Advice re: sex shop booths

[adamlily1972]

Hi, all--

So, I'm starting out pretty late in life (I'm 49) & need advice from people a LOT more experienced than me. Which is, um, everyone.

There's a sex shop near my home w/ booths in the back. I'm interested in just watching a movie with one or more guys and jerking off together. Nothing more (i.e., no blowjobs or anal) because, like I said, I'm new at this and, frankly, a little scared.

How do I get this to happen? I.e., how do I communicate "hey, I just want to watch a movie together, jerk off together?" What's the etiquette? How do I make clear what I want without offending anyone?

[KDaddy23]

Seems to me that the best way to do this is to say what you said - you just want to watch a movie and jerk off together. At this point, a guy is either going to be okay with this... or he isn't. True enough, there are some guys who'd get offended because you don't wanna do what they wanna do and it's really unavoidable and it can help to let a guy know that, no offense, but I'm very new to this and I just wanna watch a movie and we can jerk off together. And then not feel bad about standing your ground in this because the worst thing that can happen is to find yourself doing something you don't want to do and because you got pressured into doing it, like, the other guy starts whining about you not wanting to get on your knees and suck his dick or whatever.

But as in so many other things, there's only one way to find out: Go there and just see how things take place. It's gonna be scary but you'll just have to find a way to work through it and, most important, take things at your own pace. There's nothing wrong with taking baby steps in this - just know that some guys don't think like that.

[jem_is_bi]

I am not sure a booth in a sex shop is the best place to start if all you are willing to do is jerk off.
I suspect most every guy going there wants more hard core action than that.
Your more likely to get the action you want by using an online Male-Male dating site and hooking up with another scared new bisexual or gay guy.

[ClassicPaCpl]

you might want to try a site like Jerkmate.com. Its designed specifically for jerking off with others

[travelingman5000]

Like Kdaddy said the best way is to just say what you are looking for and what your limitations are. If a guy is offended by this, that's on him and now you know that guy was a bad match. Be carful in these kinds of places, they attract a lot of shady people, tweakers and such.