more into men

[Birobertb]

I know its been posted before, but the older I get the more into men I am. 10 years i prefered women, now,
If i was single id choose a man every time. Im 41, at this rate i wouldn't be surprised if I ended up gay by 50.

[Rick469]

Is it the act or the Attraction?

[Birobertb]

Borh to be honest. I'm into more and more guys than before. More acceptance really

[Birobertb]

Also way more into holding men, and being held. Chatting after sex. Before i felt weird and just wanted to leave.

[KDaddy23]

I've been wondering about this very thing for quite some time... and I'm no closer to figuring it out other than to say that some older guys just seem to be more comfortable with being with guys despite a lifetime of being with women. I've sometimes thought that it could be a change in the way we - us older guys - look at sex and intimacy as we get older: We have a "better" understanding of what sex and intimacy can really be like and there are a lot of guys who have this understanding as well and, yup - one is more into men and to whatever degree that works for them. I wouldn't even say that a guy who finds himself feeling this way is "more gay" than bi; it's probably more of a thing that guys, compared to women, are less of a hassle to deal with and be into with.

I dunno. I probably will never figure it out. If nothing else, this really disproves what we've always thought about sex and intimacy, that there shouldn't be any boundaries or barriers and, I have to admit, that we shouldn't be trying to put ourselves into boxes - straight, bi, or gay - so that we can just do what's more comfortable for us and, of course, what works the best for us.

[Fred_Brice]

For myself, and after more than 40 years of marriages with two different woman. My first marriage was, less than 13 years, but my second marriage was with a great woman. I had lost her to Cancer, and I had found out that getting back into the dating, was much different now and trying to find another good woman for the second time, is not as easy as it was when I was younger.

So, now that I am older and wiser, often I find that it is just easier, just to find another, open minded man, to help satisfy, my sexual needs. I now find much more acceptance with another male, as opposed finding a female. I am finding that many older men just seem to be a lot more comfortable with another man, despite spending a lifetime, being with a women. Like other males here, I have often thought that it could be a win/win situation, for many of us.

Looking at the big picture of our desires of sexual activities and intimacy, as we get older, we often have a much "better" understanding, of what our true sexual desires are. Many men, have a better understanding, of what they enjoy and works for them sexually, and what does not work for them sexual. Often there can be many different degrees as to what will work and what will not work for them. I would not say that another male, who finds himself feeling this way is no more "Gay or more Bisexual. It could just be probably, more of a male thing, that some guys, may compared to women, are less of a hassle to deal with and be into with another male. Maybe there should not, be any boundaries or barriers with the genders! Maybe at our age, we just miss the intimacy of being with another person, so we just do, what seems to be more comfortable for us and of course, what works the best for us.

[sisboy]

Much rather be sexually involved with a man than a woman.Have not had a woman in over 20 years and do not kiss it.The closest I come to a woman is clean up duty for my wife and her lover when they are done just because it is easier to be submissive to them than put up with the nonsense.When my men friends get together it is so much more intense ans satisfying.My favorite guy friend is married and lives with his wife and I do not know why she does not have sex with him because he is terrific in bed.There are a couple of men I do go with but he gets me giddy when I know he is coming over.Even past the sex thing it is fun to hang with him,grab a bite to eat,have a drink or whatever.He says he wants to go all the way in the car but right now I am only comfortable sucking him off.That usually gets him started for a fantastic night for me.He gives me orgasms like no one else ever did.Maybe I am more gay than bi but I don't care.

[playful808]

Might be Desensitization. You repeat the thing that makes you anxious until it makes you bored. Then you see it for the first time.

Might be simply losing patience with the available older women. It's rough out there.

Might be how comparatively pragmatic man sex is. Simple. On one level, it is always honest.

Might be learning to appreciate beauty in new places, or developing new tastes.

Might be that enlarged prostate is good for something after all.

[bibliss]

Perhaps there's nothing to "figure out" in the mental sense, more in terms of what it's like to explore how one feels.

My own embrace of my bisexual side has been a lifelong process lasting decades. As I gain more experience, I realize just how fluid I am sexually, just how bi I've always felt deep down. It feels more like a coming to terms within myself and no so much about how others see me.

I've gradually come to enjoy my erotic experiences with other men, so the sex is more enjoyable and the honesty and communication improve over time as well.

One of the greatest discoveries of my own bisexual journey is how many bi men there are among us out here. Frankly, some of the sweetest most fun and liberating sex I've ever had has been with othermature bi leaning men!

[rukiddingme]

I haven't experienced male sex as an adult yet. Looking back on some of my postings I can definitely see an evolution in my desire toward that. The attraction toward male sex is certainly at the front of my thoughts. But equally strong is to still have a lasting relationship with a like-minded girl

[jem_is_bi]

I am totally more into men now than when I was younger.
Now, I wish I was totally homosexual and know that will never be what I will be.
I sometimes wish that I was totally into men all my life,
But, I also know that so much of life that I have had the privilege to experience would never have happened if that was the younger me.

[sissyjackie]

Am older into men a lot more now. Been with wife for 41 years now. We stop having sex about 10 years ago. Her menopause me ED because of a diabetic coma poor blood flow and nerve damage plus being a diabetic has taken it toll. Plus str8 porn dose nothing for me anymore just gay shemale tranny sissy cuckold porn gets my juices flowing. I might not get fully hard anymore but still cum and have orgasms.

[Neonaught]

Am older into men a lot more now. Been with wife for 41 years now. We stop having sex about 10 years ago. Her menopause me ED because of a diabetic coma poor blood flow and nerve damage plus being a diabetic has taken it toll. Plus str8 porn dose nothing for me anymore just gay shemale tranny sissy cuckold porn gets my juices flowing. I might not get fully hard anymore but still cum and have orgasms.

There are safe medical options for ED even with diabetics. Caverject was used with great success by a diabetic friend on mine. One tiny injection into his shift kept him rock hard for 5 hours of more.