dearth of physical support / community groups for folks that are bi, this place is a fantastic comfort zone / resource.

[Doggie_Wood]

I was surfing the web for bisexual eroticisms and found this site. My first thoughts, "Oh shit - another place that wants my information - and it's free!? (for how long?)" Well, Drew still hasn't asked me for a CC number (not that I would give it) LOL
So, I perused the site, read a few articles and comments in the forums then dove into the chat. Daayyyyyuuuummmmmm!! Real peeps!! I found most everyone to be ginuinely warm and caring, which kinda gave me that warm fuzzy feeling inside - you know what I mean?
Those I can and do call my friends (you know who you are) have become in important part of my life and as my second family. Good things have happened and I've laughed & jumped with joy. Not so good things have happened and I have wept until my hankie was sopping wet. And in my travels I have had the opportunity to meet several chat friends in person.
Wow!! Imagine that! Real people - real friends - real good times.
I am so glad I stumbled accross this site.
:doggie:

[DiamondDog]

I found this site because I was on other bisexual sites with personals only they wound up making you pay and didn't have an interesting php fourm to post on.

[Fire Lotus]

I know a few people on this site, so I thought I'd be here too. I have bi community and friends in Toronto, but more is always a good thing......especially when I'm in the states during the times I have to be away from Toronto.

[mistymockingbird]

My best friend chats on gay.com all the time. After I got divorced, he suggested I do a search for a bisexual chat room so that I could talk to people with similar "interests". I found two...bi.org and this one.

Have to confess I chatted more often at bi.org in the beginning. I've made some wonderful friends there that have become very much a part of my life. I chatted here as well and got to know a few of you. These days I don't chat that much in the rooms here or at bi.org. Most of my chatting is done via yahoo or msn with friends I've made at these two sites.

I do like that this site has free personals, up to date listings of local events, links to resources, etc.

What I really love about this site, and its also the reason that now I come here more than the "other" site, is the forums. I enjoy reading what other people have to say on a variety of topics. I like throwing my two cents in. I like that without having to spend hours in chat, you can get a sense for the community here. I have a feel for the personalities of some people without ever having chatted with them. I love that this site has something to offer to everyone that comes here, regardless of how actively they choose to participate.

This is definitely a community. A community that proves time and time again to be as accepting as it is diverse. One that pushes folks to live their best lives, but doesn't hold it against them when they stumble. (Not for long anyway, lol) It is a community that I cherish and am proud to be a part of.

[citystyleguy]

i was playing one day, a particular day when i felt very lost; most sites related to sexuality, end up being nothing but posting boards for sex ads. no real conversation, no discussions, etc., so doing a basic search and up popped a reference to this site. the rest is history!

great site, great discussions, lots of topics, and loads of other bi's! :bibounce:

[holle1199]

I found this by accident but it looked interesting and I am hoping to meet some local people to be friends with--I have been in the Si Pete Fla area for 2 years or so and haven't had any luck in meeting couples to get together with or to even be friends with.
Jim

[twosides]

My intro to this site is similar to those before me. I was investigating what was available on the net in the bisexual realm as I was coming to a greater awareness of my sexual identity. I haven't been a chatter since the early days of AOL rooms; I couldn't think fast enough with my fingers to say what I wanted to say. I wasn't able to write what I really thought about something just off the cuff. So when I found these thoughtful, honest, caring, and informative, forums, I knew I had found a community that I wanted to be a part of. It has helped me be able to form my thoughts about many of the topics. I stepped away for awhile over the past year, but recently came back because I missed the intellectual debate. Kudos to Drew for doing what he has accomplished and hopefully will be able to continue to do.

[mannysg]

I did a search for bisexual looking for someplace to talk to other bisexual people, particularly bisexual men. Living in a small town in a conservatice area makes it difficult to speak freely about anything other then hetero relationships. I'd love to have a bi man friend to hang around with and talk freely with, even if we never have sex. I'm happily married and don't want to cheat on my wife. If I (we) came across a man that we were both attracted to, and was attracted to us, then perhaps something sexual might happen between the 3 of us. I hope for such a sitiuation, but not expect it.

It's refreshing to find a place where discussions are about more then just looking for someone to have sex with.
:male: Manny

[sam08537]

Once when our lover was home for a stay, he mentioned that he had been posting here. After he leaves, we miss him terribly. We came on here to read his posts, to feel a shared connection...or more accurately - WE WERE LURKING HIM ON LINE :bigrin: I stayed because it's nice to be somewhere that you can be exactly who you are and have that support. It's nice to read about people who have had similar experiences to mine. :three: :bibounce:

[Lisa (va)]

I think I must be getting older, I came to be a member of Bisexual.com because the name had changed. :) I really started coming here when it was BCN (hope some of ya'll remember them days!).

As for how i found it, I clicked the wrong button on my ex's computer and brought up the history instead of favorites and it was listed, so I decided to bring it up and check out what she was looking at.

AS for why I stay, it's a place that I have grown continually fond of. There is so much support to be found among the folks here and though in the earlier years I use to live on the site I sorted drifted off (to handle my personal life) and visits became less and less frequent, though I am concsiously trying to come more. Just as many folks say that sexuallity is fluid and ever changing within individuals, life changes as well, and I am not excluded from that. But the love you develop for some, just need to come in once in a while to here a friendly hello and say hi: puts a big smile on my face everytime. Love to all who have put up with me.

Lisa

hugs n kisses

[Tynary]

well I'm a teen. I started discovering I liked women I thought I was gay and I found a site through google called gayteen.org I like stayed there a while and got bored with the simplicity and lack of biness and immaturity then found a link on there to freeethoughts for young gays bis and str8tallies and it was fun for many months and met some neice peeps but it dried up and theall members of the small site stopped using it but I found an advertisment for bisexual.com on there once and went there looked around a bit and when I turned 18 I joined and was nervous but began to like it and feel safe.

[Sitka]

I don't recall what initially brought me here, confusion i think was the biggest deciding factor. i stopped by Gay.com for the first time, and as the pictures loaded I felt increasingly more out of place.. much more so than with my straight friends and family. It just hit me that moment, there is a huge grey area that i had never consitered before that fit me to a Tee. the logical First place to go for me was bisexual.com, and it was what i was looking for. and after reading what you guys have had to say i feel more comfortable in my skin now than i ever have before. and i must say, this is the most friendly forum i've ever been to

[wanderingrichard]

had been searching for an online home after dumping another site that was over run with all the wrong people. and no control by the owners. i needed a place with people who had better educations, more open and worldly points of view, and were respectful of one another. didnt find that at that other place ..hmpf! make that, places.

actually fell onto this site quite by accident, looked at it, passed it by, but kept coming back.. it struck me after looking thru the site as a guest, that gee, this has a lot of what i'm looking for, it even lets you in as a guest to check it out and interact with the community.. not too many other lifestyle sites do that.,

anyhow, i kept coming back and back and , finally, ok i joined... and have never once regretted it,.

[clairey271978]

what bought me to bisexual.com....well one day i was sitting at my computer and thought about all th feelings id been gettin for women recently, and jus on teh off chance typed in bisexual to see wot cum up and to my surprise this syte came up....i was so curious and jsu thought come on jus join and see wot u find....so i did!! and u know wot theres all sorts of people from al walks of life wiv different sexualities and feelings and they are al so friendly and welcoming!as soon as i entered the chat i was made to feel welcome, 1st person being "littleray"! shes adorable and friendly and ive made quite few friends in there now! im finding myself and can talk about my feelings in teh room wivout bein too shy and closed in..i would recommend this syte to others as ive had good expereinces from here in such short time!!

[ziggybabie]

looking for locals. possibly to find a bi woman whose into bi men for friendship first, then maybe longterm relationship.

[mfanycomb]

An interesting question to pose. But the more I thought about the answers I've read & thought about coming here myself, I thought that the answers really didn't answer anything except the personal experience on one person. :2cents:

Most people seem to want to connect w/ others. Generally this a very feminine trait--women tend to use networking as the process to deal w/ life. :female: But it also can be a masculine trait, think of getting together for a football or baseball game. :male:

Without understanding the person's particular sexuality & needs we really don't understand what the person is really saying when they talk about why they come here except on a very superficial level.

Personally, I am a lone wolf type--or maybe a better example would be a lone grizzly. Wolf really can't survive for long w/o the emotional and survival benefits of the pack. Grizzlies on the other hand only come together for sex generally, although they occassionally have a certain community during things like the salmon run or eating sedge grass. (As Desmond Morris does, I see many reflections between animal social/sexual practices and humans.)

Personally what others get from belonging to and interacting in a community nature, I get from contact from 1, 2, 3, 4, or 5 immediate contacts which I can intimately have contact with. Many feel this contact w/ a deep long conversation where deeply felt things are said. I've found that this is a good starting point but that the ultimate contact has to be sensual & sexual before a feeling of real completion is achieved (& I don't just mean orgasm although the illusion is humorous & real).

So the boards generally are interesting, they and chatting generally leaves me feeling empty like masturbation. Something has been done, but hunger is still there and nothing has been accomplished.

I think that I've had a fairly strong grip on my own sexuality for years. I thought about being w/ men, but certain events (and just sheer age) had to happen before I actually took any action. It would be easy to say that I'm bisexual, but that's really misleading. I'm a sensualist who won't allow societies prohibitions stop me in who I have sex with. Actually I'm closer to being described as pansexual than bi. But convenience & common understanding makes saying you are bi a lot easier generally w/o a lecture about all the nuances and vaguaries that any one person poses on the sexual rainbow in color, hue, tint, density.

Suffice it to say then that as others, I am continually searching to find outlets for my particular brand of sexuality, and have been coming here off and on for several years to find others of a like nature which would eventually lead to that deep contentment of occassional intellectual, emotional, and physical contact.

All people are so alike in their wants & needs, yet so individual. If we can occassionally break down those barriers of individualism while respecting it, then you can have a chance of some real satisfaction. :yikes2:

[bigregory]

I was born here and Drew is my daddy..

[wetkatz]

hi how are you?i came accross this site because i was tired of people saying what i had to be,why cant i make the choice by myself?its my happiness not everyone eles,god i just want people to butt out!!except me for me,iam not going to change for no one,if iam happy being this why then iam staying this way,i just want to find love like everyone eles.i hope i find alot of friends i can chat to.iam just me ,iam not a fake,so live your life to the fullest with no regrets : ;) be happy with who you are!! mwahhh!!!! take care.......bye :)

[Mrs.F]

Well, let's see. I found out about this site very unexeptedly. Caught my husband on it one morning (not sure how he found it, he will have to answer that himself) but it was then that I found out my husband was bisexual. I didn't know how to deal with it, didn't know what a bisexual was and had alot of fear of the unknown. My husband explained to me that there were straight wives on here and many others who could and would help me and he was right. I joined here as myself and did alot of soul searching on my own and what I found was a 2nd home, a 2nd family and many, many friends that I could never live without now. I've become very proud to be a member of this site. :)

P.S.--I'm still straight...lol. I get asked that alot.. :rolleyes:

[onewhocares]

Gee, it seems like a lifetime ago that we found this site accidently. Time has flown by...I can not believe it has been a year. Hubby and I had decided to try and find a man to develope a long term relationship with. Something more than just casual sex. What we found was that and SO SO much more. We have been priveledged to have met so many wonderful people, many who have become dear friends, some more. As a straight woman married, twenty years last week, I wanted to learn more about being bi and how other wives handle it. I wanted to learn more about hubby initially, in the end, I have learned more about myself.

Belle

[tatooedpunk]

Don't know any other bisexuals, i have only come out to my wife recently
this site does help me

[open2both]

Hoping to meet other bisexuals. :flag3:

[me2lovebugs]

I have been bi curious since I was 17. I have been married and had girlfriends who never really understood my curiosity. Well, I now have met a woman who is also bi. At first I was still wanting to "hide" my bi curious side from her, but she has brought it to the surface. She is the one who found this site and put our profile on it. She's been surfing the net to find other sites where we might meet folks that have similar interests as she and I. I am somewhat shy until I get to know you, then look out! Hopefully one day my curiosity will become a reality. Thanks all for this great site! :) ;)

[Emental]

Well I came here by accident... I don't know what to expect, it's too early to say anything. Hope to find people to talk to. People like me. :bibounce:

[Myth ril]

Stubbled on to it by accident thank god, and feel like I found a home, support and finally the right place to be !!

Like many other posts I had been alone and frustrated for a long time. GREAT SITE, and despite my newness, from all appearances a Great Community.

[holybane]

Well, I came here by accident, looking for a place to chat. I checked it out and thought about joining and finally decided too. At first I was very excited to talk to people who feel like I do, but lately I've found that not many people want to talk to me, and I've found that some people that I've been talking to for months just stopped talking to me altogether after I put up my pictures. I mean, I know I'm not attractive (although my gf always tells me I am), but I think it's really mean to quit talking to someone just because you think they look bad, and none of them even just straight out told me, they just stopped. I'm losing my faith in this site and trying to make new friends is harder and harder.

I live in a small city, with only a couple of people on here from the city or around it and they're either not who I'm looking to talk to or aren't interested, and some won't even have to courtesy to respond. When I look outside my zone to talk to people from different states and areas they don't respond either, and I just feel even worse about my appearance or my profile or me.

Despite my lack of luck I am so glad that so many of you have found this place a wonderful place to meet and talk to people. I just wish I could say the same. It is a great community, definitely, but it's just not working for me I guess. I've met a few good people here and I know them to be good people, but slowly they've stopped talking, or they just started to get to know me and I'm afraid they'll stop talking to me.

Lol, enough of my sob story. Sorry to take up so much space, I wish you all luck and this is a great place to be!

-Roger :bigrin:

[Married_in_s_Tx]

searching for something, but I don't know what. I'm married (long time) wife is a "good ol gal' but is straight-laced, and I'm all over the place sexually. I've had affairs with both female and male partners, and I find that I enjoy being with both (almost) equally. I've gone to gay sites and chatrooms and there's where i found my male 'fun', but i hate the 'horniness' (is that a word) of the gay guys that i come across in those rooms. I know that I can't ever tell my wife about my bisexuality, so it's nice to be able to have an outlet somewhere. maybe that's what I'm looking for...

[NothingToSeeHere]

Google. LOL!

Seriously, I woke up about a week and a half ago and couldn't move / eat / function. I had these "feelings" thru-out my life and finally something in me exploded. I immediately said "I'm gay" and told my wonderful girl that I've been with for about 7 years. It was so devistating that I couldn't handle it.

It was very scary b/c I KNEW I had a sexual attraction for men, but I didn't have the other feelings (and never had) that I deem more important than sex ... things I have with my gf. Holding hands, kissing, being there for one another, L-O-V-E; these things seemed foreign in my mind when I projected them unto a fictious man. I never found a guy "hot" or fell in love w/ my best friend, etc. I'm 28, and I thought I would have known by now if I wanted to be in a relationship with a man, but that thought never crossed my mind. I wasn't/am not even attracted by men, just things "south-of-the-border" ...

Ok, end tangent. To answer, I came here because I was CONFUSED and found this place is where (probably, still figuring that out) I really belong.

[littlerayofsunshine]

Awww dear Sweet Clairey, Ty hun for that. I finally found the post your were talking about btw. LOL.


What brought me here. I am bisexual. Have always been. Always will be.
I felt isolated, I live in an area that is supressed in a way. There are only two types of sexuals, homo and hetero, me being in the middle, didn't really belong, or have friends I could be open with. My husband has always known about my sexuality. But with him being male, he can support me but not substitute a female connection. My first attempt to reach out to other married bisexual females and bisexuals in general, was a myspace profile. After a few months I decided, that there had to be more options available. And low and behold, after a couple of stumbling across then joining some rather pathetic bisex sites, I found this Gem of a one. I lurked all of 10 minutes here, read through the forum, saw everything I needed to see. Laughter, support, caring, understanding, friendship, family and love. No judgements at all. I joined and then deleted my accounts with the other sites I had joined before finding this place. And ever since, it has been my 2nd home, my little mini vacations of the mind. Everyone here is so friendly and warm. This site has helped me gain more confidence and understanding. I am a brighter shinier version of myself. I luv this place and all my friends.

[matterinhand]

Hi All,

Probably a strange way of finding this site; a close relative said that he'd got bisexual feelings, and it awoke the urge in me to see if other people were involved in a bi site that wasn't all cyber and porn.

Did a google search for 'bisexual' and found this very interesting and entertaining site. :tong:

[jack6two]

I can't live bisexual as i would like it, so i want to see and to talk about it! :female: :male:

[canuckotter]

Personally, I was a little bored one night and decided to see what was out there for bisexuals. Found the forums here and was very impressed at how incredible the site is, and how friendly and supportive everyone is, so I figured I'd join up and hang out for a while. :)

[tygerhart]

I am living in a desert known as NW Louisiana and need interaction with other LGBTs. The people here hate anyone different and that means me, since I'm a bi-femme and a pagan. Hope to make new friends with interests and hobbies they can talk coherently about and share with me. I've never before lived in such a closeted place with no culture. Feel I should be able to at least meet others online to talk with.

[gagngapeme]

well basically i came here to meet others like me to meet up and fulfill each others fantasies.

[citrus]

Freedom. Peers. Intelligence. These are some of the things I seek and can have here.

[izzfan]

What brings me to this site? Hmm.... I guess that I first stumbled across it by accident when trawling the internet for anything LGBT related, this was before I went to university and when I was still in the closet. I only got round to joining it a week or so ago after a disco by my university's LGBT society in which a (probably rather strongly gay) DJ started asking me if I was bisexual after I requested a tune by 'The Offspring' (probably quite 'straight' music). After getting back from the disco I couldn't get to sleep (too many caffeinated alcopops lol.... what? they were on special offer lol) and so I started reading this forum as well as several TV/CD ones (which I have not yet signed up for). Finally, I thought about the DJ's comments and thought 'sod it! I'm Bi and I should be proud of it' and I ended up signing up to the site at something like 3am lol.

Izzfan

[taz67156]

kitten first got me to come here so I could understand bisexuals and now I'm looking to meet people and hopefully make more friends on here, I've found alot of very nice people here and like that this site gets people from all over the world.

[someotherguy]

I heard there were ez women and hung men here in dire need of reminding just how great sex can be, so out of a sense of obligation I stopped by. :cool:

[holle1199]

Well I am here hopefully to meet some new friends and to be able to talk about what being bi is all about, it seems to be different for everyone, I mean as to each person liking different things.I am also hoping to meet some people on here from the Tampa Bay, St Pete area that I may actually get to meet in person.
Jim

[Nicchick1973]

I thought that it would be a great site to meet a lot of new people. Just like I imagine a lot of people are here for. I came across this site in the search engine and so far am really liking what I see.
As a bi curious female, I have a lot of questions and am hoping to have them answered. Hoping to also find a compatible female. Someone like myself.
We shall see

[ambi53mm]

Curiosity

[Domino]

I was directed here by a friend, whom was bisexual himself. I never actually thought to look for anything like this, but I guess he was. It served a purpose then, and now I just tend to use it as a forum.

I am not looking for anyone, but there are certain members whos minds I think are unique and inspiring, I like to read anything by Long Duck Dong and there are a few others such as biwords, diamonddog ETC...

Myself, my bisexuality has come easy, I never had a problem with it, so I don't feel like I belong in this pool of outcasts.

[scubaman]

I found this site after coming out to my wife. After talking about it she suggested I find a support group and look on line for information. Found this site and have learned a great deal about the what bisexuality means to me and other people, and learned so much about myself. A lot of wide and varying topics are discussed in the corner of cyberspace and I really appreciate everyones views. There are some really good people here who are willing to accept you for who you are!

[Solomon]

to be more sociable among people that aren't hung up over societies perspective's on issues

[Seigun]

Pure chance.

I was wondering if there were any resources or communities for bisexuals-- I knew about very few sites , and I wasn't doing well with running on my 15th year pretending to be straight or gay just to keep people around me happy. I REALLY needed an outlet.

I forgot exactly how I found it.. maybe after I searched Google for the 3rd time with my third search string.

All I know is that when I first got here, I was really surprised. But I also remember thinking that I wouldn't stay long because of the amount of sexual orientation communities that seem to focus wholly on sex. I thought this would be one of them, to tell the truth.

I was wrong, and happy to admit it. :bigrin:

[miller lite man]

had been searching for an online home after dumping another site that was over run with all the wrong people. and no control by the owners. i needed a place with people who had better educations, more open and worldly points of view, and were respectful of one another. didnt find that at that other place ..hmpf! make that, places.

actually fell onto this site quite by accident, looked at it, passed it by, but kept coming back.. it struck me after looking thru the site as a guest, that gee, this has a lot of what i'm looking for, it even lets you in as a guest to check it out and interact with the community.. not too many other lifestyle sites do that.,

anyhow, i kept coming back and back and , finally, ok i joined... and have never once regretted it,.
what brought me to this site was my curiousity about being bisexual.I actually stumbled onto it,and am glad I did. I'm str8,wife's bi. Main goal was/is finding locals.I also enjoy reading and discussing the various topics,rated from "G" to "R". There's more locals in this area than I thought,and we have found one bi lady,who's about 4 hours away,and we're happy about that.It's fun to talk with ppl from all over the world, yep!
we'd like to find more locals.
Anyway, we enjoy bisexual.com for those reasons. :)
mrc57107@aol.com

[flexuality]

A lot of confusion, a lot of questions, feeling lost and a search engine. :tong:

And none of it sexual :cool:

[otterly1]

i volunteer at my local lgbt center and there is a flier for bisexual.com on the bulletin board. i have been having a rather torrid affair on-line with a bisexual man at gay.com. there were a couple weeks where that site was down and we couldn't get to one another. it was DIFFICULT to say the least. soon after, we joined bisexual.com as an alternative chat from for gay.com and what a blessing. so many nice people here. to ice the cake a bit, my lover and i are able to leave each other discreet notes throughout the day. SWEEEEEEEET.

[Studley2000]

I came here last month by googling "bisexual". Bisexual.com was at the very top of the list. Quite frankly, I was looking for sex. I found much more.

I became aware that I was attracted to both sexes in my late teens. Since I'm in my early sixties now, you can imagine that admitting to those attractions back in those days was not something that one could discuss with anyone. There was no place like bisexual.com, so for many many years I lived the straight life and kept my real feeling bottled up. This place has allowed me to discuss my sexual preferences openly with other people like myself. What a releif. Thanks to Drew, and thanks to all of you. :)

[deletetacount123]

Met a girl from Womanline.com (part of lavalife but for lesbians or female bisexuals seeking females) who told me about this site.
I was like "I don't think Im bisexual so why should I join?"
She said "Well your in question about your sexually... perfect reason."

lol
So I joined.... she no longer comes here tho (don't know why) but thanks to this site I have learned a lot about my sexually and other stuff too :) Great place to meet friends.

[BiPixie]

I was searching for a place online where I felt I could truly belong speaking from a sexual orientation point of view. There are so few quality bisexual sites out there that don't focus only on 'hooking up' and whatnot. So far, I'm liking this place.

[Tingly_Tickles]

I'm with BiPixie I was trying to find some place that I could actually come out
to so to speak and just be myself for who I really am and this way maybe get
more encouragement to hopefully one day come out to all my friends and even
family, and to get general advise on different things.

[FalconAngel]

We're here because I am Bi and my lovely and adoring wife wanted me to not have to closet my sexuality just because we are in a relationship.

Since the places to find other Bisexuals in the public world are almost non-existent and very far between, we went to the web.
Lo and behold, here we are on this site as well as a few Yahoo groups and other Bi and swinger sites trying to find Bi guys that are local, meet our basic physical requirements and want to be friends and not just playmates.

[raistkit]

for me it started out as a quest for answers, and for raist exploration. this site is a place we can come to seperatly and toghether, and be excepted for who and what we are. i'de like to thank both the people who posed the questions i was thinking about, and those who answered with care, compassion, and understanding. you helped me to realize that we are not alone, and that helped me so much. now i'm starting to do a little exploring of my own, and you know what raist is behind me 100%. this site and the wonderful people here helped me to open up. thanx luv kit :)

[BI BOYTOY]

well first off i would like to say hi. :bigrin: i have been gone for a good 8 months or so.and i came back.what brought me here to begin with is that everybody in here are a great bunch of people. they dont seem to prejudge other people. so i came back. :bigrin: :bigrin: :bigrin: :bipride:

[my-00-stang]

i stumbled onto this site as well i was looking for bi groups and such because i am 38 bi married man who's wife will not accept this behavior, and i was hoping to find friends locally to meet and also just be able to talk to people like me. it has taken me along time to agree with myself that i am in fact a bisexual man, and this forum has helped me with it because there are so many here like me. i am glad i found this forum and glad i am able to express myself with you all with out fear of judgmental people or being outcast.
so thanks to all of you for being warm and welcoming and most important being bi like me.

[ForbiddenWindow]

I'm a new member, and also bicurious. I hope to meet friends online as well as gain a support group.

So just want to say thanks to the makers for the injenuity of this website.

[delpark]

The urges for male to male sex have become stronger over time and I was looking for an outlet. I did an internet search and found this site. My urges seem to be changing to needs. I am hoping to find friends with similar needs. I am not comfortable cruising for a quick blow job, I want to find a place where nudity and sex are socially acceptable, whether that be in a bedroom or elsewhere.

Want to get what I can't at home. :flag4:

[ambi53mm]

There have been some really great answers to this question....I find myself returning to this site more often than any other website I currently visit...It's got everything one could want from an online community.. I keep meaning to leave but can't seem to find the door out...just the haunting distant memory from two years ago of where I came in...In...or..Out...oh yeah...maybe that's the reason...in lieu of some of the more recent posts...the question once again..

Ambi:)

[ambi53mm]

Do you think that it was just coincidence that I gave the 69th response?

Ambi:)

[mrplayfuluk]

I can't actually remember how I found this site but I've been a member a couple of years now and still come here daily for a look around. I haven't met anyone face to face so to speak but I am starting to make more effort to do so these days. The trouble is that the anonymity of this place makes it so easy for people to bottle out like I used to so still not sure it a the best place to meet people. Even the flesh is willing now and the mind is stronger! having this site to come to, centres me and my bisexuality.

[kk-n-tk]

We found the site pretty much the same way as everyone else through a search engine. We wanted to explore the lifestyle as we are curious as to what it is like. We've been married for a while now and about two years ago started playing with a toyon the male. He liked it so much that it has been a regular part of our sexual play. We are trying to find a hookup on here and other sites so that he can try the real thing not to mention he wants to watch a guy screw is wife. Only one problem and that is that she is very shy and scared to make that second step (afterall she is the one who signed up here) of finding a good guy or couple to play with.

[jonybangbang]

surfed in havent left.though i have known for some time that i am bi i finally decided to try to learn how to be bi.dont get a chance to purssue it much but i like it here.i would like to thank MR.BURLESON for what he is doing here.i am belive he is making a difference.

[dr_mcnally]

i was looking for a place to find people to chat about being bi with, especially those that live in secluded non-bi friendly areas, and not get swamped with people looking for sex (being bi, but hetro committed). Sad to say i have not seen much of that here from local people

[Daviecurious]

As realization of my bi-ness increased, I began to search for answers. This search included looking on the web, which led me here. I "lurked" for a while, and found out that I was not alone in my feelings. Others had travelled on the same journey; had some questions about my feelings answered, and that this is a community. I stayed. This is very much a comfort zone for me. :male:

[Bethyboop]

Ally







I'd have never met this wonderful woman, without her having come here and learning more about her self...and I started coming just to see who all these names she brings up in conversations were all about

[darkeyes]

Ally





Awww an not lil ole me??? tee hee...

No matta Bethy..ya cud do lots worse.... jus relieved 2 hear it wosnt goat face!:bigrin:

[diB4u]

Well I came to this site by accident. After privately going through the motions, and also a recommendation from another site, I thought that I would finally be brave enough to see what is out there…For I am pansexual, single, in constant denial about who I am or what I am, after having what I would personally call a emotional journey with a female co- worker, I felt it was time that some changes took place within my life.

However, I really would love to meet other’s who are similar to me, for social networking, romance as well… Romance does that ever truly happen.[B]I’m disgruntled woman, needing to find my way in life and my footing with like minded lost souls. So any bisexual or bi curious men and women please get in touch… I promise I wont bite, well not much lol…

[vittoria]

friendship
comraderie
hell i even found a wonderful boyfriend on here and we live together in our own little bi world....

intelligence... opinions... common sense....

theres a lot of kewl peeps on here :)

[PolyLoveTriad]

In one simple word.... Hope

[ziggybabie]

Meet some friends. Possibly meet a bi gal for friendship with potential for longterm relationship.

[Azrael]

The fact that I can be myself here.

[Tenri]

I don't really know any other bisexual people, and I wanted some place where I could feel accepted, because many people don't believe in bisexuality.

It seems like a nice community. :)

[ChsnyNLelandsBsh]

I have been curious about my sexuality since I was in Jr. High but was never very comfortable with it...I was innocent and didnt know what it was or what I really felt...but a year ago I was with a guy that was horrible! treated me like crap! Never knew how to take care of my sexual needs....ETC. Well, it got worse and I started to be more and more curious about my sexuality and its starting to peak...I guess is how you call it....Im becoming more and more wanting a female....and a lil while ago I found this place searching through google.com and I liked it...I came out to my family and it was a nightmare and then I left here for a bit but now I am back because I know what and who I am and I am comfortable with it....and I feel if you like me you accept me for who I am....

[Olivia920601]

Are u lookin for a serious relationship with bisexual women?

[charles-smythe]

Reading some of the more recent posts poses the questions: How did you come to this site. and what do you hope to find here? I came here purely by accident.I meant to type .Org and typed .Com instead. A simple error with good consequence. What I hoped to find was answers to questions and to give back what has been given so freely.

Ambi :) …I was invited by another member…like to talk to fellow cocksuckers…

[luvcocks]

I found this place by a google search of the word bisexual.

[naztypanty]

I am here to acknowledge that I am more than a heterosexual, pussy loving man. I fantasize about, and have experiences with, men.

[justafella]

Well, I came here hoping it was another bi-hookup site. The honest chatting that goes on in the forums has proven to be the best part, I always knew there were many aspects of bi and the ongoing discussions here are fun and provoking. It's not much of a dating place but one can hope.

[Mountyboy2000]

I joined up in the hope that I would find someone who will allow me to explore my bi-curious urges needs and desires that I have had since I was ten years old,now I am a 61 year old widowed guy with all the time in the world to explore

[M4RealUb2]

I joined hoping to find others in my area that I could become friends with...be myself with. I wanted to meet someone that I could actually hang out with. It seems from the experiences I've had on the site that my approach to friendship or my definition of friendship needs revisiting.

[cuttin2dachase]

I found a link to this site on another bi/swinger website and checked it out. At first I was disappointed because it wasn't primarily a hookup site. But I enjoyed the intelligent, witty chat in the old chatroom as well as the naughty PMs and I stuck around. I've made some good female and male friends here, albeit they're long distance friends I'll never get the opportunity to meet. I did meet one bi married guy from this site in real time that I wouldn't have otherwise met. He turned out to be my first real boyfriend. We met a number of times before I relocated.

Despite the turmoil, intermittent chatroom outages and unpleasantness on the part of a few assholes creating chaos and drama since this site became unsupervised, I continue to look on the bright side and hope it can be revived to its former glory !

[pole_smoker]

hope it can be revived to its former glory ! That's not going to happen. :rolleyes: I'm here because I am bisexual and so is my husband.

[rons_70]

I enjoy the comments and knowing there are other people like me also !!

[CuriousSoul318]

I used to be on shybiguys.com but a few years ago that site shut down and I considered that place like my whole lane safe haven where I can express myself on here and be surrounded by guys who courage to express yourself on here so what’s on your mind without being judged by society. I kept searching and searching and searching hoping it will be brought back up but it never was but then I stumbled across this site I just finished creating my account and lo and behold it’s even better than the other side are used to have and I look forward to being on here a lot and often. I kept searching and searching and searching hoping it will be brought back up but it never was but then I stumbled across this site I just finished creating my account and lo and behold it’s even better than the other side are used to have and I look forward to being on here a lot and often. I’m still curious about exploring, I don’t feel straight, & I’ll always be attracted to women.

[CrazyloboTX54]

I recently moved to southern NM and know no one. I just began exploring my bi-curiosity and wanted to meet other men like me.

[mike r]

was a part of shy bi guys until shrinkage to the point of non-existence. Landed here, found guys from former site, great site, met a couple of guys via personal ads,, hosted them at my place. what's not to like about this site?

[delpark]

The owners of bisexualusa recommended this site when they decided to close their site.

[dan.woodlawn]

I came thinking it was more social (its not), but stayed because the stories are familiar and I much prefer the forum to any other part.
there is a part that says its great finding people like me...I am looking at you, you threesome having cock sucker, pussy licker fans...yeah, you!!

[csreef]

Years ago I found Bisexual.com via a Google search. I was very happy to find other people like me, and I found a place where my voice could be heard.

[LowkeyBreeze318]

I’ve been curious about guys for several years off & on. I keep having these fantasies about having sex with a guy. @ first I kept feeling Gillette about it because I thought it was wrong. But then I started embracing it. It all started off with me watching regular porn, then I dipped into bi, then gay, then fantasy illusion type & I started liking it. I used to be on shybiguys but then the site shut down for good & that was my only place to express myself & be free in private knowing I’d be surrounded by supportive people on here, so I kept browsing today & I stumbled across this. This is more of the same if not even better & im glad I came across this. I look forward to getting to know a lot of you on here maybe I’ll meet somebody on here you never know.

[Westcoaster]

Like several other guys, I transitioned over from shybiguys when it eventually ceased functioning. That site had been a safe haven for allowing me to began to mentally untangle myself as it related to my sexual preferences. Being a late bloomer, and finally acknowledging and embracing my bisexual feelings, I found the support and understanding to be a tremendous resource amongst those with common circumstances. From my perspective, I feel that this forum has some strong similarities. While I’ve not posted much here, I do continue to gain insight from many of the candid members here. Thank you to those who post your candid and insightful thoughts.

[zgay73]

Shybiguys closed just when I was ready to share my bisexual journey. Google had this fairly high up on the list and it had the word "bisexual" in the domain name so it had to be "cosha".

[Enjoy 123]

Looking for a like minded married bi male

[RisingBi]

Before I met my girlfriend 4 years ago, I had been enjoying gay hook up sites like Squirt. After we broke up last December, my gay feelings came roaring back (actually, they never really left, lol). But I wasn't ready yet to start hooking up with guys again. I really wanted to find a place where I could chat with other men, and especially other *bisexual* men, just like me. On Jan 5, 2020, Google search brought me straight to bisexual.com, and I couldn't believe my good fortune! It was exactly what I was looking for. I needed a place to begin exploring my gay feelings again. And I've been hooked on the site ever since.

The only thing that would make it better was if there were more bisexual women as well, and if more people would post, plus perhaps more threads talking about bisexuality instead of just sex, like the people who have been around for a long time here have said how it used to be.

I have started hooking up with men again, but I still love this forum so much. Thank you everyone!! ❤️

[BrokenQuill]

I found this site recently when surfing for advice and information. I am still finding out about myself, but here it seems are people who have also travelled the same paths and have a kindred spirit.

I can be myself here. Nowhere else gives me that sense of security and respect.

[ClassicPaCpl]

We came here because we are both exploring our Bisexual sides.. At our age its about time... We belong to SLS but that is mostly str8 and Bi women only and a ton of phonies...
We checked out other sites and didnt want to pay anymore to be let down by the lerkers there. We found this site. checked it out and feel real good about it... We enjoy iy here and thats all that matters

[Agoofball]

I got here hoping to find another single bi guy or a pegging woman in AZ. Been sorely unable to do so.

[SlowNEZ]

From my profile: “I come to this site for relaxation and stimulation.
Intelligence, talent and wit are a few of my turn-ons... Those traits make me want to enjoy his other head.
I enjoy reading about others’ experiences and desires.”
I have had some great (virtual) experiences with several guys on this site. Looking forward to actual contact someday.

[Bimiself48]

After ending a long term relationship with my ex gf a few months back I've decided rather than look for a new relationship I'd take this opportunity to explore my bisexuality that I've kept hidden for so long. I like that I can come here and talk about things I normally wouldn't be able to and read stories from other people just like me. I'm also here to maybe get to meet a few some of you. So if you're interested, especially if your from around southern Ontario, send me a message. Let's see what happens.

[Nghtynbi]

Yes I crave to be in a relationship where the woman is ok with me being bi and her as well. I love to see my lady be a sexy slut with other men!

[NewToGuys]

I have been curious about what sex with a man would be like for a very long time. Never really had the opportunity presented to me, and I'm also very nervous.

[Rvdude05]

Wish I lived close to you, I would enjoy teaching you MM sex. I started early in life with a very gentle older man. He took his time and lovingly taught me everything. I was h is sex mate for years, until he passed away. I never went back. I've sucked and fucked many men and still enjoy it to this day. If you have questions, just ask me, I will try to help. I just love cock!

[Rvdude05]

Wish I lived close to you, I would enjoy teaching you MM sex. I started early in life with a very gentle older man. He took his time and lovingly taught me everything. I was h is sex mate for years, until he passed away. I never went back. I've sucked and fucked many men and still enjoy it to this day. If you have questions, just ask me, I will try to help. I just love cock!

[iamcontent]

To speak to other like minded individuals

[DD788Snipe]

So that I won't feel all alone. I've also made some good friends here.

[Take.it.Easy]

I was molested my my mom's bf when I was 7. This lasted until I was 19. I really enjoyed having sex with him. I had GF's but really enjoyed sex with trans of guys.

[Tarz1986]

The internet and chrome search engine.

[Grumpygrandpa]

Met some real folks and some duds as well. Come and go as I wish. Been busy lately with my business as well. Have been exploring new opportunities here and there. Met one guy who is hesitant about invitations. He stopped by at a sale over the weekend and looked like a banana thief. Asked him to stop by and give me a hand rebuilding a table. He mumbled he had another commitment. I knew better he's unemployed. Maybe eventually he'll get a clue. I think he's afraid something might happen and I will think less of him. Nothing could be further from the truth. I sure do want to...

[jjourneyman]

I especially enjoy reading others stories and comments, many of which I've found inspiring as well as confirming. It's great that we have an outlet to express our experiences and desires.

[jem_is_bi]

I feel very lucky that I have had the privilege to experience wonderful sex with men as well as women.
This site gives me the opportunity to occasionally share that joy and encourage others to attain it.

[AbiMan69]

I stumbled over Bisexual.com while reading on the internet. As I learned, there's quite a lot of bisex men out there and of course woman too. It's great that we can widen our horizon and share our experiences with others. As it says: We will learn new things till the day we die.

[Gregshaw]

I'm here because ShyBiGuys was shut down.

[remington12369]

I too was on Shybiguys until it imploded. I Just did a little searching and found my way here and recognized many names that were on SBG.

[DD788Snipe]

I too was on Shybiguys until it imploded. I Just did a little searching and found my way here and recognized many names that were on SBG.
Good to hear from you, remington. I still miss that site.

[fredward]

I'm here because ShyBiGuys was shut down.

Me too!

[mackB]

Just came back after an absence of several years. Curiosity. See some monikers I recognize. I like some of the dirty talk.

[MatthewX]

I'm here because ShyBiGuys was shut down.

Same here!

Overall to read what other guy do or have done, be able to freely say what I have done. If I meet people, cool. If I meet someone, even better.

[Hubie]

Just turned 68 here. Had some bi experiences when a teen, ended when finding pussy. Got married a few times, swung during those. My wife of 20 yrs isn't bi, has a dim view of bi. That being said, during a mfm when I was fucklicking her, he kept shoving his cock in my mouth. Well, that got the desire for cock going again, lol. Had a talk with my wife about what happened, and expressed a desire to suck cock again, in a 3 some. She was agreeable, mostly.
We found another guy for some more fun. Ended up sucking his cock in front of, and with my wife. We visited him 3 times, enjoy the fun, she told me how hot it made her. But - since then she seems to have 'cooled' to the idea of mmf fun. Although she says she's agreeable to more mmf fun, she doesn't want to 'find' anyone for fun.
So, I'm stuck, would really enjoy some more fun and bi fun. Any ideas?
Anyhows, found this site, so have been reading others experiences

[smallandbi]

My wife joined, so I thought I should keep an eye on her. lol