Married Cock Suckers

[CuriousMwm55]

Hello, I am a married man from the Midwest USA. My wife has a decreased Sex drive, and I now Love to Suck Cock and Swallow CUM. Just curious, how many other married men Love Sucking Cock, and did your wife's decreased sex drive have anything to do about it ? Thanks, love to chat and make friends. 😎

[Ebbtide]

My wife also has a decreased sex drive. It did not cause me to become bisexual. It just gave me a way to justify having sex with my guy friend.

[bikurinpa]

My wife also has a decreased sex drive. It did not cause me to become bisexual. It just gave me a way to justify having sex with my guy friend.
Here in central Pa is tough to find a decent guy friend! It seems any one else in any the groups or sites are game players or are on the yonder side of BFE!

[cslutt]

I have always been oversexed! My wife not at all, and now we have stopped for many years. My email is cslutt@ymail.com if you want to discuss it! I have always loved to suck cocks!

[atxbi]

For me, it was my first wife’s idea that I should check out sucking cock. It was one of the best ideas she ever had. I’ve been a devoted cocksucker since I first put a cock in my mouth. Probably 25 years or so by now n!

[gmansam]

I'd love to find a regular to suck off.

[dan.woodlawn]

No, one doesnt cause the other. My love began long ago and the only thing my wife controls is frequency of extra contact. Sometimes together sometimes apart.

[mike r]

I do not believe a spouse's lack of sex drive leads one to bisexuality and/or cocksucking. This ain't prison. For a no sex marriage, there are other options. But cocksucking is a unique joy unto itself which not even conjugal time with the wife can quite match.

[marine20]

i have been a cocksucker since before i met my wife. so no, our sex life has nothing to do with it. she knows i suck cock , and is ok with it. trouble is , with this virus going around , i can't suck anyone. when this shit is over , i can't wait to be a married cocksucker again !

[bobsmith]

I had my last moment just prior to the virus hitting, interestingly enough, I twas the first cock I sucked in over two years. Not the greatest moment but not the worst. I just did not really have much interest but once i lowered my mouth over his cock I got that old craving again.

[bobsmith]

we all get older, that include our spouse. So it is very normal that sex will be less frequent, but that does not mean its time to hand up the pubes from banging each other whenever possible. Now having said that, sucking cock has little to do with a diminished sex drive by the partner. A diminished sex drive just allows more opportunity to do what we already like doing. you do not become bisexual because of her drive dropping. You are bisexual from the get go, its just that you did not open up to the experience to see that you are. some have it more than others when it comes to bisexuality. I don' have the same interest that I once had, probably due to aging, or maybe I am just enjoying my wife to much and just not building that fantasy to reality ratio that I once was overwhelmed to the point I would be arranging meets. Most meets did not pan out and what I did have usually ended up more than once with the same person. I don't intentionally swallow, but that does not mean I haven't done it, there were times when the guy came down my throat and I had no idea I had swallowed until I could taste it. which was not the worst thing I've ever tasted. One thing I can say based on mine and others cum, it all seems to taste and smell very much the same.

What I notice about me, perhaps some also see the same for yourselves, is that there are moments when the craving for cock is so intense I have a need to do it asap. it's a sexually desperate feeling. I used to get fixated on cock, at times I still do, and I would jerk off thinking about it or watching porn to get off. the only problem I encounter is that once I jerk off and cum, the desire for cock sems to dissipate, leaving me with no real drive to suck cock as I once did regardless whether I jerked off, had sex with my wife. there were times she would jerk me off while telling me a story of sucking cock, or she would tell a story about thresomes, mmf mff, one particular one I enjoyed is where she would be watching me and a guy and then join in..she ran the gamut of fantasy and that had me cumming a lot. She knows that I enjoy cock and feel a real strong desire at times and she understand that the only way I can get back to being relaxed is to suck cock. I even have a good sized dildo which she will hold while I suck it, however, over the past few years - nada. we are more having regular sex.. oral, intercourse etc... Once again, the slowing of bisex activities has affected each aspect. Now We are having plenty of sex ( by plenty I mean 3-4x per week, I am still an avid masturbator( have been since I was a teen) it helps keep me relaxed and calm.

What I can say is I enjoy sucking cock and I would like to think I provide an essential service.

As long as this virus continues there is no outside sex. I would not even consider going to any person's place let alone sucking cock. I value our lives more than sex as much as I love sex. Too much at stake to risk everything for an orgasm.

No hurry to suck cock because cocks will always be out there that need to be sucked, on my time. when I am ready.

[GayGuy04]

I haven't sucked a married guy but it seems that there are tons of married guys who are into sucking a guy off. And to know he's sucking a guy behind her back without her knowing a thing that's kinda hot if I ever had the chance to suck a married guy wow how much fun it would be to pleasure him cause his wife can't

[Growguytx]

I knew I loved sucking cock at 13 so it definitely was before marriage but now not much sex so I’d love to be doing it again

[ncbymail]

My situation is similar. I don't blame her either or think it made me bi. I've always been oversexed and somewhat kinky but took care of most of my EXTRA needs by jacking off alot or going to ABS gloryholes and getting sucked off. But when she lost all interest I needed to up my game and started sucking cock and getting sucked. I do think the rumor is true that once you suck cock you won't want to quit...at least it true for me. Sucking became my fav method of sex. I have topped and bottomed some now but sucking is still my preferred way to go...except for jacking off and eating my own when I can't find cock.
I use to think I'd just do it awhile and enjoy the taboo of it but I know I'll never stop. Since I've retired and have more time on my hands it has become almost an obsession or at least something I spend a lot of time on. Which is the biggest negative to me. I keep hoping I'll find a buddy near enough to fill the need weekly or at least monthly but I live in a small rural town and not near cities where it might be easier to hook up. I know I am probably too particular about who/where/when but I know it's important to be careful. But, to get back to the married part of the post...it's not just easy to walk out the door and hook up.
I hoped it'd be easier after I told my wife I was interested in sucking cock but she didn't pay much attention or react just said...'I'd don't want to know about it" and when I brought it up again she said she thought that was just a fantasy.

[Flypaper]

I haven't sucked a married guy but it seems that there are tons of married guys who are into sucking a guy off. And to know he's sucking a guy behind her back without her knowing a thing that's kinda hot if I ever had the chance to suck a married guy wow how much fun it would be to pleasure him cause his wife can't

Call me? :love87:

[Flypaper]

Hello, I am a married man from the Midwest USA. My wife has a decreased Sex drive, and I now Love to Suck Cock and Swallow CUM. Just curious, how many other married men Love Sucking Cock, and did your wife's decreased sex drive have anything to do about it ? Thanks, love to chat and make friends. 

Purely coincidental, in my case. Our sex drive remained quite high but frequent travel on my part meant that our time together was infrequent. A few performance issues (limp dick, for the most part) led to too much focus on whether or not I could deliver, so we grew less and less physical. She never really enjoyed much more than vanilla, missionary sex, not even cunnilingus. Began to insinuate that my lack of performance meant I was either disinterested or having an affair, neither of which was true (yet).

Then I discovered massage shops, and I got that first male blowjob, and the rest is history....

[Grant_Norman]

Hello, I am a married man from the Midwest USA. My wife has a decreased Sex drive, and I now Love to Suck Cock and Swallow CUM. Just curious, how many other married men Love Sucking Cock, and did your wife's decreased sex drive have anything to do about it ? Thanks, love to chat and make friends. 

Yes, my wife completely shut down about 8 years ago...I went about 3 years just jacking off, but couldn't stand it anymore not having some physical contact. Remembered how much I loved sucking cock when I was 7-14 and had given a few random blow jobs, no cum, in bookstores in my 30's, but was too HIV fearful to do a lot...then about 5 years ago I decided, what the hell, I'm going to start sucking cock again. First week I sucked 4 different cocks, and now after swallowing well over 100+ loads I'm loving it! Left wife a month ago (after 20 years) and now living as full-time bi. Actually grateful now that her frigidity pushed me to realize who I am...although I'd love to still eat pussy if it were available, nothing is better than sucking a nice cock and feeling it shoot in your mouth.

[chiefconsultant63]

Enjoyed cock before marriage. She doesn't know but I have sucked hundreds and hope to do more.

[bithunder]

I'm a 42 year veteran of sucking cock. I was in a short relationship with a guy who I would meet and hop in his pickup on the Home Depot parking lot. i would suck him off and both leave happy. The virus has put a temporary halt to it. But by email we're still on when the signal is "all clear".

[Waylon]

When my wife lost all interest in things sexual, giving or getting, I initially found other girls to play with fom time to time. Eventually I began to develop my bi side and watched some bi porn and enjoyed especially the oral sex features, not the ass fucking. I took the plunge and let a guy come over to suck my cock and ended up sucking his as well. That opened up the floodgates as I can now enjoy both getting oral from women and men but also give guys great blowjobs.

[dowmass]

I'd love to find a regular to suck off.

Same here: I'd love to find someone who want his dick sucked on a regular basis. I know I am good at it ( like you have the skills, but can't find the job, LOL) I live in the Dallas Fort Worth Area. Anybody listening?

[Serano37]

I always questioned my sexuality, but had no intentions of ever exploring sex with a man. My wife and I never had an amazing sex life, but it went to having sex only once a year at most. I finally decided that the problem must have been me so I started working to win her interest back. I dropped about 40 lbs and put on about 10 lbs of muscle.

I read in an article that some women are too tired by life to have sex. They have full time jobs and become full time Moms. These two full time jobs don't leave much time to be sultry sex goddess. I started making certain that I was helping to do the house keeping and pitching in with the children. None of the things I was doing changed anything. If anything, it showed my how selfish she was. It soon became an expectation that I would do all of the cooking, laundry and house cleaning. I was the one that drove the kids to all of their activities.

I became really bitter and began to wallow in my situation. I couldn't believe that divorce was my only option. We had been married for 20 years and I felt cheated. I always said that I would never get divorced. It wasn't an option and even though I brought my concerns to my wife, nothing changed. I hated the thought of dating at 43 years old. I was concerned about starting over and having to live in an apartment with no money. I was afraid of the effect that it would have on the kids. With all of this in mind, I found my own selfishness and started looking to have an affair.

I found Adult Friend Finder and started visiting chat rooms and hosting web cam shows. I thought if a woman saw how jacked I had become, then I would be able to find a hookup. Little did I know, there aren't many women on that site. Those that are there aren't looking to have an affair with a married man. However, there were a ton of turned on gay guys. At first, I enjoyed the attention, but had no intention of doing anything with these guys. There was one guy, that I really enjoyed performing for. We grew to be friends and he really helped me understand what it means to be gay. He was patient and caring and made me feel special. I started to fantasize about meeting up with this guy.

I wasn't even sure that I would enjoy sex with a man. I bought a dildo with a suction cup and started to play with it. I absolutely loved it. I loved the sensation of the head of my toy pushing past my ass cheeks and entering me. The toy that I had bought was too big, but with patience and practice, I was able to get it working in and out of me. I began to fantasize about what it would be like to be with a man.

Throughout this "journey" I would reach a milestone and then retreat. I would do something like buy the toy and then become disgusted with myself. I would stop all activity and try to put the genie back in the bottle and ignore my desires. Every time, I would find the desire would well up inside and I would find myself back on the internet. I found an internet forum website called shybi-guys.com and learned that I wasn't alone.

Through discussion with other married men like me, I got more and more courage to actually do something. I met up with a man that I had met on Adam4Adam.com and had a sexual experience. Like all of the times before, I found myself retreating. I was angry with myself. I was disgusted by what I had actually done. More than anything I was beyond angry at my wife for causing me to have to do something like that. It finally gave me the courage to divorce her.

It's been two years since my divorce. I have learned so much since it happened. I learned that divorce sucks, but isn't the end of the world. My kids were affected by the divorce, but survived it and are learning to live in the new normal. I learned that my sexual exploration wasn't my wife's fault. My bisexual side was always there, it just needed to be brought out. She is a selfish, narcissistic bitch and I definitely needed to divorce her, but my bisexuality has nothing to do with her. I have learned that it isn't anything to be ashamed of. My sexual desire is healthy and I am not ashamed of it. I haven't had another encounter since the last one, but I am thinking of trying again.

I know this is a really long response to your question, but I don't think that there is an easy answer to it. I feel that it is probably answered differently by most married men. This is just mine.

[Flypaper]

Thanks for sharing. I think buried in my history is some shared experience. Now I remember cruising the CL personals and being alternately attracted to and then turned off by all the attention I could attract from gay men. I too ordered and played with toys, only to toss them out in the afterglow of self reproach. I’ve probably left $500 worth of vibes, rubber dongs and prostate probes in hotel rooms around the country!

Ive held on to my sexless marriage by walking a tightrope. If our union ever collapsed, hard to know whether I would devote full time to getting and giving cock, or if I would look to trade up for a 25 yo Asian or Latina hottie. It’s a situation I want to avoid, to be honest.


I always questioned my sexuality, but had no intentions of ever exploring sex with a man. My wife and I never had an amazing sex life, but it went to having sex only once a year at most. I finally decided that the problem must have been me so I started working to win her interest back. I dropped about 40 lbs and put on about 10 lbs of muscle.

I read in an article that some women are too tired by life to have sex. They have full time jobs and become full time Moms. These two full time jobs don't leave much time to be sultry sex goddess. I started making certain that I was helping to do the house keeping and pitching in with the children. None of the things I was doing changed anything. If anything, it showed my how selfish she was. It soon became an expectation that I would do all of the cooking, laundry and house cleaning. I was the one that drove the kids to all of their activities.

I became really bitter and began to wallow in my situation. I couldn't believe that divorce was my only option. We had been married for 20 years and I felt cheated. I always said that I would never get divorced. It wasn't an option and even though I brought my concerns to my wife, nothing changed. I hated the thought of dating at 43 years old. I was concerned about starting over and having to live in an apartment with no money. I was afraid of the effect that it would have on the kids. With all of this in mind, I found my own selfishness and started looking to have an affair.

I found Adult Friend Finder and started visiting chat rooms and hosting web cam shows. I thought if a woman saw how jacked I had become, then I would be able to find a hookup. Little did I know, there aren't many women on that site. Those that are there aren't looking to have an affair with a married man. However, there were a ton of turned on gay guys. At first, I enjoyed the attention, but had no intention of doing anything with these guys. There was one guy, that I really enjoyed performing for. We grew to be friends and he really helped me understand what it means to be gay. He was patient and caring and made me feel special. I started to fantasize about meeting up with this guy.

I wasn't even sure that I would enjoy sex with a man. I bought a dildo with a suction cup and started to play with it. I absolutely loved it. I loved the sensation of the head of my toy pushing past my ass cheeks and entering me. The toy that I had bought was too big, but with patience and practice, I was able to get it working in and out of me. I began to fantasize about what it would be like to be with a man.

Throughout this "journey" I would reach a milestone and then retreat. I would do something like buy the toy and then become disgusted with myself. I would stop all activity and try to put the genie back in the bottle and ignore my desires. Every time, I would find the desire would well up inside and I would find myself back on the internet. I found an internet forum website called shybi-guys.com and learned that I wasn't alone.

Through discussion with other married men like me, I got more and more courage to actually do something. I met up with a man that I had met on Adam4Adam.com and had a sexual experience. Like all of the times before, I found myself retreating. I was angry with myself. I was disgusted by what I had actually done. More than anything I was beyond angry at my wife for causing me to have to do something like that. It finally gave me the courage to divorce her.

It's been two years since my divorce. I have learned so much since it happened. I learned that divorce sucks, but isn't the end of the world. My kids were affected by the divorce, but survived it and are learning to live in the new normal. I learned that my sexual exploration wasn't my wife's fault. My bisexual side was always there, it just needed to be brought out. She is a selfish, narcissistic bitch and I definitely needed to divorce her, but my bisexuality has nothing to do with her. I have learned that it isn't anything to be ashamed of. My sexual desire is healthy and I am not ashamed of it. I haven't had another encounter since the last one, but I am thinking of trying again.

I know this is a really long response to your question, but I don't think that there is an easy answer to it. I feel that it is probably answered differently by most married men. This is just mine.

[twilson22001]

Hello, I am a married man from the Midwest USA. My wife has a decreased Sex drive, and I now Love to Suck Cock and Swallow CUM. Just curious, how many other married men Love Sucking Cock, and did your wife's decreased sex drive have anything to do about it ? Thanks, love to chat and make friends. 
Very similar situation. The wife's sex drive has steadily decreased and is pretty much non-existent now. If my wife was still sexually active I don't think I'd pursue any kind of MM contact, but I've started thinking about it more and more. Masturbation is great, but doesn't quite meet the need. Kind of like scratching your own back...feels better when someone else does it! Finding a regular JO bud and maybe a suck bud would be ideal. Did her decrease cause it....don't know, but it certainly is playing a part.

[sterculius]

I became a cocksucker as a teenager at 15. What began as jerk off sessions with my best friend Larry ultimately evolved into me becoming his eager and willing personal cocksucker. I would give him blowjobs whenever and wherever he wanted, usually every day when we got home from school and occasionally 2 and even 3 times later that same day. He wouldn't reciprocate so I would jerk off and eat my cum as he watched after I'd finished blowing him. This convenient arrangement came to an abrupt end when we graduated and he moved to California to attend Stanford. I've been married twice but I've also been a serial cocksucker all my adult life. I confessed to my current wife a few years ago about having been my best friend's cocksucker. She was surprised but ultimately attributed it to adolescent sexual experimentation which I guess it was. I didn't tell her I still experiment.

[James000]

Well said

[Windman]

I have had a fascination with cocks since I was a young man. My wife loosing interest in sex gave me the reason to pursue it. Now when I get horny it all can think about.

[Oborokybiman]

I'd love to find a regular to suck off.
I’m right there with ya, GmanSam! My side of KY is very difficult to find a good friend!

[DMercator]

I was bi curious before I was married and explored some with wife's knowledge and involvement after we got married. When my wife closed up shop I still wanted sex with men and women. While hooking up with a man was fast and easy, the women I met tended to come with a lot of baggage. A 20-30 minute quickie with a guy was enough (at least to start with), but when I was with a woman, hours weren't enough. With a man emotional involvement wasn't an issue (for the most part), but with a woman the friends with benefits idea proved to be a tough line to walk.

Not sure if it is the nature of women or just my default interaction when I'm with a woman, but in the end life has been simpler just enjoying the occasional guy.

I guess what I'm saying is the lack of sex with my wife didn't make me bi (or more bi). It's just that when it comes to having sex on the side I've found men to be easier to find and lower maintenance than women.

[guywholikesboth]

I started sucking cock at 13 got my first taste of pussy at 18 but I still love a cock been sucking for 62 years

[jep1023]

46 bi male here. I have always been into sucking cock and swallowing cum. My wife and I have active sexual lifestyle. I am just on the dl about it.

[Chester1954]

In my early years I was an extreme introvert the only sexual contact I had with the opposite sex was paid for most of my attention was in making my "partner" climax. This got to be quite expensive I would go to the video arcades and masturbate while watching the movies. One day I was in one with decent size glory holes a hand came through the hole unzipped my pants took my cock out and pulled it through the hole first stroking then sucking me to completion, I enjoyed it immensely and like always felt tremendous guilt after I came.

I returned the next week to the same place this time I had my cock out before the hand appeared. It started like the last time only before I came he stopped and pushed his cock through the hole. I got down and stroked it then took it into my mouth and started sucking on it. I felt it twinge then a pulsing of the shaft followed by my mouth being filled with a warm salty liquid. I loved it and became a regular at the glory holes only I was 100% eater now. I learned about bath houses and started visiting them as often as I could I became an insatiable cocksucker.

I met my wife and I slowed down on sucking cock when we got married I stopped all together. One day after about 14 years of not playing with men I went to the health club early in the morning and surprised a young man stroking his cock it was a large pretty cock. It awoke something in me I started staring at the men in the showers and in the steam room. One day I caught a guy jacking off in the steam room we sort of danced for a couple of weeks and one day he walked up to me and fucked my face. He didn't cum but I was hooked.

A short time after I was in the steam room late at night sitting on top of the steam table and a black man with a nice semi rigid cock was in the steam room he must have read my body language because he started stroking his cock. Once we were alone he asked me if I wanted it I slid down to the bench and within seconds I was sucking his cock. He either understood the nature of public sex, was a quick cummer or I was a great cock sucker. When he came I pulled it out and he shot on my tits. I went back again and eventually took his load it was tasty, he used me in a variety of ways gave me a facial, another time told me to suck another mans cock in front of him. I have been sucking his cock in the steam room for over 10 years, he even shared me me with a few guys not as many as I would have liked. It has been crazy with this virus I really miss sucking his cock and swallowing his cum.

I had erectile dysfunction for a while then through the wonder of that little blue pill I got my sex life at home back the wife and I have sex 1 to 3 times a week and before Covid I was sucking cock 1 to 5 times a week. Besides the man at the health club I have a feeder I met on adam4adam that was turning into a semi regular thing. I also would hook up with guys from Squirt and Silverdaddies all 3 of the sites the hookups very sporadic not many repeat customers.

I guess that makes me a cocksuker who happens to be married to a woman.

[borntosuckcock]

I’m bisexual, I loved cocks and pussy before I was married and still like both after 50 years of marriage. Wife dried up years ago, so isuck more cock than before.

[helikesithard]

I wonder if it's possible to not become addicted to sucking cock ... or at least addicted to thinking about it ... I mean, why not suck a hard, thick, throbbing cock every chance you get?

[purely4fun]

I found it interesting to read all the different experiences. Thanks everyone for sharing. I guess I'm like a lot of you in one way or another. I love sex with women, but I'll be the first to admit I've always had a closet kinky streak. It first manifested in curiosity about shemales and crossdressers. They weren't that comon in regular porn, but I remember that whenever I'd see one I'd go weak in the knees. As I got older, I fantasized about a friend of mine fucking my wife, which I hoped would lead to more. But although he and I have talked about it, and she's fantasized about it in bed, sadly we live on opposite sides of the country. But the interest in shemales and crossdressers eventually led to jerking off over forced bi (the ones like Mistress T etc. where she makes men suck cock). My perfect fantasy would be MMF with a bi guy ... and either my wife or another female. After a lot of years, decades, I finally took the plunge a couple months back. I was amazed at how much I enjoyed sucking off other men. So much, I sucked two and swallowed one the first day, then a few days later sucked and swallowed two more the same day. No recip in any of them, and didn't really want any. I'm finding it extremely sexy to service and eat cum. Interestingly, I don't feel guilty. Maybe I should. I don't know. But I know I'll be sucking and swallowing more in the future.

[Tag200]

Hello, I am a married man from the Midwest USA. My wife has a decreased Sex drive, and I now Love to Suck Cock and Swallow CUM. Just curious, how many other married men Love Sucking Cock, and did your wife's decreased sex drive have anything to do about it ? Thanks, love to chat and make friends. 

my wife?s lack of internet in sex has caused me to see women and to have some limited play with men. I wouldn?t say I am a cocksucker yet but I am going to become one and part of it aid because I get no action at home and women are complicated to just sleep with oh and I have an internet in cock , find them very attractive

[Rvdude05]

My first taste of cock, was on a double date. We had just dropped my girl off and they were taking me home. The driver was getting a blowjob while he was driving, and suddenly his girl leaned over the seat and said kiss me. I did and she said you have to help me. We parked, the three of us got into the back seat, and took turns on his cock. He came in my mouth and I swallowed. Many years larer, married, and I still enjoy cock.... his girl? I see her now and then, and she sucks me off. Shes a keeper, and loves cock.

[happymouthandtongue]

I’ve always been bisexual, wife doesn’t know. I’m very oral, I love to eat pussy, just as much as I like to suck cocks. When my wife lost interest in sex, I just found others gals that were younger and still liked to have their pussies licked. I still suck cocks, but as I get older, it’s gotton harder to find partners of either sex.

[hueyguy]

Hello, I am a married man from the Midwest USA. My wife has a decreased Sex drive, and I now Love to Suck Cock and Swallow CUM. Just curious, how many other married men Love Sucking Cock, and did your wife's decreased sex drive have anything to do about it ? Thanks, love to chat and make friends. 
Same boat here, only, I got interested in cock a little earlier, and am prob 75% gay now, love man sex...its amazing!!!!!

[skuz69]

I've been extremely frustrated. The wife pretty much shut down about 20 years ago, but I was always ready to go and ended up jerking off every day (at least once). Then I found out I had prostate cancer. As treatment, I had a TURP procedure done, got a hormone shot to shrink the prostate, and underwent radiation therapy. The hormone shot eliminated all libido and I didn't even think about sex for a year and a half. But now, the shot has worn off and desire has come back stronger than ever. The problems are that the wife is still not interested, I can't get an erection without medication, and I now cum into my bladder, so there's nothing to show for an orgasm. I'd like to find a FWB that I can trust, but that hasn't happened yet. However, I've got to say that even though I can't produce any cum, orgasms are more intense than I remember them ever being. Intense to the point of my knees buckling if I'm standing to jerk off....

[twilde1952]

The problem for me as a want to be cocksucker is that I'm married and retired. Married is a full time job, retired means I don't get out much. The pandemic means we spend most of our time together which is why I'm not getting out. I don't want her to know and I don't think she wants to either. Medical issues have arisen over the years and now I have problems with my immune system too but I'm living in hope for one more chance at sucking cock again. LOL.

[Jozyxt]

women are complicated to just sleep with
Yes, they want to spend time with you on holidays and to know you are always thinking about them. I haven't met a cocksucker yet that was put out because I didn't call him on his birthday. Or did anything other than show his appreciation that I came by to visit on short notice.

[Tag200]

Yes, they want to spend time with you on holidays and to know you are always thinking about them. I haven't met a cocksucker yet that was put out because I didn't call him on his birthday. Or did anything other than show his appreciation that I came by to visit on short notice.

yeah I have had a girlfriend on and off for years and very complicated… thinking sucking cock might be better and less hassle

[NWMichCPL]

I’m a married cocksucker and my wife loves it. She enjoys watching men have sex, live action and in video, she’ll play with her pussy watching mm play, she explodes during the anal scenes.
I have a wonderful wife.

[averagejoe33]

Here in central Pa is tough to find a decent guy friend! It seems any one else in any the groups or sites are game players or are on the yonder side of BFE!I know how you feel as I have been trying to find a guy here in Phoenix to practice my blow job skills on for a while. You would think that Phoenix would be easy to find someone. But nothing so far.

[averagejoe33]

yeah I have had a girlfriend on and off for years and very complicated… thinking sucking cock might be better and less hassle

Let's talk, I can't host but would like very much to suck that nice cock of yours.

[stonebow]

I’m a married cocksucker and my wife loves it. She enjoys watching men have sex, live action and in video, she’ll play with her pussy watching mm play, she explodes during the anal scenes.
I have a wonderful wife.

Yes you do!.....you and me both actually...:tongue:

[Tag200]

Let's talk, I can't host but would like very much to suck that nice cock of yours.

Mae have emailed before , j in can’t host either so not many options .. feel free to email me again though

[Rest85]

My first taste of cock, was on a double date. We had just dropped my girl off and they were taking me home. The driver was getting a blowjob while he was driving, and suddenly his girl leaned over the seat and said kiss me. I did and she said you have to help me. We parked, the three of us got into the back seat, and took turns on his cock. He came in my mouth and I swallowed. Many years larer, married, and I still enjoy cock.... his girl? I see her now and then, and she sucks me off. Shes a keeper, and loves cock.

That's hot as hell! I love a woman who loves to suck cock. I can relate to her!

[ChiefH]

My wife's loss of sexual desire has brought out my bi feelings that I've had since I was a young lad and sucked my friends uncut cock! Now those tendencies are floating back to the surface! I don't believe men even as we age never lose that sexual drive!

[hueyguy]

My first time sucking a cock, ended with me on my way back to work(lunch hour)gagging and dry heaving, I thought I will never do that again.....two hours later I got to thinking about it, and thought, it really wasnt that bad...the next day i was back at his house with his cock in my mouth, been addicted now for 12 years

[needalittle05]

Hi, altho her drive died long ago, we were active with a couple that we bi before that. spent many nights enjoying time with them. sometimes just the wifes, or just us guys. 3somes depended on everyones mood. was a great time for all

[stonebow]

For me, it was my first wife?s idea that I should check out sucking cock. It was one of the best ideas she ever had. I?ve been a devoted cocksucker since I first put a cock in my mouth. Probably 25 years or so by now n!

Her idea?...sure it wasn't more like a heated discussion about something entirely unrelated, that ended with here saying "Oh, go eat a dick!"...?...lol

[NJwood]

It definitely played into it. My wife knew I loved sucking cock before we were married and found it very erotic. She wasn?t interested in participating so, the opportunity to indulge didn?t come up often and we enjoyed an active sexual life. Menopause began and ended with her having some challenges with sex that led to frustration for her. Her desire is there but the work that goes into it has become a deterrent. Less frequent sex for me and I was constantly thinking about it. I would never pursue another woman beyond the massage with a happy ending. I started jerking off more but wanted some variety. That led to curiosity about anal sex and the purchase of my first dildo. That just got me desiring cock more. She is cool with it since it?s not competition for her.

[GmanBi]

I love to suck cock and swallow cum and my wife loves it as well

[its just me]

The problem for me as a want to be cocksucker is that I'm married and retired. Married is a full time job, retired means I don't get out much. The pandemic means we spend most of our time together which is why I'm not getting out. I don't want her to know and I don't think she wants to either. Medical issues have arisen over the years and now I have problems with my immune system too but I'm living in hope for one more chance at sucking cock again. LOL.

thats exactly my problem too. Damn immune system and this virus. Not a good combo

[ClassicPaCpl]

My wife and I have a great sex life. It helps we both are BI and enjoy each other.
However here in North East PA, we have alot of phonies and creeps. Guys who say they are BI but only want to get with the wife.
I love sucking cock and really would love to find a BI guy or BI cpl we can have a lasting friendship with.
hasnt happened yet

[Into_it_all]

I Truly love Giving Guys a nice long sloppy blowjob. I?m very Str8 Acting & a closeted Bi Man. Either way, I?ve been sucking dick for about 14 years now & don?t regret having my mouth stuffed with some Nice Thick Cock. I?ve even swallowed a few Guys & I always enjoy how their Bodies squirm when they cum down my throat, There?s nothing Better!!!

[Jozyxt]

I Truly love Giving Guys a nice long sloppy blowjob. I?m very Str8 Acting & a closeted Bi Man. Either way, I?ve been sucking dick for about 14 years now & don?t regret having my mouth stuffed with some Nice Thick Cock. I?ve even swallowed a few Guys & I always enjoy how their Bodies squirm when they cum down my throat, There?s nothing Better!!!

Good times!

[GalaxyMan]

For me, it was my first wife?s idea that I should check out sucking cock.
I was in the same situation. We were exploring swinging and wanted me to try it because I had wanted to see her with another woman. Loved it and regretted that I hadn't tried it earlier in my life. Nothing quite like the feeling of a cock in your mouth going off.

[Fred_Brice]

After my wife passing, from fighting Cancer for 3 years. I had lost most all interest in things sexual, giving or getting for about a year or so. I initially found other women to date from time to time but there were to many games going on and a lot of the time, I found that a of the women were truthful! So eventually I began to develop my bisexual side and especially the oral sex features, not so much the ass fucking. I took the plunge and met up with other males and I did let a guy suck my cock and I ended up sucking his as well. That opened up the floodgates as I can now enjoy both getting oral from women and men but also give guys great blowjobs. Over the years I developed some very good oral talents. That was before Covis-19, and I do miss being with others. Other than the pandemic I been fighting to have my knees replaced so it been a very long time since I have sucked a cock, and I do miss it. Soon I will have one knee and then the other and once I have recover, I do hope to get together with others. I never had a problem with most married guys!

[marc_nola]

Older Married, she and I both have very high sex drives, desires and activity. She knows I love cock and fantasize about it. Sex has not dropped off, but increased as well as intensity for she and I. Her love, passion, desire and being her makes me more erotically desiring erotic estacy life offers those who desire it. She is my whole reason for anything I do, she is my world.

[Rest85]

I haven't sucked a married guy but it seems that there are tons of married guys who are into sucking a guy off. And to know he's sucking a guy behind her back without her knowing a thing that's kinda hot if I ever had the chance to suck a married guy wow how much fun it would be to pleasure him cause his wife can't

It IS very arousing for me! When I place an ad, looking for a cock to suck, I always say I am seeking a married guy in part because I love to suck dick with no expectation of recip and in part because I feel married guys would be likely to keep our secret.

[travelmanNW]

I was married and now a widower. After my wife passed i date several women as Fred said to much drama for me. I had sucked some cock in my younger years so decided to give it a try again. I found I enjoy sucking cock. I prefer married men that just want a good blowjob. I do not want or need in any reciprocation just enjoy sucking cock and getting a nice load of cum. I'm a normal guy that likes sucking cock.

[halj775]

you sound like my kinda guy lol^^

[Jozyxt]

I was married and now a widower. After my wife passed i date several women as Fred said to much drama for me. I had sucked some cock in my younger years so decided to give it a try again. I found I enjoy sucking cock. I prefer married men that just want a good blowjob. I do not want or need in any reciprocation just enjoy sucking cock and getting a nice load of cum. I'm a normal guy that likes sucking cock.

The world need more men like you. It so hard to find a guy that can host and isn't a flake.

[GuyUpOnTop]

Im in the same boat and as my wife had a hesterectory she now hates sex and Ive been without for 5 years. Im in Eastern Ky and sure would like to meet a like minded person.

[Leo Rabbit]

I had been bi-curious for 30 years or so. Almost a year ago I discovered my wife was having an affair. The first thing I said was, "maybe I should explore my bi side." It just slipped out! I think it was in part that I wanted to experience something she could never give me...the opportunity to suck a cock. I have now experienced five different guys and one of them is semi-regular every couple months or so.

My wife is going through all sorts of stuff, coming off of giving birth to our three kids and the trauma of that to her body and mind, finally weaning the last baby, now a sort of midlife crisis, and rebelling against some of the religious indoctrination she received as a girl, etc. So, yes, she does have a lower sex drive (mine has always been way higher) but it is at its lowest ever right now...almost asexual. So, as so many have shared, HER sex drive, or lack thereof, did not make me bi, but it did definitely get me to the point I was willing to explore outside our relationship and get my sexual needs met in other ways.

[nu2curious]

This a recurring theme I see over and over through the years ,that is , guys finding that they can get sexual relief without the encumbrance of another woman even some cases the wife is OK with it as well.

[Jozyxt]

And MM play doesn't threaten your marriage. Or at least doesn't have to.

[SilkyHoseLover]

And MM play doesn't threaten your marriage. Or at least doesn't have to.Obviously a lot of variables here, depending upon the individuals-involved and the type of marriage that they've enjoyed. In a lot of cases the wife could be horrified at finding that her husband could or would even contemplate such a thing, even if it never came to fruition. It could mean instant separation or divorce.

But in others, like mine, it can work. My wife is ok with my indulging in MM play, even MM play that involves me crossdressing. She simply loves me for the person that I am, and knows that I want real cock, not a dildo.

I highly doubt that her tolerance would extend to my being with another woman, though. So I've never even contemplated that!

[Cum1st]

Old, Married, and not getting any either. I'm certain a man on the side wouldn't adversely affect our relationship.

I flirt with women all the time, but hide behind my ring. Many women like to feel appreciated that way - even ones that don't want to have a/another man in their life intimately.

A woman on the side had always been messy for everyone involved with the exception of the 'winning' female sometimes.

My wife has known I am Bi since before we were married. I'm pretty sure that she knew about my previous sexual relationship with a male friend. Nothing changed at home even though she and I were fucking and sucking at the time. (She has only sucked me off once, and made it clear she didn't like it, but she did swallow.)

I love cock and crave sex with a warm person, but would like it to be a safe comfortable relationship whether he wants it mutual or just to get off.

I have a good relationship with another man at work, and at times it seems he might be into it. At least I don't think he'd out me for trying. Time may tell.

Being not into sex, and secure in our relationship she probably just wouldn't want to hear a blow by blow commentary on it, but it may spark some desire. She was interested in watching me with another man and not join in once before we were married. Too bad he wasn't into it.

[Jozyxt]

Obviously a lot of variables here,

The main thing is that men who are swapping cock aren't looking to be wined and dined before sex. You don't have to spend time with them on the holidays or take them out for romantic dinners on their birthday. They just want to suck cock. The other stuff is for gay couples although I suppose you could find a gay guy that falls for you and wants a relationship that would be on the rare side.

[stonebow]

Top 10 reasons why a bi-male lover is better than a mistress:

10) He doesn't mind if you'd rather watch the game than talk.

9) A male lover is always up for anal OR oral.

8) You don't have to worry about being seen in public with him.

7) He's always got beer in his fridge.

6) He doesn't expect you to leave your wife for him.

5) It's totally cool if you don't buy him jewelry.

4) No monthly "downtime".

3) Your bisexual side guy can relate to your women troubles.

2) He won't resent the time you spend at the gym, golfing, fishing, working on your car etc.....he may even join you.

and the #1 reason a bi-male lover is better than a mistress......you can borrow his clothes without being accused of cross dressing!

[FriskyGent]

I tried sucking cock twice and didnt enjoy it. I did realize i really enjoyed being sucked by a grown man. Now, at 60 yo i wish i could find a decent married cocksucker i just dont know how to start or where to look.

[Cum1st]

Top 10 reasons why a bi-male lover is better than a mistress:

10) He doesn't mind if you'd rather watch the game than talk.

9) A male lover is always up for anal OR oral.

8) You don't have to worry about being seen in public with him.

7) He's always got beer in his fridge.

6) He doesn't expect you to leave your wife for him.

5) It's totally cool if you don't buy him jewelry.

4) No monthly "downtime".

3) Your bisexual side guy can relate to your women troubles.

2) He won't resent the time you spend at the gym, golfing, fishing, working on your car etc.....he may even join you.

and the #1 reason a bi-male lover is better than a mistress......you can borrow his clothes without being accused of cross dressing!

Not taking off our rings was an ongoing joke with us.

[Bi_Jorge]

I have to say I have been experiencing wife having no interest in sex as well. She is going through menopause so I am assuming that is mostly why. Prior to this we had a great sex life always exploring. We starting roleplaying threesomes with dildos and lots of me fuck licking her to orgasm. She would always feed me the dildo after she would orgasm all over it. She also did some anal play while licking me with her finger teasing or small anal toy. We would share who we would love to try it with. From her BFF to some male friends we both knew. Just as she was coming on 49 when when it slowed down alot then now to a dead stop.
Now I feel like I need to try my bi side.. but with whom. Needs to be soo discreet and no STDs .. it just seems so overwhelmingly huge challenge. Hoping we get back into it again. soon.

[Rick469]

I could enjoy a married guy who's curious or enjoys a guy licking and sucking him past his orgasm and let's go

[Jozyxt]

I tried sucking cock twice and didnt enjoy it. I did realize i really enjoyed being sucked by a grown man. Now, at 60 yo i wish i could find a decent married cocksucker i just dont know how to start or where to look.

Double list is loaded with cocksuckers eager for a feeder. If you can host, there will be plenty married men who will drop by for a dram. Adam for Adam is a bit of a mess, but I have found some cocksuckers there too.

[Silvano1249]

I want to try sucking a cock for my first time and going nuts thinking about it

[Tag200]

I want to try sucking a cock for my first time and going nuts thinking about it.. curios to hear if and when you do… I have a little experience but I do know after I try, I think never again but soon after I am curious again.

[Bear816]

My situation is a little different. My wife is the one who got me started with having sex with guys. Reason? Because she had a fantasy of watching two guys having sex live in front of her. She asked if I ever considered it and kept bugging me about it over the next two weeks. Finally I told her I'd try it. I'm glad I did. He came over, we went to the bedroom and we all got naked. She sat in a chair next to the bed. He and I climbed on to the bed. Before I knew it we were sucking each other like crazy. My wife loved it so much. After that day I kept putting "shows" on for her. A few months later her sex drive and interests was totally at zero. So sucking cock turned out to be my backup plan.

[Tag200]

I always questioned my sexuality, but had no intentions of ever exploring sex with a man. My wife and I never had an amazing sex life, but it went to having sex only once a year at most. I finally decided that the problem must have been me so I started working to win her interest back. I dropped about 40 lbs and put on about 10 lbs of muscle.

I read in an article that some women are too tired by life to have sex. They have full time jobs and become full time Moms. These two full time jobs don't leave much time to be sultry sex goddess. I started making certain that I was helping to do the house keeping and pitching in with the children. None of the things I was doing changed anything. If anything, it showed my how selfish she was. It soon became an expectation that I would do all of the cooking, laundry and house cleaning. I was the one that drove the kids to all of their activities.

I became really bitter and began to wallow in my situation. I couldn't believe that divorce was my only option. We had been married for 20 years and I felt cheated. I always said that I would never get divorced. It wasn't an option and even though I brought my concerns to my wife, nothing changed. I hated the thought of dating at 43 years old. I was concerned about starting over and having to live in an apartment with no money. I was afraid of the effect that it would have on the kids. With all of this in mind, I found my own selfishness and started looking to have an affair.

I found Adult Friend Finder and started visiting chat rooms and hosting web cam shows. I thought if a woman saw how jacked I had become, then I would be able to find a hookup. Little did I know, there aren't many women on that site. Those that are there aren't looking to have an affair with a married man. However, there were a ton of turned on gay guys. At first, I enjoyed the attention, but had no intention of doing anything with these guys. There was one guy, that I really enjoyed performing for. We grew to be friends and he really helped me understand what it means to be gay. He was patient and caring and made me feel special. I started to fantasize about meeting up with this guy.

I wasn't even sure that I would enjoy sex with a man. I bought a dildo with a suction cup and started to play with it. I absolutely loved it. I loved the sensation of the head of my toy pushing past my ass cheeks and entering me. The toy that I had bought was too big, but with patience and practice, I was able to get it working in and out of me. I began to fantasize about what it would be like to be with a man.

Throughout this "journey" I would reach a milestone and then retreat. I would do something like buy the toy and then become disgusted with myself. I would stop all activity and try to put the genie back in the bottle and ignore my desires. Every time, I would find the desire would well up inside and I would find myself back on the internet. I found an internet forum website called shybi-guys.com (http://shybi-guys.com) and learned that I wasn't alone.

Through discussion with other married men like me, I got more and more courage to actually do something. I met up with a man that I had met on Adam4Adam.com (http://Adam4Adam.com) and had a sexual experience. Like all of the times before, I found myself retreating. I was angry with myself. I was disgusted by what I had actually done. More than anything I was beyond angry at my wife for causing me to have to do something like that. It finally gave me the courage to divorce her.

It's been two years since my divorce. I have learned so much since it happened. I learned that divorce sucks, but isn't the end of the world. My kids were affected by the divorce, but survived it and are learning to live in the new normal. I learned that my sexual exploration wasn't my wife's fault. My bisexual side was always there, it just needed to be brought out. She is a selfish, narcissistic bitch and I definitely needed to divorce her, but my bisexuality has nothing to do with her. I have learned that it isn't anything to be ashamed of. My sexual desire is healthy and I am not ashamed of it. I haven't had another encounter since the last one, but I am thinking of trying again.

I know this is a really long response to your question, but I don't think that there is an easy answer to it. I feel that it is probably answered differently by most married men. This is just mine.
Thanks for sharing this story, I have a lot in common with your path. Sexless marriage for one, me doing so much and her so little , etc

[SilkyHoseLover]

My wife loved it so much. After that day I kept putting "shows" on for her. A few months later her sex drive and interests was totally at zero. So sucking cock turned out to be my backup plan.
Sounds like it may have been her plan for you, too...

At any rate, I loved the first part of the story -- you were 'Living the dream' that a lot of us have!'

[DMercator]

I've known I was bisexual since my late teens and was very open with my wife before we got married. For the most part my bisexuality was academic as we were in a monogamous relationship. Outside of my choice of porn, my bisexuality was more theory than reality. When my wife decided she was no longer interested in sex, I found myself looking elsewhere. The more I looked, the more the needle shifted from most-hetero to being gay. I'm still bi, but I'm a lot more open and wanting some cock play than I ever was when my wife sexually active.

[Lumbarjock]

Im the same as you, can we chat somehow, have you done it yet ?

[Lumbarjock]

I also want to try for first time, can we chat, maybe we are close ??

[Tag200]

Emailed you back

[phalluster]

Same boat as many of you. My wife and I still have sex but that is not close to enough for me. And like many others I'm stuck on how to get a cock in my mouth without ruining the marriage.

[thickneasy]

Married and try to suck cock when I can, her sex drive isn?t an issue I just like cock in my mouth

[Sissy Seanette]

I am Sean Carey and I am a married cocksucker, I just love cock and balls and cum I am in buffalo, ny

[dowmass]

I am a married cocksucker, and live in Dallas, TX.

The last time I sucked a cock was 5 years back and that was my second time. My top didn?t believe it. He said I didn?t gag and my deep throat was that of a pro!
I ?d really love to suck cock - any takers?

[needalittle05]

started my Bi side with wife joining in ( several Bi 4-somes)many years ago. as we aged she has also lost her sex drive. I look mostly for Bi-couples seeking a third but also enjoy singles both female and male since my drive is still active. she knows and understands

[Silvano1249]

I am married and want to suck my first cock and will swallow, where do I find a cock willing!

[Waylon]

I am a married cocksucker that explored my bi side back when wifey decided she no longer wanted or needed sex of any kind and was no longer interested in giving me any at all. Prior to that she had been a wild and very sexy partner that I had trained how to please me orally and she got to be very very good at cocksucking. She fucked like a rabbit too. She was very submissive but also loved to be the center of attention and showed off her body and oral talents with other men if I told her to. After she went cold, I truly enjoyed being with other men and got very good at fellatio. I even told her how I was sucking other guys cocks but she said fine, whatever you want to do, do it. I found that some men suck cock better than many women and probably because they know what feels best and I absolutely enjoy being a good cocksucker.

[papasmurph]

I finally allowed myself and gave myself permission to seek out and fulfill my sexual attraction to men as my sexual relationship with my wife cooled. Sex with a guy is easier to get than with a wife sometimes. When she loses interest I think that suppressed attraction to men came roaring back to me. The older guys here remember how we worked very hard 50 years ago to deny our true nature - we were subconsciously told it was wrong or even openly embarrassed when we were caught sneaking a peek at a classmate's dick in the locker room. So, yeah, as the years go by and the forbidden nature of same sex attraction becomes more acceptable, us older men find satisfaction with our fellow man. Good for you, I say

[mercury69]

I’ve been bi since about 13-14 y/o starting with neighborhood kids and one 50y/o guy I used to work for down the street. I had a long time of almost no bi play during military and then work career but then when getting closer to retiring at 60 I started to get back into it. Thankfully my wife is bi as well and has had her girl friends over the years as well as us swinging when it was safer but she knew and knows I still enjoy sucking cock and getting fucked so there is no issue there. I am one in a million from what I have see/heard/been told because my wife is 60 and still a crazed sex fiend but since I have bouts of ED I don’t always get and stay hard enough to enter her so we use lots of toys including a fuck machine that we researched together to buy. I have ended up using it more then she does because she has prefers her vibes and wand and my oral so it works great for us. She enjoys watching me do mutual oral with another guy or get fucked by them and she sometimes joins as long as the guy is not married or his wife has given permission. It’s her rule and I don’t argue it. I don’t make love to a guy I just have sex of all kinds and enjoy it to the max.

[jimmy1664]

There are some really hot posts on here! Gets me hard!

[Woodsdweller]

My wife started pulling away from sex after our first child, and her drive is almost non-existent now, but I think it's because there's a fundamental difference in our approach to sex: I have sex to feel good, while she has sex when she feels good. It's a small but important difference. Hangover sex is one of my favourites because it practically clears the hangover, but she won't want sex unless everything is perfect.

To answer the question, though, my first sexual experiences were sucking cock with friends, so the proclivity has always been there, even the interest off and on. It wasn't until my wife was losing interest though that the opportunity came up again, so caused? Not so much, but there's a definite correlation.

[Racrx]

My wife and I have great regular sex but her cock sucking skills are lacking, she tries but its just OK. I've been Bi since my teenage years and my best blowjobs have been from men, like 9 out of 10 of the best ones ever were by guys. I did have 1 g/f 25 years ago that was an amazing cock sucker and couldn't get enough of it. I didn't start sucking cock myself until my late 20's and then realized how much I enjoyed sucking as well, love the feeling of a cock pulsing a load into my mouth. Wife and most of my past g/f's weren't into anal either, only had one g/f that really enjoyed and preferred it. I've had some great experiences with bi men and Cd's. Current wife is OK with me having some guy on guy fun once in awhile.

[DLazguy]

My wife has an insanely high sex drive and we fuck as often as possible. I just enjoy the taboo of two men pleasuring each other, the sneaking around behind her back, the feel of a cock in my mouth and knowing that I suck cock better than my wife.

[jimkimball]

My x knew I was bi we did a few threesomes but no my new wife doesn't know I like sucking cock .
She like to fuck me and likes to see me lick my cum off her tits ,but doesn't like the idea of me sucking cock .
So I keep it hid for know and meet up with someone now and again so I can satisfy my urge

[jjourneyman]

I've never had the pleasure or pain of being married, so take my comments as you will. I used to have a lot of married contacts who wanted me to give them head. Not so much anymore... it seems everyone wants to suck... which I'm OK with because I like getting blown. To me it's just strange how everything seems to have flipped.

[pete7]

similar here

[Kysquire]

The main thing is that men who are swapping cock aren't looking to be wined and dined before sex. You don't have to spend time with them on the holidays or take them out for romantic dinners on their birthday. They just want to suck cock. The other stuff is for gay couples although I suppose you could find a gay guy that falls for you and wants a relationship that would be on the rare side.
"BINGO!"

[Waylon]

I am a married cocksucker that explored my bi side back when wifey decided she no longer wanted or needed sex of any kind and was no longer interested in giving me any at all. Prior to that she had been a wild and very sexy partner that I had trained how to please me orally and she got to be very very good at cocksucking. She fucked like a rabbit too. She was very submissive but also loved to be the center of attention and showed off her body and oral talents with other men if I told her to. After she went cold, I truly enjoyed being with other men and got very good at fellatio. I even told her how I was sucking other guys cocks but she said fine, whatever you want to do, do it. I found that some men suck cock better than many women and probably because they know what feels best and I absolutely enjoy being a good cocksucker.

There was one time a couple years ago when she got really drunk and wanted to see me with another man so I called a couple of bj buddies and one was available. He was a black man, very rugged, muscular and smooth as silk with a nice bulbous helmet head toppiing off a 7 inch package, wifey went crazy with verbal abuse calling me a faggot black cock slut as I sucked this bbc greedily. She told me to suck his big black balls which I was glad to do and when I took him balls deep down my throat she started fisting herself furiously. She egged me on saying you like sucking that big cock dond't you you fucking cociksuckerer and I mumbled yes with his cock filling my mouth. She told him to cum in my mouth and wanted to watch me swallow so I opened wide as he deposited a big load of white cream filling my open mouth and I turned my head to her and smiled as I gulped it all down; After that her curiosity was satisfied and she never watched me again.

[jjourneyman]

I must say that most of my male partners have been married men (starting when I was 14 and sucked and got fucked by my best friend's step dad).

It has always worked out well for me because I'm not into long-term relationships (with women or men), and let's face it, most married guys are just looking for a short-term or one-time hook-ups. I don't fuck married men anymore, but I will let them suck my cock if that's what they are after. If I know that someone is a first-timer, I like to make them feel comfortable and relaxed so they can enjoy the experience. My first time was very pleasurable... no pressure. i just did what came natural, so I like to pay it forward. I've had several older guys suck my cock and tell me they had wished they had started earlier, but were afraid to for one reason or another.

The vast majority, though, just want to get blown because their wife or girlfriend doesn't suck them anymore - at least not on a frequent enough basis. There are also a few select husbands out there who like fucking a tight ass; however, again, it's because their spouse doesn't do anal.

[Christopher South]

Even though I knew I was bi when I was 15, I never acted on it until I was 53. That was 12 years after my wife went through menopause and lost all interest in sex. Even before then sex was a struggle. So after a year of no sex I decided to act on my bisexuality. Honestly, if my wife were to die tomorrow or we separated, I would not go back to women. It's so much easier with guys.

[jjourneyman]

Even though I knew I was bi when I was 15, I never acted on it until I was 53. That was 12 years after my wife went through menopause and lost all interest in sex. Even before then sex was a struggle. So after a year of no sex I decided to act on my bisexuality. Honestly, if my wife were to die tomorrow or we separated, I would not go back to women. It's so much easier with guys.

I definitely agree there. With most guys it's meet up, unzip, suck and/or fuck, zip up and go. Plain and simple sex. NSA. No drama.

[papasmurph]

I've never had the pleasure or pain of being married, so take my comments as you will. I used to have a lot of married contacts who wanted me to give them head. Not so much anymore... it seems everyone wants to suck... which I'm OK with because I like getting blown. To me it's just strange how everything seems to have flipped.

I've noticed that flip, too. Seems like every post on DoubleList is a guy offering to suck, but not many who are looking to get a blow job - and if they are, they have restrictions and preferences - which I imagine since there are seemingly so many cocksuckers out there, they get what they are looking for.

[querty]

Older Married, she and I both have very high sex drives, desires and activity. She knows I love cock and fantasize about it. Sex has not dropped off, but increased as well as intensity for she and I. Her love, passion, desire and being her makes me more erotically desiring erotic estacy life offers those who desire it. She is my whole reason for anything I do, she is my world.

Awesome......

[Warmnsalty]

Married cum slut here. On wife #2, first wife didn't know I liked cock, this one does. Love sucking and swallowing as many guys as I can find. Was so much easier when CL was working. Plenty of horny married and "str8" guys looking for a blow job but now they don't know where to look. Occasionally find one on grindr but nothing works like CL did. Used to get a cock every other week, now it's rare to get one once a month. Damn shame.

[ilovetowatchcs]

I'm also a bi maried (older-62) cocksucker. And yes, it's getting tougher and tougher to find new ones to suck.

[john1644]

for what it's worth, putting your state or zip number on this site might get someone's attention, if your looking ??? Mine is 08060 A zip number will NOT give away your
address or street, just general location. Most difficult to hook up because guys are married or live at home, and no place to play. Motels are very expensive for such a short period
of time. So, I got a SUV with rear tinted windows, and can service my friends during week days in large mall parking lots. Never any problem.............. Food for thought .....

[travelmanNW]

I enjoy sucking married men cock. I'm single and can host sometimes. Like to have several married that just want their cock sucked. No drama and everyone gets what they need.

[marine20]

i started sucking cocks around 1973 , not because of my wife's sex drive , but because of mine. if i wasn't so fucking horny all the time , i may have never been with men . i bet a lot of guys feel the same way. we are made to have a high sex drive , more so than women.

[Rest85]

I've never had the pleasure or pain of being married, so take my comments as you will. I used to have a lot of married contacts who wanted me to give them head. Not so much anymore... it seems everyone wants to suck... which I'm OK with because I like getting blown. To me it's just strange how everything seems to have flipped.

It sure seems that way. I haven't placed any ads for cock in quite some time (I used Doublelist after CL shut down their personals), but it sure seemed like the ratio of suckers to suckees was extreme the last time I checked. There was a time when I would place an ad on CL and get many replies. After CL stopped with the personals, I discovered DL. I would still get quite a few replies even when I advertised for married and straight guys who wanted no recip pleasures.

Certainly, I think there are fewer people who know about Doublelist, so that might factor in, but since Covid it seems that the ratio of suckers to suckees might be around 20 to 1; way worse than before Covid. It got very frustrating. Thankfully I have connected with a guy who understands my sub, no recip prefernces. But, I imagine it's still hard to find cocks through the web sites available.

I'm wondering if it's the same for everyone else.

But...to keep with the subject of this thread, I'm not married but am in a serious relationship with a woman. I find it adds to the turn-on factor to sneak and hide my secret oral encounters. I don't suck cock due to lack of m/f sex available to me. I do it because it's an itch that can't be scratched any other way.

[Catharsis]

My wife is experiencing a reduced sex drive...and I am bisexual. Neither of these would really be an issue, individually, but last year I had some back trauma that got me doing physical therapy daily...some of the exercises are the same as what is done for prostate surgery recovery and erectile disfunction...so my sex drive is immensely increased.
Now, I'm scouring the area for the ideal FWB to sexperiment with...

[Skuttfarkuss]

My first wife had a terrible attitude toward sex and said no a lot. Left me very sexually frustrated. My second with that I am still married to has a much better attitude. Trouble is that although she is ten years younger than me her body looks much older than me and it is hard to get aroused by her. She has a lot of extra weight and puts it on in the wrong places. She just doesn't turn me on although I love women. I have been faithful to her except sucking some cocks now and then.

[centillini]

I love shemale/cd porn, and the Mistress T videos also get me horny. Like you the dream is have a bi male with a mistress coaching/directing actiin be so hot.

[Neonaught]

I just have to ask! What were the PT exercises? I'm betting I am not the only one wondering! LOL



My wife is experiencing a reduced sex drive...and I am bisexual. Neither of these would really be an issue, individually, but last year I had some back trauma that got me doing physical therapy daily...some of the exercises are the same as what is done for prostate surgery recovery and erectile disfunction...so my sex drive is immensely increased.
Now, I'm scouring the area for the ideal FWB to sexperiment with...

[wifekinky4husband]

There was one time a couple years ago when she got really drunk and wanted to see me with another man so I called a couple of bj buddies and one was available. He was a black man, very rugged, muscular and smooth as silk with a nice bulbous helmet head toppiing off a 7 inch package, wifey went crazy with verbal abuse calling me a faggot black cock slut as I sucked this bbc greedily. She told me to suck his big black balls which I was glad to do and when I took him balls deep down my throat she started fisting herself furiously. She egged me on saying you like sucking that big cock dond't you you fucking cociksuckerer and I mumbled yes with his cock filling my mouth. She told him to cum in my mouth and wanted to watch me swallow so I opened wide as he deposited a big load of white cream filling my open mouth and I turned my head to her and smiled as I gulped it all down; After that her curiosity was satisfied and she never watched me again.

While that is amazing it is also sad. I do not get wives who cannot 100% support this. Couples who play together stay together. Especially ones who know it turns them on. I love to watch guys suck and get fucked. So freaking HOT! The only thing is I want to be right there in the mix, playing, exploring, touching, feeling, and see it all up VERY close! It's so raw, so sexual!

[Woodsdweller]

I just have to ask! What were the PT exercises?

I'd imagine they're mostly related to the pelvic floor muscles. Here's an article I found - https://onlineprostate.physio/5-ways-to-master-pelvic-floor-exercises/
(https://onlineprostate.physio/5-ways-to-master-pelvic-floor-exercises/)
Some of the things I've found that took my sex drive to the next level is cold water swimming and tabata sets. Mind Valley has a course called "The Longevity Blueprint," and following that gave an enormous boost to my energy and sex drive.

[SilkyHoseLover]

<snip> Couples who play together stay together. Especially ones who know it turns them on. I love to watch guys suck and get fucked. So freaking HOT! The only thing is I want to be right there in the mix, playing, exploring, touching, feeling, and see it all up VERY close! It's so raw, so sexual!

Bless you, young lady. My wife, while not quite as enthusiastic about expressing it as you have, is tolerant and curious, and has been there (and participated, to an extent) on some of my recent adventures. It's a kind of 'closeness' that can't be described!

[Neonaught]

While that is amazing it is also sad. I do not get wives who cannot 100% support this. Couples who play together stay together. Especially ones who know it turns them on. I love to watch guys suck and get fucked. So freaking HOT! The only thing is I want to be right there in the mix, playing, exploring, touching, feeling, and see it all up VERY close! It's so raw, so sexual!

My wife is much the same mindset is you. I only wish there were many more ladies just like you two!

[Neonaught]

I'd imagine they're mostly related to the pelvic floor muscles. Here's an article I found - https://onlineprostate.physio/5-ways-to-master-pelvic-floor-exercises/
(https://onlineprostate.physio/5-ways-to-master-pelvic-floor-exercises/)
Some of the things I've found that took my sex drive to the next level is cold water swimming and tabata sets. Mind Valley has a course called "The Longevity Blueprint," and following that gave an enormous boost to my energy and sex drive.

Thanks for the reply and I will certainly give it a try. I already enjoy a strong sex drive but only shoot small volume due to a removed testicle (cancer scare years ago) so that alone may account for my diminished volume. My age at 59 may as well but I will certainly see what this has to offer!

[phalluster]

I know my interest in cock goes way further back than my marriage, but I also know that my deepening interest in cock is at least in part by her lack of interest in sex. So to the OP count me as one of the men you were asking about.

[Musle]

My wife stopped sex about 4 years ago and it was about that time I got interested in bi sex. About a year ago, I swallowed for the first time and now not afraid to do it again. I have found older married men in the same situation as mine.

[Rvdude05]

Married, and can't get enough cock to suck. I resort to ABS, and find hard cocks to service. Adult theatres are on my list. I suck anyone who can leave a deposit. I'm a dedicated oucocksucker!

[jjourneyman]

I think the thing that surprises me the most is that now (older) married men who aren't getting anything from their wives are looking to suck cock and/or bottom; whereas, when I was younger, it was the other way around... they were after me for my tight ass and oral skills.

Times change.

[Biguyincolorado]

Married here and wife and I have a great time sexually.... But I have a need to enjoy another mans cock. Love to suck his cock until he cums....

[travelmanNW]

I'm older guy I enjoy sucking married men cocks love for them to cum in my mouth and no recip required

[foundpuppy]

I've been extremely frustrated. The wife pretty much shut down about 20 years ago, but I was always ready to go and ended up jerking off every day (at least once). Then I found out I had prostate cancer. As treatment, I had a TURP procedure done, got a hormone shot to shrink the prostate, and underwent radiation therapy. The hormone shot eliminated all libido and I didn't even think about sex for a year and a half. But now, the shot has worn off and desire has come back stronger than ever. The problems are that the wife is still not interested, I can't get an erection without medication, and I now cum into my bladder, so there's nothing to show for an orgasm. I'd like to find a FWB that I can trust, but that hasn't happened yet. However, I've got to say that even though I can't produce any cum, orgasms are more intense than I remember them ever being. Intense to the point of my knees buckling if I'm standing to jerk off....

I know your pain, except mine is diabetes and high blood pressure. I have ed and cum into the bladder. However, I still love to suck cock and sometimes bottom.