View Full Version : Bi Visibility Day 2020
CurEUs_Male
Sep 23, 2020, 12:17 PM
Wear pants, people can see you today!
(or don't)
Happy Bi Visibility Day!
KDaddy23
Sep 23, 2020, 12:23 PM
It just so happens that I'm not wearing pants at the moment... and a happy BVD to you, too!
RisingBi
Sep 23, 2020, 1:45 PM
Happy Bi Visibility Day, everyone!
I didn't even know about this special day! Thank you for pointing it out. I can't do anything publicly to celebrate this day, since I'm in the closet, and I'm not really part of any in-person gay or bisexual community (except this wonderful online and anonymous one here). But I now want to acknowledge this day to my bisexual friends here.
As I just emailed a new male bisexual friend, it took me a long time to get there, but I really love my bisexuality. Yes, I suppose things would be much easier with women if I wasn't bisexual. It was hard with my ex-girlfriend, who knew everything about me, and initially accepted it all, but both of us still struggled with it throughout our relationship. And I suppose it's going to be very hard if I ever go on dating sites looking for at least a casual relationship with a woman (I of course would only be honest with them right up front in our communications with each other, though on my public profile (that also includes my real face, as these sites require) I would have to still write "straight" for my sexual orientation). I doubt there are many women who want to have sex with a bisexual man who is having or recently had sex with other men, at least not in the conservative community I live in.
But since I don't seem to have much good karma with women anyway all my life long, my bisexuality is a blessing. It's still evolving, but I am more and more accepting the gay part of myself, and embracing and loving it. I really hope that that will continue to grow, especially in a real and close relationship with one man some day hopefully. 🙏🙏🙏
Yes, I want to scream out: "I am bisexual! And I'm proud of it! Love me!"
But I'm also a hypocrite: I am terrified of coming out of the closet. And I have no plans on doing it until or if I have a serious boyfriend who I am in love with. So far it's only been casual sex with men for many years.
But until then, I scream it out to you all here with great pride. And in celebration, for the rest of the day, I'm taking off my underwear (but still wearing pants, lol).
KDaddy23
Sep 23, 2020, 3:48 PM
What I didn't know was it is the same day as my birthday - how nice is that?
RisingBi
Sep 23, 2020, 8:14 PM
What I didn't know was it is the same day as my birthday - how nice is that?
Oh my gosh, that's right! I was first going to say that that is pretty cool that you were born on Bisexuality Day. But then it dawned on me that there was no such thing as Bisexuality Day 65 years ago, lol. No, it's the other way around: they decided to set this wonderful celebratory day on your birthday in honour of you and your awesome example of bisexuality. Congratulations! You're the poster boy for bisexuality!
RisingBi
Sep 23, 2020, 8:23 PM
...And in celebration, for the rest of the day, I'm taking off my underwear (but still wearing pants, lol).
Sorry, I just had to write a follow up to my first message. So I did just as I said, as soon as I posted I took off my underwear. I ended up working outside in the yard for the last 5 hours in my loose work shorts, without any underwear (first time ever). I was feeling my nakedness all afternoon, with that feeling of my cock and balls loose in my shorts, and the sweet air flying up through the legs of the shorts, kissing my balls and cock. It kept reminding me about my bisexuality and how much I love it. And I'm naked in the house now, because I just didn't want to cover up in a symbolic way how gay I feel today. It's a wonderful feeling.
csreef
Sep 23, 2020, 9:34 PM
Yes, we do exist! :bipride::bibounce::flag1::flag3::flag2::flag4: