Anyone been to a Gay Bathhouses?

[GmanBi]

Wondering if anyone else likes going to gay bathhouses?.I really enjoy going and having hot sex with other guys

[NJwood]

I do love it. I usually do an evening when I’m in Toronto. Hanging out naked and plenty of cock to play with. Last time I was there I started with a hook up arranged online. We got a room and sucked and fucked until he had to head home. I ended up staying as I was still horny as hell. I just really love the relaxed freedom.

[marine20]

i went to one saturday . most of the guys are very old and in really bad shape. i'm older , but i'm a bodybuilder , so i hope i look good to most men. anyway a young skinny twink came in , and i got to suck his cock for a while . he was one of those guys that had a small cock , and didn't get very hard. guess he was a classic bottom , but wasn't ready to take a large cock at that time. well , you win some and you lose some .

[csreef]

In a world of Venereal Diseases that are becoming more resistant to antibiotics, I'm going to say no.

[Jazminedress]

In a world of Venereal Diseases that are becoming more resistant to antibiotics, I'm going to say no.
so with you there

[Bicujr]

No thanks. As sexy as it sounds I like to stay disease free.

[Modude]

No but I would love to experience an erotic m2m massage.....

[NJwood]

No but I would love to experience an erotic m2m massage.....
Yes! I’m looking for just that!

[GreenFedora]

I enjoy them immensely. Willing to take the risk.

[chiefconsultant63]

Yes I have. Been to many throughout the country. Florida has some nice ones. I like going during the day when there are more mature guys as that is what I like and they are not inhibited at all. Sometimes there are some nice hunky guys too. Each is a little different but you can usually get what you are looking for. Wish I could go more often.

[gale_mn]

cops closed them all down here

[Modude]

Yes! I’m looking for just that!

I think it would be sooooo hot, mmmmmm !!

[Neonaught]

There's a really nice one in downtown Houston called The Club Houston. Full service gym and all the usual bathhouse amenities but I am hesitant to check out after two guys I know got HIV there. I struggle a bit wearing a condom so I prefer to vet my partners carefully and avoid the risk.

[Jozyxt]

There's a really nice one in downtown Houston called The Club Houston. Full service gym and all the usual bathhouse amenities but I am hesitant to check out after two guys I know got HIV there. I struggle a bit wearing a condom so I prefer to vet my partners carefully and avoid the risk.
I wonder if I could convince my wife that I should join them instead of 24 hour fitness? Go work out then get a nice relaxing BJ.

[Tight1-4u]

we don’t have persay a bath house but a natural hot mineral spring.. it is known to be a crusing place.. I go there once or twice a week.. not always looking to hook up but usually do.. it is nice to just relax and see what happens..

[BigAlNYC]

Yes, I've been to several. You would think that NYC would have some great ones, but you would be very wrong. There is one semi-decent one though where I was a regular for a few years when I lived nearby. I had some great intense experiences there, but it was very hit-or-miss, with a lot of preening endless cruising going on by imperfect guys waiting for perfection to come along and want them. A lot of guys there would just leave (and even say nasty things) if they weren't getting precisely what they wanted, and of course no public action was allowed due to governmental edict.

But when I've been out of town I have hit some great clean spacious places, with plenty of hot open and closed action with regular guys who really want to enjoy some sex and getting each other off. Around here though, when the mood strikes, I mostly just stick to the sex party scene now. Especially the scene for bigger guys like me and the non-big folks who enjoy us.

[Chester1954]

I started goin to bathhouses in the early 80's. I was afraid of HIV so would only give oral. Based on how they ere laid out in Chicago area most were hit pretty hard by HIV, meaning the number of people I saw and the facilities available were a mismatch. It is my guess the glory days for bathhouses were were before the Stonewall riots? Now days with so many ways to hook up may explain why the ones that are still around have an older crowd. Being old and out of shape makes my hit rate low and is quite depressing. Being married makes online hookups somewhat tricky with time and place to play.

[RisingBi]

I have sucked a LOT of cocks in bathhouses for 20 years in Toronto, Ottawa, San Francisco, and New York City when I lived in or near those places. But after I rimmed and fucked my first guy in a bathhouse in Berlin in 2013, I stopped going and I've just been getting together with guys in each other's homes for more personal intimacy, including anal, which I love so much more. The anonymous sex in bathhouses is okay, but I enjoy much more the closer connection to guys that I get to know a little, and ultimately I want a FWB fuck buddy, which I'm still looking for. It's the gay side of me wanting to live and express itself in a bigger way. Being in touch with that and embracing it is a thrill you can't imagine.

[biguy7.5]

I went to a few weeks back. A bit of a party. Not knowi9ng what to do , first time there. Grabbed my towel and locker key. Went upstairs to the party area met some wonderful folks. After a while the party moved back to the main floor. Two ladies came out and did a great strip tease that ended with them in a 69 . Which was I thought the best part of the show. Then a guy stripper got on stage. He was short in height but his soft cock was at least 7inches. He worked the room, humping both male and females'. His got hard and was close to 9. We all were drolling over it. I then went back to the private room area . Which also had a sauna and open shower. Watched some guys fooling around in the shower and sauna. Helped myself to a short sauna suck. (I love cock sweat. I then walked down the hall and saw an open door. A guy about my age laying on the cot inside stroking his cock. I asked to join and sat next to him. We reached for each others meat at the same time. I moved first to take his in my mouth. I had been hungry for cock all night. He laid back I sucked him taking all his meat in my mouth. Sucked his balls and licking his taint. He asked to suck mine. I moved up for a kiss and let him take me in his mouth. He was good. I soon started to fuck his mouth. I then pushed him back down and went back to his cock. So tasty i was sucking him bent over at the waist I was hoping for someone to start on my ass. He then said to stop . He didn't want to cum yet. I had to leave soon and asked if he wanted to help me finish. We then put our cocks together on his chest and rub together until I blew my load on his chest and face. I scooped some up and we kissed with it . i got up said our good byes hit the shower and drove home.
Hope you like this true story

[Nocockyet]

I was thinking about starting a new thread but maybe I'll get some feedback here. I have been wanting a cock in me for so long but I don't know how to make it happen safely. I'm married and not out, and I think I want to keep it that way. I'm extremely experienced with dildos of all sizes, just never had the real thing. I'm looking for a top who gets all of this and understands my trepidation. I'm ok with making a FWB but I definitely don't want a romantic relationship. I tried Adam 4 Adam but one thing after another has occurred leading me to believe it's not going to happen through that route. I started looking at a bathhouse in Philadelphia but its out of the way and I can only go during the day. Then one advantage I see is that everyone there want6 a similar thing. Random hookups on An app scare me because you never know what can happen behind closed doors. Am I worried about nothning? Is there A better way?

[Opportunist]

What gay bathhouse has female strippers?

[SilkyHoseLover]

What gay bathhouse has female strippers?

I almost posted a similar comment yesterday. In the end, since I've never been to a gay bathhouse, I don't know all the features and amenities that can be found in one. And, although we may see the term 'gay bathhouse' and think it's all gay men, maybe some also admit women, who could also be gay? I dunno...

[69luvr]

No place like Club Orlando! GREAT place to eat!

[DMercator]

I love hearing about other men's experiences in places like this. For me, it makes for a great fantasy, but, like so many fantasies, the risks simply outweigh the rewards. I've thought about going just to watch and jerk off, but I know myself well enough to know that seeing all those cocks and would be more temptation than I could resist. Hell, just thinking about it has me wanting to get naked.

For now, I'll just have to settle for living vicariously through the experiences of others.

[RisingBi]

I have sucked a LOT of cocks in bathhouses for 20 years in Toronto, Ottawa, San Francisco, and New York City when I lived in or near those places. But after I rimmed and fucked my first guy in a bathhouse in Berlin in 2013, I stopped going and I've just been getting together with guys in each other's homes for more personal intimacy, including anal, which I love so much more. The anonymous sex in bathhouses is okay, but I enjoy much more the closer connection to guys that I get to know a little, and ultimately I want a FWB fuck buddy, which I'm still looking for. It's the gay side of me wanting to live and express itself in a bigger way. Being in touch with that and embracing it is a thrill you can't imagine.
HOW BATHHOUSES WORK


As I wrote, I've been to a lot of gay bathhouses. After my paying a smaller entry fee for just a locker, or a larger entry fee to rent a tiny room (which mostly are just big enough to hold a 1/2-3/4 width single-sized bed; but most bathhouses also have a few larger rooms with full double-sized beds), the front desk guy would give me my locker or room key, with number, on an braided elastic band that would stay on my wrist or upper arm throughout my stay, along with a large, white towel (even though I was always just an average-sized 5'11" guy--not overweight--over the 21 years I went to bathhouses, sometimes I had to ask for a larger towel so that it could actually fully wrap around my waist and be able to be tucked in and not keep falling off), and buzz me in to main bathhouse from the tiny, indoor entrance area. Usually I would go with the cheaper route and just get a locker. Bigger bathhouses would have a full weightlifting workout area that you might pass by first, but there was almost always nobody working out. Finding your locker number is usually the hardest thing you face in a bathhouse, lol, because often they have multiple areas with lockers.


I'd usually already be hard once I got naked at my locker (nudity is such a turn on for me). I would then wrap my towel around my waist and head to the showers first. That's the main thing I'm not crazy about in bathhouses: everybody walks around with a big white towel around their waist, hiding the beauty that is cock and male ass. I by far prefer to have everyone walking around naked, with their towel hanging off their shoulder or in their hand. And I would love for sex to be happening everywhere, including the hallways, instead of in the private tiny rooms (with the door open or closed), in the saunas, in the pitch dark passages, or in the gloryhole section. One of the main things that you will notice right away in the bathhouses, and any other kind of gay sex venue, is there's very little talking, not even in whispers. Personally, I'm not really a fan of that either. I don't know if it's just coming from a lot of shyness, or maybe some shame, where conversation or any speech will make it all seem too real, connecting to a real guy instead of just to personless genitals and ass, or where this tradition comes from. I don't know, it's like we're all speechless animals or something.


I'd always have a major boner doing my startup shower, loving to show off my hard 7.5 inch cut cock. And if there are any other guys in the showers I love watching them. For me, it's only happened a few times with a guy in the showers, where either of us would touch the thigh or even cock of the other guy, signalling interest in hooking up, or smiling or gesturing, and then heading to one of our rooms. For the most part showers are not sex or pickup places, but the odd time I have sucked or been sucked while showering, especially when guys see my hard cock at full attention, just beckoning for a mouth. After showering, I would reluctantly put my towel around my waist, covering my nakedness, and just wander around the whole place getting an idea of who's there and what action was happening. If the porn room had guys in it, I would join them to watch whatever gay video was playing, stroking my cock like everyone else was. Sometimes a guy and I would have mutual attraction and might stroke each other's cocks, and sometimes sucking. But usually sucking, and definitely all fucking, would be taken out of the porn room and into a private room or sauna. Maybe it's just a too public place. Personally, I think it would be a great room to have orgies in, especially this one bathhouse in Toronto which was my favorite, which had huge gray, vinyl mats on multiple levels in the porn room. Maybe in by-gone days there were orgies happening on those mats.


After a porn room visit, I'd hit any of the sauna rooms that had people in them, or at least one guy. I'd always get completely naked, and either sit on my towel or hold it in my hand as I sat there enjoying the heat, dry or wet. The worst thing by far, for me personally, is the dim lighting in saunas, and everywhere. I want to SEE my potential lovers. Alas, I would just have to make do. If I am interested in a guy that was sitting next to me, I would give the signal of interest by gently touching knees or letting my hand touch his thigh, and wander over to his cock, if he's open to that, or vice versa. A gentle nudge against my hand would signal disinterest, and I wouldn't pursue it further, as is the rule. But otherwise, eventually one of us would be sucking the other's cock, and switching, taking turns sucking each other's cock. When sucking or fucking is going on in a sauna, often other guys attempt to join in in some way, or it at least encourages other guys to pair up. But I have usually found guys to be very shy, so often I'm the one that starts any kind of sexual activity in a room filled with guys, and then it encourages everyone else. I have been in quite a number of group sucking scenes of 3-15 guys, where we're all standing, sitting, squatting, and kneeling together, sucking cocks, stroking, rubbing ass cheeks, and sometimes perhaps two guys in the group even fucking bareback. Condoms are available in baskets throughout a bathhouse, or at the front, and so protected sex does happen, but that's usually in the private rooms.


I find in a bathhouse that a lot of guys try to save themselves over many hours, so don't want to cum right away. Some guys are just blow 'n go, cum 'n go, but most guys like to pace themselves, so they'll stop the blowjob before they get too close to the edge. For the most part, throughout the bathhouse, in the public areas, and in the private rooms with doors open, it's mostly just oral sex. But when you actually come across two guys fucking in a sauna or in a room with the door open, it's really hot and it gathers quite a crowd to watch, and masturbate over. I always find it the most arousing thing to see: I just love watching two guys fucking. Sometimes the bathhouse will have a sling or some other sex thing. Of course many parts of the bathhouse have cum on the floor. But because lighting is so dim, you don't necessarily see it. And I think a lot of guys also love to swallow, as I do. I was certainly very fortunate over 21 years and over 200 cocks (in bathhouses, but lots of other sex venues too) to have never caught an STD.


The pitch dark passageway that most bathhouses have can be interesting. But because I'm more of a visual guy, it's not my preference. The gloryholes can be fun (as I've also enjoyed in many videos arcades), whether they are set up in booths, or a kind of multi-levelled jungle gym labyrinth. I would certainly enjoy a good looking cock sticking through a hole, but I also have a great thrill of just sticking my cock through a hole and waiting for a wet mouth to envelop it. The anticipation is awesome. A lot of guys are in their private rooms with the door open, either on their back showing that they are a top, for sucking or fucking, or on their stomach showing their ass, with or without a towel, showing that they are a bottom for fucking. You kind of make a signal to show interest, and then see whether the person invites you in, and they will tell you whether they want the door open or closed. I've done stuff in either my own room or in other guys' rooms, but most of the oral I've done has taken place in the public areas. But I have enjoyed a few wonderful 69s in a room.


The final location that I love and always visit is the Jacuzzi, which most bathhouses have, at least the good ones. Either one or more guys may already be in the huge Jacuzzi, or it may be empty, but in any case I hang up my towel and hop in. Sometimes I touch knees with a guy next to me, or vice versa, and maybe we end up with some mutual stroking. A couple times in a smaller hot tub I had a guy reach across to me with his outstretched leg, rubbing my cock with his foot, which is pretty hot. Other than this, no other sex ever seems to take place in a Jacuzzi. You would think guys would hop up on the side, with the other guy still in the water, sucking his cock. But it doesn't seem to happen, or not too often. Again, it's the too public aspect I guess. I wish it did, again in line with my wish that sex would happen everywhere in the establishment (of course, I'm also a guy that has enjoyed huge gay orgies of 20-50 guys quite a number of times, where sucking and fucking was taking place everywhere in a huge apartment suite in a hotel--except the kitchen). Especially when I'm alone in a Jacuzzi, but sometimes with other guys in there, I also love fucking my asshole over top of one of the jets, for the wonderful feeling it gives, but also pretending another guy is fucking my ass (I'm still a bottom version, though I'm now finally actively looking to change that). I love getting out of the hot tub, after doing that to my asshole for 15 minutes, with a massive hard-on, again thrilling the exhibitionist in me.


If you need to take a break, most bathhouses also have a regular TV room, with non-porn on the TV, and where sex is not allowed. An attendant is also going through the whole establishment constantly cleaning, especially the used and vacated rooms. It's usually a very good looking young guy, but clothed. Patron ages vary, between different bathhouses and at different times of the day and days of the week, with the full range of possible ages. The number of guys in a bathhouse is the one problem that does come up. Often I've gone to a bathhouse in early evening and there are only a handful of guys. As the night progresses it fills up more, especially after midnight. Around 2 AM, when the bars let out, the place could be packed, and then the crowd is on the younger side. I've stupidly not done a lot of those late visits, or hung around until those hours, as I was in my 30s and 40s, and not a youthful guy anymore, but which I regret now, because it can be amazing with 100-200 guys! I don't know what things have changed since my last visit to a bathhouse 8 years ago. Of course in the pandemic things have changed for sure, with bathhouses only being reopened recently, and only most recently at full allowed capacity in some places. As I said in my earlier post, when I finally fucked my first guy, in a bathhouse in Berlin in 2013, the gay awakening inside me was so powerful that from then on I have only wanted to get together with guys in each other's homes for more personal intimacy, which I find much more fulfilling than mass, anonymous sex. But bathhouses, and other sex venues, are certainly a very quick and easy way to have hot times with naked guys.

[thickneasy]

One day I will but haven’t been yet, a gloryhole would be awesome

[Jozyxt]

Nice write up, RisingBi. I might have to try one if I find myself on a trip by myself.

[RisingBi]

Nice write up, RisingBi. I might have to try one if I find myself on a trip by myself.
Thanks! It was my pleasure. Writing about it brought me back to some amazing memories of very hot, exciting times. Part of me definitely misses it, especially during this dry, pandemic period. Gay sex--fucking and/or sucking--can be so out-of-this-world erotic. I need it so bad right now!

[Jozyxt]

Thanks! It was my pleasure. Writing about it brought me back to some amazing memories of very hot, exciting times. Part of me definitely misses it, especially during this dry, pandemic period. Gay sex--fucking and/or sucking--can be so out-of-this-world erotic. I need it so bad right now!

I could really enjoy a cock in my mouth right now too.

[Mike29]

A few weeks ago, I decided to stop by a bathhouse on a Saturday.

I had been here in the past a few times with mixed results. The place has changed since COVID. I'm guessing the crowd was about 100 ...based on the parking lot and numbers on each floor.

The place has gone through some remodeling throughout. It was simple hooking up. I either stood along the wall or sat and watched the action and before long I was approached by someone who made their intentions very clear. I was invited back to a few rooms and booths.

I left at 3:30am (after 5 hours).

I will check this place out again. I'm not sure if it was crowed the way it was because people feared it might be closed again due to COVID or that it was a typical Saturday night...I'm just not sure. I just know it was the craziest sex party I've ever attended, and exactly what every sex club should be.

It's in LA. PM me and I'll share with you the place.

Someone here has to have visited this place recently...Post your adventures!

[Nocockyet]

Oh my God just hearing the play by play of RisingBi`s experience has me so hot. I wish I wasn't so scared. I would go to club Philly tonight ��

[marine20]

i'm going to one today , wish me luck . if anything hot happens , i'll tell you the story .

[Jozyxt]

I wish I could go to a bathhouse or club without my wife finding out. Since she works form home there is only so much time I can spend away without suspicion. I need to start staying longer at the gym so she gets used to me being gone for hours at a time.

[tommyswing]

I went to a few bathhouses, I sucked a lot of cock. There was a room with slings, and I fucked a couple of guys, the sling made it very appealing.

[Nocockyet]

I wish I could go to a bathhouse or club without my wife finding out. Since she works form home there is only so much time I can spend away without suspicion. I need to start staying longer at the gym so she gets used to me being gone for hours at a time.

Yes, indeed one of the main things keep me from fulfilling any fantasy, but I am working up the courage to go to AMP known for more than happy endings. Having a dude plow me seems to be too elusive at the moment because there's no gay stuff happening in my neck of the woods... at least no e that I can find.. If the hetero massage parlor sex happens and Im still not satisfied, I will have to make the bathhouse happen somehow.

[Jozyxt]

Yes, indeed one of the main things keep me from fulfilling any fantasy, but I am working up the courage to go to AMP known for more than happy endings. Having a dude plow me seems to be too elusive at the moment because there's no gay stuff happening in my neck of the woods... at least no e that I can find.. If the hetero massage parlor sex happens and Im still not satisfied, I will have to make the bathhouse happen somehow.

I have some money in my paypal account that my wife never sees. I have though about figuring out a way to use that to pay for a membership. The other problem is that they are usually busy at night, when being away form home requires more explanation than "going to the gym."