Was it the Taboo?

[CuriousSub]

So what attracted you to the idea of sex with another guy?

Where did it come from?

A Friendship that blossomed to more?

Was it an older father figure thing? (Daddy issues?)

Was it the taboo or kinky? (Not so taboo anymore like it was a few decades ago)

Bored with your current sex life?

When I was in high school one of the kids I knew got picked up hitch hiking and fucked by an older guy. I got curious after that. Largely because of the taboo of it.

if I was young again, I?d try hitch hiking ;)

[tenni]

Your post reminds me of being around 16 and was hanging out with other guys on a regular basis. . One fairly attractive blonde guy told us that he had hitched hiked in the city to much my surprise. I can only vaguely remember it but I think that he was also asked if he wanted his cock sucked. He said no and that he said that he had asked to be let out of the guy's car. I was surprised but more aware of what we thought was danger and not sexual. We persisted with questions for awhile and then went on our way to a teen dance was our usual activity. I don't think that anyone would have announced that he would have let the driver of the car suck him off. It was definitely taboo to even talk about it. Later in my early 20's it was the thing to hitch hike and generally felt safe. I remember picking up a guy along the Gaspe peninsula and camping over night with him in my tent. Neither of us spoke each other's language (me English him French). No thoughts of danger or sex in my mind. It was just a time to share adventures until some young people were killed doing it.

[KDaddy23]

For myself and the guys I grew up with, the taboo was beyond being utterly fascinating; we were being told how evil it was for boys to have sex with each other and to never do... and finding out why was pretty damned important for us since them telling us this didn't make sense to us and more so when we were told we could have sex with girls... but not before we got married. When I got my first taste of it, wow - it was amazing and made me ask myself a question: How could something they said was so bad feel so good? It was like the bug had bitten all of us at about the same time because as soon as the next day after my first experience, damned near all of us were doing it and when we'd hang out and talk about it, we all pretty much said that what made it more exciting and fun was we weren't supposed to be doing that. Close friendships factored in for a lot of guys and a couple of guys had daddy issue and one guy - who eventually decided he was very much gay - had his sisters to thank for turning him into a girl, as he put it.

Fun and very exciting times back then. One of the "common things" most of us said was that we knew we weren't supposed to... but we were gonna do it anyway because it felt good and not all of us were "worried" about dying and going to hell and like we were being told would happen and the watchword we all took to heart was: Don't get caught doing it.

[csreef]

Since I was 15, I wanted to be both with men and women.... was very conflicted for a long time....When I finally explored, and accepted my Sexuality, It was such a relief!

[Christopher South]

Since I was 15, I wanted to be both with men and women.... was very conflicted for a long time....When I finally explored, and accepted my Sexuality, It was such a relief!
This. I knew I was bi since I was a teen. when I finally explored when I was 53 I knew it was right.

[CuriousSub]

And for me, it’s all about the taboo. I’m kinky as hell

[chongster]

When I was young gay sex between guys was a total turn off. I would only have sex with women but a dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste. I was always trying new things with girls, I slept around a lot. I liked anal sex very much after the first time I tried it with my girlfriend and wanted to fuck the ass of every girlfriend after that.
I have always loved watching porn and different themes over the years would really get me going, early on it was bisexual women. I had a bisexual girlfriend and we enjoyed some hot times together with other girls and couples but back then the guys never touched each other just shared the girls.
I got my first PC around the year 2000. I was single and internet porn was a whole new thing for me and exploring it was very exciting! One day I found "shemale" porn and was watching it more and more as I found it really turned me on. After awhile I realized that nice cocks turned me on as well and I had found a whole new sexual world to explore. I started joining chat rooms and soon joined a hookup site for bi and gay guys. My first encounter with another guy was such a huge turn on for me, it was his first time to and just seemed like the ultimate naughty thing to do. When I first sucked his cock I couldn't believe how much it turned me on to have another guys cock in my mouth and having him suck me. I didn't want to cum because I didn't want it to end.
I've evolved a lot since then, tried a lot of different things with guys, trans and CDs. Figured out what I like and don't like. CDs and trans really do it for me, I'm a top and still love anal sex but I like younger guys who want to act and look like girls. I like totally smooth, like a girl would be, a hairy ass and balls does nothing for me.

[CuriousSub]

I love the younger smooth CD/trans hotties too which speaks to my top side. But my bottom side likes the big rugged, older beefy guys too. So I’m sort of like a switch in theory. I’ve never tested either waters really. I want to fuck the hell out of a CD/trans or really effeminate boi but then get completely and thoroughly owned by a firm alpha male. Like utterly pounded to pieces while I’m squirming below like a little fuck-puppet.


ooooh, I am SO Horny!!!

[CuriousSub]

When I was young gay sex between guys was a total turn off. I would only have sex with women but a dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste. I was always trying new things with girls, I slept around a lot. I liked anal sex very much after the first time I tried it with my girlfriend and wanted to fuck the ass of every girlfriend after that.
I have always loved watching porn and different themes over the years would really get me going, early on it was bisexual women. I had a bisexual girlfriend and we enjoyed some hot times together with other girls and couples but back then the guys never touched each other just shared the girls.
I got my first PC around the year 2000. I was single and internet porn was a whole new thing for me and exploring it was very exciting! One day I found "shemale" porn and was watching it more and more as I found it really turned me on. After awhile I realized that nice cocks turned me on as well and I had found a whole new sexual world to explore. I started joining chat rooms and soon joined a hookup site for bi and gay guys. My first encounter with another guy was such a huge turn on for me, it was his first time to and just seemed like the ultimate naughty thing to do. When I first sucked his cock I couldn't believe how much it turned me on to have another guys cock in my mouth and having him suck me. I didn't want to cum because I didn't want it to end.
I've evolved a lot since then, tried a lot of different things with guys, trans and CDs. Figured out what I like and don't like. CDs and trans really do it for me, I'm a top and still love anal sex but I like younger guys who want to act and look like girls. I like totally smooth, like a girl would be, a hairy ass and balls does nothing for me.

oops I thought I hit reply with quote. See my reply to you above

[delpark]

A friend asked me to spend the night with him in his family's new camper, just he and I. It was a summer night, we were in our underwear. He was two years older than myself and we were talking about his body changes. He was willing to show, I was willing to see. It lead to some exploration, and me sucking his cock. I did because he asked me to and I was willing. I loved doing it. I was aware that most people would not be accepting of such activity, but it felt right for me at the time.

[tastessogood]

I was attracted to older men at a very early age, around 8 or 9. I’d been jacking off for several years and would fantasize about the large hairy cocks I would see in the changing room at the public pool. One day a guy noticed my focus on his cock and came over and said to meet him outside. My mother always dropped me off at the pool and I could stay as long as I liked. I met him outside and he said to walk with him to his car. We got in and he slide his jogging shorts down and said he noticed I was looking at his cock. He said it was okay to touch it and I started to Jack him off, then asked if I wanted to suck it, that’s what I had always fantasize about doing. I leaned over and started to suck him, I still remember how big his cock seemed in my small mouth. He blew his load and while surprised, it tasted good and I swallowed it all. We met often after that.

[Cum1st]

The taboo actually weighed heavy on me. The urge was a sexual thing peppered with a dry spell after a very sexual GF left me for a man with a seemingly better future.

[Rvdude05]

My best buddy and I were camping out in his backyard. He said it was too hot for using a sleeping bag. He got on top and I noticed he was nude, and his cock was hard. He noticed my staring, and whispered to me that he wanted me to play with it. I grasped it, jerked it for him, and he took my head and moved it to his cock. I opened my mouth, and began sucking him. He moaned, I felt him throbbing as he came in my mouth. He returned the favor, and it was my first blowjob. We spent many summer nights sleeping on top of our sleeping bags...

[RisingBi]

You know, I never thought it was the taboo aspect. But in hindsight, I'm wondering if there wasn't an unconscious aspect of the taboo nature of having sex with guys. My whole life I was always Mr. goody two shoes. I always listened to my parents and my teachers, did all my homework every day, studied hard, wouldn't play with the other kids lest I get my clothes dirty. What did I get for all that? Girls rejecting me.

So maybe going to all those gloryhole video booths, porn theaters, bathhouses, gay sex clubs, back rooms in gay bars, and gay sex orgies for 21 years was at least partially about rebellion, finally fighting back, being the bad boy, doing the ultimate bad thing. I was finally saying fuck it, getting my clothes dirty, by tearing them off, and diving into the naked arms of other men, who wouldn't reject me. I then went even further by getting naked together in each other's homes for the next 7 years and counting, sleeping in each other's beds. What greater bad boy can there be than one breaking the greatest taboo of all, homosexual sex. Fuck all of you! We men can kiss, suck, rim, and fuck each other, and there's nothing you can do about it! We can bathe each others faces, mouths, and bowels with each other's semen, and enjoy it! And some can even fall in love and get married, husband and husband, and breed each other for eternity.

[ChiefH]

When I was entering puberty a friend and I began to explore our sexuality! His mother and father decided not to have him cut! An his uncut cock was so different than mine! I played with his cock for hours when he came to spend the night! I would suck and jack him off just to be able to feel his foreskin move over his cock! One night I let him fuck my ass and it was amazing!

[Tag200]

The taboo actually weighed heavy on me. The urge was a sexual thing peppered with a dry spell after a very sexual GF left me for a man with a seemingly better future.

similar for me when ever sexual girlfriend leaves me my desire to try sucking cock increases

[Waylon]

Growing up all my girlfriends had to be good at giving me head as that was my favorite way to get off. When I married wifey she knew I was really into blowjobs and let me train her to be an outstanding cocksucker. We would watch porn together and one day I picked up a bisexual mmf video by accident and while she was blowing me, the scene showed one guy sucking the other guy. Wow! That really turned me on and as the guy came in the other guys's mouth, I shot my load into wfey's mouth. Soon I bought a realistic cock shaped dildo, 6 inches and pretended to suck it. Then I got an 8 inch one and practiced sucking it deep. My curipsity to suck a real dick finally came about while wifey was out of town. I went to the local lake and sat at a picnic table, shirt off catching some rays when a cool looking guy walked by, shirt open to his navel and sat down across from me. He had long hair and sounded a bit guy when he talked but I was attracted to his looks. I told him I was on my way home to watch some porn with wifey out and invited him to join me. Soon we were in my living room watching some porn with both of us shirtless and I pulled out my cock to jerk it and he smiled and licked his lips and got between my knees and started suckingit. He pulled his cock out to play with and I asked him to stand up so I could take his cock in my mouth. There was a big mirror on the wall to my right and I could see his dick sliding in and out of my mouth and I was really turned on. He got back down on his knees and sucked me dry and then left. Once I got the taste of sucking a dick and seeing my reflection in the mirror, I knew I was going to enjoy doing that a lot.

[Fiddlestyx]

For me it was entirely curiosity. Most of the women in my life over the years had seemed to actually get joy out of sucking me and I wondered what it was like from their standpoint. In my mid-30s and at one point between relationships I decided to find out and answered an ad. Thirty years on and as soon as we've had our two weeks post second vaccination I'll be getting together with the same bi-married friend for a nice suck and fuck session, the first in a very long while. We're both really looking forward to it, though finding a place is looking more challenging that it once was.

[Bi_Jorge]

for me it was the fantasies of having a Threesome FMF with my wife which she enjoyed the idea and we had her BFF as someone she knew would join us but she was now married and it would not work. Then the threesome turned to a MFM which she was very open to and actually got really excited about the idea. We would role play often. And the more we did roleplay, I would slide dildo inside her and lick her when I did. I started to enjoy the idea of handling his cock, guiding it and licking it. Then the threesome became more of a MMF and the more role play we did the more I enjoyed the idea of guiding and licking her with a real cock and the more I wanted to share real cock with my wife. Now we are on the beginning stages of having my wife pegging me. Its crazy how fast it progressed. If we ever find the perfect male I know it will be incredible.

[Fred_Brice]

Was it the Taboo?Growing up with 4 brothers, one older and 3 younger and no sisters. Also being raised as Catholic’s. This was long ago close to 1950! Also being the second oldest and having seen all my other brother’s naked, some of us, would have to bathed together and we all slept on the second floor in a large room. The fact that we had no sisters we were always raised and told how evil it was and we would wind up in Hell together. It was most definitely, considered taboo for brothers to touch each other’s private areas or having any form of sex with each other and to never do it.

As for as myself and most of brothers, finding out why, did seemed pretty dammed important, to us since our parents, very brief, birds & bees story, and sex precaution! We were told we could have sex with girls, not until we were married. They did not make sense. How could something they said was so bad, feel so good when most of my brothers seemed more interested, when each of us had discovered that our cocks, and were not just meant to be held, when we had to pee. So, there were some show and tell things going around in our big open bedroom. Some of our friends seemed to openly share and exchange their knowledge of what their thought were as to what sex really was.
I do have to admit that I was always secretly fascinated, seen most male cock, but never more than that! That was until, I soon learned that how much pleasure my own cock would provide me. Keeping in mind that there was on computers or internet back then. I was a young lad trying to understand what sex really was. Not having any sisters, I also had a strong interest in learning anything about the sex, about female or male sex. Soon my own cock became my best friend! It was usually always available to provide me pleasure once I was able to have an organism and produce a nice warm load cum!
So, what attracted me to the idea of sex with another male? I would have to say is, I did not know anything about female or having sex together.

My actual and first male adventure started one summer evening. I had a customer, he was an older widowed main and he ask me, to stop by his home, since I passed right by it, when I got off work. He had asked, if I could by and help him with, moving a few things around at his bedroom and he would gladly pay me for my time. Since I was always looking, for extra money, to spend on dating, so I agreed. So, I went over to his home and both of us moved a few things around, n his bedroom and after a while we both, were now sweating a bit, so he suggested that we both sit on his bed and rested a bit.He then asked me if I wanted a drink and that he had some cool wine. I did liked wine, since I had tasted it, at few family functions, so I said yes. We both were wearing shorts and tee shirts and he suggested that we remove our shirts, cool down a bit. As we drank our wine, we both did cooled off, a little, since it, was a warm summer evening. Soon I was starting to feel a warm feeling as I continued drinking, my glass of wine, as we started talking about each other. He told me about the death of his wife, many years and about how he missed her. Soon he asked me, about my own love life. I cannot remember, exactly how it had gotten around to that, since he did seem, to be more concern, about my sexual life and soon it was more about my own, sexual experiences. At some point, he had placed his hand, on my thigh and after a while, his hand, slowly moved up, and in between my thighs and his hand was getting closer to my crotch as I was talking about my sex life, or lack of. My own cock was now starting to get hard, and he soon placed his hand on the bulge in my shorts and he had, also started massaging my hard cock, he soon had me breathing hard, in no time. He asked, if he could see my young boy cock and before I knew it, he made me stand and he undid my shorts, then he pulled them down along with my tighty whites and I stood there completely naked, with my cock growing rock hard and pointed at his face. He wrapped his rough hand around my cock and started stroking me and making me moan. with pure pleasure. He then asked me, if I wanted to feel, how it felt to have another person suck my boy cock. I was in a wine induced trance and all I could do was, nod my head yes. He wrapped warm moist lips around my boy cock and his tongue danced all over my boy cock head while his hands squeezed my ass cheeks. It did not take long and I soon, started to cum hard and fast, into his mouth and he swallowed every drop of my cum load. After a while, and after I caught my breath, he stood up and undid his pants. His cock was not “very long but it was hard and much thicker than mine, about 7” or so. He took my hand and put it on his cock. He then asked me to suck it, and I told him, that I never sucked a man’s cock before, so I leaned over and instinctively I then. started to stroke him and I was amazed, at how warm his cock was and the texture, it was very appealing. So, I then, took his cock, in my mouth and I was amazed, with his big mushroom shaped head and it was soon hitting the back of my throat, as I slid my mouth up and down instinctively. He was soon moaning in ecstasy and started bucking his hips up and down, so I took his swallow and sucked his cock faster and deeper into my throat, as much as I could, as I moved from the top to deep inside my own throat. After what seemed awhile, I could fell his thick cock throbbing a bit, as he shot his warm load of man cum, I had tried to swallow, as much as, I could and some of it, began to leak from my mouth, all over my face and soon onto the floor.
Once I got my first taste of it, wow, it was so amazing and made me ask myself a question, is this normal since I was taught that it was Taboo, but it was beyond being utterly fascinating; and a brief friendship started blossomed and lead me to so many pleasures so was it the: Older Father Figure Thing, Was it the taboo or kinky? Not so taboo anymore since it was a few decades ago!

[NJwood]

I used to hitchhike quite often from my Gf’s place to home. I was solicited once which I turned down. I did take hold of the door handle just in case. There were plenty stories going around about shit going wrong. He let me off where I had originally asked. I didn’t think anything of it at the time afterwards since I was more interested in sex with my Gf. Later, I’d when I watched porn I found myself focusing on the guy’s cock as much as her. I had plenty of exposure to the gay community because my brother had an apt in the neighborhood in Toronto.
I think I was just open to a sexual experience at the time. I was single, horny and a little buzzed when a guy I met at a femal strip club propositioned me. I was fixated on sucking his cock. Once I did I knew I’d want more.

[rcd556]

Just natural attraction for me. The taboo makes it fun, but even without that I still wanna sleep with guys.

[csreef]

Just natural attraction for me. The taboo makes it fun, but even without that I still wanna sleep with guys.

Your Sexuality isn't Taboo, society has said it to be...Enjoy what you like! :bibounce:

[rcd556]

Your Sexuality isn't Taboo, society has said it to be...Enjoy what you like! :bibounce:

Of course, I can't help what I'm into, nor do I want to lol

[GreenFedora]

Yes, it was the Taboo. I'm to this day attracted to effeminate "obviously gay" men because they were taboo to me growing up.

[Tight1-4u]

got my start at around age 12-13.. older cousin 19 at the time.. didn’t really know much about sex at the time.. it developed over about 3week period.. I was his cocksucker and cum dump.. then he introduced 3 of his friends.. most days they each used me.. most often a couple of them would use me twice a day.. my cousin did use me twice every day except 3 times.. after about 2 weeks I looked forward to it, needed it.. when the summer was over and I went home I was lost.. then a few years later I was my football coaches cum dump for 2 years.. I guess it could have been the taboo but I think it was more a need!!