Toys & Buttsex

[Dexter701]

Here's a question for those more experienced than myself. Occasionally I like to enjoy a dildo in my butt. I hadn't done it in a while but last night I did and found I could insert it comfortably, without much effort, despite not have done so for a few months. My question is: How does that translate to getting the real thing up there? Because I think my butt might be ready.

[playful808]

All other things being equal, it translates pretty well.
Make sure the top is patient.

[MAcpl69]

I found that after a few times inserted toys I learned how to "open up" and it much easier to insert and keep toys in my ass. As for a real cock I have only had a strapon fuck me, driven by my wife. Hope I get to feel what a real cock feels like.

[cornholejoe]

you ready to get buttfucked with a real cock now go for it

[Mmpmm]

I found that after a few times inserted toys I learned how to "open up" and it much easier to insert and keep toys in my ass. As for a real cock I have only had a strapon fuck me, driven by my wife. Hope I get to feel what a real cock feels like.

Ditto

[zgay73]

Muscle memory? I found this too.

[LVTOGP]

Truely depends on your top and what you’ve made yourself comfortable with, the biggest obstacle for me was initial insertion, then gradually deeper, he will know when to stop

[Oborokybiman]

I went from no way in hell am I putting anything there....to, WOW! I’ve been missing out! I too, have enjoyed toys in my ass and now as a newlywed I would love to have a toy in place while she and I make love!! She knows my sexuality but she doesn’t realize that it’s not just going away without communication. I think after the initial shock of that pleasure area, she will come around to the idea that I don’t want a 3rd in the bedroom with us.

[grover]

Way too many men hurry when it comes to anal and that is true whether they're with a man or a woman. The asshole has more nerve endings that the clitoris. If you want a successful ass fucking indulge in more foreplay than just adding some lube and fingering it some. Encourage your partner to engage in a lot of foreplay. Fingering, stretching and lubing yes but rimming especially (at least for me) and toys are a big plus. AND LOTS OF LUBE. As with a pussy or a cock, the more an asshole is played with, the more you're gonna want it that way. And if you want it. If you really want it. It makes getting taken in the ass so much more pleasurable. This is true of both men and women.

[LVTOGP]

Definitely something that can’t be rushed, if you do you end up in a lot of pain

[NjbiGuy01]

Ditto

Well, fwiw: A real cock can feel really different than most toys. There is a pliability that flesh and bone have that few toys duplicate. I found a cock to be more pleasurable than most any toy I ever used. There are some nice soft toys that come close, but the feeling of a real cock (and perhaps the joy of having a willing partner) is truly unique...

[Asspussy302]

For me there’s no comparison to the real thing. I love my toys, but you can’t beat the feel of a hard dick in your ass.

[tenka]

being versitile i love to fuck a tight hole rather a pussy or asshole but when i first started with taking it and getting into it i started using toys and worked my way up in sizes i still do that today i will start with a small vibe and work it till i am comfortable then to a larger dildo then i will go larger. dont rush it takes time start slow have him let you get used to it. with toys to control how fast the go with a real thing the top controls it and some times they can get carried away.

[jomartin119]

I love it. i got big dildos and butt plugs. i'm a nympho and always have a cock in me

[Birob67]

Love my dildo, but prefer man meat in my caboose..

[m43somefun]

If you are concerned with taking a man In your ass then lay him back and you get on top. Lower yourself onto his dick as slowly as you’d like. Nothing saying he has to drive just because he’s providing the dick.

[LVTOGP]

Even after extended periods I can usually stretch back to the same girth easily. Depth has been what goes away for me